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" result! Hope you get a call"I took his number, can’t be doing with waiting to be messaged! | |||
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"If he gave it to you, he wants that call. Get dialling. "This! | |||
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"I actually went up to a guy in public in the real world and asked for his number!" My kind of woman  | |||
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"Was at a kids party as well. I was there with my kid for a pool party in the city, he was in the pool with his kid I was sat with one of the other mums in the viewing area. Could see him in his trunks, awesome body, exchanged a few glances. He had food in the cage bit with his kid and then when he looked like leaving I just had that moment of fuck it just do it, chances are he’s got his kid for the day. I just went up to him and said could you tell I was checking you out, asked if he was attached and he said he wasn’t and that he was 36 and actually doesn’t live far from me considering we were 40 mins away from our area. He said take my number then, so I did! Just whatsapped him but he’s not read it yet. Is him before anyone says he gave me a fake number, can see him in the WhatsApp picture. " Go girl | |||
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"I actually went up to a guy in public in the real world and asked for his number!" good girl now call him | |||
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Love it. I hope it works out well. | |||
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"Doesn’t sound like a big deal but can you imagine the scenario. Imagine how many fit people you see every day that you may exchange looks or glances with but never act on it, I was like what have I got to lose, nothing so I just did it! " Last time I tried that she looked at me like I had 3 heads! | |||
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"Doesn’t sound like a big deal but can you imagine the scenario. Imagine how many fit people you see every day that you may exchange looks or glances with but never act on it, I was like what have I got to lose, nothing so I just did it! " It takes balls. Well done & good luck | |||
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"Nah I won’t do any fab related stuff. No rude pictures. No rude messages. Just need to see if he replies now!" Result!! He might still be with his kid. I'd take it as a good sign if he takes a while to reply. It could mean he's being a good dad and all his attention is with his kid. | |||
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"I actually went up to a guy in public in the real world and asked for his number!" Lucky guy | |||
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"Nah I won’t do any fab related stuff. No rude pictures. No rude messages. Just need to see if he replies now!" He's a fool if he doesnt | |||
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"Doesn’t sound like a big deal but can you imagine the scenario. Imagine how many fit people you see every day that you may exchange looks or glances with but never act on it, I was like what have I got to lose, nothing so I just did it! " You were very brave. | |||
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"Doesn’t sound like a big deal but can you imagine the scenario. Imagine how many fit people you see every day that you may exchange looks or glances with but never act on it, I was like what have I got to lose, nothing so I just did it! You were very brave. " I don't see the brave bit its just common sense if you want someone's number people do it all the time.  | |||
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"I actually went up to a guy in public in the real world and asked for his number!" Wish I had your confidence! | |||
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"Was at a kids party as well. I was there with my kid for a pool party in the city, he was in the pool with his kid I was sat with one of the other mums in the viewing area. Could see him in his trunks, awesome body, exchanged a few glances. He had food in the cage bit with his kid and then when he looked like leaving I just had that moment of fuck it just do it, chances are he’s got his kid for the day. I just went up to him and said could you tell I was checking you out, asked if he was attached and he said he wasn’t and that he was 36 and actually doesn’t live far from me considering we were 40 mins away from our area. He said take my number then, so I did! Just whatsapped him but he’s not read it yet. Is him before anyone says he gave me a fake number, can see him in the WhatsApp picture. " Good woman!! | |||
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"Nah I won’t do any fab related stuff. No rude pictures. No rude messages. Just need to see if he replies now!" I hope it all goes well for you. Well done on biting the bullet and going for it. Xoxo Eski | |||
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"I actually went up to a guy in public in the real world and asked for his number!" I was gonna ask whether he happened to be obscenely handsome 
But sounds like he was! Well done you! Hope it works out x | |||
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"whatsapp calls are free ring him "Nooooo bad idea!! Message first and build up to that! | |||
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"Ahh this is the big now. See if he responds. He read it 24 mins ago! Even if he doesn’t the fact that I did it in the first place is brave for me, especially since I worked with a dude for like 9 months before telling him I fancied him and it was too late he was dating someone, which has gone tits up and he’s sniffing round again but fuck him, he missed his chance!" Probably playing the rules of dating ... Message after a given period of time to keep you keen. | |||
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"Well nothing so far. Never mind. " Probably messaging his mate saying ‘omg this really hot woman asked for my number today and now she’s messaged me. What do I say? Should I play it cool?’ | |||
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"Well nothing so far. Never mind. Probably messaging his mate saying ‘omg this really hot woman asked for my number today and now she’s messaged me. What do I say? Should I play it cool?’ "No sorry not acceptable. If he hasn't replied upon reading cut him loose | |||
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"Ahh this is the big now. See if he responds. He read it 24 mins ago! Even if he doesn’t the fact that I did it in the first place is brave for me, especially since I worked with a dude for like 9 months before telling him I fancied him and it was too late he was dating someone, which has gone tits up and he’s sniffing round again but fuck him, he missed his chance!" Riveted by this. Really hope he messages back. And even if he doesn’t, good on you for putting yourself out there and being brave. | |||
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"Well nothing so far. Never mind. " He's probably reading this from his fab account | |||
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"Well nothing so far. Never mind. Probably messaging his mate saying ‘omg this really hot woman asked for my number today and now she’s messaged me. What do I say? Should I play it cool?’
