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Guys, what signals do you give out if you fancy a girl?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, not quite swinger-ish and I probably sound pretty naive lol but how would you let a girl/woman know that you fancy them if being obvious isn't your style?
Reason I'm asking is that I bumped into an old neighbour of mine recently, who I always had the major (!!!) hots for, but not enough confidence to make a move. He's still as hot as hell and I would love to give him a go, but don't want to look a plonker if I'm totally off the mark. So how will I know if I should make a move or not?
Oh and as far as I know he's not into this lifestyle, and he kinda knows my other half so I have to get this right lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I start acting like a bumbling buffoon. Where even a action like walking through a door seems difficult.
I walk away thinking, somebody shoot me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, I start acting like a bumbling buffoon. Where even a action like walking through a door seems difficult.
I walk away thinking, somebody shoot me!!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Personally, I start acting like a bumbling buffoon. Where even a action like walking through a door seems difficult.
I walk away thinking, somebody shoot me!!"
Lol thing is I'm a bit like this too :-Z this guy is totally hot - tall, dark, handsome and a bod to die for, but he was always quite shy and quiet. wow am i hoping he's got a lovely big cock too 
I don't bump into him very often, yesterday was the first time I've seen him in about 18 months. so if i want to make a move I'll have to go to his place.......need a good excuse, and to make sure he won't turn me down lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what are his interests - usually good for a guys / girls ego if you ask for their advice / coaching etc
i'm a professional coach, it's all about listening!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just say it... It can be as simple as saying 'i want you to know, i think you are very attractive....'
I did it once and ended up with a hubby... divorced the guy though. lol! |
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Another tongue tied stumbler or alternatively have a good chat for ages and give no return signals myself and then afterwards realise I had missed all the signs.
Did once get the evil eye from the DJ, turns out was flirting too heavily with his GF, talked my way out, and had a good dance partner for rest of the evening, on condition that was it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another tongue tied stumbler or alternatively have a good chat for ages and give no return signals myself and then afterwards realise I had missed all the signs.
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The Boat That Rocked, classic line
Simon (I think) the smooth one who got all the ladies, was asked at the end how he pulled so many and he said something like 'Well I just say nothing, and when the silence is unbearable, say so how about it?' |
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