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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" In the words of Billie Piper. Because we want to! | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" Have you read some of the verifications guys leave? I completely understand why some people don't want them displayed lol | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" I don't show mine, because I don't want to!! | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. " Does this seriously happen??? X | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X Have you read some of the verifications guys leave? I completely understand why some people don't want them displayed lol" Rude explocit stuff? | |||
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"Because some of them can influence who messages and what they ask for." This | |||
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"I’m only displaying social verifications... I found that if I display meet verifications as soon as I added a new one my profile became a honey pot for females checking me out! I didn’t much care for the unwanted attention ... especially after one contacted me to rant I’d stepped on her toes!! " This . Can’t be doing with the hassle. Besides it’s private | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. Does this seriously happen??? X" Someone saw a veri that I had left and asked me why he met me when she was so much better than me...I almost wet myself laughing She had answered her own question ... I was having fun, not comparing myself to anyone or any scenario whilst she was beating herself up about me meeting a man she wanted to meet ... I mean ... Really? | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X In the words of Billie Piper. Because we want to!" Hahahahaha - agreed- | |||
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"Some would hide verifications and numbers of , because of the types of people they meet with are the opposite of the way the profile reads " Some, but not all- not ashamed to hide who i have met on here, personailly i wouldnt lower my standards online to real life, but some of us like to display if asked... just a preference | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X In the words of Billie Piper. Because we want to!" I can't get this frickin song out of my head now | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. Does this seriously happen??? X" Yes and mine were all social apart from one which was a woman. Bloody ridiculous. One I’ve had since I wouldn’t show ever because I just know it will cause grief. Sad but true | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. " this, the subsequent woman stalkers, and I value my privacy | |||
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"Yes. I don't need to advertise who I've met. " Even my closest friends only know a couple of people I've met and I've been on here for seven years. I don't want to court unnecessary negative attention either - I much prefer just getting on with what I want and who I want without grief. | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" Yes Too many nosey fuckers. | |||
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"I hide mine because I find it a bit odd. I don't go around telling people who I've met or what I've done in the real world so I'm not sure why I would on here. " Exactly this | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. Does this seriously happen??? X" Yep it does sadly | |||
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"I admittedly do hide only because I only keep my latest veris fresh, a lot of my veris are from socials and meeting people in clubs. I would look like a total tart if I showed them all and my summery which couldn't be further from the truth as I meet for play infrequently and I do repeat meets when playing. " Haha I show my summary | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" Cause some of mine are cringy ‘knows what she wants’ ‘treat her with respect’ and all that jazz And a few are from when I went on the cams once. Got loads of veris - for sitting in my jammies one is from a man who sees me often in my town, but I have no idea who he is...he would verify me if he saw me | |||
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"I’m only displaying social verifications... I found that if I display meet verifications as soon as I added a new one my profile became a honey pot for females checking me out! I didn’t much care for the unwanted attention ... especially after one contacted me to rant I’d stepped on her toes!! This . Can’t be doing with the hassle. Besides it’s private " Exactly! | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. Does this seriously happen??? X Someone saw a veri that I had left and asked me why he met me when she was so much better than me...I almost wet myself laughing She had answered her own question ... I was having fun, not comparing myself to anyone or any scenario whilst she was beating herself up about me meeting a man she wanted to meet ... I mean ... Really? " I sometimes get messages from guys saying "why won't you meet me if you've met him?" Because he has been an utter delight from the first message, you sent me lazy or crude crap, and devaluing other people according to a scale only you know isn't going to work for you. | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. Does this seriously happen??? X Someone saw a veri that I had left and asked me why he met me when she was so much better than me...I almost wet myself laughing She had answered her own question ... I was having fun, not comparing myself to anyone or any scenario whilst she was beating herself up about me meeting a man she wanted to meet ... I mean ... Really? I sometimes get messages from guys saying "why won't you meet me if you've met him?" Because he has been an utter delight from the first message, you sent me lazy or crude crap, and devaluing other people according to a scale only you know isn't going to work for you. " I’ve had people message people in my verifications to get around my filters, to send them abuse, to ask for advice on how to meet me...annoying | |||