No sorry not acceptable. If he hasn't replied upon reading cut him loose "Aww really, in this situation I’d give it a bit, not an hour though! Yeah doesn’t look like he will. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever." He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. " I'm only messing just give him time,was he stopping in tonight do you know? | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I'm only messing just give him time,was he stopping in tonight do you know?" I literally spoke to him for minutes as he was leaving, managed to get his name, his age, where he’s from and his number. I assume he would’ve had the kid for the day and night possibly? | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. " I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I'm only messing just give him time,was he stopping in tonight do you know? I literally spoke to him for minutes as he was leaving, managed to get his name, his age, where he’s from and his number. I assume he would’ve had the kid for the day and night possibly? " He might need some brave juice to chat as a lot of guys think they are punching above their weight when chatting to a lady ? | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. " Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. " And this is why I turn the arrows off on my WhatsApp. They seem to feed neurotic behaviour. If you sent a text message, you'd have no idea if it'd been read. If he's with his kids, replying to the OP is naturally not his priority. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. And this is why I turn the arrows off on my WhatsApp. They seem to feed neurotic behaviour. If you sent a text message, you'd have no idea if it'd been read. If he's with his kids, replying to the OP is naturally not his priority. " A kid that he probably has for the weekend, plus he was with his kid at the swimming baths not a nightclub and not off fab so the whole message thing might not come so easy to people as we see it. I’m just pleased with myself that I had the guts to approach a guy in the real world. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. And this is why I turn the arrows off on my WhatsApp. They seem to feed neurotic behaviour. If you sent a text message, you'd have no idea if it'd been read. If he's with his kids, replying to the OP is naturally not his priority. A kid that he probably has for the weekend, plus he was with his kid at the swimming baths not a nightclub and not off fab so the whole message thing might not come so easy to people as we see it. I’m just pleased with myself that I had the guts to approach a guy in the real world. " good for you | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. " When you receive a whatapp you know it is there and who it is from without actually having to click on it to read the content of the message. If your too busy to respond at that time then why read it? Even if he thinks he is punching above his weight (which I don't buy as she said he is hot & hot peeps know they are attractive) and not sure how to proceed then again why read it? I'm not saying this to appear harsh but this lady has said her desire to date so I assume that's with the view of potential relationship. Therefore she deserves someone who is going to be straight with her and not someone who may play games. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. And this is why I turn the arrows off on my WhatsApp. They seem to feed neurotic behaviour. If you sent a text message, you'd have no idea if it'd been read. If he's with his kids, replying to the OP is naturally not his priority. " If he is busy with kids why read in first place that's what I'm saying | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. And this is why I turn the arrows off on my WhatsApp. They seem to feed neurotic behaviour. If you sent a text message, you'd have no idea if it'd been read. If he's with his kids, replying to the OP is naturally not his priority. If he is busy with kids why read in first place that's what I'm saying " Because reading a message takes literally seconds? Especially since he probably picked his phone up when he got the notification in case it was important. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. When you receive a whatapp you know it is there and who it is from without actually having to click on it to read the content of the message. If your too busy to respond at that time then why read it? Even if he thinks he is punching above his weight (which I don't buy as she said he is hot & hot peeps know they are attractive) and not sure how to proceed then again why read it? I'm not saying this to appear harsh but this lady has said her desire to date so I assume that's with the view of potential relationship. Therefore she deserves someone who is going to be straight with her and not someone who may play games. " Well yeah of course she does,but if someone expects me to reply to their message straight away even if I had read it it would have me running for the hills it sounds controlling to me. