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Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
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I come online alot, I don't always check my inbox if I don't want to talk to people, even if we have spoken before... I don't have to reply in anyone elses time frame or even at all  |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
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I think this is a great idea. It's amazing how many men assume the woman is interested when clearly she's not.
Although she's on a sex site so she'll fuck anything. No wonder they get confused. |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
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Be grateful for the one in five.
Speaking with others she wants to, or hasn't logged off
Not interested in you enough to want to chat.
Nobody has to do, say or even look at you, move on...  |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
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One in five!? Who keep messaging after the 4th unanswered message!? (Or the 3rd, or the 2nd ... ?   ) |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
One in five!? Who keep messaging after the 4th unanswered message!? (Or the 3rd, or the 2nd ... ? )"
Plenty ... It gets stupid sometimes |
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Clearly one of the Adonis like people with a golden gun.
Fact we do not appeal to everyone.
Fact people have different requirements.
In my opinion reading a profile and not bothering when you clearly don't meet requirements may improve your hit rate.
If only more people of my age had a pulse.lol. |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
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The too busy to chat thing or not reading messages and being online is fair enough though. Whenever I come on here I tend to be reading the forums. I don’t even look at the inbox, I often get about 3 saying oi why aren’t you answering I can see you’re online but I haven’t seen them! |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
The too busy to chat thing or not reading messages and being online is fair enough though. Whenever I come on here I tend to be reading the forums. I don’t even look at the inbox, I often get about 3 saying oi why aren’t you answering I can see you’re online but I haven’t seen them!"
I can relate to that Nora. Also, you may not be in the mood to chat. I like to come on and read the forums but I don’t always want to chat so I don’t look at my messages. |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
The too busy to chat thing or not reading messages and being online is fair enough though. Whenever I come on here I tend to be reading the forums. I don’t even look at the inbox, I often get about 3 saying oi why aren’t you answering I can see you’re online but I haven’t seen them!
I can relate to that Nora. Also, you may not be in the mood to chat. I like to come on and read the forums but I don’t always want to chat so I don’t look at my messages."
Absolutely. Often I’ve had a really bad day (I have a child with special needs) and I just want to chill and read the forums but I just really can’t be bothered to chat. |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
The too busy to chat thing or not reading messages and being online is fair enough though. Whenever I come on here I tend to be reading the forums. I don’t even look at the inbox, I often get about 3 saying oi why aren’t you answering I can see you’re online but I haven’t seen them!
I can relate to that Nora. Also, you may not be in the mood to chat. I like to come on and read the forums but I don’t always want to chat so I don’t look at my messages.
Absolutely. Often I’ve had a really bad day (I have a child with special needs) and I just want to chill and read the forums but I just really can’t be bothered to chat. "
This!
If I'm online chances are I'm on the forums.
I quite often don't notice new messages have appeared.
And yes, I have to be in the mood to actually talk to someone.
The forums can be a giggle, a bit of light relief after a tough day. A conversation requires thought which I'm often really not up for at that moment.
To get repeat messages, a person getting the hump as they feel ignored, getting pushy.
Well, I don't want to meet people like that, so they've hit the self filter button |
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This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone |
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You try way too hard
One message is all that is needed to start with
Then:
1. No response = leave it alone
2. One word response = leave it alone
3. A response that addresses your message = build from there
4. If a message exchange starts and you go back 1. = leave it alone |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone"
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
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Course it could and what constant pandering to men? Where’s that info from. I’d say it was the opposite. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
Course it could and what constant pandering to men? Where’s that info from. I’d say it was the opposite. "
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone"
nobody panders to me i kick and scream then the offers of sex roll in |
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"This escalated!
Threads tend to do that..
Especially if the poster is talking BS"
Maybe the thread should be titled...
The lady found me boring and fecked off! Why am i boring? |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
Course it could and what constant pandering to men? Where’s that info from. I’d say it was the opposite. "
I've yet to see a male profile with a list of demands as long as your arm.
Single females and couples however....