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"I don’t display mine, swingers are some jealous folk " I second this statement! | |||
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"I recently squared up to one female who contacted me with what appeared to be territory marking ... apparently she was just being over friendly but I did take the opportunity to make plain FAB etiquette regarding contacting ladies on a guys profile who she was keen on! I wasn’t the only one she contacted!! Jeeeez " Bloody hell thats definitely too far | |||
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"Someone recently asked how long I'd been on the site then broke down number of veris into 'months per meet'. Think it's hiding time! " | |||
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"If so, for what reason? X" Discretion. | |||
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"Someone recently asked how long I'd been on the site then broke down number of veris into 'months per meet'. Think it's hiding time! " Wow! That’s bloody scary! | |||
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"I also find that if I post a veri from someone who is populate then I suddenly get loads of views from guys wanting to meet that person, obviously trying to work out why me. I really can't be bothered with the drama" I don't think a few guys viewing you is drama is it?? It makes me giggle when I put up a new veri and all my past meets come have a good nose around lol! | |||
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"We display the nice ones that we feel accurately display who we are, but hide the more graphic ones that display what we have done, which means people we meet don't have too much expectation of night happen " whos we are u borg? | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. Does this seriously happen??? X" Yes I'm afraid it does. The old adage, we are what we eat. I've heard of others snooping the veri breadcrumb trail back and having a dig at someone. | |||
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"We display the nice ones that we feel accurately display who we are, but hide the more graphic ones that display what we have done, which means people we meet don't have too much expectation of night happen whos we are u borg? " We have a couples profile too | |||
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"I also find that if I post a veri from someone who is populate then I suddenly get loads of views from guys wanting to meet that person, obviously trying to work out why me. I really can't be bothered with the drama I don't think a few guys viewing you is drama is it?? It makes me giggle when I put up a new veri and all my past meets come have a good nose around lol! " No, it's not directly. I guess I'm just a private person on the whole and I dislike people having a nosey at me just because I met someone | |||
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"Also territory marking for some...god forbid you meet a guy on here and some other person takes offence that said person has chosen to meet someone else lol " We have come across that too (on our couples profile) | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" Because I can | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" If I've been to a social and collected say, ten veris, I'll show them one at a time over 20 days, for a couple of days each. A new veri increases my profile visibility in local updates. I'll also swap my veris around a bit for no reason other than my idle amusement. Non forum related ones tend to stay around for longer. Forum related ones tend to be hidden quicker, way too many drama llamas about for my liking. I've been known to keep the funny "in joke" ones on show for longer.... | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" I've got one verification, I've chosen not to display it, because I'm quite private. I don't want strangers having access to my sexual history. Took the time to explain to my veri that it's not personal and they understand. | |||
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"Also territory marking for some...god forbid you meet a guy on here and some other person takes offence that said person has chosen to meet someone else lol " Yes,a lot of territory marking. I'm a bit put off if there are a couple of dozen veris (plus all the ones who didnt) Often though there might be 5+ by the same guy. Why doesn't she say stop verifying me you fuckwit. | |||
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"I hid mine as there was a running theme that when they brought me cakes I'd never share and always hid them away." All I can think of is cake. Mmmmm | |||
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"I hide mine because I find it a bit odd. I don't go around telling people who I've met or what I've done in the real world so I'm not sure why I would on here. " Your profile made me chuckle... Great pics btw Eski | |||
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" Often though there might be 5+ by the same guy. Why doesn't she say stop verifying me you fuckwit." They don't have to show all his veris. Guessing they're choosing to display those five plus veris, might even really like the guy. | |||
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"Because everyone I've met is lovely. " True story. | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. " The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. " No it doesn't. | |||
