"I am pleasant , not rude , genuine and reliable
You may well be, but so are a lot of other men, but they have good pictures and interesting and informative profiles  "
*rushes off to rewrite my profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to meet an older lady or couple if any takers x"
Ah ok if older is your thing it may not be an issue.
But not trying to be rude, or mean, or judgemental but you might be best hiding your verifications and verification summary so that you just have the tick |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
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I cannot offer you profile advice, since you have not asked for it. That said, does it stand out from the thousands of other male profiles?
I would question your expectations of swinging and Fab. It is not clunge on demand. Fab is what you make it. You get out what you put in. Lazy input= minimal results.
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"I would love to meet an older lady or couple if any takers x
Ah ok if older is your thing it may not be an issue.
But not trying to be rude, or mean, or judgemental but you might be best hiding your verifications and verification summary so that you just have the tick"
The verification is confusing
The one you display implies you met in person, the one the other party displays is for a cam session.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Maybe because you are making getting a meet the focus of your time here - which I know sounds odd given that most of us are here to meet likeminded others, but if getting a meet, any meet, becomes your primary motivation it can sometimes have the opposite effect.
Try taking a step back and looking at what you can change that would improve your experience on here - that might be your profile text, what pictures you display, your message style or how lng you spend getting to know people before suggesting meeting or simply your expectations, attitude and approach to/of the site  |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"I would love to meet an older lady or couple if any takers x"
In all honesty, posting a question asking why you can’t meet and then asking for the above doesn’t come across well.
It looks a bit of a cynical attempt to first interact with people who want to help and then use it to your advantage. As if the original question wasn’t of interest, or a means to an end really.
I’m 100% sure you didn’t mean it that way, but that’s how it does come across, I think.
I only mention the above as a way of suggesting maybe sit back a little and adjust the approach to the forums and site.
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