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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ? |
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I have been in situations where I've stopped and though bloody hell!
For me though part of the turn on is that it's a bit out of the ordinary, I like that people who know me would be shocked if they knew. |
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ? "
...my thoughts are, I'll have to show you my living room floor  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ?
...my thoughts are, I'll have to show you my living room floor "
 seriously that’s what happened on my first meet off here  |
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I still remember the first few meets and it’s a strange feeling indeed, just a normal random house with a normal couple and talking to the male partner (both actually) then sleeping with their wife but like you, yes I do love it. |
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ?
...my thoughts are, I'll have to show you my living room floor seriously that’s what happened on my first meet off here "
Not a bad place to start then... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been in situations where I've stopped and though bloody hell!
For me though part of the turn on is that it's a bit out of the ordinary, I like that people who know me would be shocked if they knew. "
thats definitely part of the appeal I remember go home on the train after a meet looking at the commuters with a smile on my face at what I had just done |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ?
...my thoughts are, I'll have to show you my living room floor seriously that’s what happened on my first meet off here
Not a bad place to start then..."
i know just don’t ask me what colour the carpet was |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The weirdest thing having a strange woman walk into your house, having a cup of tea then getting down to it. The awkward bit is chatting while you’re waiting for the kettle to boil! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I still remember the first few meets and it’s a strange feeling indeed, just a normal random house with a normal couple and talking to the male partner (both actually) then sleeping with their wife but like you, yes I do love it."
Do you think that feeling wears off eventually I am relatively new to this but the first couple of times o felt like I was having an out of body experience if you know what I mean ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The weirdest thing having a strange woman walk into your house, having a cup of tea then getting down to it. The awkward bit is chatting while you’re waiting for the kettle to boil! "
oh the awkward small talk |
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Agree, it's all very strange. A few weeks back I parked up at a well known supermarket before walking for a couple of minutes to an arranged meet - a nearby house in an ordinary residential area. I fucked a middle aged gentleman's wife in their lounge whilst he watched. An hour later I was back at the aforementioned supermarket picking up a few groceries for my return home... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I still remember the first few meets and it’s a strange feeling indeed, just a normal random house with a normal couple and talking to the male partner (both actually) then sleeping with their wife but like you, yes I do love it.Do you think that feeling wears off eventually I am relatively new to this but the first couple of times o felt like I was having an out of body experience if you know what I mean ?"
Yes swinging becomes like a drug.....
The first few years it’s great and then it starts to get old....
The best thing to do is take breaks and come back from time to time... |
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It is a bit surreal. The first guy we ever met was very experienced and he made it all very easy. We met him a few times.
We've sat naked in people's kitchens eating curly fries, turned up at guys houses with me wearing very little under my coat and sat in sedate cafes discussing bdsm. Yeah, surreal  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ? "
Everything about fab is surreal and backwards.
We are in a situation where a person's body is looked at and their sexual tastes finely examined before we speak to them, finally we see their face... People meet each other for sex on a regular basis but woe betide anyone who gets emotionally attached.
And on top of that we're on a swinging site discussing whale sperm and avocado's.
Weird was several stops back on the line... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I will add this bit of advice.....
After a bad meet give yourself time off.... maybe a week or a month....
If you don’t you will act very jaded to the next potential person you’re meeting.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I will add this bit of advice.....
After a bad meet give yourself time off.... maybe a week or a month....
If you don’t you will act very jaded to the next potential person you’re meeting...."
Thats good to know I haven’t had one yet but I am sure it will happen eventually |
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".Do you think that feeling wears off eventually I am relatively new to this but the first couple of times o felt like I was having an out of body experience if you know what I mean ?"
You become accustomed to anything in life, but because I’ve been so intermittent on here the feeling for me hasn’t worn off. As another poster touched upon in a round about, (if it starts to wear off) you could look for other kinks to bring back the kick xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When it's weird and strange and enjoyable and different it's wonderful. All of the above are part of the experience.
