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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Forums are bound to be full of opinions. We are all different.. Thats obvious to anyone on this site.

There is never a need to inbox someone abuse because they have a different opinion.

Change my mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly it happens. Just block, report and ignore the morons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Forums are bound to be full of opinions. We are all different.. Thats obvious to anyone on this site.

There is never a need to inbox someone abuse because they have a different opinion.

Change my mind "

No there isn’t and it happens a lot. Just ignore. Obviously nowt better to do.

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

No need to you're on the money. Be yourself everybody else is already taken.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Sadly it happens. Just block, report and ignore the morons. "

This..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No need to you're on the money. Be yourself everybody else is already taken."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've not had anyone from the forums message me with abuse.

I would probably laugh and pity them if I did.

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I've not had anyone from the forums message me with abuse.

I would probably laugh and pity them if I did. "
You have not lived or maybe it's because you're a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't understand it myself.

If I get abuse I just report it, block and delete.

A few women I meet have left after the abuse they received what I can only describe as disgusting messages.

I always say this, and I know it gets boring but the site provides message filters to allow couples and females to navigate the site without harassment or threat of abuse.

But the problem is a lot like the mountain of messages as it's an ego boost for them which they do not get in the real world so will not be pro-active in dealing with this.

You see complaints on the forum about guys not reading profiles, sending cock pics etc but the bottom line is if you do not use the site filters then you are encouraging the vermin into your fridge to eat.

No excuse for poor standards but people need to start looking at themselves and helping themselves first then the majority of these problems go away because the abusive ones will not get through your filters.

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I don't understand it myself.

If I get abuse I just report it, block and delete.

A few women I meet have left after the abuse they received what I can only describe as disgusting messages.

I always say this, and I know it gets boring but the site provides message filters to allow couples and females to navigate the site without harassment or threat of abuse.

But the problem is a lot like the mountain of messages as it's an ego boost for them which they do not get in the real world so will not be pro-active in dealing with this.

How do you stop the abusive ones without filtering out all people of the same sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand it myself.

If I get abuse I just report it, block and delete.

A few women I meet have left after the abuse they received what I can only describe as disgusting messages.

I always say this, and I know it gets boring but the site provides message filters to allow couples and females to navigate the site without harassment or threat of abuse.

But the problem is a lot like the mountain of messages as it's an ego boost for them which they do not get in the real world so will not be pro-active in dealing with this.

How do you stop the abusive ones without filtering out all people of the same sex? "

Exactly this! There is no way around it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've not had anyone from the forums message me with abuse.

I would probably laugh and pity them if I did. You have not lived or maybe it's because you're a woman."

Women get them too. Maybe I don't rub people up the wrong way, or belittle people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've not had anyone from the forums message me with abuse.

I would probably laugh and pity them if I did. You have not lived or maybe it's because you're a woman.

Women get them too. Maybe I don't rub people up the wrong way, or belittle people.

Oh my god the abuse women get is unreal!

You reap what you sow!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand it myself.

If I get abuse I just report it, block and delete.

A few women I meet have left after the abuse they received what I can only describe as disgusting messages.

I always say this, and I know it gets boring but the site provides message filters to allow couples and females to navigate the site without harassment or threat of abuse.

But the problem is a lot like the mountain of messages as it's an ego boost for them which they do not get in the real world so will not be pro-active in dealing with this.

How do you stop the abusive ones without filtering out all people of the same sex? "

You can't. All you can do is shrug it off, report and block.

And res8st the urge to hit back on the forums, if they block you before you can reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've not had anyone from the forums message me with abuse.

I would probably laugh and pity them if I did. You have not lived or maybe it's because you're a woman.

Women get them too. Maybe I don't rub people up the wrong way, or belittle people.

Oh my god the abuse women get is unreal!

You reap what you sow! "

Do you mean the w9men who get ab7se deserve it?

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I've not had anyone from the forums message me with abuse.

I would probably laugh and pity them if I did. You have not lived or maybe it's because you're a woman.

Women get them too. Maybe I don't rub people up the wrong way, or belittle people.

"
Guilty as charged for winding people up but I don't belittle anybody.

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I don't understand it myself.

If I get abuse I just report it, block and delete.

A few women I meet have left after the abuse they received what I can only describe as disgusting messages.

I always say this, and I know it gets boring but the site provides message filters to allow couples and females to navigate the site without harassment or threat of abuse.

But the problem is a lot like the mountain of messages as it's an ego boost for them which they do not get in the real world so will not be pro-active in dealing with this.

How do you stop the abusive ones without filtering out all people of the same sex?

You can't. All you can do is shrug it off, report and block.

And res8st the urge to hit back on the forums, if they block you before you can reply. "

That’s what I thought but it’s not what the post said. He said all the abusive ones would not get through our filters. How does that work?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got called a twat this morning by someone I said no thank you to on here. That will teach me to answer messages I don’t see are worthy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I pity the fool who sends me private abuse

*Cracks knuckles*

Thankfully all of my forum related messages have been supportive and friendly. Making my non-forum related messages look like fan mail from an Orangutan with Tourettes Syndrome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let them get themselves worked up and waste their time, whilst you smile, delete and block lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah it was from someone who apparently fit my criteria lol.

But i guess that goes to prove looks and such are no match for 2 brains getting on well.

Maybe she just had a bad day.. Or maybe someone had a crack at her this morning.

But yes i should probably 'shake it off... A shake it off'

as that girl sings.

Taylor Swift?

The one who looks incredible but sounds like a cats wet fart.

Maybe the messages was from her... I get the impression she would happily castrate anyone who bought her the wrong biscuits.

And then write a song about it being totally his fault................ Again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s 2 blocks now this morning!

People!!! Just be nice when messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah it was from someone who apparently fit my criteria lol.

But i guess that goes to prove looks and such are no match for 2 brains getting on well.

Maybe she just had a bad day.. Or maybe someone had a crack at her this morning.

But yes i should probably 'shake it off... A shake it off'

as that girl sings.

Taylor Swift?

The one who looks incredible but sounds like a cats wet fart.

Maybe the messages was from her... I get the impression she would happily castrate anyone who bought her the wrong biscuits.

And then write a song about it being totally his fault................ Again"

Eh?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

Total cowards. They haven't the nerve to post whatever they want to say in the open forums for all to see. Instead they send their abuse in secret then block the recipient so they can't reply. Incredibly feeble.

Just report, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Total cowards. They haven't the nerve to post whatever they want to say in the open forums for all to see. Instead they send their abuse in secret then block the recipient so they can't reply. Incredibly feeble.

Just report, block and move on. "

Haha! Spot on. And yes i was blocked before i could respond!

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By *ade and VanessaCouple over a year ago

Central Scotland

People don't want to look like a dick on the forum thread or risk being reported.

I don't know why they can't just scroll past

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"People don't want to look like a dick on the forum thread or risk being reported.

I don't know why they can't just scroll past

V x"

Yeah probably exactly that lol.

I guess they dedicated a day to being triggered lol.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I've not had anyone from the forums message me with abuse.

I would probably laugh and pity them if I did. You have not lived or maybe it's because you're a woman.

Women get them too. Maybe I don't rub people up the wrong way, or belittle people.

Oh my god the abuse women get is unreal!

You reap what you sow! "

I don't get (or give) abuse.

Neither do the majority of people.

But people don't like to hear that on these threads....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh those who pm you to insult then block you like that you can't reply

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

only once in all the years ive been here have i had abuse from the forums and that was a couple of weeks ago as someone thought id done something i hadny. Ive kept it in my inbox as its amused me so much

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Just report and block please

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