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over a year ago
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ? "
Why have you suddenly decided?
I personally wouldn’t have one on public display but that’s me. If you’re happy then do it and good luck. Kitty xxx |
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ?
I wouldn’t ... ever ... but I’m glad you did ! Nice smile !"
Well thank you very much xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ?
I wouldn’t ... ever ... but I’m glad you did ! Nice smile !"
Isn’t it just  |
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ?
Why have you suddenly decided?
I personally wouldn’t have one on public display but that’s me. If you’re happy then do it and good luck. Kitty xxx"
That is what's put me off because of my job but most of the people I know know that im on here. So see how long I brave it lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ?
Why have you suddenly decided?
I personally wouldn’t have one on public display but that’s me. If you’re happy then do it and good luck. Kitty xxx
That is what's put me off because of my job but most of the people I know know that im on here. So see how long I brave it lol xx "
At the end of the day if they’ve seen you on here then what was they doing on fab?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would never do it , too much to lose but if you don’t mind people knowing that you’re on a swingers site why not , it sort of gives weirdos the upper hand too sometimes . |
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ?
Why have you suddenly decided?
I personally wouldn’t have one on public display but that’s me. If you’re happy then do it and good luck. Kitty xxx
That is what's put me off because of my job but most of the people I know know that im on here. So see how long I brave it lol xx
At the end of the day if they’ve seen you on here then what was they doing on fab? "
Haha very good way to look at it. Not ashamed of my chosen lifestyle so why not x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Last time we had public face pics every other message we received was me being spotted, it also lead to a stalker who seemingly knew our home address - so it's not something we do anymore, the personal safety of myself and our children is paramount. Unfortunately the minority do not understand that some things are socially unacceptable and ruin it for others. Until the stalking incident we had nothing to hide, werent ashamed of our choices, and it saved the faffing of sending face pics to people who then decide they weren't interested as they'd have already seen our face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ? "
I have mine public sometimes, but then again my postcode is 30 miles from where I live (usually).
You’re fit as fuck OP, can I ride you? |
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If you're OK with colleagues and family knowing you're on here then all good. I couldn't take that chance though. I don't mind sending one in return to one, particularly if it's someone we would want to meet, but couldn't have one public.
Lovely face OP 
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"Last time we had public face pics every other message we received was me being spotted, it also lead to a stalker who seemingly knew our home address - so it's not something we do anymore, the personal safety of myself and our children is paramount. Unfortunately the minority do not understand that some things are socially unacceptable and ruin it for others. Until the stalking incident we had nothing to hide, werent ashamed of our choices, and it saved the faffing of sending face pics to people who then decide they weren't interested as they'd have already seen our face."
I do hope that doesn't happen to me. Must have been horrible. Making me think otherwise now lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ? "
So glad you did  very nice shame you're so far away  |
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"Decided to brave putting a face pic up not sure for how long what's everyone thoughts on face pics being public ?
So glad you did very nice shame you're so far away "
Always did like a road trip xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think genuinely single guys have much to fear from being seen on here, unless it'd be a problem with their work.
And chances of catching interest probably increase by at least ten fold. Possibly much more with that particular face ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples i can understand.
Usually i think singles without face pics are doing the naughty.
But im suspicious by nature hahhahaaa.
Just kidding before i get stripped!!
Ive always had mine up but some people need discretion.
Ive met 2 women in the forces from here and totally get why they wouldn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples i can understand.
Usually i think singles without face pics are doing the naughty.
But im suspicious by nature hahhahaaa.
Just kidding before i get stripped!!
Ive always had mine up but some people need discretion.
Ive met 2 women in the forces from here and totally get why they wouldn't "
What's the difference? Couples want to be discreet but singles can't be or they're cheating?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have plenty, never really thought about why I wouldn’t to be honest"
same as this . Screw what other people think . If your single or a swinging couple, what's the problem.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples i can understand.
Usually i think singles without face pics are doing the naughty.
But im suspicious by nature hahhahaaa.
Just kidding before i get stripped!!
Ive always had mine up but some people need discretion.
Ive met 2 women in the forces from here and totally get why they wouldn't
What's the difference? Couples want to be discreet but singles can't be or they're cheating? "
I actually understand what he means. I'm far more likely to engage with someone who has face pics on display. I dont always think that someone is cheating if they don't display one, but i know its highly unlikely that they are cheating, if they do |
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"I'd never put a face pic up. Especially on the Irish fab side. Such a small ickle island someone is bound to know you.
Beautiful face OP. "
I can see what you would be a bit more secretive xx and thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't as meet a lot of people due to my job and also my family apart from one sister don't know I'm by.
But if someone is comfy with showing their face then fair play to them. |
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"I don't think genuinely single guys have much to fear from being seen on here, unless it'd be a problem with their work.
And chances of catching interest probably increase by at least ten fold. Possibly much more with that particular face !"
You just motivated me to un-hide mine.
I was getting tired of attaching to messages every time I sent one (not least because I keep forgetting) and honestly I'm fairly sure there's nobody here I know anyway and even if there was, I don't really care if they see me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're not bothered about people knowing you're on here, then why not?  "
That’s it though, it’s the implications of it all. It just takes a messed up few thinking they can use the knowledge of you being on a website (such as this) to their advantage. And you can read stories on here from people who have had to go through such things.
I’m in two minds about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just realised I was so taken in by the OP's handsomeness I didn't actually answer
I don't show my face pic because you never know who is looking. This part of my life is private and I'd like to keep it that way.
I do admire those who do show and agree it can often be a deciding factor in whether I reply or not. |
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"I just realised I was so taken in by the OP's handsomeness I didn't actually answer
I don't show my face pic because you never know who is looking. This part of my life is private and I'd like to keep it that way.
I do admire those who do show and agree it can often be a deciding factor in whether I reply or not. "
Making me blush dotty xx very nice pictures by the way xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just realised I was so taken in by the OP's handsomeness I didn't actually answer
I don't show my face pic because you never know who is looking. This part of my life is private and I'd like to keep it that way.
I do admire those who do show and agree it can often be a deciding factor in whether I reply or not.
Making me blush dotty xx very nice pictures by the way xx "
Thanks x |
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I like my mug. So I weighed up the potential conciquences of putting a face pick on. I don't sing what I do from the roof tops and wouldn't want it to be common knowledge to everyone I know but I'm not a shamed of it. Its doesn't bother me if someone I know sees me, we're all big boys and girls after all. |
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You go to the supermarket, you want to see what you're buying, it's as simple as that. What I don't get is when people are adamant that you have a face picture but they don't. A bit hypocritical if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are very handsome and braver than I am
Thank you very much loving your pictures too xx "
no wonder gentleman like me are single with Hunks like you mate lol am leaving for over 50s dates |
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By *abs..Woman
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"You go to the supermarket, you want to see what you're buying, it's as simple as that. What I don't get is when people are adamant that you have a face picture but they don't. A bit hypocritical if you ask me. "
It depends on whether they mean you have to have one on your profile or if they mean you should be willing to share one.
My preference is that people attach a photo to their first message and I will do the same. I don’t mind if they don’t have one on their profile. I don’t have one on mine and I never will. |
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