It's when it turns dark that it makes you wonder about it all. Like the time I turned up to a 'couple meet' and it was blindly apparent that the wife was nowhere near as keen on the idea as her other half had made her out to be. In fact she was terrified.
That was fucking horrible and was my last experience of the swinging scene for years. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ?
Everything about fab is surreal and backwards.
We are in a situation where a person's body is looked at and their sexual tastes finely examined before we speak to them, finally we see their face... People meet each other for sex on a regular basis but woe betide anyone who gets emotionally attached.
And on top of that we're on a swinging site discussing whale sperm and avocado's.
Weird was several stops back on the line... "
True I have actually been blocked by a women on here for telling her I was watching porn hub while on her profile pics I could see what she had eaten for breakfast |
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Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor then going home isn't for me, Even when I have had a one night stand after a night out I've stayed the night or she has stayed over, I doubt I will ever have a fuck and go meet, Unless we are talking about 4-5 hours |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love adventures so this place amuses me.
If it got boring I'd leave and take up Morris Dancing.
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i think that’s how you have to look at it as an adventure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor then going home isn't for me, Even when I have had a one night stand after a night out I've stayed the night or she has stayed over, I doubt I will ever have a fuck and go meet, Unless we are talking about 4-5 hours"
Fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When it's weird and strange and enjoyable and different it's wonderful. All of the above are part of the experience.
It's when it turns dark that it makes you wonder about it all. Like the time I turned up to a 'couple meet' and it was blindly apparent that the wife was nowhere near as keen on the idea as her other half had made her out to be. In fact she was terrified.
That was fucking horrible and was my last experience of the swinging scene for years. "
oh that’s awful |
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"I love adventures so this place amuses me.
If it got boring I'd leave and take up Morris Dancing.
i think that’s how you have to look at it as an adventure "
Definitely.
And welcome to our crazy world x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agree, it's all very strange. A few weeks back I parked up at a well known supermarket before walking for a couple of minutes to an arranged meet - a nearby house in an ordinary residential area. I fucked a middle aged gentleman's wife in their lounge whilst he watched. An hour later I was back at the aforementioned supermarket picking up a few groceries for my return home... "
Multi tasking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is a bit surreal OP. I'm not sure it wears off entirely unless you meet someone for several meets. It's then like seeing a friend and somehow it seems more normal!
I used to swap massages through another site. That was probably more surreal because sex wasn't expected but occasionally happened out of the blue! At least with Fab you have a clearer idea of what might happen! |
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i remember about 15 years ago i had a gangbang with 8 tvs all bi. I was the only woman
We where all shagging and they all had better legs and better lingerie than me. I had a surreal moment that day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You know, I've never even thought about this until reading OP's post just now.
And now I am questioning myself about having fun in our 'randomly fucking strangers bubble' -if that makes sense- and then going back to reality.
It's quite a turn on how weird the whole 'oh my god, we fuck in strange people's houses and then fuck off' scenario is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i remember about 15 years ago i had a gangbang with 8 tvs all bi. I was the only woman
We where all shagging and they all had better legs and better lingerie than me. I had a surreal moment that day"
That sounds absolutely ace  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I was discussing this with a friend earlier! Like when you're on the train and wondering how many peope have just spent the day fucking someone online.
