"Do women really like fighters?
As in kickboxers/boxers/mma.
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You've gone down the route of using the "I'm a fighter" to be your main selling feature.
You could easily remove that part if you don't think it's working like you assumed it would.
There's no one size fits all on fab and concentrating on that might come across that you're one dimensional.
Expand your profile and include things about yourself other than fighting so you don't limit your opportunities
Ps I can't get a meet so feel free to ignore the above advice
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"Do women really like fighters?
As in kickboxers/boxers/mma.
You've gone down the route of using the "I'm a fighter" to be your main selling feature.
You could easily remove that part if you don't think it's working like you assumed it would.
There's no one size fits all on fab and concentrating on that might come across that you're one dimensional.
Expand your profile and include things about yourself other than fighting so you don't limit your opportunities
Ps I can't get a meet so feel free to ignore the above advice
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It was just a question bud I'm not using it to get meets. Was just seeing people thoughts thanks for advice though |
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I'm no woman, but I'd find it more of a turn off than a turn on. Being quite "Handy" Myself, yet having the intelligence and restraint to not seek conflict, in sport or real life. It's not something that excites. Yes they're usually physically fit, but that doesnt mean good sex.
Most fighters I've met in life seem to lack genuine confidence and cover it up with a little arrogance masquerading as confidence.
Also they tend to like to brag about the fact they're fighters, which I also find a bit.. euuuww. |
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"I'm no woman, but I'd find it more of a turn off than a turn on. Being quite "Handy" Myself, yet having the intelligence and restraint to not seek conflict, in sport or real life. It's not something that excites. Yes they're usually physically fit, but that doesnt mean good sex.
Most fighters I've met in life seem to lack genuine confidence and cover it up with a little arrogance masquerading as confidence.
Also they tend to like to brag about the fact they're fighters, which I also find a bit.. euuuww. "
Bragging is not good at all I agree but being confident is different.
It's a fine line. I guess everyone different I'm all for being the best (in the ring) but Iv seen them sort of people you came across aswel. |
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"Yeah I'm getting some do but some don't but seems to be a lot of judging 
Doesn't make us mad like competition does it?
If you're having problems then why mention it?"
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Depends on the individuals surely? I know a few professionally and to be honest 2 out of 3 are quiet family men who are really really lovely people and to be honest you would never know they cage fight at a really high standard. |
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"Depends on the individuals surely? I know a few professionally and to be honest 2 out of 3 are quiet family men who are really really lovely people and to be honest you would never know they cage fight at a really high standard."
Yeah there real fighters. For me respect is a massive thing |
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"Noooo!
My dad was a bare knuckle boxer. I'm traumatised with memories of black eyes and wincing at tender ribs when we hugged him.
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Tender ribs has to be worst when being Touched has to be worst, had that few times |
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There is a massive difference between confidence and arrogance.
Usually it's the twats who think they can fight that has the arrogance whereas the people who CAN are quietly confident. |
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i wont meet people who like to tell the world what they are /do .. no need for me to know if your a fighter or a banker or a member of the armed force's /fireman/policeman i just want to know im meeting a half decent person into swinging not someone who need to use there job/uniform/sports to get laid |
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"Yeah I'm getting some do but some don't but seems to be a lot of judging
Doesn't make us mad like competition does it? "
Who’s judging? How does it manifest itself, via PM, on the forums or in real life? I can’t say I’ve seen any anti sports threads or comments on Fab but then I guess I haven’t been looking for or.
As others have said, some women will like it. Others won’t. Concentrate on those that do, ignore and don’t worry about those that don’t. It’ll make the whole Fab experience so much better for everyone. |
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"There is a massive difference between confidence and arrogance.
Usually it's the twats who think they can fight that has the arrogance whereas the people who CAN are quietly confident."
Very true that |
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"Do women really like fighters?
As in kickboxers/boxers/mma.
I do
But then, I fight too.
What do you do?