The amount of hoops you're asked to jump through to be deemed "worthy" is often ridiculous.
At least performing seals get a fish. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
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I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them? |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyonenobody panders to me i kick and scream then the offers of sex roll in "
The only reason you do so well is because people just give in to shut you up!  |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
Course it could and what constant pandering to men? Where’s that info from. I’d say it was the opposite.
I've yet to see a male profile with a list of demands as long as your arm.
Single females and couples however....
The amount of hoops you're asked to jump through to be deemed "worthy" is often ridiculous.
At least performing seals get a fish. "
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?"
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyonenobody panders to me i kick and scream then the offers of sex roll in
The only reason you do so well is because people just give in to shut you up! "
and when that dont work? |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued. "
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education. |
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We all have lives outside of swinging. Sometimes real life takes over.
I never log out so it looks like I'm online 24/7. I understand that it does say you're offline after a certain period of time.
I can be chatting and one of the kids comes into the room so I go back to my homescreen, I get up to see to their needs and simply forget to answer some messages or go to bed or shower...
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education."
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum. "
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?"
I don't. Please feel free to green arrow me for confirmation.
So, pandering to men.....
Weren't you saying that men must pay for your travel costs, food and hotel before you'll consider meeting them?
This sounds much more like men pandering to overly demanding women to me. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
I don't. Please feel free to green arrow me for confirmation.
So, pandering to men.....
Weren't you saying that men must pay for your travel costs, food and hotel before you'll consider meeting them?
This sounds much more like men pandering to overly demanding women to me."
No. I didn't. And if you have a problem go talk to your fellow men. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education."
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you."
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all. "
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but. |
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"I come online alot, I don't always check my inbox if I don't want to talk to people, even if we have spoken before... I don't have to reply in anyone elses time frame or even at all "
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but."
in most cases its being polite but its ok girls stop fighting over me il be ok honest |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but."
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed. "
You seem unwilling to have a think about my words before commenting. Maybe leave it a bit. You don't need to reply there and then to everything. Maybe the answer will come to you later. Or maybe you were not meant to understand. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed.
You seem unwilling to have a think about my words before commenting. Maybe leave it a bit. You don't need to reply there and then to everything. Maybe the answer will come to you later. Or maybe you were not meant to understand. "
FAF? ok carry on |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed. "
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed.
You seem unwilling to have a think about my words before commenting. Maybe leave it a bit. You don't need to reply there and then to everything. Maybe the answer will come to you later. Or maybe you were not meant to understand. "
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over a year ago
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed.
You seem unwilling to have a think about my words before commenting. Maybe leave it a bit. You don't need to reply there and then to everything. Maybe the answer will come to you later. Or maybe you were not meant to understand.
Yes I think you’re right I’m wasting my time. "
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed. faf?"
I'm guessing forgive and forget , or funny as fuck. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed.
You seem unwilling to have a think about my words before commenting. Maybe leave it a bit. You don't need to reply there and then to everything. Maybe the answer will come to you later. Or maybe you were not meant to understand.
Yes I think you’re right I’m wasting my time.
And thats how you find out if your wasting time op "
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over a year ago
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed. faf?
I'm guessing forgive and forget , or funny as fuck."
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
I'm sure you have your own thread going about that or do you only think that when women speak up about how men treat them?
So who panders to men then? I’m sorry to keep commenting on your posts but so far nothing you have said on anything has made sense to me and I am genuinely intrigued.
If you're sorry then srop commenting. Simple. Unless you think I owe you something...like responses/education.
No. I won’t stop commenting. If you come out with something like you did yesterday with the r*pe comment or a comment like this then I’m afraid people are going to question it. Telling me to be quiet or don’t comment isn’t going to happen on a public forum.
Ok so keep asking and wasting your time. I really don't care what you do. And if you have an issue with an other thread go and report it. Or don't. How you waste your time is up to you but you can be assured that I won't waste your time and I will tell you now I'm not answerable to you.
