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2 very diferent kinda people on here

By *rinthia OP Man over a year ago

dundee

i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

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By *W ChapMan over a year ago

Swindon

Which 50% should be on the dating site?

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By *ngelina4uWoman over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Deluded if you think its black and white like that there are many more types on here besides just those two.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

You have beem here 1 WEEK!!

Jeepers... people have been here far longer and still not had a meet...

Give it time ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think youll find only 2 kind of people doesn't come close, this place has more than 50 shades of fucked up

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By *ngelina4uWoman over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

For a start there are the married guys op who want to have a good time but think its only possible if the wife dosn't find out and a myriad of other types besides.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

Many men just send two messages and think a girl will be all iver that .

some of us like to make sure we get the right mix .

Men are really deluded if they think otherwise .

loosing the will to live here

You have beem here 1 WEEK!!

Jeepers... people have been here far longer and still not had a meet...

Give it time ffs"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been on here with this being my second profile now for 5 years altogether. I’ve had 3 meets in that time but circumstances unfortunately dictate when and where I can be and meet. Not being able to accommodate doesn’t help so for me I have to find someone willing to or use a hotel with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome to the forum and don't be put off from having an opinion!

I will add though it does take time and patience and the right attitude. But this place can be Great it just depends on your expectation.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"I think youll find only 2 kind of people doesn't come close, this place has more than 50 shades of fucked up

You forgot the mic drop. Not much more to say really.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

wasnt you told everything on your introductionary thread. Youve only been here a bloody week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im interested in what kind of site you think this is OP?

Maybe if you change your expectations you might start getting somewhere..

Have you been sending messages?

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

Why should they be on a dating site OP? I'm interested to know your reasoning.

Personally I think that the best way to go about things is to not worry or try to impress your way of thinking onto others. Go about your business and focus your attention on those that want to meet you. Let other people do what they want to do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im interested in what kind of site you think this is OP?

Maybe if you change your expectations you might start getting somewhere..

Have you been sending messages? "

Some guys think this is a free escort site ..

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By *rinthia OP Man over a year ago

dundee

its not about meeting folk i sussed that out pretty quickly

its just some have absolutly no intention of meeting anyone.... its like if i show my bazumbas how many guys can i catch.

on a positive note ive found some nice genuine people who are all on the same page

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"its not about meeting folk i sussed that out pretty quickly

its just some have absolutly no intention of meeting anyone.... its like if i show my bazumbas how many guys can i catch.

on a positive note ive found some nice genuine people who are all on the same page"

Don’t worry about people who aren’t meeting or the reasons why, just concentrate on the ones that are and enjoy the site the same as the rest of us do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its not about meeting folk i sussed that out pretty quickly

its just some have absolutly no intention of meeting anyone.... its like if i show my bazumbas how many guys can i catch.

on a positive note ive found some nice genuine people who are all on the same page"

I don't understand why you posted then ..

Just ignore those who aren't intetested and move on to those that are...

Its not rocket science

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

It took me 5 years to meet one guy from here due to circumstances on both sides throwing various spanners in the works to prevent it from happening before then

Fab isn’t as black and white as you think it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its not about meeting folk i sussed that out pretty quickly

its just some have absolutly no intention of meeting anyone.... its like if i show my bazumbas how many guys can i catch.

on a positive note ive found some nice genuine people who are all on the same page"

I've met some fantastic dudes and not always got down and dirty if someone doesn't fancy you you move on plenty more on here just depends how much effort you put in.

also have many time wasters, again who cares block them and move on

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By *rinthia OP Man over a year ago

dundee

was just a bit frustrated thats why i posted

im realy a posative kinda guy jusr had a wee run of numpties and was looking for a cuddle really

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By *isstinseltoesWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You can still be here and use the site however it suits,most are upfront on their profiles.

If you mean the ones who want to chat and have a social first,are the ones who think they want a good time,they do want a good time but just do things in a way that suits them.It doesn't't mean they want to date,just want to be safe and have a connection usually .