Used to kickbox, karate, MMA - I've represented GB at karate
Standard boxing these days "
Did it at a very good level then. Have to come for a work out or to a event sometime if you like |
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"I'm no woman, but I'd find it more of a turn off than a turn on. Being quite "Handy" Myself, yet having the intelligence and restraint to not seek conflict, in sport or real life. It's not something that excites. Yes they're usually physically fit, but that doesnt mean good sex.
Most fighters I've met in life seem to lack genuine confidence and cover it up with a little arrogance masquerading as confidence.
Also they tend to like to brag about the fact they're fighters, which I also find a bit.. euuuww.
Bragging is not good at all I agree but being confident is different.
It's a fine line. I guess everyone different I'm all for being the best (in the ring) but Iv seen them sort of people you came across aswel."
I think it's the "Being the best"(in, or out of ring) That gets on my nerves. You're right, not all fighters are arrogant, a few are just quietly confident. It's just many people confuse the two. Think they're being confident, when in actuality they come off as a complete tit. At all levels in the sports. |
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I'm partial to the body that generally goes with it and I do like confident, assertive men and this often goes with the territory. However, some guys in that world are unable to switch it off in variety of contexts and that's less of a turn on. |
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"I'm no woman, but I'd find it more of a turn off than a turn on. Being quite "Handy" Myself, yet having the intelligence and restraint to not seek conflict, in sport or real life. It's not something that excites. Yes they're usually physically fit, but that doesnt mean good sex.
Most fighters I've met in life seem to lack genuine confidence and cover it up with a little arrogance masquerading as confidence.
Also they tend to like to brag about the fact they're fighters, which I also find a bit.. euuuww.
Bragging is not good at all I agree but being confident is different.
It's a fine line. I guess everyone different I'm all for being the best (in the ring) but Iv seen them sort of people you came across aswel.
I think it's the "Being the best"(in, or out of ring) That gets on my nerves. You're right, not all fighters are arrogant, a few are just quietly confident. It's just many people confuse the two. Think they're being confident, when in actuality they come off as a complete tit. At all levels in the sports."
i think it depends on the discipline, i do traditional jiu jitsu and everyone i’ve met in this particular art have been anything but arrogant or cocky about their skill. |
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Depends.
In the ring and with the right temperament knowing a man can look after himself is one thing.
First time that man is out with a lady on his arm and is more interested in fighting some Knob head in a bar than worrying about his woman then I think things will change pretty quickly.
We've seen it and it usually leaves the lady traumatised and wondering what the he'll she has got herself involved with. |
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"Depends.
In the ring and with the right temperament knowing a man can look after himself is one thing.
First time that man is out with a lady on his arm and is more interested in fighting some Knob head in a bar than worrying about his woman then I think things will change pretty quickly.
We've seen it and it usually leaves the lady traumatised and wondering what the he'll she has got herself involved with."
That's just a knob head. Going out with your woman is to have a good night not a fight in street.
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Thats the trouble with the world today,full of knob heads who think they can fight and it's not just people who train for fighting, but knob heads in general. |
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"Depends.
In the ring and with the right temperament knowing a man can look after himself is one thing.
First time that man is out with a lady on his arm and is more interested in fighting some Knob head in a bar than worrying about his woman then I think things will change pretty quickly.
We've seen it and it usually leaves the lady traumatised and wondering what the he'll she has got herself involved with."
This the problem - the first is a good thing, the second is a numpty! |
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Yes! As an Irish girl I've been brought up in a family of boxers so I love a good fight. Was at the Warrington/Frampton fight 2 weeks ago. Bad craic..
Was also at my sister's wedding in Oct in Vegas, whose husband causally coincided it alongside the McGregor fight (failed to actually get tickets for that one!).
If you're asking whether we like fighters sexually or not, well that's an entirely different thing.. Are you hot? Are you fun? Are you interesting? Haha. Non-fighter rules still apply  |
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