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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I won't meet one half of swinger couples. I'll only meet them if their partner is unaware.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I won’t meet with anyone cheating on their partners.

I did years ago and got very burnt by it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You mean aware ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I won't meet one half of swinger couples. I'll only meet them if their partner is unaware. "

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By *inkerbell67Woman over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Dosent bother me ,everybody is on here for the Same reason and it's not to drink tea lol

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

"So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on? "

To be fair we usually say thanks but no thanks if they’re honest enough to actually say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I won't meet one half of swinger couples. I'll only meet them if their partner is unaware.

I think she means aware x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It works both ways, I’ve met a married woman and I’m absolutely fine with it provided it’s known beforehand.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

We wouldn't play with them knowingly.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I won't meet one half of swinger couples. I'll only meet them if their partner is unaware.

I think she means aware x"

I think she means "there" as she won't meet one half.

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Does it count if your separated and waiting for the divorce to go through if so I may as well say by now lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ignore me I read it wrong again. Pass me more wine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it count if your separated and waiting for the divorce to go through if so I may as well say by now lol "

That’s different as you are not together anymore x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ignore me I read it wrong again. Pass me more wine

More wine for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It’s interesting to see what’s said I guess if the other party is ok with and can both keep secrets why not I no it’s wrong but people have needs and might like the thrill of getting caught I dunno ?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. Let me tell you you it’s absolute hell. Something I don’t think I will ever get over.

I’d never knowingly meet with anyone attached when their partner doesn’t know. It’s the absolute lowest of the low.

It’s ok turning a blind eye for your own personal gain, until one day it happens to you. It’s not acceptable on any level.

These things always come out. People always get hurt. Honesty is always best.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is always a mixed opinions thread. As long as everyone’s upfront at the beginning then people can make their choices.

In answer to the question. Yes I would

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"It’s interesting to see what’s said I guess if the other party is ok with and can both keep secrets why not I no it’s wrong but people have needs and might like the thrill of getting caught I dunno ????? "

If there doing it behind someones back then surely that relationship is already over so in my view they should end it first as I said just my view

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By *ribsaMan over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

"I’ve been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. Let me tell you you it’s absolute hell. Something I don’t think I will ever get over.

I’d never knowingly meet with anyone attached when their partner doesn’t know. It’s the absolute lowest of the low.

It’s ok turning a blind eye for your own personal gain, until one day it happens to you. It’s not acceptable on any level.

These things always come out. People always get hurt. Honesty is always best.

Agree totally having been on receiving end of a cheating wife.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I won't meet one half of swinger couples. I'll only meet them if their partner is unaware. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there doing it behind someones back then surely that relationship is already over so in my view they should end it first as I said just my view "

Sadly most don’t, they don’t want to hurt the wife and kids so think it’s ok to have his cake and eat it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. Let me tell you you it’s absolute hell. Something I don’t think I will ever get over.

I’d never knowingly meet with anyone attached when their partner doesn’t know. It’s the absolute lowest of the low.

It’s ok turning a blind eye for your own personal gain, until one day it happens to you. It’s not acceptable on any level.

These things always come out. People always get hurt. Honesty is always best.

Agree totally having been on receiving end of a cheating wife."

I feel your pain xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You mean aware ?"

Me? No I mean unaware.

I won't meet one half of swinger couples.

I will only meet people where their partner is unaware- 'cheating'.

My sex life is private and I don't want them sharing details with their partner. Unless we're all there meeting together as it's a shared experience.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

perfectly happy as long as i know upfront

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have unwittingly met married men because most of the marrieds who are cheating have single profiles. When you question about cannot accommodate they use several plausible reasons, but after chatting for some time it inevitably comes out.

And. Liars have to have a good memory don't they...

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

If there doing it behind someones back then surely that relationship is already over so in my view they should end it first as I said just my view

Sadly most don’t, they don’t want to hurt the wife and kids so think it’s ok to have his cake and eat it.

I get that but surely its going to hurt the other party more when they do find out rather than just being honest in the first place and talking things through think it's a matter of growing some balls so to speak sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dosent bother me ,everybody is on here for the Same reason and it's not to drink tea lol "

Decaf coffee. ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there doing it behind someones back then surely that relationship is already over so in my view they should end it first as I said just my view

Sadly most don’t, they don’t want to hurt the wife and kids so think it’s ok to have his cake and eat it.

Divorce is expensive. Why lose your house when you can fuck discreetly?