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"Because everyone I've met is lovely. True story. " | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. No it doesn't. " Doesn't it? | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" I hide mine because posting them leads to everyone having a bitch fit and having a go at me... Using a casual site to be casual... how very dare I? | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. " Cannot easily be faked you say? Once anyone has one veri it's extremely easy to fake as many others as you want, and there's at least one profile on this very thread that I'm fairly confident that this is the case who has them hidden to help hide that fact. | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. Cannot easily be faked you say? Once anyone has one veri it's extremely easy to fake as many others as you want, and there's at least one profile on this very thread that I'm fairly confident that this is the case who has them hidden to help hide that fact." Scroll, scroll, scroll... Oh aye | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. Cannot easily be faked you say? Once anyone has one veri it's extremely easy to fake as many others as you want, and there's at least one profile on this very thread that I'm fairly confident that this is the case who has them hidden to help hide that fact. Scroll, scroll, scroll... Oh aye " | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. Cannot easily be faked you say? Once anyone has one veri it's extremely easy to fake as many others as you want, and there's at least one profile on this very thread that I'm fairly confident that this is the case who has them hidden to help hide that fact." Yeah and people verifying their other fake profiles, the ones they use to keep an eye on people who’ve blocked them or just cause trouble for people they have issues with or to troll people with. Numerous profiles so numerous veris if need be. | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. Cannot easily be faked you say? Once anyone has one veri it's extremely easy to fake as many others as you want, and there's at least one profile on this very thread that I'm fairly confident that this is the case who has them hidden to help hide that fact." Report it? I do appreciate it's more likely an issue for females rather than males | |||
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"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me. I’m not on here for drama. Does this seriously happen??? X" This has happened to me, one woman texted the guy constantly about it going over both our verifications, screen shotting them and constantly viewing me. I blocked her in the end, and every month she rejoins fab she blocks me back. I sometimes hide, sometimes show one's I want. I've had people get a bit obsessed with them in the past. I guess I don't really bother ask for them either anymore. | |||
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"Some people don’t show them because they are embarrassed about some of the people they have met..... Could be a straight guy meeting a tv... Could be a guy meeting a known bareback couple.... " Like the ones who say ‘I’m not gay but...’ and show as straight with verifications from men | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. Cannot easily be faked you say? Once anyone has one veri it's extremely easy to fake as many others as you want, and there's at least one profile on this very thread that I'm fairly confident that this is the case who has them hidden to help hide that fact. Report it? I do appreciate it's more likely an issue for females rather than males " Where it's obvious, reporting is the thing to do - however where veris are hidden it's obviously not so easy to prove or confirm - which is why I used "fairly confident" because other circumstantial evidence would suggest it's the case in this particular instance. The point is however that you cannot rely on veris alone to confirm someone is genuine - they can be easily faked - the *only* way to confirm someone is 100% genuine is to actually meet them yourself otherwise you can only go on gut instinct, getting to know them through messaging, seeing they have a range of veris from other users who themselves have a range of veris etc and other common sense actions. All too often the people that say they have been let down by a no show haven't done any real due diligence to be as sure as they can be that the person is who they say they are and even when they have it's still not totally foolproof. | |||
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"Some people are very judegemtal. I could be talking to someone for a week before they even view my profile. If someone looks up your verifications and sees you met someone who is, in their opinion, unnatractive, its enough to call it off. Pre-intrenet and outside of fab, that just doesn't happen. But again, I don't hide " I take the view that it would be doing me a favour not meeting someone like that. | |||
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"Some people are very judegemtal. I could be talking to someone for a week before they even view my profile. If someone looks up your verifications and sees you met someone who is, in their opinion, unnatractive, its enough to call it off. Pre-intrenet and outside of fab, that just doesn't happen. But again, I don't hide I take the view that it would be doing me a favour not meeting someone like that. " True. This is that last place for judgemental people lol | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. No it doesn't. Doesn't it? " Afraid not. There are absolutely no guarantees. That's why people are recommended not to rush into anything, establish rapport over time and do your due diligence. Even then, there's no guarantee. IMHO people are too keen to get their dick wet and their holes filled to do the homework. | |||
