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Who is a Sub and who is a Dom
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Lou is quite the sub and I enjoy the Dom role. She adores surrendering herself to me, where we play with a punishment and reward system. Sir has rules that must be obeyed Binds, clamps, wand, paddle/crop, flogger, pinwheel, candles, toys and blindfolds are my weapons of mass distraction.
Albeit, I love to switch every now and then and allow Lou to have her power play. After all, variety is the spice of life etc.
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By *ky19Man
over a year ago
Plymouth OYO Hotel |
Is this an actual sub or dom thread this time then, and not about food?
Both, but deep down I'm a dominant.
For the record, if Subway brought back their footlong and a drink deal for £5 I will start going there again.
I miss having chicken tikka with chipotle sauce and a cup of tea - they go so well together. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Depends which playground we're talking - the vanilla/kink play one then I'm very much an equal player
BDSM then I'm intrinsically submissive and it's something that very much comes from within BUT only to the right person or persons - I couldn't give myself to just anyone that calls themself a dominant - I have to "feel" submissive to someone to give myself to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends which playground we're talking - the vanilla/kink play one then I'm very much an equal player
BDSM then I'm intrinsically submissive and it's something that very much comes from within BUT only to the right person or persons - I couldn't give myself to just anyone that calls themself a dominant - I have to "feel" submissive to someone to give myself to them."
Is all about trust and knowing boundaries! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Depends which playground we're talking - the vanilla/kink play one then I'm very much an equal player
BDSM then I'm intrinsically submissive and it's something that very much comes from within BUT only to the right person or persons - I couldn't give myself to just anyone that calls themself a dominant - I have to "feel" submissive to someone to give myself to them.
Is all about trust and knowing boundaries! "
Oh those are givens - it's more than just that for me though, is a sense of feeling naturally submissive to someone - not just someone waving a whip at me and me immediately snapping into submissive mode. I couldn't submit to just anyone if I didn't have that sense about them - which is why my submissive side rarely gets an outing. |
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