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How far away is too far away
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a limit if 40 miles. That’s if they are travelling to us or us to them. We wouldn’t want people travelling massive distances as we don’t feel we are “all that” and strangely would feel under pressure to “perform” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s no one answer to this question, everyone will think differently for their own reasons. Personally I only have around 2-3 hours free to meet so don’t want to spend the majority of that driving so I’d say about a 15 minute drive, each way, is what I aim for. |
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By *palWoman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
There have been many posts on this subject and some have travelled hours and others not very far.As for me I mention that on my profile how far I will travel which is roughly no more than half an hour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive done up to a 450 mile round trip for a weekend of fun but its not ideal anymore ..
These days i would only consider up to a 50 mile radius but I'd rather not travel at all |
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"We've done a 300 mile round trip for a night of filth and debauchery so I guess the distance depends on how much you want what's waiting for you at the other end."
wow great profile. - we have the same approach... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that I rarely fancy people in the flesh means I would prefer people to not travel too far to meet me. Would feel like an absolute twat if someone travelled hours and hours only to have a hot beverage with me and not even a hand shandy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have a limit if 40 miles. That’s if they are travelling to us or us to them. We wouldn’t want people travelling massive distances as we don’t feel we are “all that” and strangely would feel under pressure to “perform” "
Ditto - it's reassuring to see someone else thinks as I do  |
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Must have been mad. Went 80+miles to meet for lunch after weeks of chatting. However, it became an overnight, followed by three further weekends, so was all worth it. The motor felt the strain, not the driver. |
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When we first met, he was regularly working all over the country so from Gr Mcr a night in Newcastle or a few days down London was not a problem. Nowadays we still travel extensively and always look for fun in whichever area we are heading to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on if planning a quickie or something longer for me.
I’ve done from Portsmouth to Lancasire for a weekend, but before now I’ve taken a 150 detour on a journey for a quickie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me? If they’re not within about 40 miles, they’re too far away. I don’t travel, so they would have too. And if they travel far, it puts a lot of pressure on me (I feel anyway). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me? If they’re not within about 40 miles, they’re too far away. I don’t travel, so they would have too. And if they travel far, it puts a lot of pressure on me (I feel anyway). "
Haha exactly what we said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once travelled 150 miles (each way) only for a no show and then to be told that, "they had to go to their mothers". Luckily I was going that way anyway so it wasnt too big of a deal, still annoying though.
I dont know how far I'd travel now though as no-one has wanted to meet since (or even then!). |
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"We've done a 300 mile round trip for a night of filth and debauchery so I guess the distance depends on how much you want what's waiting for you at the other end.
wow great profile. - we have the same approach..."
Your's ain't so bad either and after reading it it's not only the approach we seem to have similar views on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won’t personally travel out of my way for meets (kitty) so anyone who wants to meet as to come to us or if I’m in that area then I will meet there. I’d only travel far if it was someone I’d already met on several occasions. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I have chatted to some great sexy people on fab from all over the country. But many have been “too far away” to meet (there words not mine). How far away is too far away?"
1 hour max, nobody on here is worth travelling across the country for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ideally under an hour. Preferably 20 mins! But there are always exceptions. And you can share the travel to reduce distances. Always ways and means if you want to make things happen! |
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