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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Do you imagine they're someone else?

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you imagine they're someone else? "

Yeah, your mum

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure."

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t like bright lights. Lamps are fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Candlelight is wonderful

P

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. "

A lot of women are you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Candlelight is wonderful

P"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know."

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven't had sex with the lights off since I left my ex husband, 15 years ago... But yeah, would imagine he was someone else, sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe.. but I like to also like to throw in comments of... ‘kitty was naughty sucking that guys cock at the club’ or ‘I want to see you lick *girls name* pussy as I suck you’

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. "

Ok maybe insecure eas a bad word. Body conscious then.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you imagine they're someone else? "

I imagine I’m somewhere else....without the pile of washing in the corner of the room, or the death trap of shoes all over the floor.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So if a woman wants the lights off she’s insecure? Maybe she just wanted to fantasise about someone else

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. "

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"So if a woman wants the lights off she’s insecure? Maybe she just wanted to fantasise about someone else "

Yeah possible, they might think I'm really Freddie Flintoff

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out

The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity."

Limits your choice of women on here then probably

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably "

No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

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By *isty286Couple  over a year ago

Dorset

Nothing wrong with having the light off, it would attract too much attention if we left the interior light on all the time while parked in the corner of a local carpark, much more fun to use it as a signal that we enjoy being watched.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out

The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background. "

Ooo new thread ... which film would you have on in the background whilst you're having sex .. and why?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So if a woman wants the lights off she’s insecure? Maybe she just wanted to fantasise about someone else "

Or, maybe she likes how not being able to see heightens all her other senses and makes the sex more sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out

The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background.

Ooo new thread ... which film would you have on in the background whilst you're having sex .. and why?"

Chitty chitty bang bang

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out

The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background. "

I don't like the distraction of a television on in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid."

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't really like lights off.. or bright light.. somewhere in the middle is perfect so I can still clearly see the face..

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

No .. wouldn't want to imagine anyone else

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. "

Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

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By *rownboy30Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

Dimmed lighting, unless your kink is to film it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?"

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure. "

Yeah body conscious

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Candlelight is wonderful

P"

Plus one for candlelight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dimmed lighting, unless your kink is to film it "

Ah, then I’ll get the tripod lighting rig out. 4 daylight LED’s. And my shotgun mic.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

Yeah body conscious "

Yeah. I’m replying to Mr stubborn Blonde. Unfortunately I’m Ms stubborn blonde so we could be here all day

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Do you imagine they're someone else? "

That made me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun.

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By *ribsaMan  over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. "

WHAT that body looks stunning Nora

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By *helucifereffectMan  over a year ago

york


"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun."

I’m with you on this I like the darkness

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun.

I’m with you on this I like the darkness "

Not a bad band, Justin Hawkins voice range is amazing ... but they didn't really do much did they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun."

That is true. Like you're both blindfolded

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity.

WHAT that body looks stunning Nora "

I’m extremely good with camera angles

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun.

I’m with you on this I like the darkness

Not a bad band, Justin Hawkins voice range is amazing ... but they didn't really do much did they? "

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure. "

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"Candlelight is wonderful

P

Plus one for candlelight "

I love candlelight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out

The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background.

Ooo new thread ... which film would you have on in the background whilst you're having sex .. and why?"

I probably use the same three films, Drive, Lost Biys and Closer! Or it could even be the 80’s music channel!

Just enough for a little background noise against the sac slap and squelching and enough light to see the guys face.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.

"a rather gauche, insecure young man"

synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More

"

Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread.

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

insecure meaning

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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.

"a rather gauche, insecure young man"

synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More

Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. "

So just a touch of insecurity then.

You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham

Oy... Will you 2 stop taking over the thread!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like the sensual mysterious aspect of lights off, but also like lights on - am definitely not insecure and like to see my lover clearly too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oy... Will you 2 stop taking over the thread!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.

"a rather gauche, insecure young man"

synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More

Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.

You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks. "

Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

insecure meaning

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insecure

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adjective

1.

uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.

"a rather gauche, insecure young man"

synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More

Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.

You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.

Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you! "

That long .. you're restrained

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.

"a rather gauche, insecure young man"

synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More

Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.

You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.

Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you! "

Behave yourself, you would be putty in my hands.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.

"a rather gauche, insecure young man"

synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More

Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.

You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.

Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you! Behave yourself, you would be putty in my hands. "

It would certainly be a battle of wills

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The light keeps me awake.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

My ex wife insisted on having the lights off, it was accepted at the time but now I would hate to. I much prefer being able to see who I'm with and their face.

Sensory deprivation play is fine and fun, but every time? No, I want to see who I'm with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Soft lighting, broad daylight or in the dark...each have their attractions but the danger with lights out is wondering where the cum has gone......

Peach x

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know.

How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity.

Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out.

Lacking confidence is insecurity.

Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.

. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?

Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.

Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.

insecure meaning

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insecure

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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.

"a rather gauche, insecure young man"

synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More

Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.

You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.

Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you! Behave yourself, you would be putty in my hands.

It would certainly be a battle of wills

"

You would have to play your cards right. I'm not easy

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By *rx1Couple  over a year ago

Torridge area of Devon

What about wearing my blindfold does that count ? Saves him getting out of bed to turn the bloody light off...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The light keeps me awake. "

So can a slap on the ass

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What about wearing my blindfold does that count ? Saves him getting out of bed to turn the bloody light off... "

No blindfold? I suppose poking you in the eye works also?

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By *helucifereffectMan  over a year ago

york


"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun.

I’m with you on this I like the darkness

Not a bad band, Justin Hawkins voice range is amazing ... but they didn't really do much did they? "

Apparently he lives a life of tranquility in Sweden nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can't do it, especially if I've never met her before. I assume they're hiding something. While I am very sensual and enjoy touch with someone I know and care about, I'm also visual and couldn't get fully aroused if I haven't seen her naked before in good light. Too weird

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lights on make such interesting shadows

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure.

Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know."

And men too ...

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I prefer natural light. You get better pictures. A nice high floor room is perfect.

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"I prefer natural light. You get better pictures. A nice high floor room is perfect. "

If it’s dark though lights on unless it’s the just woke sleepy sex. Yum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dim lights ,candle light is better and no dont think of anyone else although who ever im with at the time properly has

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun."

I agree on occasion this can be very enjoyable. Usually though I would go for dim lighting or natural light.

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By *hrisUB3Man  over a year ago

Heathrow

I only turn the lights out when they are really ugly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like the lights off sometimes, feeling your way is hot. An accidental head bang, not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No im too lost in the moment usually

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By *ot-AshMan  over a year ago

London

I have disco lights in my cave and 1970's disco music!...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lights "On" or "Off" depends on circumstances.Generally lights on for more than the two of us. Lights off when just the two us.That we way we are not distracted by the disgusting filth we whisper to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you imagine they're someone else? "

Have you tried the dark-rooms in clubs? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark. "

I do too. You didn't see me because the light's off.

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark. "
Yeah, you prude

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By *ade and VanessaCouple  over a year ago

Central Scotland

Not a fan. Only happens when W gets in from work at 2am and can wake me up enough for a quickie

V x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark.

Yeah, you prude "

Mad isn’t it cos I actually like my body.

So is the general consensus that most man want the light on for sex. Main light not just light from the tv and a few candles?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wtf is wrong with my writing today!!

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark.

Yeah, you prude

Mad isn’t it cos I actually like my body.

So is the general consensus that most man want the light on for sex. Main light not just light from the tv and a few candles?

"

Men are just more visual in general. I want it lit up like the the Las Vegas strip.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I personally don't really care if the lights are on or off.

I'd like to try a completely dark room thoug - but want to see the people going in it first

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One of my bedside lamps has a red bulb. I’ve had that on in the past before!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Lights are good. I'm very visual I love seeing a womans body. I do like the anticipation that darkness can bring also. Win win really!

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By *helucifereffectMan  over a year ago

york


"One of my bedside lamps has a red bulb. I’ve had that on in the past before!"

Ooooh I do like red bulbs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t like inflicting my cum face on people so I wear a hood and the other person can choose whether the lights are on or off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally I prefer very soft lighting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lights are good. I'm very visual I love seeing a womans body. I do like the anticipation that darkness can bring also. Win win really! "

That

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Daylight or bedside lamp on, but not the ceiling light it's too bright!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Candlelight is wonderful

P"

This and some soft music. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a fantastic imagination I can imagine they are someone else if needed even with the light on

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Do you imagine they're someone else? "

Do they imagine YOU are someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a fantastic imagination I can imagine they are someone else if needed even with the light on "

Sorted so haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I imagine it's Miranda from Mass Effect 2.

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