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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just wondering what people like. I had a woman last night who really wanted me to degrade her..

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By *rownboy30Man over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *rownboy30Man over a year ago

Birmingham

Just before she files a police report, timing here is key bud

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

On a first meet, not rough at all. That requires trust.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When they turn blue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Painful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When they stop breathing

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By *ew year funMan over a year ago

travel country wide.

I used to see a lovely lady, she liked it very rough, even snapped a leather collar she was wearing one day, she also liked to be restrained by the throat , we did have a safe code

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By *esires of HertsCouple over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Would be her word against yours...avoid any scenarios like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When there's blood, lots of blood.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

"Would be her word against yours...avoid any scenarios like that"

Absolutely great advice

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By *rownboy30Man over a year ago

Birmingham

I take my earlier comments back, new boundary seems to be before death, everything else you do is fare game and on the table for discussion or action

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Haha very mixed views

Light choking is for pussys.

If you’re going to do it do it right I say. I guess it’s not for the faint hearted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the police are called by the neighbors , she was too rough

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By *rownboy30Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"If the police are called by the neighbors , she was too rough

Not if they joined in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I take my earlier comments back, new boundary seems to be before death, everything else you do is fare game and on the table for discussion or action "

Your earlier comment was baffling, as is this one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you often turn blue?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you often turn blue?"
yes shes an avatar

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

If blood is visible with bruising a bit to rough

I don't mind a bit of man handling or ripping the panties off with a little "where do you want it you naughty girl"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love a bit of 'manhandling'

You'd know if it was too rough because I'd have knocked you sparko...

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not really into hurting girls more just throwing/carrying around holding down not a fan of going too heavy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you often turn blue?"

I said they not me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love a bit of 'manhandling'

You'd know if it was too rough because I'd have knocked you sparko...

Peach x"

Feisty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When the bubbles stop

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By *ade and VanessaCouple over a year ago

Central Scotland

Definitely depends on the person and trust level. First meet really shouldn't be and thything other than a good hard f*ck in my opinion.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love a bit of 'manhandling'

You'd know if it was too rough because I'd have knocked you sparko...

Peach x

Feisty

Like a 6 month old kitten...no, tiger I meant, yeah, tiger grrrr!

Peach x

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By *ade and VanessaCouple over a year ago

Central Scotland

*anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely depends on the person and trust level. First meet really shouldn't be and thything other than a good hard f*ck in my opinion.

V x"

this.

Each to their own but remember it’s always your word against hers. Keep yourself safe and save the ‘rough’ stuff for established Fab relationships that have trust.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I meant consensual rough sex. Just wondered how rough people get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And here I was thinking you were the sub in the situation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you communicate and work from 0 to 100 slowly then you will be fine. Hard dislikes and safewords are discussions. Build consent into the scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rough enough to need a safe word, but always controlled. On a first meet you’d need lots of conversation before to ensure you both are on the same page for ‘rough’.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love a bit of 'manhandling'

You'd know if it was too rough because I'd have knocked you sparko...

Peach x

Feisty

Like a 6 month old kitten...no, tiger I meant, yeah, tiger grrrr!

Peach x"

So the challenge is to get the tiger to purr like a kitten?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When they turn blue. "

Don't date smurfs - you should be ok

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By *rownboy30Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"I take my earlier comments back, new boundary seems to be before death, everything else you do is fare game and on the table for discussion or action

Your earlier comment was baffling, as is this one

Why baffled? He can degrade do what he feels within the boundaries of not killing each other, the earlier comment set the boundary to not being illegal I.e. not calling the cops.

Or is baffling a euphemism for something else?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When they tap out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When the bruises take around 3 weeks to heal! I had it once. Wasn't pretty, I hated it at the end. Never again!

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