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Dosent bother me ,everybody is on here for the Same reason and it's not to drink tea lol "

Fancy a cuppa?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm one of those harlots that meets a married man often. Number 1 If it wasn't me then it would be someone else. We are both here for the same thing NSA sex. We have a good friendship but he knows I wont do anything to jeapodise his marriage. And I've had single guys want more than I'm able to give as I'm in a open relationship. So I'll carry on meeting this married guy no matter what people think of me for doing so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d shag anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Neither of us are comfortable with meeting cheats of either gender. Might have something to do with both being on the receiving end of it in the past

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Neither of us are comfortable with meeting cheats of either gender. Might have something to do with both being on the receiving end of it in the past

C"
It’s just morally the right thing to do and no one likes a cheat.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Dosent bother me ,everybody is on here for the Same reason and it's not to drink tea lol "

Speak for yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not ok, but admittedly i have been guilty of doing it on ocassion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of those harlots that meets a married man often. Number 1 If it wasn't me then it would be someone else. We are both here for the same thing NSA sex. We have a good friendship but he knows I wont do anything to jeapodise his marriage. And I've had single guys want more than I'm able to give as I'm in a open relationship. So I'll carry on meeting this married guy no matter what people think of me for doing so. "

He's the one cheating, not you.

Harlot sounds sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d shag anything "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your in a sexless marriage and are looking for NSA sex, joining a swingers site is a logical step. If your honest with all parties concerned, I can't see why anyone should have a reason to be judgemental.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if the person is prepare to think with their genitals and lie to the person they profess to trust the most in life.... then why should i expect any trust from them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if the person is prepare to think with their genitals and lie to the person they profess to trust the most in life.... then why should i expect any trust from them!

Surely you are expecting a blow job not trust?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If your in a sexless marriage and are looking for NSA sex, joining a swingers site is a logical step. If your honest with all parties concerned, I can't see why anyone should have a reason to be judgemental.

Absolutely! No judging if everyone is honest as in everyone involved knows everything. But let’s be honest that’s rarely the case.

Being on the receiving end of deception is life changing. Being part of it when you know the situation is just as bad in my opinion.

If I knew back then who my partner cheated with and they knew about me I’d confront them. But of course revenge and bitterness doesn’t solve anything long term

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if the person is prepare to think with their genitals and lie to the person they profess to trust the most in life.... then why should i expect any trust from them!

It seems unfair to suggest that someone who hasnt yet dealt with one aspect of their life would be inherently dishonest in all other aspects of their life though

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By *ade and VanessaCouple over a year ago

Central Scotland

Never knowingly. Same with a married woman. People lie though - not just to their partners

V x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

"So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on?

To be fair we usually say thanks but no thanks if they’re honest enough to actually say. "

Although, it does all depend on situation and person we chat to! I, (Mrs), was on here as a single lady due to not having sex in three years even though I was married! But even then in my profile I clearly quoted I was married and I also quoted I would not meet married men! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll meet the male alone if I've spoken to/met the female prior and discussed it with her.

Unfortunately with single male profiles who claim to swing with their partners consent, it never seems to get passed this hurdle. She's usually either incredibly shy or busy etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I would if I'm attracted to them.

I'm not looking for a relationship and their marriage is their issue.

I realise how many will feel that makes me a bad person, however there's a flip side in that in some cases men playing away keeps them in the marriage. If both parties are careful and respect discretion then I appreciate their honesty

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope not for me

I know people are not always honest here,so if i have any doubts,I wouldn't meet.

I would hate it done to me.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

Slightly different question ...

Do some see it acceptable if a woman meets a married woman of the husband is unaware or does it still matter?

If the husband finds out ... is the effect the same?

Or is that how some couples fall into swinging?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

Realise the original thread was about married men playing ... but am interesting question all the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Realise the original thread was about married men playing ... but am interesting question all the same"

I started that thread - mostly men answered and said 'I'm fine with that'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slightly different question ...

Do some see it acceptable if a woman meets a married woman of the husband is unaware or does it still matter?

If the husband finds out ... is the effect the same?

Or is that how some couples fall into swinging?"

What people signal in public but do in private are often very different things.

The vocal “single” anti-cheaters? In many instances are in relationships themselves but try to mask this by publically slating cheats. Or think it doesn’t count if they’re not married but they cheat on a boyfriend / girlfriend or fiancé / fiancée

That loving couple that would NEVER cheat on their partner and would absolutely give up swinging if their partner wanted to stop? Often found PM’ing or on Kik on single accounts trying to arrange clandestine meets!

