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What would you do?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hypothetical your chatting to a guy. You haven't looked at the profile and his message catches your eye. After several messages back and fourth you eventually look at his profile. It's full of bareback pictures. All seem to be of the same female. Usually an instant turn off but you decide to ask him about them. Thinking maybe they are of a fuck buddy. He replies no these are of my wife. He has uploaded without her consent. He can't see any wrong in it.

What do you do?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

Ballsy .. but if that situation is not for you just walk away …

It's not for anyone to judge how he leads his life … or try to "resolve" it ..

Although, interesting how the "revenge porn" laws work in this respect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Block him

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

What is wrong with some people, and you know he's just one of so many posting pics without the others consent/knowledge.

Anyway.

Would cease contact if it's a single guy and no mention on his profile of his partner. I would also be expressing my disagreement with his posting of the pics. If I wasn't bothered by either I'd continue to chat but I am bothered so that would be that to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ballsy .. but if that situation is not for you just walk away …

It's not for anyone to judge how he leads his life … or try to "resolve" it ..

Although, interesting how the "revenge porn" laws work in this respect"

How do they work ?

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd reverse image the pics and see if I got any hits - surprising how often you do round here and discover the person is not who they suggest they are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd reverse image the pics and see if I got any hits - surprising how often you do round here and discover the person is not who they suggest they are

Also, I’d report them

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Ballsy .. but if that situation is not for you just walk away …

It's not for anyone to judge how he leads his life … or try to "resolve" it ..

Although, interesting how the "revenge porn" laws work in this respect

How do they work ?"

Supposedly posting intimate images of someone without their permission is now illegal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Private note then block, probably go UNLOS anyway when he leaves his phone lying about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hypothetical your chatting to a guy. You haven't looked at the profile and his message catches your eye. After several messages back and fourth you eventually look at his profile. It's full of bareback pictures. All seem to be of the same female. Usually an instant turn off but you decide to ask him about them. Thinking maybe they are of a fuck buddy. He replies no these are of my wife. He has uploaded without her consent. He can't see any wrong in it.

What do you do?"

I'd point out what a complete arsehole I thought he was before blocking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What do you do?

I'd point out what a complete arsehole I thought he was before blocking."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd reverse image the pics and see if I got any hits - surprising how often you do round here and discover the person is not who they suggest they are

Ooh, how does one do this please..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd reverse image the pics and see if I got any hits - surprising how often you do round here and discover the person is not who they suggest they are

Ooh, how does one do this please..? "

You keep your finger on there picture till it brings up a list. Then hit search goggle for this image.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd reverse image the pics and see if I got any hits - surprising how often you do round here and discover the person is not who they suggest they are

Ooh, how does one do this please..? "

Or save the image and put it into tineye

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I'd reverse image the pics and see if I got any hits - surprising how often you do round here and discover the person is not who they suggest they are

Ooh, how does one do this please..? "

Two ways - either using a Chrome browser press and hold on the message till a pop up appears - one of the options is "Search Google for this image" - the other is go to TinEye and upload the pic there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he was a she id not care in the slightest as il be rubbered up anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd ask his mrs if it was ok to fuck him.

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By *ust chilled out meMan over a year ago

Peterborough

What do you do?"

Do what feels right with you

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Haven't looked at the profile before answering a message.....

Bwahahahahahahahahaha.

Can i introduce a friend from Nigeria who has some perfectly legal millions he needs someone to look after........

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Haven't looked at the profile before answering a message.....

Bwahahahahahahahahaha.

Can i introduce a friend from Nigeria who has some perfectly legal millions he needs someone to look after........

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Haven't looked at the profile before answering a message.....

Bwahahahahahahahahaha.

Can i introduce a friend from Nigeria who has some perfectly legal millions he needs someone to look after........

I'm game

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this some new trend for women to be offended by bareback pics on single guys profiles?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd report via his message where he said he didn't have her consent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this some new trend for women to be offended by bareback pics on single guys profiles?

