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By *arc82 OP Man
over a year ago
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If I want to have a few hours of fun with a partner, I use Viagra. Yes I can go for an hour or two without it.......but longer than that and things get a little "strained"!!
If i mention at work that I use Viagra.....at always seems to invoke negative responses like.....
"What do you need that for?"
"Can't you get it up ?"
"Why don't you just get 'her' to sort it ?" (wtf?)
Always demeaning, negative stuff.
Is it really a slant on a guys performance and should I feel inadequate? It seems to me that it's almost better not to talk about it.
Thoughts?
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"If I want to have a few hours of fun with a partner, I use Viagra. Yes I can go for an hour or two without it.......but longer than that and things get a little "strained"!!
If i mention at work that I use Viagra.....at always seems to invoke negative responses like.....
"What do you need that for?"
"Can't you get it up ?"
"Why don't you just get 'her' to sort it ?" (wtf?)
Always demeaning, negative stuff.
Is it really a slant on a guys performance and should I feel inadequate? It seems to me that it's almost better not to talk about it.
Thoughts?
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If you're using it because you have to, fine.
If you're using it to stay hard longer, less fine.
To your question, if you don't want to be judged, don't give people anything to judge you on.
Why are you discussing your sex life with your work colleagues? None of their business is it?
Unless you were hoping telling them you lasted for ages would somehow enhance your reputation/status among your peers.
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"If I want to have a few hours of fun with a partner, I use Viagra. Yes I can go for an hour or two without it.......but longer than that and things get a little "strained"!!
If i mention at work that I use Viagra.....at always seems to invoke negative responses like.....
"What do you need that for?"
"Can't you get it up ?"
"Why don't you just get 'her' to sort it ?" (wtf?)
Always demeaning, negative stuff.
Is it really a slant on a guys performance and should I feel inadequate? It seems to me that it's almost better not to talk about it.
Thoughts?
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It wouldn't be as popular as it is, if many many guys weren't using it. Medically and recreationally.
I bought some of the Connect stuff over the counter, a few months back because I was on the Keto diet. As much as the diet was effective in shifting flab, it was also a massive boner killer. That was my reason for using it, you have your reasons, unless the guys at work are gonna join you in the bedroom to act as you personal fluffer, it's none of their business anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of workplace discussions sometimes remind me of being back in the playground at school, sometimes i wonder if anyone has grown up at all.....
Its alpha male syndrome a lot of the time, by the naysayers needing to be seen as top gun....ignore their infantile quips i say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do use it recreationally and this is why i am getting slated. I don't see it as being any different from using sex toys in the bedroom but this doesn't seem to be frowned upon. "
Possibly as sex toys aren't a medical aid for those who have issues with their erection? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do use it recreationally and this is why i am getting slated. I don't see it as being any different from using sex toys in the bedroom but this doesn't seem to be frowned upon. "
Women that use sex toys are sexy as fuck.
Men that use sex toys are dirty perverts.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Me too foxyminx  "
Thanks! Who the hell wants hours of being pounded away at? No thanks!
Bit of foreplay, (where hopefully I cum) then about 20 mins fucking, then I am bored.
A bit of a rest, a chat, another glass of wine then back again if wanted, if it takes longer than that you're doing it wrong
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You feel inadequate as you can only keep it going for 2 hours. Bloody hell, 2 hours with a constant erection is plenty enough for me!
Bollox to these all nighter fuck fests, I’d rather roll over and get some kip to be honest. 2 hours is flippin’ plenty!! 
And if you really do have a woman that demands hours and hours then use your hands, tongue and toys while your cock takes a break for a bit and re-engergises itself.
Any lass that demands that I keep going for 4, 5 or 6 hours of non-stop cock action can go fuck herself. Literally!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You feel inadequate as you can only keep it going for 2 hours. Bloody hell, 2 hours with a constant erection is plenty enough for me!
Bollox to these all nighter fuck fests, I’d rather roll over and get some kip to be honest. 2 hours is flippin’ plenty!!
And if you really do have a woman that demands hours and hours then use your hands, tongue and toys while your cock takes a break for a bit and re-engergises itself.
Any lass that demands that I keep going for 4, 5 or 6 hours of non-stop cock action can go fuck herself. Literally!!"
How many men can actually fuck for hours? Even young, very fit men get tired after a while; I doubt they can pound away for hours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me too foxyminx
Thanks! Who the hell wants hours of being pounded away at? No thanks!
Bit of foreplay, (where hopefully I cum) then about 20 mins fucking, then I am bored.
A bit of a rest, a chat, another glass of wine then back again if wanted, if it takes longer than that you're doing it wrong
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It goes to show a huge percentage of men are liars.
!/They can go for hours! Well thats B/S
2/It really is 10 inches! More B/S
3/Honest im single! Even more B/S
Take no notice OP to what other guys tell you. |
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