To answer the point directly above, that married cheating bisexual lady that will entertain a couples unicorn fantasy? Often given special dispensation from the moral outrage and vehement ‘we will NEVER meet cheaters!’ brigade!

Many will voiciferously deny any such thing would happen, but it does, trust me. I have direct first hand and indirect second hand anecdotal evidence of many cases.

Let’s face it, we’re all here as we like recreational sex with different people. Some of us have explicit consent from likeminded partners, some don’t.

The reasons for someone cheating are often complex and come after a long journey and a lot of emotional thought. Many people are happy to meet marrieds or those not married but with a partner. Others aren’t.

The best policy is to give people an informed choice, let them make their own decision based on that.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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If the wife won't put out what's a guy to do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my book it’s not acceptable, been on the receiving end, and I’m just not interested in being any part of a situation that is deception.

Would rather go without!

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By *oastal1968Man over a year ago

London

"If the wife won't put out what's a guy to do?"

I like your style..... When can we meet

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

I'm not judging those who do, but I wouldn't knowingly be a part of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the wife won't put out what's a guy to do?"

Beg?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have unwittingly met married men because most of the marrieds who are cheating have single profiles. When you question about cannot accommodate they use several plausible reasons, but after chatting for some time it inevitably comes out.

And. Liars have to have a good memory don't they..."

Or don't say the same lie twice

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By *rasshopper201Man over a year ago

kendal

I believe that we are all animals and if your not getting any sex at home then you will wonder and that applies to both sexes this isn’t love it’s lust and sexual satisfaction nothing more . In fact I think it’s saves marriages . After all like Tina turner says . Love is a second hand emotion

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I believe that we are all animals and if your not getting any sex at home then you will wonder and that applies to both sexes this isn’t love it’s lust and sexual satisfaction nothing more . In fact I think it’s saves marriages . After all like Tina turner says . Love is a second hand emotion "

Cheating saves marriages?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im here to judge nobody your deals your deal man or woman i rather not even know about it as its totally irrelevent to me were all adults

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cheating saves marriages? "

I’m guessing if a marriage is solid in every other way, but the one antagonistic point is the sex life, a rare / infrequent NSA release of pent up sexual frustration might prevent resentment / frustration spilling over into everyday life. So yeah, I can see what the chap meant by that. Hypothetically of course.

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By *annylickerMan over a year ago

Chester-le-Street

I'm married and other half doesn't know I'm on here, but I'm always honest and upfront about it from the start.

My meets have been few and far between, but the people always knew.

So i think its down to personal choice to play or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not judging anyone-live you life how you want to,

So everyone here that is cheating and thinks that is ok or saving your marriage is a little delusional imo.

Turn the tables and you find out your perfect marriage or relationship in your eyes is going great and your both happy, totally in love and got 100% respect for each other, then you find out your partner is playing away from home? How would you feel? I would be crushed!

Be honest with who you are and even more honest with the person your supposed to be devoted to through thick and thin!

I’ve actually shy away from cheating friends in the past as I’ll have nothing to do with it.

As also said it’s a lot easier to remember the truth than a lie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind once they are honest.

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By *oastal1968Man over a year ago

London

"I don't mind once they are honest."

You are too hot!! Just viewed your profile. Love it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope... karma is a bitch plus having been cheated on I would never wish that pain on anyone else.

Also I've had a pregnant woman turn up u at my workplace and shout and bawl about me and her partner.... my heart broke for her. First baby and then find out that he has had at least 20 meets since they got together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. Let me tell you you it’s absolute hell. Something I don’t think I will ever get over.

I’d never knowingly meet with anyone attached when their partner doesn’t know. It’s the absolute lowest of the low.

It’s ok turning a blind eye for your own personal gain, until one day it happens to you. It’s not acceptable on any level.

These things always come out. People always get hurt. Honesty is always best.

I'm with you 100%. I've been through the same and I'd never knowingly meet someone being unfaithful x

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By *picknspanMan over a year ago

North West Leeds

Some perspective please;

This is a sex site.

This is a site where consenting adults can have sex.

Morality is the ownership of the one who bears the guilt. Or the two if this fact is shared.

You can choose who you wish as can all others.

It is no ones privileged position to extol their virtue on any others.

Married man or married woman it is the protagonists option.