Did you actually read the OP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this some new trend for women to be offended by bareback pics on single guys profiles?

Did you actually read the OP?"

Usually a turn off......

I expect better from you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this some new trend for women to be offended by bareback pics on single guys profiles?

Did you actually read the OP?

Usually a turn off......

I expect better from you"

Expectation usually leads to disappointment, I find

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By *omvampmMan over a year ago

gillingham

"I'd reverse image the pics and see if I got any hits - surprising how often you do round here and discover the person is not who they suggest they are

Off subject how does one do a reverse search seen this mentioned before curious as I'm sure many on here arnt genuine maybe I'm just paranoid

On subject you shudnt post pics of someone without there permission I'd avoid and block as not respectful and next lot he puts up cud be u

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this some new trend for women to be offended by bareback pics on single guys profiles?

Did you actually read the OP?

Usually a turn off......

I expect better from you

Expectation usually leads to disappointment, I find"

Yes , but with your username.... I hold you to a higher standard...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this some new trend for women to be offended by bareback pics on single guys profiles?

Did you actually read the OP?

Usually a turn off......

I expect better from you

Expectation usually leads to disappointment, I find

Yes , but with your username.... I hold you to a higher standard..."

I don't purport to be clever, sweetie.

My username doesn't suggest I am

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'd report via his message where he said he didn't have her consent. "

Exactly what I'd do.

I have no issue with married men being on here either with or without the knowledge of their wife - it's none of my business what they choose to do. What I do have issues with is putting their wife's photo all over the internet without her knowledge and permission.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd report via his message where he said he didn't have her consent.

Exactly what I'd do.

Same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would remind him that without permission from his wife to use photos of her on here he is being disrespectful towards her, the woman he is supposed to love, cherish and respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd report via his message where he said he didn't have her consent.

Exactly what I'd do.

Same. "

Same for me also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd reverse image the pics and see if I got any hits - surprising how often you do round here and discover the person is not who they suggest they are

Ooh, how does one do this please..?

You keep your finger on there picture till it brings up a list. Then hit search goggle for this image.

This doesn't always work. Try tineye or certain sites you know they use. Word of mouth is excellent to.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

What do you do?"

Depends on your own morals and rules re sex with married men.

You can't alter his but you now know a little bit about his.

Ps I've learned something new as I thought women always read profiles first.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

What do you do?

Depends on your own morals and rules re sex with married men.

You can't alter his but you now know a little bit about his.

Ps I've learned something new as I thought women always read profiles first.

Damn straight I look at the profile first, if its full of action pics I'm hitting delete anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What do you do?

Depends on your own morals and rules re sex with married men.

You can't alter his but you now know a little bit about his.

Ps I've learned something new as I thought women always read profiles first.

Most women do...it's a hypothetical situation

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

What do you do?

Depends on your own morals and rules re sex with married men.

You can't alter his but you now know a little bit about his.

Ps I've learned something new as I thought women always read profiles first.

Most women do...it's a hypothetical situation

About a hypothetical profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What do you do?

Depends on your own morals and rules re sex with married men.

You can't alter his but you now know a little bit about his.

Ps I've learned something new as I thought women always read profiles first.

Damn straight I look at the profile first, if its full of action pics I'm hitting delete anyway."

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Is this some new trend for women to be offended by bareback pics on single guys profiles?"

No, it’s been the same since the dawn of time

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd tell him he was out of order uploading pics of her presumably without her consent but if I really liked him it wouldn't make much difference.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple over a year ago

Central Scotland

"I'd report via his message where he said he didn't have her consent.

Exactly what I'd do.

Same.

Same for me also

Adding another to this vote

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My ex did this, rather intimate videos and pictures ended up online of me, without my knowledge or consent. I discovered when browsing his search history, and googling his known pseudonyms.

It's hurtful, and it's degrading.

Especially the one site where comments had been enabled.

And while this went on, he was accusing me of having affairs, a controlling and a jealous man.

Get rid, delete and block. If he views and objectifies his wife like that, how will he view you.

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