Just avoid the profiles that don't meet the way you do .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"was just a bit frustrated thats why i posted

im realy a posative kinda guy jusr had a wee run of numpties and was looking for a cuddle really

Yeah but 1 week....

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Perhaps take a read through the last similar thread you posted OP - you may find some of the answers in that.

Ultimately everyone is different and have different things they use the site for, and indeed how they use it - I always focus on those that appear to match my way rather than worry about those that don't, and it's not failed me yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight."

Few, that's lucky. Was worried whe n I read the title..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Losing the will to live!

Really. Is what or who others do that important to you?

Why not just interact with the 50% you want to interact with?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"was just a bit frustrated thats why i posted

im realy a posative kinda guy jusr had a wee run of numpties and was looking for a cuddle really

Honestly if the “wee run of numpties” you’ve encountered in solely one week here has you venting I’d advise leaving the site you aren’t cut out for it mate.

I’m not saying you should leave just that there’s more to come it’s gonna get far worse before it gets better too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think youll find only 2 kind of people doesn't come close, this place has more than 50 shades of fucked up

You forgot the mic drop. Not much more to say really."

Thank you im here all week, you can buy CDs at the door on your way out

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I can't deny that.

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By *rinthia OP Man over a year ago

dundee

ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate

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By *aekaeWoman over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

You are losing the will to live after a weeks membership?

Many guys here with great pictures and profiles don't have a meet after 6 months.

I see you've already had lots of help getting to grip with how meets work here.

What is it you're still not understanding?

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By *rinthia OP Man over a year ago

dundee

some aggressive people on here

why so serious?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate "
whys that an issue if thats not what you want people are here for many reasons not just to fuck randomers

But judging people or the site after 1 week is a bit daft

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

But people meet on dating sites too lol! What posts like this fail to grasp is I can look for the love of my life AND come here to get sex meanwhile!!

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Meet too....

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By *tace 309TV/TS over a year ago

durham

"was just a bit frustrated thats why i posted

im realy a posative kinda guy jusr had a wee run of numpties and was looking for a cuddle really

"
a wee run of numpties. Wait till the dam breaks. This site is what it is. The good, the bad, the indifferent. Its not a bed of roses by any means.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate "

And what if they see that soulmate as someone they’d want to enjoy a swingers relationship with? Surely this site would be better suited for that than conventional dating sites?

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By *isstinseltoesWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

But people meet on dating sites too lol! What posts like this fail to grasp is I can look for the love of my life AND come here to get sex meanwhile!!

And many people on dating sites use them for sex!

As long as someone is upfront on a profile it doesn't't waste anyone's time .

I met jack here 3 years ago and didn't expect to find love,wasn't't looking for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Right OP. I’m currently not meeting so are you saying my kind of people as to hide their profile and not chat to anyone.

Some folks do Date on here and find love too!!!!

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By *rinthia OP Man over a year ago

dundee

but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football"

It is OP I came here to swing like the rest of them then found a husband. Is that so bad??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

losing the will to live after just one week!?

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By *rinthia OP Man over a year ago

dundee

glad it all worked out for you

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football"

Some people want to find a partner to become a swinging couple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

Heck i still see people i first met on here 5 years ago.

Some people i ended up chatting to for over a year before we finaly got to meet.

Be yourself be honest about what your looking for and expect the same from others.

If you're just looking for a quick fuck and go thats here if youre looking for a long term fwb thats here too.

If you're looking for a forever partner thats here too.

Its a site where people put pictures of themselves and a short text description of themselves and ehat they want, nothing more, nothing less.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

Heck i still see people i first met on here 5 years ago.

Some people i ended up chatting to for over a year before we finaly got to meet.

Be yourself be honest about what your looking for and expect the same from others.

If you're just looking for a quick fuck and go thats here if youre looking for a long term fwb thats here too.

If you're looking for a forever partner thats here too.

Its a site where people put pictures of themselves and a short text description of themselves and ehat they want, nothing more, nothing less. "

Most definitely this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football

It is OP I came here to swing like the rest of them then found a husband. Is that so bad??

Yes,leave him immediately and make yourself available to any and all who message!