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. And this is why I turn the arrows off on my WhatsApp. They seem to feed neurotic behaviour. If you sent a text message, you'd have no idea if it'd been read. If he's with his kids, replying to the OP is naturally not his priority. A kid that he probably has for the weekend, plus he was with his kid at the swimming baths not a nightclub and not off fab so the whole message thing might not come so easy to people as we see it. I’m just pleased with myself that I had the guts to approach a guy in the real world. " Oh, absolutely- confidence is attractive. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. When you receive a whatapp you know it is there and who it is from without actually having to click on it to read the content of the message. If your too busy to respond at that time then why read it? Even if he thinks he is punching above his weight (which I don't buy as she said he is hot & hot peeps know they are attractive) and not sure how to proceed then again why read it? I'm not saying this to appear harsh but this lady has said her desire to date so I assume that's with the view of potential relationship. Therefore she deserves someone who is going to be straight with her and not someone who may play games. Well yeah of course she does,but if someone expects me to reply to their message straight away even if I had read it it would have me running for the hills it sounds controlling to me." You're a woman though, different rules for women remember. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. " Good grief | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. When you receive a whatapp you know it is there and who it is from without actually having to click on it to read the content of the message. If your too busy to respond at that time then why read it? Even if he thinks he is punching above his weight (which I don't buy as she said he is hot & hot peeps know they are attractive) and not sure how to proceed then again why read it? I'm not saying this to appear harsh but this lady has said her desire to date so I assume that's with the view of potential relationship. Therefore she deserves someone who is going to be straight with her and not someone who may play games. Well yeah of course she does,but if someone expects me to reply to their message straight away even if I had read it it would have me running for the hills it sounds controlling to me." sounds more than controlling to me and yes id definetly run for the hills | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. Blooming heck that's a bit harsh. When you receive a whatapp you know it is there and who it is from without actually having to click on it to read the content of the message. If your too busy to respond at that time then why read it? Even if he thinks he is punching above his weight (which I don't buy as she said he is hot & hot peeps know they are attractive) and not sure how to proceed then again why read it? I'm not saying this to appear harsh but this lady has said her desire to date so I assume that's with the view of potential relationship. Therefore she deserves someone who is going to be straight with her and not someone who may play games. " But not all attractive people strut around as if they think they can have anyone they like. We all have our insecurities. Maybe this guy does too | |||
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"I’m fine. I’m not stressing at all. I’m just amazed I had the balls to actually go up to someone with their child in toe in a leisure centre in the middle of the afternoon! Granted he’s probably thinking I’m a weirdo now but I’m not stressing. I’ve got guys from here that I’m messaging, one I’ve met twice and meeting again Friday for the proper meet. " Definitely not a weirdo. He is probably intimidated that you had the balls to do it when he didn't. | |||
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"I’m fine. I’m not stressing at all. I’m just amazed I had the balls to actually go up to someone with their child in toe in a leisure centre in the middle of the afternoon! Granted he’s probably thinking I’m a weirdo now but I’m not stressing. I’ve got guys from here that I’m messaging, one I’ve met twice and meeting again Friday for the proper meet. " Fairly sure he doesn’t think you’re a weirdo - he gave his number after all. I’d say he was gobsmacked and chuffed and is working up the nerve to reply. Watch this space.... | |||
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"I’m fine. I’m not stressing at all. I’m just amazed I had the balls to actually go up to someone with their child in toe in a leisure centre in the middle of the afternoon! Granted he’s probably thinking I’m a weirdo now but I’m not stressing. I’ve got guys from here that I’m messaging, one I’ve met twice and meeting again Friday for the proper meet. Fairly sure he doesn’t think you’re a weirdo - he gave his number after all. I’d say he was gobsmacked and chuffed and is working up the nerve to reply. Watch this space.... "thats what i think | |||
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"I’m fine. I’m not stressing at all. I’m just amazed I had the balls to actually go up to someone with their child in toe in a leisure centre in the middle of the afternoon! Granted he’s probably thinking I’m a weirdo now but I’m not stressing. I’ve got guys from here that I’m messaging, one I’ve met twice and meeting again Friday for the proper meet. " Girl, you are super brave and it’s amazing to push yourself out of your comfort zone. That sort of thing is scary af! And whether he replies or not you should be super proud that you walked up to a complete stranger and asked for their number, that’s a big fucking deal! Sassy xx | |||
