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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When playing with other ladies do you tend to adopt a "role"?.
Like bi/gay guys tend to identify as top or bottom and often straight couples are sub/Dom.
Is it the same role as you would adopt with guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I take on any role really.
Having said that I can be very submissive but I've only ever wanted to submit to a man I've never felt that desire with a woman.
When I'm with a man I like him to take control but when I'm with a woman I like it to be on an equal level.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not usually. I’m fairly submissive by nature but with woman I tend to be more sensual it’s more mutual pleasure it’s a totally different experience to being with a guy or even a threesome. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Good question Op!
I don't know if straight couples are often sub/Dom - I think maybe one takes the lead a bit more without venturing into BDSM?
That aside and actually answering your op, ermm no, not really. I'm different things with different people - gender doesn't really play in to it so much. There's not a preconcieved notion as to how I'll be sexually with a woman because I'm fairly flexible. |
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I don’t really adopt roles in the bedroom. The difference though is that I’m really rather fussy when it comes to women. I tend to find that I’m much more passionate with a woman because of this, than I would be with a man.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good question Op!
I don't know if straight couples are often sub/Dom - I think maybe one takes the lead a bit more without venturing into BDSM?
That aside and actually answering your op, ermm no, not really. I'm different things with different people - gender doesn't really play in to it so much. There's not a preconcieved notion as to how I'll be sexually with a woman because I'm fairly flexible."
Yeah I wasn't sure quite how to phrase it. I wouldn't identify myself as sub or Dom when with a man but I do tend to lean towards a more feminine role.
I just noticed I hadn't ever seen a profile where a woman specified a role when with another woman yet I've seen loads identifying a certain way when straight or if it's a bi guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No i dont think i do...I'm more submissive with guys I like a bit of rough.
But with women it's softer and more sensual and we tend to just enjoy each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No i dont think i do...I'm more submissive with guys I like a bit of rough.
But with women it's softer and more sensual and we tend to just enjoy each other. "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've only done that in a 3sum and no one had a role, although, the wife/gf made the rules."
Oh if we ever have a threesome we let the lady make the rules so she's more comfy as there are two of us it can be daunting x |
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