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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

How soon is to soon when replying to messages without seeming needy..?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

4 score and twenty years

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I reply when I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just reply if they have messaged you first then what does it matter and playing games is the worse

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"Just reply if they have messaged you first then what does it matter and playing games is the worse "

Exactly what I was just about to say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just reply if they have messaged you first then what does it matter and playing games is the worse

Exactly what I was just about to say! "

Sorry, was never my intention to ask for tips on how to play games, point taken.

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"Just reply if they have messaged you first then what does it matter and playing games is the worse

Exactly what I was just about to say!

Sorry, was never my intention to ask for tips on how to play games, point taken. "

It can come across as game playing if you have to debate when is best to reply to a message. Just reply. It’s not needy it’s polite surely?

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

If I don’t reply straight away I’ll probably forget.

If someone replies instantly to me then I’m impressed with their admin - I don’t see it as needy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends how many iv got to go thru

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think you're putting way too much thought into it. I know I for one don't send messages then time how long it takes them to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I have time. If I’m on here chatting with someone then it’s literally back and forth, other times it can be hours before I respond if I’m busy in the real world

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just reply if they have messaged you first then what does it matter and playing games is the worse

Exactly what I was just about to say!

Sorry, was never my intention to ask for tips on how to play games, point taken.

It can come across as game playing if you have to debate when is best to reply to a message. Just reply. It’s not needy it’s polite surely? "

As I said point taken,my bad...

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I find it more needy when the sender sends another message before I've replied to the first one.

I answer when I want btw.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I usually reply when I see the message or when I've thought of something witty to say, so not very fast...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I reply as soon as I see it. Or I don't, if I'm tired and can't string a sentence together.

That might piss some people off, but it's better than one word replies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I try and answer when I get it. If I cant I will usually forget about it when I return. I do tend to wait for the received 'just this minute' message to flip to 1 minute so I dont appear as ìf Im sat there tongue out waiting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Answer as soon as you can. Don’t play games.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I don’t reply straight away I’ll probably forget.

If someone replies instantly to me then I’m impressed with their admin - I don’t see it as needy. "

This

A friend messaged me on WhatsApp this morning and I read it just as I was going out and forgot to reply until this afternoon. I forget too easily!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I'm online I reply when I see it. Isn't that as near to how chat works in the real world.

If I'm not then I reply when I come back online. It's seems like the polite thing to do.

But then my inbox is rarely overflowing....

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