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"More women should approach guys and hide behind the 'but what if I get rejected? It would feel awful!' stuff. Yeah, rejection feels bad but what if he's single and into you?" I'm not even sure that rejection feels that bad in a situation like that. People are usually pretty nice about it, because even if they are taken it's pretty flattering. | |||
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"Flattering or creepy" Depends how attractive you found them. | |||
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"More women should approach guys and hide behind the 'but what if I get rejected? It would feel awful!' stuff. Yeah, rejection feels bad but what if he's single and into you?" What's your number?  | |||
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"Doesn’t sound like a big deal but can you imagine the scenario. Imagine how many fit people you see every day that you may exchange looks or glances with but never act on it, I was like what have I got to lose, nothing so I just did it! You were very brave. I don't see the brave bit its just common sense if you want someone's number people do it all the time. "Not in my world they don't. Not women anyway. I know I wouldn't. | |||
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"Flattering or creepy" flattering..of course ..any ladies out there wanting to pm me their mobile numbers will be gratefully received  | |||
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"Doesn’t sound like a big deal but can you imagine the scenario. Imagine how many fit people you see every day that you may exchange looks or glances with but never act on it, I was like what have I got to lose, nothing so I just did it! You were very brave. I don't see the brave bit its just common sense if you want someone's number people do it all the time.
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"Doesn’t sound like a big deal but can you imagine the scenario. Imagine how many fit people you see every day that you may exchange looks or glances with but never act on it, I was like what have I got to lose, nothing so I just did it! You were very brave. I don't see the brave bit its just common sense if you want someone's number people do it all the time.
Not in my world they don't. Not women anyway. I know I wouldn't.
I wouldn't either."In the twilight zone where a woman actually asked for my number (or gave me hers without me asking) I'd honestly be so impressed that I'd be sold there and then that I'd be giving her a chance. 1. Just the straight up confidence of her doing it 2. The shock that it happened | |||
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"I saw a lady in the petrol station the other week. We exchanged glances. I’m regretted not going over to chat. Next time I will. What’s the worst she can say! " If I see an attractive woman looking at me I just presume I must have something stuck on my face or in my teeth. Not in a million years would I ever think to approach them. | |||
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"I saw a lady in the petrol station the other week. We exchanged glances. I’m regretted not going over to chat. Next time I will. What’s the worst she can say! " Honestly just do it. I never thought I would do something like that yesterday and I think of all the times I’ve seen people out and about like in tescos or anywhere and done nothing. I think if you lock eyes with someone somewhere and whenever you take a look at them they’re looking at you, then you should just go up to them. | |||
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"Did something similar Op, I saw a stunning blonde in the supermarket, so I walked right up to her and said ‘Excuse me, has anyone ever told you, you’re stood in front of the Dairylea Lunchables ?!’ Cut to 20 minutes later I’m at home tucking into some Dairylea by myself. " Ahahaha | |||
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"I saw a lady in the petrol station the other week. We exchanged glances. I’m regretted not going over to chat. Next time I will. What’s the worst she can say! " Sure she'll be there tomorrow fellow Jay If your car is full up buy a ginsters slice She works the morning shift i believe | |||
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. " Most tense thread I’ve read. Best of luck and you did the right thing approaching him. The worst outcome is that he will feel very pleased that an attractive woman approached him (believe me, we all love that) and the best... | |||
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. " Are you likely to see him next weekend again? | |||
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. " If I was that guy, I would have replied ASAP but my situation and his are probably way too different. I can only see the pics that you have on here, so he is one lucky dude to have see you in person and for you to go to him. But I played the “keep looking at WhatsApp game”, it is torture. Keep yourself busy with other guys as you are, his loss. | |||
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? " Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. | |||
