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over a year ago
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"Never came across that request in real life. I have seen it on the forums when someone is justifying bareback though. "
We read up it can be just as unsafe not using a condom for oral as sex, reason we ask. We would prefer not to but our health comes first |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been asked once in 20 years to use a condom for oral. So while there are those that do. I'd say they are in the minority.
I refused the gent that asked. "
Jessi would prefer not to for oral but after reading up that it’s just as easy to catch std’s through oral as it is sex it’s put us of and our health comes first before sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I read that it's possible to get knocked down and killed crossing the road so I will stay indoors in future. "
We get that and like we said we would prefer not to but being careful isn’t a bad thing either. Can still enjoy sex being careful. Especially random meets and knowing nothing about that person at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've tried giving a blowjob with a condom it's definitely not fun, ha!
I suppose there is a risk from anything you do such as kissing.
You can never be 100% safe. I read somewhere you can get warts even when using a condom.
But everyone has their boundaries |
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"I read that it's possible to get knocked down and killed crossing the road so I will stay indoors in future. "
Not using protection is more like jogging down the fast lane of a motorway to be fair. Having said that i have never used one for oral |
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"I read that it's possible to get knocked down and killed crossing the road so I will stay indoors in future.
Not using protection is more like jogging down the fast lane of a motorway to be fair. Having said that i have never used one for oral"
Not really. Plenty of people with no STI's, and plenty of non fatal STI's out there as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never came across that request in real life. I have seen it on the forums when someone is justifying bareback though.
We read up it can be just as unsafe not using a condom for oral as sex, reason we ask. We would prefer not to but our health comes first "
The risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection via oral is significantly lower than it is with penetrative sex.
That is not to say it cannot happen, however the risk is lower.
Just as much as the the risk of being seriously injured in a car accident is lower if you wear a seat belt. |
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"I've been asked once in 20 years to use a condom for oral. So while there are those that do. I'd say they are in the minority.
I refused the gent that asked.
Jessi would prefer not to for oral but after reading up that it’s just as easy to catch std’s through oral as it is sex it’s put us of and our health comes first before sex "
you are much less likely to catch anything from oral...
If you for arguments sake say I've had 3 guys orally bare for 22 years and never caught anything.. make of you will with that... I would rather go without than suck on a cock with a condom on..
I am very conscious about my health. And get checked every 6 to 12 weeks depending on how active I am.
But you do what is right for you though.... But it is not the same risk for oral as it is for unprotected sex... although some guys try to justify bare back with my by using that excuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there many others on here that insist on using protection for oral as well as full sex "
Never met anybody that does for oral. And to be honest if they did just wouldn't bother. |
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"I tried it once and it was horrible.
(I mean oral with condom not jogging down fast lane of motorway.) "
Haha i am glad to hear it about the motorway i mean hehe. Oral with a condom just sounds pointless to me. Each to their own though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read that it's possible to get knocked down and killed crossing the road so I will stay indoors in future.
Not using protection is more like jogging down the fast lane of a motorway to be fair. Having said that i have never used one for oral"
So you as a sane individual genuinely believe the risk of bareback sex even comes close to the equivalent of running down the motorway, which is of course 100% chance of death or serious injury.
Oh dear. |
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"I read that it's possible to get knocked down and killed crossing the road so I will stay indoors in future.
Not using protection is more like jogging down the fast lane of a motorway to be fair. Having said that i have never used one for oral
So you as a sane individual genuinely believe the risk of bareback sex even comes close to the equivalent of running down the motorway, which is of course 100% chance of death or serious injury.
Oh dear. "
"More like" were the words i used but to be fair it was supposed to an amusing comment and certainly not a direct comparison |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
As I've said elsewhere before the key to being involved in this lifestyle and sexual health is firstly educating yourself about the various STIs and how they are transmitted, then assessing the risks and deciding your own personal boundaries based on those risks, as well as your knowledge of any potential play partners.
Couple that with regular and responsible testing and you won't go far wrong, it won't of course guarantee you won't ever catch an STI, but it will help minimise risks and ensure that should you be unlucky enough to catch something that it can usually be dealt with easily and effectively.
Whilst it's true that swingers are considered a high risk group, it's also true that most serious swingers are responsible about their sexual health and get regularly checked, and are therefore probably less of a risk than picking someone up for a one night stand down the local nightclub on a d*unken night out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read that it's possible to get knocked down and killed crossing the road so I will stay indoors in future.
Not using protection is more like jogging down the fast lane of a motorway to be fair. Having said that i have never used one for oral
So you as a sane individual genuinely believe the risk of bareback sex even comes close to the equivalent of running down the motorway, which is of course 100% chance of death or serious injury.
Oh dear.
"More like" were the words i used but to be fair it was supposed to an amusing comment and certainly not a direct comparison"
Well statically it's more like travelling to work in your own car, that's a chance I take almost every day |
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"I read that it's possible to get knocked down and killed crossing the road so I will stay indoors in future.
Not using protection is more like jogging down the fast lane of a motorway to be fair. Having said that i have never used one for oral
So you as a sane individual genuinely believe the risk of bareback sex even comes close to the equivalent of running down the motorway, which is of course 100% chance of death or serious injury.
Oh dear.
"More like" were the words i used but to be fair it was supposed to an amusing comment and certainly not a direct comparison
Well statically it's more like travelling to work in your own car, that's a chance I take almost every day "
I walk which feels more dangerous most of the time to be fair. Cycled for a while too but that felt like playing russian rulette with all the chambers loaded |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I read that it's possible to get knocked down and killed crossing the road so I will stay indoors in future.
Not using protection is more like jogging down the fast lane of a motorway to be fair. Having said that i have never used one for oral"
Yes we agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never came across that request in real life. I have seen it on the forums when someone is justifying bareback though.
We read up it can be just as unsafe not using a condom for oral as sex, reason we ask. We would prefer not to but our health comes first
The risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection via oral is significantly lower than it is with penetrative sex.
That is not to say it cannot happen, however the risk is lower.
Just as much as the the risk of being seriously injured in a car accident is lower if you wear a seat belt. "
We fully agree |
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