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"Some people are very judegemtal. I could be talking to someone for a week before they even view my profile. If someone looks up your verifications and sees you met someone who is, in their opinion, unnatractive, its enough to call it off. Pre-intrenet and outside of fab, that just doesn't happen. But again, I don't hide I take the view that it would be doing me a favour not meeting someone like that. True. This is that last place for judgemental people lol " Not really. Being on here doesn't automatically mean that someone is open minded about everything | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. No it doesn't. Doesn't it? Afraid not. There are absolutely no guarantees. That's why people are recommended not to rush into anything, establish rapport over time and do your due diligence. Even then, there's no guarantee. IMHO people are too keen to get their dick wet and their holes filled to do the homework. " First off, someone already answered in a less condescending way. Second, all I said it means, is that it indicates there not A dude in pants pretending to be something else, and that they meet. I.e. not A female been on 5 years and never meets, just collects penpals. I did not say it's a replacement for making a connection with a person. | |||
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"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked. It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. No it doesn't. Doesn't it? Afraid not. There are absolutely no guarantees. That's why people are recommended not to rush into anything, establish rapport over time and do your due diligence. Even then, there's no guarantee. IMHO people are too keen to get their dick wet and their holes filled to do the homework. First off, someone already answered in a less condescending way. Second, all I said it means, is that it indicates there not A dude in pants pretending to be something else, and that they meet. I.e. not A female been on 5 years and never meets, just collects penpals. I did not say it's a replacement for making a connection with a person. " You thought that was condescending? I'm off for a lay down...... | |||
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"Some people don’t show them because they are embarrassed about some of the people they have met..... Could be a straight guy meeting a tv... Could be a guy meeting a known bareback couple.... Like the ones who say ‘I’m not gay but...’ and show as straight with verifications from men " Only on Fab , only on Fab | |||
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"I display the MLS veris because I like them. I tend not to display anything else because it’s private. I have displayed on occasion but it encourages unwanted attention. People only know as much as I want to tell them and some things are just for me to know so it’s very much kept to myself. " Sorry babs I’ve told everyone about your girkin kink and how we made a smoothie with our bodily fluids afterwards | |||
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"I display the MLS veris because I like them. I tend not to display anything else because it’s private. I have displayed on occasion but it encourages unwanted attention. People only know as much as I want to tell them and some things are just for me to know so it’s very much kept to myself. Sorry babs I’ve told everyone about your girkin kink and how we made a smoothie with our bodily fluids afterwards " And I told them how you like to lick jelly from my bellybutton as I massage your buttocks with my feet What are we like? | |||
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"I display the MLS veris because I like them. I tend not to display anything else because it’s private. I have displayed on occasion but it encourages unwanted attention. People only know as much as I want to tell them and some things are just for me to know so it’s very much kept to myself. Sorry babs I’ve told everyone about your girkin kink and how we made a smoothie with our bodily fluids afterwards And I told them how you like to lick jelly from my bellybutton as I massage your buttocks with my feet What are we like? " Sticky | |||
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"I display the MLS veris because I like them. I tend not to display anything else because it’s private. I have displayed on occasion but it encourages unwanted attention. People only know as much as I want to tell them and some things are just for me to know so it’s very much kept to myself. Sorry babs I’ve told everyone about your girkin kink and how we made a smoothie with our bodily fluids afterwards And I told them how you like to lick jelly from my bellybutton as I massage your buttocks with my feet What are we like? Sticky " I think I may have a tingle | |||
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"I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them. I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P! " Yep. We're all out to get you | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" If someone give's me more than one Veri, I only show the latest. | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X If someone give's me more than one Veri, I only show the latest." Oh you're having a brownie point | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X If someone give's me more than one Veri, I only show the latest. Oh you're having a brownie point" Why thank you , I think | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X If someone give's me more than one Veri, I only show the latest. Oh you're having a brownie point Why thank you , I think " You're right to be cautious | |||
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"My veris at the moment are reverifications from when I was here before, if/when I get more I may display them but to be honest I don't think they do much except prove that I'm real and I turned up. Someone else's opinion of me shouldn't influence others and I don't like to be part of the 'verification trail game' which many people seem to play. " | |||
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"I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them. I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P! Yep. We're all out to get you " Daft isn't it. I've heard many a tale of the F side of a couple messaging another woman warning them off her husband. Mental cases...... | |||