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"Was at a kids party as well. I was there with my kid for a pool party in the city, he was in the pool with his kid I was sat with one of the other mums in the viewing area. Could see him in his trunks, awesome body, exchanged a few glances. He had food in the cage bit with his kid and then when he looked like leaving I just had that moment of fuck it just do it, chances are he’s got his kid for the day. I just went up to him and said could you tell I was checking you out, asked if he was attached and he said he wasn’t and that he was 36 and actually doesn’t live far from me considering we were 40 mins away from our area. He said take my number then, so I did! Just whatsapped him but he’s not read it yet. Is him before anyone says he gave me a fake number, can see him in the WhatsApp picture. " You are amazing and so brave. I wish I have at least slice of courage of yours. I am not forward at all and usually take a step back when I like someone. It explains why I have been single for over 6 years. I really think this was amazing and thank you for sharing . | |||
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. " Oh right it was for a party I was thinking it was for lessons,yes it's not looking good is it. I wonder if he is actually married and told you a porky,but yes it doesn't take away the fact you were brave. There's still time before you give up completely,fingers crossed. | |||
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"I go to my local pool all the time, see mum's I fancy, the ones who actually play with their children and unafraid of getting their hair wet are the ones who get most of my attention. I have to remember where I am though. It's supposed to be a safe place and I don't want them to feel they're being letched at. A couple of times there's been some eye contact and a smile, but given both sets of children are flapping around us like sea turtles. I'm not tgat comfortable making my introductions in a pool. Let alone asking them out Maybe I'll take a leaf out of OPs book one day and aquadate."He was fully dressed and about to leave when I went over | |||
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. Oh right it was for a party I was thinking it was for lessons,yes it's not looking good is it. I wonder if he is actually married and told you a porky,but yes it doesn't take away the fact you were brave. There's still time before you give up completely,fingers crossed." Yeah good point he might not be single.  | |||
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"I go to my local pool all the time, see mum's I fancy, the ones who actually play with their children and unafraid of getting their hair wet are the ones who get most of my attention. I have to remember where I am though. It's supposed to be a safe place and I don't want them to feel they're being letched at. A couple of times there's been some eye contact and a smile, but given both sets of children are flapping around us like sea turtles. I'm not tgat comfortable making my introductions in a pool. Let alone asking them out Maybe I'll take a leaf out of OPs book one day and aquadate.
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. Oh right it was for a party I was thinking it was for lessons,yes it's not looking good is it. I wonder if he is actually married and told you a porky,but yes it doesn't take away the fact you were brave. There's still time before you give up completely,fingers crossed. Yeah good point he might not be single. "Would an attached guy give his number out though? | |||
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. Oh right it was for a party I was thinking it was for lessons,yes it's not looking good is it. I wonder if he is actually married and told you a porky,but yes it doesn't take away the fact you were brave. There's still time before you give up completely,fingers crossed. Yeah good point he might not be single.
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. Oh right it was for a party I was thinking it was for lessons,yes it's not looking good is it. I wonder if he is actually married and told you a porky,but yes it doesn't take away the fact you were brave. There's still time before you give up completely,fingers crossed. Yeah good point he might not be single.
Would an attached guy give his number out though?
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. Oh right it was for a party I was thinking it was for lessons,yes it's not looking good is it. I wonder if he is actually married and told you a porky,but yes it doesn't take away the fact you were brave. There's still time before you give up completely,fingers crossed. Yeah good point he might not be single.
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It may be his work number,I don't know I'm just wondering why he wouldn't contact you after giving it out. Seems rather strange.
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. Oh right it was for a party I was thinking it was for lessons,yes it's not looking good is it. I wonder if he is actually married and told you a porky,but yes it doesn't take away the fact you were brave. There's still time before you give up completely,fingers crossed. Yeah good point he might not be single.
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It may be his work number,I don't know I'm just wondering why he wouldn't contact you after giving it out. Seems rather strange.