I love the surreal side of it mixed with the banal normality of life - it's similar to a poster above, if it gets meh I'd bugger off and do something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first time I went to a club I thought my head would explode, I couldn’t take it all in and replayed over and over afterwards for ages but now to go to a club and watch others fucking does little for me. It’s why I’ve only dipped in and out over the years and actually as has been mentioned I want something much more now. I totally get the OMG what did I just do feeling though  |
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Thanks for posting your first topic Op!! Welcome aboard
I totally agree that swinging can be a surreal experience, especially if people haven't had a life that's had some similarities within it. Popping into a club, for a short respite, possibly getting into a hot session or so, then on with your more routing daily life, is all a little contrasting to the 9 to 5 job, gym, fitness and home-life that many of us have. Even the discussions on the forum are awe inspiring/mind-boggling a lot of the time, without even getting into when you may meet others. A few guys turn up to a home in a quiet residential street, perhaps similar to a work gang, doing some job or other but instead sorting out someone's needs on the quiet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ? "
Totally agree - I enjoy these moments of escapism from real life. |
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"i remember about 15 years ago i had a gangbang with 8 tvs all bi. I was the only woman
We where all shagging and they all had better legs and better lingerie than me. I had a surreal moment that day"
Karen - you're downplaying your pulling-power and awesome sparkle |
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"It's all a bit empty for me now,my desires are for something a little more involved.See I am a newbie how long have you been doing it ?"
I can't remember exactly when I joined to be honest,it's over 5 years I've been on here. My first nsa meet was from Pof about 10 years ago after my divorce. Couple of small relationships since then but mostly just nsa stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all a bit empty for me now,my desires are for something a little more involved.See I am a newbie how long have you been doing it ?
I can't remember exactly when I joined to be honest,it's over 5 years I've been on here. My first nsa meet was from Pof about 10 years ago after my divorce. Couple of small relationships since then but mostly just nsa stuff."
Interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose it was surreal the first time had an mfm and an fmf but that was years ago...
Tbh i only joined swingers sites for the sex anyway and i was always kinky, so finding likeminded men was a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow and I was worried no one would reply Thanks guys and girls I am still in the Honeymoon phase of all of this but it is nice to get the views of more experienced fabbers |
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A lot of people can just get the urge to fuck do it then go back to their normal life, Maybe its because I'm single but having some build up before and I don't mean just online, Chatting in between and afterwards makes the meet for me, Its not just sex but having some female company as well,
I suppose with couples going home or when the other person/people have left and discussing what they done is part of their whole experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id be more accomodating op
popout for a drink or tea/coffee at mine
or a hotelnear you save you travelling
plus i have a bedroom and a bed  "
You didnt read the OP's profile then?
Well, there's a thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im a reletive newbie i think its great i was chatting to someone yesterday who made a gtreat point im doing now what i couldnd do in my 20s as i was married sobiv been in party mode all year finding out what i like and dont like young lads do
Only it feels a little more grown up than pulling in a night club to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ? "
We are quite new..and only soft swing but yes....next day thinking “we really do that?” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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First meet we had, we ended up in a police van. Couple we were supposed to meet unlos and a random guy assaulted hubby...sadly hubby is ex prison officer so “ restrained assailent using minimum force “ and then we were given a free ride home ...laugh about it now .......... |
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"First meet we had, we ended up in a police van. Couple we were supposed to meet unlos and a random guy assaulted hubby...sadly hubby is ex prison officer so “ restrained assailent using minimum force “ and then we were given a free ride home ...laugh about it now .........."
Fuck me lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The whole aspect for me has to be a thrill.
It's more than just the simple act of of sex. It's the exchanges, anticipation, suggestion, the butterflies and doubt then the recollections making you want to retrace it all.
I think you learn what made you feel empty and avoid those mistakes.
I think maybe it's less empty when you enjoy the concept of revisiting friends and enjoy the notion of indulging in them as opposed to a faceless profile of pics that turned you on? |
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"It's all a bit empty for me now,my desires are for something a little more involved.See I am a newbie how long have you been doing it ?
I can't remember exactly when I joined to be honest,it's over 5 years I've been on here. My first nsa meet was from Pof about 10 years ago after my divorce. Couple of small relationships since then but mostly just nsa stuff.
Interesting"
You being sarky?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We joined fab a few years ago for a short time and ended up having sex on cam then having a sexy Skype call with another couple (kinkiest thing I've ever done!).
It went on all night and we only finished as the kids started getting up for school.
