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over a year ago
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Most won't meet single guys either or if you have a normal everyday body if you have a 6 pack and big dick and are good looking your in I'm fucked then ???????????????????????????????? |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice? "
Buy platform shoes or stand on tip toes or get the lady to stand in a whole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice?
Buy platform shoes or stand on tip toes or get the lady to stand in a whole."
Dude, look up the thread, these points have been covered. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice?
Buy platform shoes or stand on tip toes or get the lady to stand in a whole.
Dude, look up the thread, these points have been covered."
Had to be you, and I don't give a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will be an issue for some and not others. I'm not bothered about height at all, I've met people shorter than me.
Thanks, good to know not everyone discriminates "
Hardly discrimination! OMG what’s the matter with people tonight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will be an issue for some and not others. I'm not bothered about height at all, I've met people shorter than me.
Thanks, good to know not everyone discriminates
Hardly discrimination! OMG what’s the matter with people tonight. "
Full moon? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will be an issue for some and not others. I'm not bothered about height at all, I've met people shorter than me.
Thanks, good to know not everyone discriminates "
It’s not discrimination  |
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"Don't messsge people looking for tall men. 
If only it was that simple!
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I know right? Coming soon...
"I'm Asian and people write no Asians on their profiles, they never reply to me?!"
"I'm bi and people write no bi's on their profiles, they never reply to me?!"
"I'm white and people write no whites on their profiles, they never reply to me?!"
Insert tall, fat, male, straight,old and young as you will.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will be an issue for some and not others. I'm not bothered about height at all, I've met people shorter than me.
Thanks, good to know not everyone discriminates
Hardly discrimination! OMG what’s the matter with people tonight.
Full moon?"
Must be  . Either that or it’s me! Probably the latter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't messsge people looking for tall men. "
Every woman is looking for a tall man, ideally. They'll settle for us shortarses, but not in my experience. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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There is absolutely nothing that you can do about people's preferences and I'm fairly certain that you wouldn't want to either.
Preferences are what people are attracted to, I doubt that you'd want to have sex with someone that you're not attracted to, would you? |
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When it comes to swinging couples i find most are looking for a male similar or physically superior to the husband/male partner. After all you don't test drive a worse car than the one you already own do you? Stick to single women, they're less fussy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a deal breaker for me. I like a manly man who is the right height when I’m kneeling, I have to stand on tip toes for and who dominates me physically as well as mentally.
Plus I have a dwarf phobia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice?
Buy platform shoes or stand on tip toes or get the lady to stand in a whole.
Dude, look up the thread, these points have been covered.
Had to be you, and I don't give a fuck."
Think that was Harry Connick Jr, was ‘I don’t give a fuck’ the B side ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice? "
I prefer 5'11 and above as I am 5'11", but one of my regular meets is 5'10 so it's not an absolute deal breaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is a deal breaker for me. I like a manly man who is the right height when I’m kneeling, I have to stand on tip toes for and who dominates me physically as well as mentally.
Plus I have a dwarf phobia "
Nothing discriminatory about comments like this at all.
What an accepting place. 
May as well just split society in two, the ugly poor dwarves and the beautiful rich tall folks. Get a real social and genetic engineering going, fuck it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is a deal breaker for me. I like a manly man who is the right height when I’m kneeling, I have to stand on tip toes for and who dominates me physically as well as mentally.
Plus I have a dwarf phobia
Nothing discriminatory about comments like this at all.
What an accepting place.
May as well just split society in two, the ugly poor dwarves and the beautiful rich tall folks. Get a real social and genetic engineering going, fuck it."
Don’t leave out the North/South divide |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both shorties, so our opinion is just ours but we met a lovely guy with a regular lady friend for a foursome, he is good looking, great body, charming and lots of fun, however he is short and struggles on both here and on regular dating sites, how insecure must some women be to be worried about a mans height either for swinging or dating? The age old argument about preferences would be the reposte to this we guess, but rejecting someone purely on height when they could rock your world in play or something more seems very strange |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice? "
Change the area you're looking in. Change your postcode to a nearby town to widen your search. |
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"It will be an issue for some and not others. I'm not bothered about height at all, I've met people shorter than me.