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football"

And if they want a swingers realationship based on your own logic they joined the right site did they not?

The were footballer joining a knitters site then were they?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

Then leave. Simple as that, if this site isn’t accommodating your needs then leave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

But people meet on dating sites too lol! What posts like this fail to grasp is I can look for the love of my life AND come here to get sex meanwhile!!

And many people on dating sites use them for sex!

As long as someone is upfront on a profile it doesn't't waste anyone's time .

I met jack here 3 years ago and didn't expect to find love,wasn't't looking for it. "

We both met on tinder but we was very clear in what we wanted before we met it was a case of jump on board and enjoy the ride or we are not going to be compatible, the only major rule we laid down was whateve we decide to do we only do it together. And here we are enjoying the ride

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS over a year ago

Larne

Yes real and fake lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clues in the name. Fab swingers not fab dial-a-fuck.

A week?

Ladies and couples are out numbered by guys (estimates vary between 6-1 and 100-1)

If you’re losing the will to live after a week, perhaps this isn’t for you ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football"

Im not a swinger along with many others i just like lots of sex but chatting sex alone gets boring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football

It is OP I came here to swing like the rest of them then found a husband. Is that so bad??

Yes,leave him immediately and make yourself available to any and all who message!

I still do to the right ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a third then. Not looking to meet but like chatting on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You make your own luck on here.

Everyone has their own reasons for being here. If this is by definition a swingers only site, there would be no place for single people as it is only couples who are "genuine swingers".

Some people are only here for the forums.

Some people are only here for banter.

Some people have absolutely no interest in sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football"

Whst if you wanted to learn how to knit those big wool football scarfs?

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

What is with ppl who can't get a fuck at the click of their fingers who say folk shouldn't be on here but on dating sites? Everyone uses fab for their own reasons

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"some aggressive people on here

why so serious?"

I don't think that it's a question of aggression, I think it's more a case of "really?!"

Some people have been here for months and are still waiting patiently for their first meet and are working things out. Getting a bit ranty after a week makes you seem a little naive and will make people think that you don't get the site at all.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple over a year ago

Planet Ork

"but its a swinger site not a dating site

i understand it takes all kind of people to make the world go round but i wouldnt join a knitting site if i was into football"

Very poor analogy. Football and knitting have no similarities whatsoever whereas dating and swinging do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For a start there are the married guys op who want to have a good time but think its only possible if the wife dosn't find out and a myriad of other types besides."

I see you didn't mention married woman who are on here cheating or is it just married men?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate "

You make a very good point. There's loads of women who aren't meeting, yet they still have men/ women etc on their 'Looking for' list so they show up in the searches. They are wasting the time of people who ARE looking to meet. But they think that's ok.

All this bollocks about it taking time to meet is ridiculous. If you search your local area and every single person doesn't bother replying, then what??! Look further afield and they get irate because you're too far away.

You can't win. Chin up, it's weekend. Be thankful you're not meeting the grumpy people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

IV been here 10 years and not even had a cup of coffee with anyone,fucking women

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By *rinthia OP Man over a year ago

dundee

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate

You can't win. Chin up, it's weekend. Be thankful you're not meeting the grumpy people.

firts positive person so far, someone finaly understands what ive been trying to say

thank you

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate

You can't win. Chin up, it's weekend. Be thankful you're not meeting the grumpy people.

firts positive person so far, someone finaly understands what ive been trying to say

thank you

People understand you, they just don't agree with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t use this site to meet.

I have met and got to know some wonderful people. But for me i like the forums and fab provides a platform for my photo whore to come out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t use this site to meet.

I have met and got to know some wonderful people. But for me i like the forums and fab provides a platform for my photo whore to come out."

I agree with this chap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate

You can't win. Chin up, it's weekend. Be thankful you're not meeting the grumpy people.

firts positive person so far, someone finaly understands what ive been trying to say

thank you

People understand you but you aren't really doing yourself favours with the way your going about it. Post a profile advice thread so you can get some tips (people cant comment on your profile unless you ask here)

You live in a geographically crap area like me so you have to take this into account.

