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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere "
Don’t take it personal. We are all different and entitled to be. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
No place for racists anywhere - that part of your post I'll agree with 100% 
The part about not replying however - per site FAQs - it's acceptable not to reply to a message as a way of saying thanks but no thanks - this is due to the volume of messages that some people get and not being able to reply to them all |
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Op they don’t have to reply I’d get used to it women on here probably get hundreds of the same boring drivel of us blokes so why should they reply I’m over the moon if they read it before deleting it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked.
How do we decide who to talk to?"
Exactly this. I could 20 plus messages in 5 mins. Simply couldn't answer them all. Even to say no as that leads to bit why not or you don't what your missing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked.
How do we decide who to talk to?"
You don't. You must converse in intimate detail with every Tom Dick and harry that bothers to spend 2 seconds sending “hi, fancy a fuck” to you and be damn well enjoy doing it too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked.
How do we decide who to talk to?
You don't. You must converse in intimate detail with every Tom Dick and harry that bothers to spend 2 seconds sending “hi, fancy a fuck” to you and be damn well enjoy doing it too!"
And then they complain about one word answers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked.
How do we decide who to talk to?
You don't. You must converse in intimate detail with every Tom Dick and harry that bothers to spend 2 seconds sending “hi, fancy a fuck” to you and be damn well enjoy doing it too!
And then they complain about one word answers."
“Intimate detail” you can’t get away from it. You’re on here so it’s obvious you’re not fussy and will welcome with open legs any man that has the spare time to send you a picture of his erect member  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere "
Would an inbox full of 'no thanks' make you feel any better than no responses?
Honest question.
A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere "
There is a lot of ignorance.
There's also a lot of love on here, people who take time out of their lives to help others with all sorts of problems. Most of which dealing with emotional stability, pain, trauma, heartbreak etc.
To call everyone ignorant is unfair. Tonight alone I've received more kindness than I have in weeks from my real friends who know my real world problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked.
How do we decide who to talk to?
You don't. You must converse in intimate detail with every Tom Dick and harry that bothers to spend 2 seconds sending “hi, fancy a fuck” to you and be damn well enjoy doing it too!
And then they complain about one word answers.
“Intimate detail” you can’t get away from it. You’re on here so it’s obvious you’re not fussy and will welcome with open legs any man that has the spare time to send you a picture of his erect member "
You know me so well |
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By *udio2Man
over a year ago
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People who complain about not getting a response, always come across to me as being a bit desperate.
They didn't respond to you because they are not interested.
If they where they would message/wink/respond to you.
Take no response as a message saying "no thanks"
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere "
OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread?
Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not racism it's preference mate. Gawd."
I know the difference between preference and being racist mate
When you get called a curry muncher or smelly indian thats racist even tho am not indian |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere "
Nor does whinging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
Nor does whinging"
Well you have to let frustrations out somewhere |
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread?
Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know "
Brilliant!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not racism it's preference mate. Gawd.
I know the difference between preference and being racist mate
When you get called a curry muncher or smelly indian thats racist even tho am not indian"
Yup, that's definitely racist talk. Did you report them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you saying people are racist because their preference is not Asian ?
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No not at all
Preference is one thing but literally being racist is another |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not racism it's preference mate. Gawd.
I know the difference between preference and being racist mate
When you get called a curry muncher or smelly indian thats racist even tho am not indian
Yup, that's definitely racist talk. Did you report them?"
Yeah reported and blocked them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere "
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you saying people are racist because their preference is not Asian ?
No not at all
Preference is one thing but literally being racist is another "
People jump to conclusions on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
Would an inbox full of 'no thanks' make you feel any better than no responses?
Honest question.
A"
Yes it would lol least i get a response |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"It's no more racist not being attracted to blacks or asians than it is homophobic for a straight man to not be attracted to other men - we can't choose who we fancy!"
Hate that term, 'blacks or Asians' yuk!
OP, you should contribute to the thread, 'big hanging ball's, just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you saying people are racist because their preference is not Asian ?
No not at all
Preference is one thing but literally being racist is another
People jump to conclusions on here."
Yeah that is very true
Everyone just makes there mind up without knowing the finer details |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread?
Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know "
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's no more racist not being attracted to blacks or asians than it is homophobic for a straight man to not be attracted to other men - we can't choose who we fancy!
Hate that term, 'blacks or Asians' yuk!
Whats that about then lol
OP, you should contribute to the thread, 'big hanging ball's, just saying."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
Nor does whinging
Well you have to let frustrations out somewhere "
Airing you grievances on the forums can often get you a stint on the naughty step...
Just block and move on ..
Its not atractive to the opposite sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread?
Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now "
They get the hump if you miss one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere"
Thats what am gettinf at
Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
Nor does whinging
Well you have to let frustrations out somewhere
Airing you grievances on the forums can often get you a stint on the naughty step...
Just block and move on ..
Its not atractive to the opposite sex"
It is if a woman is doing the airing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread?
Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now
They get the hump if you miss one. "
Yeah i missed a few because all ill be doing is repeating myself when its there to read anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere
Thats what am gettinf at
Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments
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Just keep reporting them and blocking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread?
Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now
They get the hump if you miss one.
Yeah i missed a few because all ill be doing is repeating myself when its there to read anyway"
I wouldn't sweat it. You said your piece and got it off your chest.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
Nor does whinging
Well you have to let frustrations out somewhere
Airing you grievances on the forums can often get you a stint on the naughty step...
Just block and move on ..
Its not atractive to the opposite sex
It is if a woman is doing the airing. "
Thought it would also be a good way to have a bit of a convo with kind hearted people as welk as a bit of discussion to cure the boredom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere
Thats what am gettinf at
Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments
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Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that.
Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread?
Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now
They get the hump if you miss one.
Yeah i missed a few because all ill be doing is repeating myself when its there to read anyway
I wouldn't sweat it. You said your piece and got it off your chest.
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Yeah i sure have
Was nice to least have a little convo even tho its a bit of a negative one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere
Thats what am gettinf at
Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments
Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that.
Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
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I have done but yeah your right x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps change and consider your into message to people OP
If it’s as curt as your opener here no wonder you don’t get replies!  "
Well thats just the way i am unfortunately
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My policy in life is to respect others and the world that I live in - that includes when I'm on Fab. Each of us will have our own interpretations of what respect actually is though. Coming from the countryside, where we always acknowledge everyone that we come into contact with, is very different to how people operate in big cities. Is it disrespectful to ignore people in a busy city?
People who behave inappropriately, breaking site rules, for example, are unwelcome on Fab. They can be reported to Admin. There are however certain guidelines that Fab provides, including the advice on messages being sent to others - no reply should be taken to mean that the recipient has no interest. That is social norm on this particular website. It will be different to other sites, such as social media etc. Op - you've joined a site and agreed to Fab's terms and guidelines: it's therefore important to learn what to expect here and assess whether it's the right place for you. There should be absolutely no racial hate behaviour here.
You're in new society, so it's worth understanding too that everyone here is going to have personal preferences: who and how they may meet and also if they are even here to get to know new people (people here know others from the wider swinging world, so may be here to retain contact with them).
I'm guessing that a fair few people will have responded to your post Op - some/all of this will be intended to be helpful. Part of your learning how things are here, is that some users may get hundreds of messages, each time that they are online here. It could be like having a full-time job to reply with just a friendly 'no thanks' to each of them. So people don't generally reply, as it is following site guidance and also because you are probably messaging some of the people who are getting the hundreds of messages. If you messaged a man who almost never gets a message, he might reply: but he's under no obligation to do so.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps change and consider your into message to people OP
If it’s as curt as your opener here no wonder you don’t get replies!
Well thats just the way i am unfortunately
I rest my case!"
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"FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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well said plus lots of silly messages like how you doing! What you up to its not Facebook |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere
Thats what am gettinf at
Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments
Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that.
Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
I have done but yeah your right x"
Join in on the forums. You seem pretty straight forward. That won't go down well with some people but that's life.
If I was a man I wouldn't bother mailing anyone on here. The lack of replies would just get me down. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere
Thats what am gettinf at
Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments
Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that.
Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
I have done but yeah your right x
Join in on the forums. You seem pretty straight forward. That won't go down well with some people but that's life.
If I was a man I wouldn't bother mailing anyone on here. The lack of replies would just get me down. x"
I would like to think am pretty straight forward and i do comment on forums from time to time depend on how fun it looks
And yeah i havent bothered to message anyone now
If they want to message me there welcome to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
well said plus lots of silly messages like how you doing! What you up to its not Facebook "
I don't mind those messages. I prefer them to long ones telling me exactly what I wrote on my profile. If I like the look of them I'll reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
well said plus lots of silly messages like how you doing! What you up to its not Facebook
I don't mind those messages. I prefer them to long ones telling me exactly what I wrote on my profile. If I like the look of them I'll reply."
Struggling to keep up now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere "
Ignorance starts with the people who don't take time to read admins advice on people who don't reply. It does tell most of us who is a horse and who is a donkey and take action though.  |
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere
Thats what am gettinf at
Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments
Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that.
Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
I have done but yeah your right x
Join in on the forums. You seem pretty straight forward. That won't go down well with some people but that's life.
If I was a man I wouldn't bother mailing anyone on here. The lack of replies would just get me down. x
I would like to think am pretty straight forward and i do comment on forums from time to time depend on how fun it looks
And yeah i havent bothered to message anyone now
If they want to message me there welcome to "
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no
No harm in a polite response you know
And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society
Give respect to get respect
Hate does not get you anywhere
well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,,
but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere
Thats what am gettinf at
Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments
Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that.
Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
I have done but yeah your right x
Join in on the forums. You seem pretty straight forward. That won't go down well with some people but that's life.
If I was a man I wouldn't bother mailing anyone on here. The lack of replies would just get me down. x
I would like to think am pretty straight forward and i do comment on forums from time to time depend on how fun it looks
And yeah i havent bothered to message anyone now
If they want to message me there welcome to
Just be careful how you respond "
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