There’s nothing to report. I was simply asking you to expand and justify your comment. Nobody is answerable to anyone but if someone comments and the comment doesn’t make sense or needs elaborating on I wouldn’t usually expect an adult to respond by saying be quiet or stop commenting that’s all.
So what does your apology mean? Sorry is sorry. Not followed by a but.
It was more that I seem to have commented on a lot of your posts but for no other reason than I haven’t really understood what you have said but you seem unwilling to elaborate any further on what you say. You’re right there I’m not sure why I put that. An apology wasn’t really needed. faf?
I'm guessing forgive and forget , or funny as fuck.
fancy a fuck baby "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This entire site is an exercise in futility for me as I am physically repulsive to literally everyone here.
The only reason I message women on here now is just because i'm a chancer and i've got nothing better to do. Plus I like to try and improve my messaging skills. As futile as that is at it really doesn't matter much what your message it. If you dont attract them physically, its a waste of time. If your goal is to get laid. Which is the point of fab. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
Course it could and what constant pandering to men? Where’s that info from. I’d say it was the opposite.
I've yet to see a male profile with a list of demands as long as your arm.
Single females and couples however....
The amount of hoops you're asked to jump through to be deemed "worthy" is often ridiculous.
At least performing seals get a fish. "
I’d warrant a guess that those “hoops” and “demands” as you call them only appeared on these profile’s after receiving so many fancy a fuck messages, or messages from guys that did not meet their requirements.
We hear it all the time on here about how women get inundated with messages, even posting a list of requirements doesn’t stop the fancy a fuck messages, so can we really blame them for setting hoops & demands?! |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
Course it could and what constant pandering to men? Where’s that info from. I’d say it was the opposite.
I've yet to see a male profile with a list of demands as long as your arm.
Single females and couples however....
The amount of hoops you're asked to jump through to be deemed "worthy" is often ridiculous.
At least performing seals get a fish. "
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
The too busy to chat thing or not reading messages and being online is fair enough though. Whenever I come on here I tend to be reading the forums. I don’t even look at the inbox, I often get about 3 saying oi why aren’t you answering I can see you’re online but I haven’t seen them!
I can relate to that Nora. Also, you may not be in the mood to chat. I like to come on and read the forums but I don’t always want to chat so I don’t look at my messages.
Absolutely. Often I’ve had a really bad day (I have a child with special needs) and I just want to chill and read the forums but I just really can’t be bothered to chat. "
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"This entire site is an exercise in futility for me as I am physically repulsive to literally everyone here.
The only reason I message women on here now is just because i'm a chancer and i've got nothing better to do. Plus I like to try and improve my messaging skills. As futile as that is at it really doesn't matter much what your message it. If you dont attract them physically, its a waste of time. If your goal is to get laid. Which is the point of fab. "
I try not to get into that mindset, but it's hard. I'd love to just once log into the site and find an unsolicited message from a single female interested in getting to know me but let's face it, the chances of that happening are slim to none. Saying that, I don't have a bad reply rate when I take the initiative to contact them, but I'm usually so paranoid about putting them off I forget how to be all sexy and seductive and end up just waffling :-/ |
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Two closed answers in a row and I am out, assume no interest.
Example of an open answer followed by closed answer.
Did you go to the shops?
open - I went and got food, what were you up to?
closed - yes.
Closed answer = you have no real reply to it other than to try start a new thread of discussion. I let people have 1 in case they are just tired, 2 and I am out. |
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"Two closed answers in a row and I am out, assume no interest.
Example of an open answer followed by closed answer.
Did you go to the shops?
open - I went and got food, what were you up to?
closed - yes.
Closed answer = you have no real reply to it other than to try start a new thread of discussion. I let people have 1 in case they are just tired, 2 and I am out."
TBH some people are crap at conversation though. Someone I'm chatting to at the moment was giving very closed answers but after 2 days of very minimal replies she's opened up loads but for a while I thought I was wasting my time. Turns out she's more shy than anything. |
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"This could all be easily solved if men didn't feel so entitled - to anything, basically.