Take a weekend break in edinburgh and chat to some.people there before hand (status of going to be in Edinburgh x til y) and youll likley have no problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course fab is a dating site.I use it as such any way.The difference being that both interested parties meet knowing exactly what's on the agenda should there be the necessary chemistry to take things further.....It all starts from the initial face to face 'date'

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By *martyandPantsCouple over a year ago

bristol

Its a site where people put pictures of themselves and a short text description of themselves and ehat they want, nothing more, nothing less. "

Excellent description

As a relative newbie, one of the things I’ve really enjoyed about the site is people who are really clear about what they want - so refreshing! And so wonderfully diverse!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"You make your own luck on here.

Everyone has their own reasons for being here. If this is by definition a swingers only site, there would be no place for single people as it is only couples who are "genuine swingers".

Some people are only here for the forums.

Some people are only here for banter.

Some people have absolutely no interest in sex.

Your last three points are valid but the first one is a crock of shit. Singles can be swingers too but it's all about the mindset. If a single is on here only looking for other singles then we class them as shaggers not swingers and have no interest in meeting them. If the single is on here looking for meets with multiple people then that's the mindset of a swinger (to us anyway) and our interest is piqued. Doesn't mean we'll meet them but at least we'd consider our decisions as opposed to an instant dismissal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

What is with ppl who can't get a fuck at the click of their fingers who say folk shouldn't be on here but on dating sites? Everyone uses fab for their own reasons "

They join thinking they will get easy sex, with little or no effort

When it dawns on them, that Dave down the pub, has spun them a line, they get the ump

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"IV been here 10 years and not even had a cup of coffee with anyone,fucking women

God you're profile is like my exes.... go to socials. Great way to meet ppl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

What is with ppl who can't get a fuck at the click of their fingers who say folk shouldn't be on here but on dating sites? Everyone uses fab for their own reasons

They join thinking they will get easy sex, with little or no effort

When it dawns on them, that Dave down the pub, has spun them a line, they get the ump"

Blimey. Comma overdose there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

What is with ppl who can't get a fuck at the click of their fingers who say folk shouldn't be on here but on dating sites? Everyone uses fab for their own reasons

They join thinking they will get easy sex, with little or no effort

When it dawns on them, that Dave down the pub, has spun them a line, they get the ump"

Mighr just be dave down the pub has a better profile

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"You make your own luck on here.

Everyone has their own reasons for being here. If this is by definition a swingers only site, there would be no place for single people as it is only couples who are "genuine swingers".

Some people are only here for the forums.

Some people are only here for banter.

Some people have absolutely no interest in sex.

I agree with you on this, I think that swinging is a state of mind. There are plenty of swingles around, many are looking for partners so they can be 'proper' swingers

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By *ab_SparklesWoman over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

"Im interested in what kind of site you think this is OP?

Maybe if you change your expectations you might start getting somewhere..

Have you been sending messages?

Some guys think this is a free escort site ..

I agree with that..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Which 50% should be on the dating site? "

The ones who haven't tread a path to his door to do the wild thing..

I smell another male with a distorted view that this should be insta shag to satisfy an enormous sense of entitlement..

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I'm here to meet people but not just anyone. I think most people fall into this category.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate "

First line on your profile says not pushy. ...

you sure ...

and not everyone is into you just because you like them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm here to meet people but not just anyone. I think most people fall into this category. "

100% ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Which 50% should be on the dating site?

The ones who haven't tread a path to his door to do the wild thing..

I smell another male with a distorted view that this should be insta shag to satisfy an enormous sense of entitlement.. "

I also think this .

Shane these dudes think this way .

also a massive shame he thinks we should all give him WHAT HE WANTS

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

You have beem here 1 WEEK!!

Jeepers... people have been here far longer and still not had a meet...

Give it time ffs"

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"You make your own luck on here.

Everyone has their own reasons for being here. If this is by definition a swingers only site, there would be no place for single people as it is only couples who are "genuine swingers".

Some people are only here for the forums.

Some people are only here for banter.

Some people have absolutely no interest in sex.

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Welcome to the forum and don't be put off from having an opinion!