Maybe. His picture on there is in a pub him in the middle of two guys, one I know quite well. "Maybe they've spoken about you already? Maybe he knows you're on here now? Maybe that's put him off? Maybe maybe maybe.. You've done your bit. Grew some confidence and did something most men would be incredibly flattered and impressed by. Don't lose any sleep over it. | |||
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"Was at a kids party as well. I was there with my kid for a pool party in the city, he was in the pool with his kid I was sat with one of the other mums in the viewing area. Could see him in his trunks, awesome body, exchanged a few glances. He had food in the cage bit with his kid and then when he looked like leaving I just had that moment of fuck it just do it, chances are he’s got his kid for the day. I just went up to him and said could you tell I was checking you out, asked if he was attached and he said he wasn’t and that he was 36 and actually doesn’t live far from me considering we were 40 mins away from our area. He said take my number then, so I did! Just whatsapped him but he’s not read it yet. Is him before anyone says he gave me a fake number, can see him in the WhatsApp picture. " Sorry I’ve not had chance to reply yet!!
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"What do men think about this approach? I'm thinking real world, not fab related, where double standards are rife. Would you consider a serious relationship from this aporoach or would you see the woman as too forward and be wondering if you could trust them if in a relationship. So glad I'm not into dating it sounds a mindfield. " I'd not see any reason not to trust them just because they were forward in this way. I'd welcome it, would take a lot of pressure of me and have huge respect for their confidence to do so. Would definitely consider it. | |||
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"What do men think about this approach? I'm thinking real world, not fab related, where double standards are rife. Would you consider a serious relationship from this aporoach or would you see the woman as too forward and be wondering if you could trust them if in a relationship. So glad I'm not into dating it sounds a mindfield. I'd not see any reason not to trust them just because they were forward in this way. I'd welcome it, would take a lot of pressure of me and have huge respect for their confidence to do so. Would definitely consider it. " 100% agree. I would appreciate if the woman came to me first. I am shy in the real world, hard to approach a woman and knowing that they like me would help the fear of rejection feelings I get. | |||
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"What do men think about this approach? I'm thinking real world, not fab related, where double standards are rife. Would you consider a serious relationship from this aporoach or would you see the woman as too forward and be wondering if you could trust them if in a relationship. So glad I'm not into dating it sounds a mindfield. " I'd be fine with it. Once someone had revived me from fainting with shock, of course .
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"What do men think about this approach? I'm thinking real world, not fab related, where double standards are rife. Would you consider a serious relationship from this aporoach or would you see the woman as too forward and be wondering if you could trust them if in a relationship. So glad I'm not into dating it sounds a mindfield. " I'd be over the moon. Confidence, courage, bravery are all traits I find highly attractive in everyone. Why is it down to us men to make the moves all the time? Was watching a dating advice programme on internet (yeah.. need help ). The man giving the talk was explaining why women should be the ones making the first moves. As the guys who do approach women in bars tend not to be fussy and will say anything to anyone to get in. So usually arseholes. Whereas men like myself dont want to pester you whilst you're enjoying yourself.
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. " Other people have lives and nerves and thoughts...... the idea that he hasn't jumped to attention can be a positive thing. I guess saying ' fuck him' is a good way of hiding disappointment or low self esteem. | |||
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"What do men think about this approach? I'm thinking real world, not fab related, where double standards are rife. Would you consider a serious relationship from this aporoach or would you see the woman as too forward and be wondering if you could trust them if in a relationship. So glad I'm not into dating it sounds a mindfield. Seriously? I think any man who, in 2019, thinks there is an issue with women asking men out should find a time machine and go back to 1955 as he would probably be more at home there. " Oi ....... anything from 1955 is classic vintage.... | |||
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"What do men think about this approach? I'm thinking real world, not fab related, where double standards are rife. Would you consider a serious relationship from this aporoach or would you see the woman as too forward and be wondering if you could trust them if in a relationship. So glad I'm not into dating it sounds a mindfield. Seriously? I think any man who, in 2019, thinks there is an issue with women asking men out should find a time machine and go back to 1955 as he would probably be more at home there. " It's a question. Are you saying double standards no longer exist as to how men and women are perceived? If that's the case great, we have moved forward which is fantastic. Let's hope it works out and this inspires more women who are looking for relationships to take the initiative. | |||
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"He may be sorting all his children out give him time,putting 6 kids into bed takes forever. He only had one with him. Looked about 3 or 4. I have children and work full time shifts in a mentally demanding job on top of managing household and making sure parents are ok. If I get a whatapp, whoever it's from, I do not read it until I have the time to respond. I'm sorry I just don't think it's acceptable to read a message and leave it at that. Even if he responds tomorrow i would not entertain him as its a sign of things to come but that's just my buffalo stance on the issue. Take. No. Shit. " I  this attitude | |||
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"Have you heard anything yet? Nope but he hasn’t been online since my message was read. Are you likely to see him next weekend again? Nope. Never seen him before despite him being from my nearest town and in his pic he’s sat next to a guy I know very well! I was only in this place for a kids pool party and he was there as it’s also open to the public. He’s been online thus morning now as well so doesn’t look like I’ll get a reply. But still it was brave in the first place. Oh right it was for a party I was thinking it was for lessons,yes it's not looking good is it. I wonder if he is actually married and told you a porky,but yes it doesn't take away the fact you were brave. There's still time before you give up completely,fingers crossed. Yeah good point he might not be single.