I had a right spring in my step doing the school run!! I was looking around at everyone with new eyes or something. I can't wait to feel the same surreal/floaty/bouncy/naughty feeling after actually meeting someone!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We joined fab a few years ago for a short time and ended up having sex on cam then having a sexy Skype call with another couple (kinkiest thing I've ever done!).
It went on all night and we only finished as the kids started getting up for school.
I had a right spring in my step doing the school run!! I was looking around at everyone with new eyes or something. I can't wait to feel the same surreal/floaty/bouncy/naughty feeling after actually meeting someone! "
You start looking at others thinking “bet they swing?” Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for posting your first topic Op!! Welcome aboard
I totally agree that swinging can be a surreal experience, especially if people haven't had a life that's had some similarities within it. Popping into a club, for a short respite, possibly getting into a hot session or so, then on with your more routing daily life, is all a little contrasting to the 9 to 5 job, gym, fitness and home-life that many of us have. Even the discussions on the forum are awe inspiring/mind-boggling a lot of the time, without even getting into when you may meet others. A few guys turn up to a home in a quiet residential street, perhaps similar to a work gang, doing some job or other but instead sorting out someone's needs on the quiet. "
Definately it’s like being a member of a secret club |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We joined fab a few years ago for a short time and ended up having sex on cam then having a sexy Skype call with another couple (kinkiest thing I've ever done!).
It went on all night and we only finished as the kids started getting up for school.
I had a right spring in my step doing the school run!! I was looking around at everyone with new eyes or something. I can't wait to feel the same surreal/floaty/bouncy/naughty feeling after actually meeting someone! "
it is awesome like no other high |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" The whole aspect for me has to be a thrill.
It's more than just the simple act of of sex. It's the exchanges, anticipation, suggestion, the butterflies and doubt then the recollections making you want to retrace it all.
I think you learn what made you feel empty and avoid those mistakes.
I think maybe it's less empty when you enjoy the concept of revisiting friends and enjoy the notion of indulging in them as opposed to a faceless profile of pics that turned you on? "
I totally agree it’s not just about sex it’s the planning of it too the anticipation is a huge turn on too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"First meet we had, we ended up in a police van. Couple we were supposed to meet unlos and a random guy assaulted hubby...sadly hubby is ex prison officer so “ restrained assailent using minimum force “ and then we were given a free ride home ...laugh about it now ..........
Fuck me lol x"
Shit |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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I love this thread.
It's very surreal, I'm walking and driving around towns dressed as a lady for usually some fantastic sex.
Nobody except the people I meet from here knows what I do. They all think I'm an average person, running his business, trying to be a good uncle.
If only they knew???? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love this thread.
It's very surreal, I'm walking and driving around towns dressed as a lady for usually some fantastic sex.
Nobody except the people I meet from here knows what I do. They all think I'm an average person, running his business, trying to be a good uncle.
If only they knew???? "
Love it thankyou xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was just thinking the same...there is a great review about a club that talks about an amazing orgy and a nice cup of tea! Only us British swingers would love that 
T xx "
Lol cucumber sandwich anyone ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We joined fab a few years ago for a short time and ended up having sex on cam then having a sexy Skype call with another couple (kinkiest thing I've ever done!).
It went on all night and we only finished as the kids started getting up for school.
I had a right spring in my step doing the school run!! I was looking around at everyone with new eyes or something. I can't wait to feel the same surreal/floaty/bouncy/naughty feeling after actually meeting someone!
You start looking at others thinking “bet they swing?” Lol "
Funnily enough, at that point there was a couple i recognised from my kids school on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It makes us dead proud of ourselves. The vanilla friends we have probably can't imagine we're still having sex, never mind in industrial quantity!