I will add though it does take time and patience and the right attitude. But this place can be Great it just depends on your expectation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

Ok I'm brutal but here goes .

you have one photo of a cock .

original lol

this isn't a free escort site

not all women will shag you just coz u want to shag them .

I've been on and off fab years I have never hit double figures in the people I've met and have fun with .

your expectations are way to high I suggest you lower them put a face photo up cut half the stuff you have written in that essay of a profile u have made and try again

loosing the will to live here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You make your own luck on here.

Everyone has their own reasons for being here. If this is by definition a swingers only site, there would be no place for single people as it is only couples who are "genuine swingers".

Rubbish I'm single and I swing both ways and have sex solo and with a few couples and f/f .

you sound like you started swinging of from day one .

that's a massive Croc of shit oh and I've been in fab iver ten years . Never once have I seen a couple profile write such a bold statement of what you couples think

Some people are only here for the forums.

Some people are only here for banter.

Some people have absolutely no interest in sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

What is with ppl who can't get a fuck at the click of their fingers who say folk shouldn't be on here but on dating sites? Everyone uses fab for their own reasons

They join thinking they will get easy sex, with little or no effort

When it dawns on them, that Dave down the pub, has spun them a line, they get the ump"

100% they just think women are a toy for them to play with I'd say he hits a percentage of what I'd call selfish and no wonder you are single kind of dude .

and I put cash on it his not actually single

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate

And what if they see that soulmate as someone they’d want to enjoy a swingers relationship with? Surely this site would be better suited for that than conventional dating sites?

Very true xx I love the social side but its slightly different to "conventional dating" ... you meet you have a laugh and a drink, you see if theres chemistry, maybe you play with each other on following meet's maybe you dont but if you notice on this site a lot of the swingers are friends as well as playmates and have known each other years...does that make them soulmates??? No idea but they enjoy what they're doing.

OP have patience, don't assume anything and remember there are thousands of single guys on here for us to choose from. Get yourself out on an organised social, make friends and take it from there. Xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"ok think i might have started something here that i wasnt quite expecting.

i do understand that i can ignore the ones who have no intention to met / chat

but when your new on here and trying to meet people you have to go through a lot of profiles, which all make interesting reading.

i know theres a social side to swinging just because im new on here, doesnt meen ive just descovered it!

but some,which i have ignored, want to find a soul mate

And what if they see that soulmate as someone they’d want to enjoy a swingers relationship with? Surely this site would be better suited for that than conventional dating sites?

Exactly why I'm still here. I'm on dating sites, they are littered with guys wanting nsa. I'm sick of being told I should be on them and not fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

What is with ppl who can't get a fuck at the click of their fingers who say folk shouldn't be on here but on dating sites? Everyone uses fab for their own reasons

They join thinking they will get easy sex, with little or no effort

When it dawns on them, that Dave down the pub, has spun them a line, they get the ump

100% they just think women are a toy for them to play with I'd say he hits a percentage of what I'd call selfish and no wonder you are single kind of dude .

and I put cash on it his not actually single "

Id say more women think men are toys than vis versa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some aggressive people on here

why so serious?"

Ok so you want to write a bold statement like we should be on a dating site then not expect us to be offended . I've been on fab ten years plus you have one week experience

grow up !!

I also know this is directed at me because I'm not interested

it's you on the wrong site try an escort one if you want them to shag you on demand !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why cant folk just do what they want when are grown ups stupid rules and labels and stuff

If u got an issue get a tissue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about those who aren’t here to meet anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its not about meeting folk i sussed that out pretty quickly

its just some have absolutly no intention of meeting anyone.... its like if i show my bazumbas how many guys can i catch.

on a positive note ive found some nice genuine people who are all on the same page"

That's not really any of your business is it if they don't want to meet people lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

You have absolutely no idea what the personal circumstances of the people on here are. Just because they are not willing to jump to your tune after one week on here they are wasting your prescious time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why cant folk just do what they want when are grown ups stupid rules and labels and stuff

If u got an issue get a tissue"

I think most do to be honest that’s why I haven’t bothered commenting. I always get messages when my profile says I’m not meeting. I’ll stay here till I’m 102 and never meet anyone else if I want to. (As long as they increase the age range

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Which 50% should be on the dating site?

