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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Texts you their friend is back and they might stop over to visit them so they call off meeting you, that's rude right?
Rude left, rude every way."
That's what I thought! Your mom has no manners Jim!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At least they've cancelled rather than not shown up at all."
Ermmm, they haven't really cancelled, they passively aggressively cancelled. More like dismissed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Texts you their friend is back and they might stop over to visit them so they call off meeting you, that's rude right?
Rude left, rude every way.
That's what I thought! Your mom has no manners Jim! "
I apologise on her behalf. I'll have words with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I had changed my plans to see them I would be miffed.
If I hadn't changed plans and the person they were seeing were a very close friend and had only that day to see them, I would be forgiving.
I'm well aware that a man will ditch me for a hotter woman. I hope-if that happens-that she's a shit shag and he drove there for crap sex (not bitter much). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I had changed my plans to see them I would be miffed.
If I hadn't changed plans and the person they were seeing were a very close friend and had only that day to see them, I would be forgiving.
I'm well aware that a man will ditch me for a hotter woman. I hope-if that happens-that she's a shit shag and he drove there for crap sex (not bitter much)."
That I would understand but they could have met them the next day or at least excuse themselves.
I don't know maybe I'm overthinking it but it felt so dismissive. I'm going to stay a bachelor for a very long time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I had changed my plans to see them I would be miffed.
If I hadn't changed plans and the person they were seeing were a very close friend and had only that day to see them, I would be forgiving.
I'm well aware that a man will ditch me for a hotter woman. I hope-if that happens-that she's a shit shag and he drove there for crap sex (not bitter much).
That I would understand but they could have met them the next day or at least excuse themselves.
I don't know maybe I'm overthinking it but it felt so dismissive. I'm going to stay a bachelor for a very long time "
You are not interesting enough for them. Be more interesting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I had changed my plans to see them I would be miffed.
If I hadn't changed plans and the person they were seeing were a very close friend and had only that day to see them, I would be forgiving.
I'm well aware that a man will ditch me for a hotter woman. I hope-if that happens-that she's a shit shag and he drove there for crap sex (not bitter much).
That I would understand but they could have met them the next day or at least excuse themselves.
I don't know maybe I'm overthinking it but it felt so dismissive. I'm going to stay a bachelor for a very long time
You are not interesting enough for them. Be more interesting "
But she was the one who wanted to catch up! Women are bipolar I swear 
Sidenote, checked what bipolar means to make sure I use the right word and the second search result comes up with
"What are the signs of bipolar in a woman?" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we talking fab friend or real friend? "
Real friend.
They didn't cancel though they just worded their message to make you know it's cancelled without using the term. |
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"If I had changed my plans to see them I would be miffed.
If I hadn't changed plans and the person they were seeing were a very close friend and had only that day to see them, I would be forgiving.
I'm well aware that a man will ditch me for a hotter woman. I hope-if that happens-that she's a shit shag and he drove there for crap sex (not bitter much).
That I would understand but they could have met them the next day or at least excuse themselves.
I don't know maybe I'm overthinking it but it felt so dismissive. I'm going to stay a bachelor for a very long time
You are not interesting enough for them. Be more interesting
But she was the one who wanted to catch up! Women are bipolar I swear
Sidenote, checked what bipolar means to make sure I use the right word and the second search result comes up with
"What are the signs of bipolar in a woman?" "
i can well assure you that cancelling a meet would not come up with one of the signs for bipolar. Youve just lost my sympathy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Texts you their friend is back and they might stop over to visit them so they call off meeting you, that's rude right?
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1st question op would be who's your friend  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I had changed my plans to see them I would be miffed.
If I hadn't changed plans and the person they were seeing were a very close friend and had only that day to see them, I would be forgiving.
I'm well aware that a man will ditch me for a hotter woman. I hope-if that happens-that she's a shit shag and he drove there for crap sex (not bitter much).
That I would understand but they could have met them the next day or at least excuse themselves.
I don't know maybe I'm overthinking it but it felt so dismissive. I'm going to stay a bachelor for a very long time
You are not interesting enough for them. Be more interesting
But she was the one who wanted to catch up! Women are bipolar I swear
Sidenote, checked what bipolar means to make sure I use the right word and the second search result comes up with
"What are the signs of bipolar in a woman?" i can well assure you that cancelling a meet would not come up with one of the signs for bipolar. Youve just lost my sympathy"
Omg that was a joke!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we talking fab friend or real friend?
Real friend.
They didn't cancel though they just worded their message to make you know it's cancelled without using the term."
Difficult and happens more and more often in this text oriented non responsibility world we live in! |
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No, it isn't rude. It's an adult way of dealing with life.
She had arranged to meet you and has postponed/cancelled.
She did this because a friend, a real friend was coming to visit and she wants to see them.
I'd see a friend over an ocassional shag anytime.
It seems that she can't see this friend regularly, so she had little choice but to cancel with you.
