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Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )"
Site as in this site or sight as in love at first sight?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )"
Lust yes |
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Depends what type of person you are I guess. I’m used to being in the minority with my opinions and I’m not a swinger anyway but personally I think it’s better if there’s some feelings there. I had a FWB for 5 years and I don’t know how you could do that for so long without any feelings. I guess I loved him in my own way but I know I’m not here for a relationship so I suppose yes I could handle it. |
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"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )
Site as in this site or sight as in love at first sight? "
I know! Was hoping no one would notice. Sshhhh |
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"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
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Sight my dear, not site... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )
Site as in this site or sight as in love at first sight?
I know! Was hoping no one would notice. Sshhhh "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends what type of person you are I guess. I’m used to being in the minority with my opinions and I’m not a swinger anyway but personally I think it’s better if there’s some feelings there. I had a FWB for 5 years and I don’t know how you could do that for so long without any feelings. I guess I loved him in my own way but I know I’m not here for a relationship so I suppose yes I could handle it. "
no point develloping things to fwb status for me if there arnt at some level
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )
Sight my dear, not site..."
When I wrote it I was going to put love at first sight on this site. But changed my mind, but thought site instead of sight when I wrote site.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )
Sight my dear, not site...
When I wrote it I was going to put love at first sight on this site. But changed my mind, but thought site instead of sight when I wrote site. "
i is so confused  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?
(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )
Sight my dear, not site...
When I wrote it I was going to put love at first sight on this site. But changed my mind, but thought site instead of sight when I wrote site. i is so confused "
I was at the time too!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont particulary believe in love at first sight but I think it could be easy enough to fall in love on here. (Or whatever love is perceived to be). Why not, we're all people. Ps Im not looking to fall in love either |
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With a complete stranger I think it would be lust.
With someone here I think the getting to know each other part beforehand can allow feelings to develop and the first meeting can just feel right. It doesn't scare me, I'm single and love feels incredible. |
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"Depends what type of person you are I guess. I’m used to being in the minority with my opinions and I’m not a swinger anyway but personally I think it’s better if there’s some feelings there. I had a FWB for 5 years and I don’t know how you could do that for so long without any feelings. I guess I loved him in my own way but I know I’m not here for a relationship so I suppose yes I could handle it. "
I know exactly what type of person I am! The soft kind! Hence I’ve learned to navigate the site very carefully! Generally I deliberately choose to meet people that I’m unlikely to fall for - either because of age gap or geography! It usually works - but not always!
There’s no way I could have regular sex with someone for years without falling for them though - unless they simply weren’t relationship material (ie not right for me - not for others - if that makes sense?). Because I’m so soft I’d never be exclusive with anyone unless it were a real world relationship - as for me that would be asking to get hurt! |
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