The ones who haven't tread a path to his door to do the wild thing..

I smell another male with a distorted view that this should be insta shag to satisfy an enormous sense of entitlement.. "

I'm off to join a dating site looooool .

Am i fook got 33 messages I've got to look through and arrange a meet with someone I actually fancy .

have a great day folks ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

Few, that's lucky. Was worried whe n I read the title.. "

Give it time and he will hit your ends loooool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont mean gay or straight.

i meam people who want to meet and have a good time and then theres those who "think" they want to meet and have a good time

im new on here so shoot me down if im out of order here, but 50% ot the people on here should be on a dating site

loosing the will to live here

What is with ppl who can't get a fuck at the click of their fingers who say folk shouldn't be on here but on dating sites? Everyone uses fab for their own reasons

They join thinking they will get easy sex, with little or no effort

When it dawns on them, that Dave down the pub, has spun them a line, they get the ump

100% they just think women are a toy for them to play with I'd say he hits a percentage of what I'd call selfish and no wonder you are single kind of dude .

and I put cash on it his not actually single

Id say more women think men are toys than vis versa"

I am in lol

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm here to meet lots of interesting people and have some mutual adult experiences

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes blake the snake and the rest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You make your own luck on here.

Everyone has their own reasons for being here. If this is by definition a swingers only site, there would be no place for single people as it is only couples who are "genuine swingers".

Some people are only here for the forums.

Some people are only here for banter.

Some people have absolutely no interest in sex.

I would have illustrated my first point with emoji's but couldn't be bothered. I was just regurgitating the time honoured concept (as debated on fab repeatedly) that "couples" are "swingers".

The actual point I wanted to make is that fab swingers isn't just about swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP.....Chill! Going by the green arrow this is your second post about this in a week.

Post some positive stuff on the forums, better to get noticed for the right reasons.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"some aggressive people on here

why so serious?

I don't think that it's a question of aggression, I think it's more a case of "really?!"

I disagree, some of the replies are aggressive and unfriendly to a new user

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This dude is in Scotland I'm in the south east i should have said yes to a social and put the kettle on hahahhahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This dude is in Scotland I'm in the south east i should have said yes to a social and put the kettle on hahahhahaha"

Yes you should you timewaster

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You make your own luck on here.

Everyone has their own reasons for being here. If this is by definition a swingers only site, there would be no place for single people as it is only couples who are "genuine swingers".

Fair enough.

Some people are only here for the forums.

Some people are only here for banter.

Some people have absolutely no interest in sex.

I would have illustrated my first point with emoji's but couldn't be bothered. I was just regurgitating the time honoured concept (as debated on fab repeatedly) that "couples" are "swingers".

The actual point I wanted to make is that fab swingers isn't just about swinging."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This dude is in Scotland I'm in the south east i should have said yes to a social and put the kettle on hahahhahaha

Yes you should you timewaster

I will never ever do that again next time I'll just hit them up with my postcode and wait 13 hours for them to arrive lol

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

To the OP, welcome to the forum.

You are right, not everyone is on the site for the same thing. You are entitled to say that you don't think people who are looking for a partner should be on a swinging site.

I would just ignore those profiles if it isn't what you are looking for and message the people who are swinging instead.

Good luck and be patient as it probably won't happen overnight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its not about meeting folk i sussed that out pretty quickly

its just some have absolutly no intention of meeting anyone.... its like if i show my bazumbas how many guys can i catch.

on a positive note ive found some nice genuine people who are all on the same page"

When I show my bazumbas and open my filters I get a lot of messages . I dismiss some right away, who I don't feel are compatible; some I chat to for a few minutes and then dismiss, because I don't get a good vibe; some I chat longer but the conversation fizzles out, and occasionally I meet one.

That's one out of hundreds of messages.

The ones I didn't meet might think I'm only on here to gain attention with my tits.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

I am going to close this for you now, please don't be put off by some of the answers

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