Why the discussion?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. Let me tell you you it’s absolute hell. Something I don’t think I will ever get over.

I’d never knowingly meet with anyone attached when their partner doesn’t know. It’s the absolute lowest of the low.

It’s ok turning a blind eye for your own personal gain, until one day it happens to you. It’s not acceptable on any level.

These things always come out. People always get hurt. Honesty is always best.

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honesty and loyalty alwais.

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By *oastal1968Man over a year ago

London

"I’ve been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. Let me tell you you it’s absolute hell. Something I don’t think I will ever get over.

I’d never knowingly meet with anyone attached when their partner doesn’t know. It’s the absolute lowest of the low.

It’s ok turning a blind eye for your own personal gain, until one day it happens to you. It’s not acceptable on any level.

These things always come out. People always get hurt. Honesty is always best.

honesty and loyalty alwais."

Spelling.... Occasionally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some perspective please;

This is a sex site.

This is a site where consenting adults can have sex.

Morality is the ownership of the one who bears the guilt. Or the two if this fact is shared.

You can choose who you wish as can all others.

It is no ones privileged position to extol their virtue on any others.

Married man or married woman it is the protagonists option.

Why the discussion?"

Because we haven't had a tarring and feathering of married men for at least a week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I won't meet one half of swinger couples. I'll only meet them if their partner is unaware. "

Did that come out how you meant it? No judgement at all, just surprised me.

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By *iReyWoman over a year ago

Cheshire East

Never, I've been in those shoes and its soul crushing. My ex and I swung for years and he decided to go off and play alone behind my back and lied about it. I wouldn't wish it on anybody

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some perspective please;

This is a sex site.

This is a site where consenting adults can have sex.

Morality is the ownership of the one who bears the guilt. Or the two if this fact is shared.

You can choose who you wish as can all others.

It is no ones privileged position to extol their virtue on any others.

Married man or married woman it is the protagonists option.

Why the discussion?"

Don’t moan, I find these kind of threads the best filters for judgemental people. I’ve deleted a few friends and hotlisters from all the threads in the past few days

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By *vcarolTV/TS over a year ago

kilmarnockish

"Dosent bother me ,everybody is on here for the Same reason and it's not to drink tea lol "

It’s one debate that will produce a yes or no answer.

The unfortunate thing is a vast majority of married men ( and women ) play away. That is for them to decide the pros and cons of their own actions.

I got one do not judge people on there choices.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How would you know. If a guy has a single profile ?

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Cheffy was married and I knew when we first met.

I was far from his first on here.

We didn't intend for it to go as it did, it was meant to be a bit of harmless fun, no strings.

After a year we realised we had more between us.

His wife discovered this site a couple of months after he left her, I guess she's been digging around in his emails or search history etc?

I do feel bad for her, I certainly never wanted to hurt her quite like discovering his history on here hurt her.

I guess we can't help who we fall for, we can only move through life gently and hope for the best for all.

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"How would you know. If a guy has a single profile ? "

The married ones stick out like a baboon's arse!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If only life wasn't so messy and complicated eh?

Don't know of anyone has pointed out the obvious, it always takes two.

So why do all these threads smack of some kind of differential gender based morality that seems to exist in fab but never in the real world?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shoe on the other foot. Yeah I love fucking cheating hot wives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shoe on the other foot. Yeah I love fucking cheating hot wives.

Yes me too, a particular favourite of mine.

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By *urchoicenowCouple over a year ago

Ashford

That's one of the reasons we don't meet singles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To cut a long story short guys just need to do better in life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. Let me tell you you it’s absolute hell. Something I don’t think I will ever get over.

I’d never knowingly meet with anyone attached when their partner doesn’t know. It’s the absolute lowest of the low.

It’s ok turning a blind eye for your own personal gain, until one day it happens to you. It’s not acceptable on any level.

These things always come out. People always get hurt. Honesty is always best.

honesty and loyalty alwais.

Spelling.... Occasionally

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yeah sorry i do my best.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d shag anything "

Would you though?

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

Agreed married or attatched doesnt bother me, im not looking for love im looking for a great fuck,

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

So let’s discuss clubs, I’m sure lots on the forums attend them.

For those who will not play with married people. How do you know a ‘single’ man or woman are single at a club before you play with them?

Just asking out of curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on? "

Not a chance...unless they are also being dishonest with me as well as their wife..never want to be the cause of misery to some unaware poor wife.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"So let’s discuss clubs, I’m sure lots on the forums attend them.