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"I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them. I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P! Yep. We're all out to get you Daft isn't it. I've heard many a tale of the F side of a couple messaging another woman warning them off her husband. Mental cases......" | |||
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"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why 1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play 2. I’ve been on here 5 years and people judge , profiles only say ‘been here over a year’ not joined in 2013 and with all the social veris as well as a few play ones I get sick of the messages inferring that I’ve got too many veris cos they just sees number A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it " If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible. x | |||
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"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why 1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play 2. I’ve been on here 5 years and people judge , profiles only say ‘been here over a year’ not joined in 2013 and with all the social veris as well as a few play ones I get sick of the messages inferring that I’ve got too many veris cos they just sees number A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible. x " Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha | |||
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"Cause some of mine are cringy ‘knows what she wants’ ‘treat her with respect’ and all that jazz.." I think people should complain as much about cut and paste veris as they do about messages. | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X" Because they are quite old, they fill up space, they and I have moved on, some were extremely silly (although I’ve left a few daft ones in) and to give those sexy people some privacy - I’ve had people hassle the people in my veris along the lines of ‘you’ve had sex with him have sex with me’ and those useless men messages caused some minor issues.....that’s why. | |||
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"I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them. I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P! Yep. We're all out to get you Daft isn't it. I've heard many a tale of the F side of a couple messaging another woman warning them off her husband. Mental cases......" We have heard that from a female also, not had it as a couple, only people asking if we would recommend anyone, suppose we are not seen as a threat as we are a couple. You can’t be the jealous type on here, will only end in being hurt and does the guy know the female is warning off other females?? | |||
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"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why 1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play 2. I’ve been on here 5 years and people judge , profiles only say ‘been here over a year’ not joined in 2013 and with all the social veris as well as a few play ones I get sick of the messages inferring that I’ve got too many veris cos they just sees number A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible. x Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha " Agree that the amount of veris could be off putting to some, we don’t show single guys veris that we just spoke to at a club as we don’t meet single guys that often so don’t want guys thinking we meet all the time, exception to one though which was a five minute chat and kiss at a train station lol. If people had a quick mooch though them then they would see lots of ours are social meets and years old, if they can’t be bothered its their loss if they think we have played too much haha. If you go a club or party lots of people may veri you but you may have played with none...don’t judge a book springs to mind but each to their own | |||
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"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why 1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play 2. I’ve been on here 5 years and people judge , profiles only say ‘been here over a year’ not joined in 2013 and with all the social veris as well as a few play ones I get sick of the messages inferring that I’ve got too many veris cos they just sees number A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible. x Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha Agree that the amount of veris could be off putting to some, we don’t show single guys veris that we just spoke to at a club as we don’t meet single guys that often so don’t want guys thinking we meet all the time, exception to one though which was a five minute chat and kiss at a train station lol. If people had a quick mooch though them then they would see lots of ours are social meets and years old, if they can’t be bothered its their loss if they think we have played too much haha. If you go a club or party lots of people may veri you but you may have played with none...don’t judge a book springs to mind but each to their own " Yes I rarely read thro veris myself as most are over hyped bullshit. I like to see that someone is genuine from genuine meets that’s all Yes there are a few times I can be put off but that’s just personal reasons. You are right tho it’s hard to please everyone haha | |||