Keeps us young |
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"I was just thinking the same...there is a great review about a club that talks about an amazing orgy and a nice cup of tea! Only us British swingers would love that
T xx Lol cucumber sandwich anyone ? "
Exactly!! Soooo surreal
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You see that's not how I do swinging. I don't meet strangers. I tend to have a couple of socials before I fuck them and I like to get to know them. And I don't do fucking on the floor - rather not have carpet burns |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'll never forget meeting a hot couple. I was chatting to the female in the living room, drinking coffee. She was telling me about her life as a flight attendant as her husband was going down on her. We were chatting as if nothing were happening. When i left afterwards, i actually remember thinking that it was so surreal. I was relatively new to the site back then, but i still look back on that moment and laugh at the craziness of it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You know, I've never even thought about this until reading OP's post just now.
And now I am questioning myself about having fun in our 'randomly fucking strangers bubble' -if that makes sense- and then going back to reality.
It's quite a turn on how weird the whole 'oh my god, we fuck in strange people's houses and then fuck off' scenario is "
I drive past the house every morning on my way to work and smile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You see that's not how I do swinging. I don't meet strangers. I tend to have a couple of socials before I fuck them and I like to get to know them. And I don't do fucking on the floor - rather not have carpet burns "
Each to their own I am being honest about my first meet that’s not how all of them happen
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It makes us dead proud of ourselves. The vanilla friends we have probably can't imagine we're still having sex, never mind in industrial quantity!
Keeps us young "
Good for you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love adventures so this place amuses me.
If it got boring I'd leave and take up Morris Dancing.
i think that’s how you have to look at it as an adventure
Definitely.
And welcome to our crazy world x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"id be more accomodating op
popout for a drink or tea/coffee at mine
or a hotelnear you save you travelling
plus i have a bedroom and a bed
You didnt read the OP's profile then?
Well, there's a thing"
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over a year ago
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"The weirdest thing having a strange woman walk into your house, having a cup of tea then getting down to it. The awkward bit is chatting while you’re waiting for the kettle to boil! "
It shouldn't be awkward.
I would be rubbing your cock under your trousers while you make the tea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree, it's all very strange. A few weeks back I parked up at a well known supermarket before walking for a couple of minutes to an arranged meet - a nearby house in an ordinary residential area. I fucked a middle aged gentleman's wife in their lounge whilst he watched. An hour later I was back at the aforementioned supermarket picking up a few groceries for my return home... "
Yeah done that!!
I made every fantasy come true. Surreal sums it up perfectly. Great memories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes us dead proud of ourselves. The vanilla friends we have probably can't imagine we're still having sex, never mind in industrial quantity!
Keeps us young "
Industrial quantity! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks like I am the only one who fucks on living room floors I must be a total slut x
The carpet burns are a bitch though.No pain no gain x"
I think I just seek a little more comfort in my advancing years
Nothing wrong with enjoying yourself ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looks like I am the only one who fucks on living room floors I must be a total slut x
The carpet burns are a bitch though.No pain no gain x
I think I just seek a little more comfort in my advancing years
Nothing wrong with enjoying yourself !"
I I enjoyed it plenty several times in fact x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To begin with it is, then you either change your mindset or just use it for nsa"
There does seem to be a very different outlook of newer members to those who've been here a few years ? |
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over a year ago
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"Looks like I am the only one who fucks on living room floors I must be a total slut xi think a lot of us are past the shagging on carpets stage"
Ouch
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"Looks like I am the only one who fucks on living room floors I must be a total slut xi think a lot of us are past the shagging on carpets stageOuch "
sorry i didnt mean it to sound bitchy what i mean is i for one prefer somewhere more comfy plus if i got down i wouldnt get back up again
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Looks like I am the only one who fucks on living room floors I must be a total slut xi think a lot of us are past the shagging on carpets stageOuch sorry i didnt mean it to sound bitchy what i mean is i for one prefer somewhere more comfy plus if i got down i wouldnt get back up again"
No problem it was a spontaneous meet after Christmas drinks at work So was v horny and not that bothered about making it to the bedroom not ideal I admit x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the epitomy of NSA.
Many here are hoping for a little more.
Still, if that's what you like, revel in the moment. Won't be any shortage of blokes.
