requests from people to meet who don't state on their profile that they are looking for a TV/TS? I do receive quite a few such offers (I got another this evening which prompted this post) but always reply by saying "thanks, but no thanks" stating my reasons. Am I interpreting people's profiles too literally? Or should those who are looking to meet a TV/TS clearly express this as a profile preference to be considered as a prospective meet? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"requests from people to meet who don't state on their profile that they are looking for a TV/TS? I do receive quite a few such offers (I got another this evening which prompted this post) but always reply by saying "thanks, but no thanks" stating my reasons. Am I interpreting people's profiles too literally? Or should those who are looking to meet a TV/TS clearly express this as a profile preference to be considered as a prospective meet?"
No, I think you're right to do that. In the same way I won't meet a guy messaging me with straight on his profile, if you're bi, then state it. I'm not going to be a dirty secret |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
I think you should give them a chance, after all lots of people have not looking for single men on their profile and a raft of verifications from single men. Maybe they just want to message the individual profiles that interest them. I think you'd be able to gauge in the getting to know them process if they'd consider you a dirty secret or not. |
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You have every right to say no, but people do experiment and when they originally set up their Profile it may not have interested them, but due to experience or a change of heart they may decide to try something different.
Chat maybe and find out why they’re messaging you first maybe  |
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You can say no to whoever you choose but as others have said, it might not be to keep the you/activity secret. They might be curious, they might be a dick. Never know unless you respond. I'd judge on the message and the profile blurb and pics, not the profile preferences.
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"You have every right to say no, but people do experiment and when they originally set up their Profile it may not have interested them, but due to experience or a change of heart they may decide to try something different.
Chat maybe and find out why they’re messaging you first maybe "
Also as others have said, they may prefer to do the searching. Just because it doesn't say they're looking for tv's doesn't mean they're not. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I also get this quite a bit. If I like the look I'll reply. The conversation tends to die though.
But I have met a couple of these guys and had some good times, so I believe they weren't being quite honest. |
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I wouldnt see what the big deal was. To me its just like someone not having their face on their profile, i dont lose sleep worrying about what they are hiding.
Its worse when they have something like "no married, singles only", and their veris are a bunch of married men etc. |
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