Thanks, good to know not everyone discriminates
Hardly discrimination! OMG what’s the matter with people tonight. "
Well pardon me, for having a preference!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice? "
I wouldn't say it was most I very rarely come across profiles where there is a height restriction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm tall (used to be taller) and have never been heightest ... to judge a person by something they can't change isn't for me sorry "
I don’t think it’s judging though. This is totally my issue not theirs. I’m not comfortable being taller than a man. That’s my problem so i don’t see how it’s me judging them. I’d give anything to be a few inches shorter. I don’t like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm tall (used to be taller) and have never been heightest ... to judge a person by something they can't change isn't for me sorry
I don’t think it’s judging though. This is totally my issue not theirs. I’m not comfortable being taller than a man. That’s my problem so i don’t see how it’s me judging them. I’d give anything to be a few inches shorter. I don’t like it. "
Yes but then you would have to follow tall people around the supermarket! Lol. You could give me a couple of inches. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm tall (used to be taller) and have never been heightest ... to judge a person by something they can't change isn't for me sorry
I don’t think it’s judging though. This is totally my issue not theirs. I’m not comfortable being taller than a man. That’s my problem so i don’t see how it’s me judging them. I’d give anything to be a few inches shorter. I don’t like it.
Yes but then you would have to follow tall people around the supermarket! Lol. You could give me a couple of inches. "
That was a very silly thing to say. Because you’re now going to be inundated with people wanting to give you a couple of inches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm tall (used to be taller) and have never been heightest ... to judge a person by something they can't change isn't for me sorry
I don’t think it’s judging though. This is totally my issue not theirs. I’m not comfortable being taller than a man. That’s my problem so i don’t see how it’s me judging them. I’d give anything to be a few inches shorter. I don’t like it.
Yes but then you would have to follow tall people around the supermarket! Lol. You could give me a couple of inches.
That was a very silly thing to say. Because you’re now going to be inundated with people wanting to give you a couple of inches "
That is the story of my life I act first and think of the consequences later. I really didn't think that through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm tall (used to be taller) and have never been heightest ... to judge a person by something they can't change isn't for me sorry
I don’t think it’s judging though. This is totally my issue not theirs. I’m not comfortable being taller than a man. That’s my problem so i don’t see how it’s me judging them. I’d give anything to be a few inches shorter. I don’t like it.
Yes but then you would have to follow tall people around the supermarket! Lol. You could give me a couple of inches.
That was a very silly thing to say. Because you’re now going to be inundated with people wanting to give you a couple of inches
That is the story of my life I act first and think of the consequences later. I really didn't think that through. "
Haha I know someone else like that.
Hmmm yes. Me! |
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I'm 5.11 and men shorter than me doesn't feel right and a 69 is impossible because my face is looking at their knees. Just wrong. Also doggy means that you have to spread your knees wide enough to lower yourself to their cock height causing overstretching of the adductor and groin muscles resulting in pain.
For me, it's a preference, not discrimination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair who would want to fuck a umpa lumpa
In my experience quite a few!!
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There is a fetish for everything if you take the time to look 
Pro tip: don't look! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to but I’m just under 5’3 most guys are taller than me.
I’m thinking about meeting a guy but he’s 6’6 worried I’ll look stupid next to him!"
I’m 5ft6/7 ish. Met a 6ft7 guy and didn’t feel stupid. Also on the opposite end met a chap who was 5ft3 and didn’t feel silly either. It’s about confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to but I’m just under 5’3 most guys are taller than me.
I’m thinking about meeting a guy but he’s 6’6 worried I’ll look stupid next to him!
I’m 5ft6/7 ish. Met a 6ft7 guy and didn’t feel stupid. Also on the opposite end met a chap who was 5ft3 and didn’t feel silly either. It’s about confidence. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met and had sex with very tall women. they quite liked it that I was shorter as it showed that us small heighted men still have man so size Willy's!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to but I’m just under 5’3 most guys are taller than me.
I’m thinking about meeting a guy but he’s 6’6 worried I’ll look stupid next to him!