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Women Lol |
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"I think it's the epitomy of NSA.
Many here are hoping for a little more.
Still, if that's what you like, revel in the moment. Won't be any shortage of blokes.
Women Lol
Ah, they're a rarer find"
Not for me luckily enough x |
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"Agree, it's all very strange. A few weeks back I parked up at a well known supermarket before walking for a couple of minutes to an arranged meet - a nearby house in an ordinary residential area. I fucked a middle aged gentleman's wife in their lounge whilst he watched. An hour later I was back at the aforementioned supermarket picking up a few groceries for my return home... "
To us the walk round asda before or after is part of the adventure.
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"I think it's the epitomy of NSA.
Many here are hoping for a little more.
Still, if that's what you like, revel in the moment. Won't be any shortage of blokes.
Women Lol
Ah, they're a rarer findNot for me luckily enough x "
Ah, the unicorn stratagem |
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"I think it's the epitomy of NSA.
Many here are hoping for a little more.
Still, if that's what you like, revel in the moment. Won't be any shortage of blokes.
Women Lol
Ah, they're a rarer findNot for me luckily enough x "
Cool. |
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By *nestWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been in situations where I've stopped and though bloody hell!
For me though part of the turn on is that it's a bit out of the ordinary, I like that people who know me would be shocked if they knew. "
I always like the idea that people would be so shocked if they knew. Often causes a secret smile |
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"I think it's the epitomy of NSA.
Many here are hoping for a little more.
Still, if that's what you like, revel in the moment. Won't be any shortage of blokes.
Women Lol "
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By *nestWoman
over a year ago
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"The weirdest thing having a strange woman walk into your house, having a cup of tea then getting down to it. The awkward bit is chatting while you’re waiting for the kettle to boil! "
why are you having a cup of tea?
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"I have been in situations where I've stopped and though bloody hell!
For me though part of the turn on is that it's a bit out of the ordinary, I like that people who know me would be shocked if they knew. I always like the idea that people would be so shocked if they knew. Often causes a secret smile "
This is my biggest trill about swinging.....
I’m the most conservative quiet person you will ever meet..... but behind closed doors I’m the most kinky person in the world.....
This is why I don’t understand why people tell their vanilla friends and family that they’re swingers....
If everyone knows you’re a swinger, it takes the dirty little secret away..... |
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ? "
After our first meet, which was in a hotel, we just thought well that didn't feel at all unusual!!
We were most weirded out by the fact that we weren't weirded out, it just felt natural and normal!! Nothing has changed since.
The best thing is that the people we've met have all been normal friendly and interesting people with professional lives, which just goes to show there's nothing too unusual about any of this at all |
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over a year ago
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It never entered my head a year ago I would be doing this. I agree it seems mental at times but soooo exciting.
Will I be here 12 months down the line? Doubt it I'm here for a goid time not a long time |
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"The weirdest thing having a strange woman walk into your house, having a cup of tea then getting down to it. The awkward bit is chatting while you’re waiting for the kettle to boil! why are you having a cup of tea? "
Tea is essential. Before, during and after. The teabag should be even more drained than you are |
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I had a couple pop over to mine a few weeks ago but they got up and left because i spent too much time in the kitchen making tea and emptying the washing machine  .
That was an interesting evening. They weren't best pleased at all |
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"I had a couple pop over to mine a few weeks ago but they got up and left because i spent too much time in the kitchen making tea and emptying the washing machine .
That was an interesting evening. They weren't best pleased at all "
What you doing pissing about with washing for when you got a couple there? And you fellas always moaning about lack of meets |
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ? "
I still get this.
Sometimes I can be that out there i make myself laugh. Was actually talking about this to a gent earlier. About being sat in a club having a toastie.. drinking a cuppa.. while watching an orgy of sorts go on across from me. |
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"I had a couple pop over to mine a few weeks ago but they got up and left because i spent too much time in the kitchen making tea and emptying the washing machine .