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"Was at a kids party as well. I was there with my kid for a pool party in the city, he was in the pool with his kid I was sat with one of the other mums in the viewing area. Could see him in his trunks, awesome body, exchanged a few glances. He had food in the cage bit with his kid and then when he looked like leaving I just had that moment of fuck it just do it, chances are he’s got his kid for the day. I just went up to him and said could you tell I was checking you out, asked if he was attached and he said he wasn’t and that he was 36 and actually doesn’t live far from me considering we were 40 mins away from our area. He said take my number then, so I did! Just whatsapped him but he’s not read it yet. Is him before anyone says he gave me a fake number, can see him in the WhatsApp picture. " Lucky swine! | |||
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"Has he replied yet?" Nope. He ain’t going to now. My mate said I shouldn’t have messaged the same day. Should have waited at least a day for him to think about it and think is she going to message me so when I do finally message, it’s exciting kind of thing. See I didn’t know all this etiquette side of things and I’m honest all I saw was a fit guy and wanted to get to know him, didn’t think how weird it comes across. But it’s all a learning thing, maybe in future I’ll actually chat a bit more instead of going straight in for the kill! | |||
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"Has he replied yet? Nope. He ain’t going to now. My mate said I shouldn’t have messaged the same day. Should have waited at least a day for him to think about it and think is she going to message me so when I do finally message, it’s exciting kind of thing. See I didn’t know all this etiquette side of things and I’m honest all I saw was a fit guy and wanted to get to know him, didn’t think how weird it comes across. But it’s all a learning thing, maybe in future I’ll actually chat a bit more instead of going straight in for the kill! " Feck ettiquette. You did the right thing. If you like a person - you let them know it. Simple. | |||
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"Has he replied yet? Nope. He ain’t going to now. My mate said I shouldn’t have messaged the same day. Should have waited at least a day for him to think about it and think is she going to message me so when I do finally message, it’s exciting kind of thing. See I didn’t know all this etiquette side of things and I’m honest all I saw was a fit guy and wanted to get to know him, didn’t think how weird it comes across. But it’s all a learning thing, maybe in future I’ll actually chat a bit more instead of going straight in for the kill! " It's all down to each individual. I gave my number to a man as I was going into Morrison's the other day. He texted me as I was on my way home and called me later that evening. He's texted and called me every day since. | |||
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"Has he replied yet? Nope. He ain’t going to now. My mate said I shouldn’t have messaged the same day. Should have waited at least a day for him to think about it and think is she going to message me so when I do finally message, it’s exciting kind of thing. See I didn’t know all this etiquette side of things and I’m honest all I saw was a fit guy and wanted to get to know him, didn’t think how weird it comes across. But it’s all a learning thing, maybe in future I’ll actually chat a bit more instead of going straight in for the kill! It's all down to each individual. I gave my number to a man as I was going into Morrison's the other day. He texted me as I was on my way home and called me later that evening. He's texted and called me every day since. " Those energy salesman don’t count! | |||
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"Has he replied yet? Nope. He ain’t going to now. My mate said I shouldn’t have messaged the same day. Should have waited at least a day for him to think about it and think is she going to message me so when I do finally message, it’s exciting kind of thing. See I didn’t know all this etiquette side of things and I’m honest all I saw was a fit guy and wanted to get to know him, didn’t think how weird it comes across. But it’s all a learning thing, maybe in future I’ll actually chat a bit more instead of going straight in for the kill! It's all down to each individual. I gave my number to a man as I was going into Morrison's the other day. He texted me as I was on my way home and called me later that evening. He's texted and called me every day since. Those energy salesman don’t count!" I don't make eye contact with them. | |||
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" If he is busy with kids why read in first place that's what I'm saying " I read texts and don't always reply straight away | |||
