I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
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over a year ago
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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
Am I in the wrong place?"
No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..
Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Not at all - it's possible to find that connection here - it's exactly what I look for - doesn't have to be an emotional one as such just as you say to "click" on some level.
I spend a lot of time messaging people and getting to know them before suggesting meeting and it's not failed me yet  |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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More of a connection/chemistry for us but we have been pleasantly surprised by meeting people in clubs & parties sometimes but I suppose it’s easier to connect in person over a few hours than chatting back & too on here, also found attraction in people in the flesh than what we probably wouldn’t have just looking & chatting on here |
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By *eah BabyCouple
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"No you're in exactly the right place. Loads of people say personality is more important than looks on here.
Personally I go on looks first but do neet to have some superficial connection"
I always go on attraction first, if no attraction it’s a no go but if they are hot but if they are a knob or no personality/connection then forget it and I wouldn’t have sex with them because they have a nice personality either, got to be both, it can be hard to get the personality of some on here though |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
Am I in the wrong place?
No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..
Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap."
Indeed |
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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
Am I in the wrong place?
No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..
Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap."
Id have thought the hard part was finding anyone to meet! |
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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
Am I in the wrong place?"
Definitely in the right place...
I won’t meet if there’s no connection, I won’t play if there’s no attraction... |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
Am I in the wrong place?
No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..
Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap.
Id have thought the hard part was finding anyone to meet!"
HaHa correct, it doesn’t come easy, we stopped looking ages ago just figured if someone contacted us and we were all attracted & connected then great if not hey ho |
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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
Am I in the wrong place?
No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..
Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap.
Id have thought the hard part was finding anyone to meet!"
No, not really. There are plenty of people to meet if you put in a little time & effort - the hard part is finding someone who's close enough, looking for the same thing, and with mutual attraction to want to make something more than just a one-off. Fab is also not the be all & end all of meeting other humans. At least not in my case  |
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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
Am I in the wrong place?"
Connection needs to be there |
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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.
Am I in the wrong place?"
In my opinion yes. |
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