That was an interesting evening. They weren't best pleased at all
What you doing pissing about with washing for when you got a couple there? And you fellas always moaning about lack of meets "
I was already emptying my washing machine when they arrived. Asked them to take a seat and will be with them in 5 mins while i make tea. They got the hump and left lol.
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"Please excuse me if this has been done before it’s my first thread posting so be nice . Does anybody ever get struck by how surreal meets and swinging in general is . Meeting strangers fucking on their living room floor them going home to your family ? I love it and have to pinch myself sometimes . I just wondered what others thoughts are on this ?
After our first meet, which was in a hotel, we just thought well that didn't feel at all unusual!!
We were most weirded out by the fact that we weren't weirded out, it just felt natural and normal!! Nothing has changed since.
The best thing is that the people we've met have all been normal friendly and interesting people with professional lives, which just goes to show there's nothing too unusual about any of this at all "
I know I think everyone else is weird x |
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We’ve got to the point where no matter what we do or try , it’s just no longer exciting or fun any more . Swinging was everything we hoped it would be , but alter seven years of doing everything that could be done , it’s come to a hiatus now .
We get way more excitement from vanilla type situations , and with each other now .
The surreal nature of the scene lasted about three months as I recall . |
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Still love it The feeling when you walk in one used to really get me was seeing a girl 10 yes younger her boyfriend used to sit playing Xbox while I tied her up and had fun the screams she made begging for more always left with a smile he used just wave see you next week |
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"Whilst this lifestyle can meet certain needs . In my opinion there’s an emptiness that stems from it
Yes it’s usually around the holidays......
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Exactly. Sounds soppy but there’s nothing better than sharing those experiences with someone that matters |
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"Whilst this lifestyle can meet certain needs . In my opinion there’s an emptiness that stems from it
Yes it’s usually around the holidays......I get what your saying but my life is far from empty I just like pussy simple as x
Exactly. Sounds soppy but there’s nothing better than sharing those experiences with someone that matters"
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"Whilst this lifestyle can meet certain needs . In my opinion there’s an emptiness that stems from it
Yes it’s usually around the holidays......I get what your saying but my life is far from empty I just like pussy simple as x
Exactly. Sounds soppy but there’s nothing better than sharing those experiences with someone that matters"
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"Whilst this lifestyle can meet certain needs . In my opinion there’s an emptiness that stems from it
Yes it’s usually around the holidays......I get what your saying but my life is far from empty I just like pussy simple as x
Exactly. Sounds soppy but there’s nothing better than sharing those experiences with someone that matters"
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"Whilst this lifestyle can meet certain needs . In my opinion there’s an emptiness that stems from it
Yes it’s usually around the holidays......I get what your saying but my life is far from empty I just like pussy simple as x
Exactly. Sounds soppy but there’s nothing better than sharing those experiences with someone that matters"
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"Whilst this lifestyle can meet certain needs . In my opinion there’s an emptiness that stems from it
Yes it’s usually around the holidays......
Exactly. Sounds soppy but there’s nothing better than sharing those experiences with someone that matters"
Totally agree. In some ways, the sex without the companionship is almost too cruel to contemplate.
Think I might go have a beer and stop thinking about it. |
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"We’ve got to the point where no matter what we do or try , it’s just no longer exciting or fun any more . Swinging was everything we hoped it would be , but alter seven years of doing everything that could be done , it’s come to a hiatus now .
We get way more excitement from vanilla type situations , and with each other now .
The surreal nature of the scene lasted about three months as I recall ."
I think I would be the same after seven years |
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"We’ve got to the point where no matter what we do or try , it’s just no longer exciting or fun any more . Swinging was everything we hoped it would be , but alter seven years of doing everything that could be done , it’s come to a hiatus now .
We get way more excitement from vanilla type situations , and with each other now .
The surreal nature of the scene lasted about three months as I recall .I think I would be the same after seven years "
dunno. I find new things to experience and I've been doing it 20 years |
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