I’m 5ft6/7 ish. Met a 6ft7 guy and didn’t feel stupid. Also on the opposite end met a chap who was 5ft3 and didn’t feel silly either. It’s about confidence. "
Confidence? In what way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm tall (used to be taller) and have never been heightest ... to judge a person by something they can't change isn't for me sorry "
Have you not realised the hypocrisy of your reply?
You have an upper & lower age limit listed on your profile, so by that you are essentially judging a person for something they cannot change also, let’s call it ageist.
I’m not against anyone having a preference just pointing out the irony. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice? "
Most? Seriously. Weird, can't say it's something I've ever really noticed other than the odd tall woman not wanting to look or feel a bit silly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Damn you all for having preferences! It’s fab and you should just fuck everyone so it’s fair
Shorter then me is a turn-off. I wear heels too and wouldn’t be interested no matter what the guy looked like. It’s preference: taller then me is a turn-on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a highest, I only want to see ladies shorter than me and prefer that to include her heels too, love it when the go on tip toes for a kiss.
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Probably not too many ladies taller than you though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy last night, he's 5f9. When we met I expected him to be taller but then I forgot I had higher heel boots on
As long as a guy isn't smaller than me, I don't have an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice? "
Lie on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it the same lying down? "
Course it’s not. That comment really annoys me and not everyone on here wants to meet people just to lie down. Some enjoy the social side too believe it or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it the same lying down?
Course it’s not. That comment really annoys me and not everyone on here wants to meet people just to lie down. Some enjoy the social side too believe it or not. "
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"It will be an issue for some and not others. I'm not bothered about height at all, I've met people shorter than me.
Thanks, good to know not everyone discriminates
Hardly discrimination! OMG what’s the matter with people tonight. "
I agree it’s just someone’s personal choice
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is height a really big issue? I am noticing most female/Coulple profiles will not meet guys less than 6ft. Any advice? "
On how to cope with rejection? Nope, sorry. Not a counsellor. |
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"Don't messsge people looking for tall men.
Every woman is looking for a tall man, ideally. They'll settle for us shortarses, but not in my experience."
Every woman? You've spoken to them all? I'm short, so why would I necessarily be seeking someone really tall, it leads to neck ache. If I like a guy to talk to and find him attractive, then height is not a deciding factor.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like someone to be taller than me!....luckily with Mr Fabbish I can wear my heels and still reach up for the snog and also fit perfectly under his arm!! I just wouldn't feel comfortable being taller than the guy! I love the fact he can pick me up and I can wrap my legs around him!....I don't feel like I'm going to break his back!! Lol!
Clearly if you're in a couple and just meeting someone in a club or for an MMF then it's not such an issue!
We all have preferences for what we like and don't like.....it would be a boring old world if we all wanted the same!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like men to be taller than me which isn't difficult I'm 5ft 7 and I never wear heels.
I have met shorter men it's not set in stone - but I feel massive enough as it is so a bigger man is my preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like some men like short women, its a preference.
I like a tall man, with me being 5ft7 and even taller in heels, dont wanna feel like lurch next to him hahaha!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner is shorter than me by an inch or so but it would be a problem if he was only 5ft as I'm tall...always had a preference for taller guys but wouldn't rule it out. |
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Yeah its an issue, but its stupid.
the height difference between a guy and girl is supposed to ideally be 0-3 inches, and it shouldnt matter who is the taller.
Outside that range you are outside perfect kissing distance.
The main trouble is, UK women wear heels to make themselves taller, so they want someone 3 inches taller than they are in their 5 inch platforms, so the 5'5 girl wants 6'1.
Heels are not meant to make you taller, they are meant to make your legs look longer. When I lived in France/Italy it was common to see girls who were taller than their bfs in heels, but they liked it, as it made them feel sexy, not like a little shirmp on stilts, but a sexy woman with her man.
Different attitude in UK. |
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"Most won't meet single guys either or if you have a normal everyday body if you have a 6 pack and big dick and are good looking your in I'm fucked then ????????????????????????????????"
Or paradoxically... you're not |
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but he did wear lifts in his shoes!