For those who will not play with married people. How do you know a ‘single’ man or woman are single at a club before you play with them?

Just asking out of curiosity.

When i go to a club with Jack ,we usually arrange to meet people we have chatted to for a while here ,so we ask them....

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By *ustyWoman over a year ago

inverclyde

No chance it's cheating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there doing it behind someones back then surely that relationship is already over so in my view they should end it first as I said just my view

Sadly most don’t, they don’t want to hurt the wife and kids so think it’s ok to have his cake and eat it.

Wonder how great the OP would feel if he found out his wife had been lying and cheating to him..

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By *oastal1968Man over a year ago

London

"I’d shag anything

Would you though?

I'd shag a rolling donut if I could cartwheel quick enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d shag anything

Would you though?

I'd shag a rolling donut if I could cartwheel quick enough.

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By *oastal1968Man over a year ago

London

"I’d shag anything

Would you though?

I'd shag a rolling donut if I could cartwheel quick enough.

Fancy a Roll?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some perspective please;

This is a sex site.

This is a site where consenting adults can have sex.

Morality is the ownership of the one who bears the guilt. Or the two if this fact is shared.

You can choose who you wish as can all others.

It is no ones privileged position to extol their virtue on any others.

Married man or married woman it is the protagonists option.

Why the discussion?"

No, it's primarily a swinging site. People may use it as a sex site but that is different to the core heart of what swinging is.

Swinging couples have the ultimate trust and love for each other. To allow your partner to fuck someone else is risking losing them- no matter how slight that risk may be.

Sharing that experience (of fucking other people) is amazing. The sex together afterwards is mind blowing.

That's what swinging is- serious high level trust. It's not just fucking around.

Yes some swingers may cheat but that's not swinging, it's cheating. As you say, it's for consenting adults to have sex. The cheater's partner did not consent.

People are entitled to their opinions, whether it is for or against something. If people don't want to be judged they should keep their private business private.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Some perspective please;

This is a sex site.

This is a site where consenting adults can have sex.

Morality is the ownership of the one who bears the guilt. Or the two if this fact is shared.

You can choose who you wish as can all others.

It is no ones privileged position to extol their virtue on any others.

Married man or married woman it is the protagonists option.

Why the discussion?

No, it's primarily a swinging site. People may use it as a sex site but that is different to the core heart of what swinging is.

Swinging couples have the ultimate trust and love for each other. To allow your partner to fuck someone else is risking losing them- no matter how slight that risk may be.

Sharing that experience (of fucking other people) is amazing. The sex together afterwards is mind blowing.

That's what swinging is- serious high level trust. It's not just fucking around.

Yes some swingers may cheat but that's not swinging, it's cheating. As you say, it's for consenting adults to have sex. The cheater's partner did not consent.

People are entitled to their opinions, whether it is for or against something. If people don't want to be judged they should keep their private business private.

Amazing how many people still see this as "just a sex site" yet plenty of guys complaining they're not getting the sex … so is it or isn't it? I think it's not ...

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By *armupartistMan over a year ago

York

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan over a year ago

Salisbury

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!"

Is your wife available to confirm the permission?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!"

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"So let’s discuss clubs, I’m sure lots on the forums attend them.

For those who will not play with married people. How do you know a ‘single’ man or woman are single at a club before you play with them?

Just asking out of curiosity.

Love this question in these threads, always puts the cat amongst the pigeons and often/always gets overlooked. Would like to see this properly duscussed at length, but doubt that it will happen.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan over a year ago

Salisbury

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to"

But she let's you swing? That's cool.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to

But she let's you swing? That's cool.

Apart from the fact she’s unaware

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan over a year ago

Salisbury

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to

But she let's you swing? That's cool.

Apart from the fact she’s unaware"

Oh.... maybe you didn't understand the "honest with all parties concerned" bit.. unless you don't see your adultery as consequential to your wife...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to"

My ex thought I was a prude. And here I am......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

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By *illowzWoman over a year ago

Exeter

And. Liars have to have a good memory don't they..."

I have had this problem too. Some profiles are more obvious than others (If someone says, lunchtime meets only, it's a bit of a giveaway) But unfortunately its getting more difficult to spot them, so I'm at the point of giving up and just meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to

My ex thought I was a prude. And here I am......

My ex said I was a plank in bed; which is funny because he wouldn't kiss me.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider."