This constant pandering to men to soothe their ego is not helping anyone
The same could be said for many female and couples to be fair.
Course it could and what constant pandering to men? Where’s that info from. I’d say it was the opposite.
I've yet to see a male profile with a list of demands as long as your arm.
Single females and couples however....
The amount of hoops you're asked to jump through to be deemed "worthy" is often ridiculous.
At least performing seals get a fish.
I’d warrant a guess that those “hoops” and “demands” as you call them only appeared on these profile’s after receiving so many fancy a fuck messages, or messages from guys that did not meet their requirements.
We hear it all the time on here about how women get inundated with messages, even posting a list of requirements doesn’t stop the fancy a fuck messages, so can we really blame them for setting hoops & demands?!"
That wasn't "quite" my point..... |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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If they don't reply to the message, or if you don't like the profile because you feel they are asking you to do too much to prove yourself genuine or whatever, just get to the next profile.
There's no need to whine about it, that's not sexy.
If they are not for you absolutely fantastic, time saved, move on to the next profile that does work for you.
No one is entitled to anything on here, not a reply, not a wink back if somebody winks, not a chat, and they should use the site anytime day or night without anybody feeling they have to reply or give anybody else any attention. nothing. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
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1.dont spam inboxes
2.just because it shows online doesn't mean they are on phone, tablet or computer. Lots don't log out. I don't.
3.it's a response what's the problem?! |
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I reply depending on if I am looking for something at the given time or if someone has taken the time to write something interesting, but even then I might not be looking and I’m just up for a chat. It’s very hard to reply to all messages and not replying is not a person intentionally being rude. Definitely read the profile firstcto see what the other person is looking for xx |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
"
This gits it on the head, oh my how dare I want to chat with someone else and not chat with the person who messages continually!! That I actually want one chat at a time, or I just. Want to browse the forums . What really puts me off is the guy who messages me with"are you alright is something wrong" just because I don't answer their message instantly . Men think they get it tough but really they need to be more. Patient and not think because we exchange a couple of messages we are now. In a relationship!!! |
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"By the way, people being upset that nobody wants to fuck them has absolutely fuck all to do with entitlement. Why this has sprouted up I don't know why."
Well it sort of does.
Having an issue with people on here not wanting to have sex with you, is entitlement. If you think that just because you are on a site like this, that you should get sex that is pretty much entitlement.
We have to understand that not everyone will be attracted to us and we will not be as successful as the next guy. |
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"By the way, people being upset that nobody wants to fuck them has absolutely fuck all to do with entitlement. Why this has sprouted up I don't know why.
Well it sort of does.
Having an issue with people on here not wanting to have sex with you, is entitlement. If you think that just because you are on a site like this, that you should get sex that is pretty much entitlement.
We have to understand that not everyone will be attracted to us and we will not be as successful as the next guy. "
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"By the way, people being upset that nobody wants to fuck them has absolutely fuck all to do with entitlement. Why this has sprouted up I don't know why.
Well it sort of does.
Having an issue with people on here not wanting to have sex with you, is entitlement. If you think that just because you are on a site like this, that you should get sex that is pretty much entitlement.
We have to understand that not everyone will be attracted to us and we will not be as successful as the next guy.
If you're blaming others its most likely just projecting your own insecurities."
Very true. If people on here blame others for their lack of success it definitely is projecting their own insecurities and they should probably look at themselves firstly. |
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"Understanding a lady has no interest.
I thought I would add this one as it may help newbies and prevent them chasing a lost cause.
I will start it off with
Sending messages that are answered one in five times.
Too busy to chat tonight,then the person stays online all night.
Never sending a question or message and only responding to yours and then (see the one in five above)
The too busy to chat thing or not reading messages and being online is fair enough though. Whenever I come on here I tend to be reading the forums. I don’t even look at the inbox, I often get about 3 saying oi why aren’t you answering I can see you’re online but I haven’t seen them!"
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