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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Usually me and hubs have sex every day sometimes twice a day. I've always had a really high sex drive but this last week or so it's been none existent hubs is complaining because i haven't touched him or let him touch me. I'm honestly just not in the mood for sex etc
Anyone please tell me what could b causing this and what i should about it
Mrscxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hormones, stress esp with it being the festive season.
I lose my sex drive the week before time of the month (although I'm on the coil, still get the symptoms)
X"
My sex drive usually increaes the week before I'm due Mr m loves it because I'm really tight then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you been on here frequently? I try to spend as little time as pssible on here because most messages i get turn me off."
No I don't come on much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go through phases. Sometimes my sex drive is really high another x practically non-existent.
It's only been going on for a short period of time so I wouldn't sweat it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As others have said, hormones! Or stress, worries, tiredness etc.
Also, nothing turns me off more than a man moaning that’s he’s not getting any so maybe that’s got something to do with it?
Lou x "
I was just going to say this  |
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Tiredness, stress, resentment, worry, illness, cold weather, lack of sunshine, relationship problems you name it, it can lower your libido.
Worry if it lasts a month not after a week. Take a little time to yourself and ask the Mr to back off a bit, it might be him one day.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tiredness, stress, resentment, worry, illness, cold weather, lack of sunshine, relationship problems you name it, it can lower your libido.
Worry if it lasts a month not after a week. Take a little time to yourself and ask the Mr to back off a bit, it might be him one day. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tiredness, stress, resentment, worry, illness, cold weather, lack of sunshine, relationship problems you name it, it can lower your libido.
Worry if it lasts a month not after a week. Take a little time to yourself and ask the Mr to back off a bit, it might be him one day. "
... and speak to your GP if it continues more than a month. You're fortunate not to have experienced it before now. It's usually normal peaks and troughs. |
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over a year ago
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If he's already complaining after only a couple of weeks I'd get it sorted ASAP. There's always threads from men saying that they will leave their wife if they don't get any sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If he's already complaining after only a couple of weeks I'd get it sorted ASAP. There's always threads from men saying that they will leave their wife if they don't get any sex. "
Didn’t have it for 5 years and didn’t leave yet lol she’s not a wife yet either.
It depends I would say but yeah it get frustrating sometimes. They will probably try to look for it somewhere else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't panic after a week of no interest in sex when you have been very busy and pressure has been on.
Do some exercise to increase endorphins. You may also just be under the weather. But a week is a drop in the ocean.
Don't feel guilty about feeling lack of interest in sex. That just puts more pressure on.
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Stress, hormones, virus, illness, being nagged ... everything that's been said before though your doctor won't do anything before 6 weeks usually.
Try resting and making you time. Remind your husband being selfish doesn't help and it'll be him one day!
Everyone's sex drive peaks and ebbs from time to time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Usually me and hubs have sex every day sometimes twice a day. I've always had a really high sex drive but this last week or so it's been none existent hubs is complaining because i haven't touched him or let him touch me. I'm honestly just not in the mood for sex etc
Anyone please tell me what could b causing this and what i should about it
Mrscxxx"
Not joining here is it? (noted you are newish) I know some of us are not exactly aesthetically stunning it can kind of put some off! (best not look at my profile it might extend your loss of mojo further)  |
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Are you tired or something on your mind?
I lost mine a while ago but thankfully its returned better than ever.
Don't let it worry either of you.
That will just make the situation worse.
Talk to your other half and give reassurance.
Why don't you prepare a candle lit dinner when neither of you are working the next day to make him feel special. Especially if this doesn't happen often or suggest a day out by yourselves. It would relax you both and show him you care and still want him around.
Just an idea for the interim.
Sure it will pass soon.
Good luck. X
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you tired or something on your mind?
I lost mine a while ago but thankfully its returned better than ever.
Don't let it worry either of you.
That will just make the situation worse.
Talk to your other half and give reassurance.
Why don't you prepare a candle lit dinner when neither of you are working the next day to make him feel special. Especially if this doesn't happen often or suggest a day out by yourselves. It would relax you both and show him you care and still want him around.
Just an idea for the interim.
Sure it will pass soon.
Good luck. X
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Do you have a permit for this exhumation madam? |
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