She could of course be lying and have a much hotter shag to meet or maybe her period turned up... who knows?
She was polite about it tho. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wtf is it with forums and escalating stuff and twisting words!
There is no Shagging!!!!
It's a friend not a fuck buddy.
2nd of all, if she said,
Hey can we postpone or meet another time. I would be fine with it, that's normal.
But saying I'm meeting another friend instead of you is kind of rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wtf is it with forums and escalating stuff and twisting words!
There is no Shagging!!!!
It's a friend not a fuck buddy.
2nd of all, if she said,
Hey can we postpone or meet another time. I would be fine with it, that's normal.
But saying I'm meeting another friend instead of you is kind of rude."
Yeah it's rude how she worded it, but she was honest with you which is something you can't really grumble at.
P |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wtf is it with forums and escalating stuff and twisting words!
There is no Shagging!!!!
It's a friend not a fuck buddy.
2nd of all, if she said,
Hey can we postpone or meet another time. I would be fine with it, that's normal.
But saying I'm meeting another friend instead of you is kind of rude.
Yeah it's rude how she worded it, but she was honest with you which is something you can't really grumble at.
P"
I appreciate the honesty but at that point it just makes me question whether she sees me as a friend or someone to fall back on when everyone else is occupied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op At least ask your
"Normal friend" if her friend is part of a site called fabswingers
If so contact the said potential "fab friend"
Arrange a "fab" date
Hence then it will be your "normal friend" who has been dropped for someone more interesting
And she can go on a forum and whinge about it
Thank me later  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Shut up moanin' ... I thought you meant a FAB meet not a REAL FRIEND.....
There's still a 'depends' on if it's rude tho ...."
So instead of asking, you just assumed and somehow I'm a moaner for pointing it out. Seems legit
Depends on what? |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Wtf is it with forums and escalating stuff and twisting words!
There is no Shagging!!!!
It's a friend not a fuck buddy.
2nd of all, if she said,
Hey can we postpone or meet another time. I would be fine with it, that's normal.
But saying I'm meeting another friend instead of you is kind of rude.
Yeah it's rude how she worded it, but she was honest with you which is something you can't really grumble at.
P
I appreciate the honesty but at that point it just makes me question whether she sees me as a friend or someone to fall back on when everyone else is occupied."
If you were a true friend you'd forgive her and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wtf is it with forums and escalating stuff and twisting words!
There is no Shagging!!!!
It's a friend not a fuck buddy.
2nd of all, if she said,
Hey can we postpone or meet another time. I would be fine with it, that's normal.
But saying I'm meeting another friend instead of you is kind of rude.
Yeah it's rude how she worded it, but she was honest with you which is something you can't really grumble at.
P
I appreciate the honesty but at that point it just makes me question whether she sees me as a friend or someone to fall back on when everyone else is occupied.
If you were a true friend you'd forgive her and move on "
 good point |
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Shut up moanin' ... I thought you meant a FAB meet not a REAL FRIEND.....
There's still a 'depends' on if it's rude tho ....
So instead of asking, you just assumed and somehow I'm a moaner for pointing it out. Seems legit
Depends on what?"
If she can only see the 'visiting friend' at the time she'd arranged with you and it was important for them to see each other because they are V.Good friends and can't get together for a while or ever again then it's forgiveable.....
If not ... she dumped your company too easily and that's not rude it's fooking dispicable.. |
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Shut up moanin' ... I thought you meant a FAB meet not a REAL FRIEND.....
There's still a 'depends' on if it's rude tho ....
So instead of asking, you just assumed and somehow I'm a moaner for pointing it out. Seems legit
Depends on what?"
P.S. assumed ? sort of. Misled by place and wording ..... more like |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Shut up moanin' ... I thought you meant a FAB meet not a REAL FRIEND.....
There's still a 'depends' on if it's rude tho ....
So instead of asking, you just assumed and somehow I'm a moaner for pointing it out. Seems legit
Depends on what?
If she can only see the 'visiting friend' at the time she'd arranged with you and it was important for them to see each other because they are V.Good friends and can't get together for a while or ever again then it's forgiveable.....
If not ... she dumped your company too easily and that's not rude it's fooking dispicable.. "
Her friend came back home.
So the second one applies |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wtf is it with forums and escalating stuff and twisting words!
There is no Shagging!!!!
It's a friend not a fuck buddy.
2nd of all, if she said,
Hey can we postpone or meet another time. I would be fine with it, that's normal.
But saying I'm meeting another friend instead of you is kind of rude.
Yeah it's rude how she worded it, but she was honest with you which is something you can't really grumble at.
P
I appreciate the honesty but at that point it just makes me question whether she sees me as a friend or someone to fall back on when everyone else is occupied.
If you were a true friend you'd forgive her and move on "
I hold a grudge for about 2-4 weeks. She's no exception to the rule  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But is she on fabswingers is the answer we all want to know op
If not you've just wasted 5 mins of my life and I'm never going out for beers again
Dropped  |
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