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"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why 1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play 2. I’ve been on here 5 years and people judge , profiles only say ‘been here over a year’ not joined in 2013 and with all the social veris as well as a few play ones I get sick of the messages inferring that I’ve got too many veris cos they just sees number A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible. x Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha Agree that the amount of veris could be off putting to some, we don’t show single guys veris that we just spoke to at a club as we don’t meet single guys that often so don’t want guys thinking we meet all the time, exception to one though which was a five minute chat and kiss at a train station lol. If people had a quick mooch though them then they would see lots of ours are social meets and years old, if they can’t be bothered its their loss if they think we have played too much haha. If you go a club or party lots of people may veri you but you may have played with none...don’t judge a book springs to mind but each to their own Yes I rarely read thro veris myself as most are over hyped bullshit. I like to see that someone is genuine from genuine meets that’s all Yes there are a few times I can be put off but that’s just personal reasons. You are right tho it’s hard to please everyone haha " I always look at veri’s if we are planning on meeting for fun, gives me an idea on the type of people they are and a bit of a clue what they like in a meet, we wouldn’t usually meet anyone who didn’t display any as some people’s profiles don’t give much away they can be vague, so veris work by giving you a little extra info...bit like hitting the ‘read more’ on trip advisor reviews lol | |||
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"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why 1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play 2. I’ve been on here 5 years and people judge , profiles only say ‘been here over a year’ not joined in 2013 and with all the social veris as well as a few play ones I get sick of the messages inferring that I’ve got too many veris cos they just sees number A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible. x Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha Agree that the amount of veris could be off putting to some, we don’t show single guys veris that we just spoke to at a club as we don’t meet single guys that often so don’t want guys thinking we meet all the time, exception to one though which was a five minute chat and kiss at a train station lol. If people had a quick mooch though them then they would see lots of ours are social meets and years old, if they can’t be bothered its their loss if they think we have played too much haha. If you go a club or party lots of people may veri you but you may have played with none...don’t judge a book springs to mind but each to their own Yes I rarely read thro veris myself as most are over hyped bullshit. I like to see that someone is genuine from genuine meets that’s all Yes there are a few times I can be put off but that’s just personal reasons. You are right tho it’s hard to please everyone haha I always look at veri’s if we are planning on meeting for fun, gives me an idea on the type of people they are and a bit of a clue what they like in a meet, we wouldn’t usually meet anyone who didn’t display any as some people’s profiles don’t give much away they can be vague, so veris work by giving you a little extra info...bit like hitting the ‘read more’ on trip advisor reviews lol " Haha and there’s a few times I wish I had ‘read more’ for sure | |||
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"I'd like to get a few more verifications this year. Would anyone like to give me one? " lol I see what you did there | |||
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"I'd like to get a few more verifications this year. Would anyone like to give me one? lol I see what you did there " | |||
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"I'd like to get a few more verifications this year. Would anyone like to give me one? " *waves..... | |||
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"I hide mine because I had met the same guy a female had and I don’t think she was happy But instead of messaging me herself she had got another guy to message me saying that said guy was a player etc trying to put me off meeting him Frankly it’s no ones business who anyone meets and no one owns anyone on this site We are ALL FREE to meet whoever we want " Absofuckinglutely lady! | |||
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"Only display ones from gentlemen I have gotten along with and would meet again.. I have some blokes who have veri'd meet just because they think it'll get my attention even though we've never met and that's pointless " Can you veri me babe x | |||
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"Only display ones from gentlemen I have gotten along with and would meet again.. I have some blokes who have veri'd meet just because they think it'll get my attention even though we've never met and that's pointless Can you veri me babe x" Only if it'll get you to notice me xoxox | |||
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"I don't display loyalty card points either...." Ha ha great use of term | |||
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"Only display ones from gentlemen I have gotten along with and would meet again.. I have some blokes who have veri'd meet just because they think it'll get my attention even though we've never met and that's pointless Can you veri me babe x Only if it'll get you to notice me xoxox" I always notice you | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X I hide mine because posting them leads to everyone having a bitch fit and having a go at me... Using a casual site to be casual... how very dare I? " In addition, I wish we could retract the ones we’ve given when they turn into a dick after you’ve left them one or blatantly asked for one but never left you one. | |||
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"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications? If so, for what reason? X I hide mine because posting them leads to everyone having a bitch fit and having a go at me... Using a casual site to be casual... how very dare I? In addition, I wish we could retract the ones we’ve given when they turn into a dick after you’ve left them one or blatantly asked for one but never left you one. " You can just block them, the veri will text will disappear off their profile. | |||
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