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"Imagine what this dude looks like though, insane body, handsome as fuck, he ain’t gonna struggle with birds. Probably was a bit shocked at the directness when I asked him but after processing it and the fact I messaged him straight away he can probably see it was a bit weird and what kind of woman would do this kind of thing. He’s right to not message me. " You're over thinking it. You put yourself out there which can only be a good thing. Especially after all the angst about the Christmas party guy and how long it took to build up to telling him you liked him. Chalk it up to experience and move on. If he does message back just take it easy. There's no set formula to how these this work. | |||
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"Imagine what this dude looks like though, insane body, handsome as fuck, he ain’t gonna struggle with birds. Probably was a bit shocked at the directness when I asked him but after processing it and the fact I messaged him straight away he can probably see it was a bit weird and what kind of woman would do this kind of thing. He’s right to not message me. You're over thinking it. You put yourself out there which can only be a good thing. Especially after all the angst about the Christmas party guy and how long it took to build up to telling him you liked him. Chalk it up to experience and move on. If he does message back just take it easy. There's no set formula to how these this work. " Yeah I need to be somewhere in the middle. Not months and months and miss my chance and not grabbing someone as they’re walking out of a leisure centre with their kid! God I don’t do things by halves! | |||
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"Imagine what this dude looks like though, insane body, handsome as fuck, he ain’t gonna struggle with birds. Probably was a bit shocked at the directness when I asked him but after processing it and the fact I messaged him straight away he can probably see it was a bit weird and what kind of woman would do this kind of thing. He’s right to not message me. You're over thinking it. You put yourself out there which can only be a good thing. Especially after all the angst about the Christmas party guy and how long it took to build up to telling him you liked him. Chalk it up to experience and move on. If he does message back just take it easy. There's no set formula to how these this work. Yeah I need to be somewhere in the middle. Not months and months and miss my chance and not grabbing someone as they’re walking out of a leisure centre with their kid! God I don’t do things by halves! " You need to just be you. Approach who you like how you like and it will work for the right person. If you've got to play games from the get go then it's not right | |||
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"Has he replied yet? Nope. He ain’t going to now. My mate said I shouldn’t have messaged the same day. Should have waited at least a day for him to think about it and think is she going to message me so when I do finally message, it’s exciting kind of thing. See I didn’t know all this etiquette side of things and I’m honest all I saw was a fit guy and wanted to get to know him, didn’t think how weird it comes across. But it’s all a learning thing, maybe in future I’ll actually chat a bit more instead of going straight in for the kill! Feck ettiquette. You did the right thing. If you like a person - you let them know it. Simple. "
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" It's all down to each individual. I gave my number to a man as I was going into Morrison's the other day. He texted me as I was on my way home and called me later that evening. He's texted and called me every day since. Those energy salesman don’t count!" hahaha | |||
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"Imagine what this dude looks like though, insane body, handsome as fuck, he ain’t gonna struggle with birds. Probably was a bit shocked at the directness when I asked him but after processing it and the fact I messaged him straight away he can probably see it was a bit weird and what kind of woman would do this kind of thing. He’s right to not message me. " Don't give up, the next one may reply | |||
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"Imagine what this dude looks like though, insane body, handsome as fuck, he ain’t gonna struggle with birds. Probably was a bit shocked at the directness when I asked him but after processing it and the fact I messaged him straight away he can probably see it was a bit weird and what kind of woman would do this kind of thing. He’s right to not message me. You're over thinking it. You put yourself out there which can only be a good thing. Especially after all the angst about the Christmas party guy and how long it took to build up to telling him you liked him. Chalk it up to experience and move on. If he does message back just take it easy. There's no set formula to how these this work. " | |||
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