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

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By *eeowlsMan over a year ago

sheffield

How about if your honest in profile and to my wife who would be interested in meeting then!!??

It say on my profile and in our couples profile everything is up front with prospective meets and my wife

She often goes to stay at relatives to give me a break and hopefully get a meet that’s how and when I can accommodate but on occasions if both parties are happy when she’s at home too x

Honesty is best policy even though not getting many meets lol

Thanks for reading

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"So let’s discuss clubs, I’m sure lots on the forums attend them.

For those who will not play with married people. How do you know a ‘single’ man or woman are single at a club before you play with them?

Just asking out of curiosity.

Love this question in these threads, always puts the cat amongst the pigeons and often/always gets overlooked. Would like to see this properly duscussed at length, but doubt that it will happen. "

Maybe start a separate thread but I doubt people will respond because they could be playing with ‘cheaters’ at clubs even if it’s their rule not to.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So let’s discuss clubs, I’m sure lots on the forums attend them.

For those who will not play with married people. How do you know a ‘single’ man or woman are single at a club before you play with them?

Just asking out of curiosity.

Love this question in these threads, always puts the cat amongst the pigeons and often/always gets overlooked. Would like to see this properly duscussed at length, but doubt that it will happen.

Maybe start a separate thread but I doubt people will respond because they could be playing with ‘cheaters’ at clubs even if it’s their rule not to....."

same can be said for playing with bi guys, how do you know the men you meet in a club have not played with other guys?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How long have you been married op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to

My ex thought I was a prude. And here I am......

And yet you never send me nudes!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?"

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

If he's a great fuck I might even thank her for being a bitch and pushing him away.

Her loss, my gain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

Why would it make it easier, you either fuck cheaters or you don't, swallowing the tired clichés about how the other party who can't speak for themselves is entirely responsible for the marital problems (if they exist at all) would just be idiotic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to

My ex thought I was a prude. And here I am......

And yet you never send me nudes!

I only send my nude pics to people I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is where I am and totally upfront about it, life is too short not to seek the ‘joy of sex’ denied in a sexless marriage!

I’m in the same boat mate. I’m out to try new things the other half doesn’t want to or is too prude to

My ex thought I was a prude. And here I am......

My ex said I was a plank in bed; which is funny because he wouldn't kiss me."

Maybe he didn't want to get a splinter. My ex didn't come near me because he didn't want frostbite.

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By *picknspanMan over a year ago

North West Leeds

"Some perspective please;

This is a sex site.

This is a site where consenting adults can have sex.

Morality is the ownership of the one who bears the guilt. Or the two if this fact is shared.

You can choose who you wish as can all others.

It is no ones privileged position to extol their virtue on any others.

Married man or married woman it is the protagonists option.

Why the discussion?

No, it's primarily a swinging site. People may use it as a sex site but that is different to the core heart of what swinging is.

Swinging couples have the ultimate trust and love for each other. To allow your partner to fuck someone else is risking losing them- no matter how slight that risk may be.

Sharing that experience (of fucking other people) is amazing. The sex together afterwards is mind blowing.

That's what swinging is- serious high level trust. It's not just fucking around.

Yes some swingers may cheat but that's not swinging, it's cheating. As you say, it's for consenting adults to have sex. The cheater's partner did not consent.

People are entitled to their opinions, whether it is for or against something. If people don't want to be judged they should keep their private business private.

The two consenting adults are the two that are having the daring tryst, the 'cheated upon' is not a part of that equation.

They may become a collateral damage of that situation but they are not 'of it'.

Married people do not nor could not consider or discuss every factor of their individual lives on every occasion. It is not practical or realistic!

So in life, on Fab people cheat. Fact of life. Not good, not ideal but that's how it is.

Swinging site? Sex site? Adult activity site? Call it what you will but one fact remains two parties consent between themselves.

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By *nestWoman over a year ago

Okehampton

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I fancy someone on here I meet them.simple I don't need to know their life story.

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By *picknspanMan over a year ago

North West Leeds

"If I fancy someone on here I meet them.simple I don't need to know their life story.

This would appear to be the most sensible part of the thread....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

If the cheaters partner deserves to be cheated on they only have themselves to blame.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"If I fancy someone on here I meet them.simple I don't need to know their life story.

This would appear to be the most sensible part of the thread....

I don't need to know someone's life story,just whether they're single or not.

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"If I fancy someone on here I meet them.simple I don't need to know their life story.

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

If the cheaters partner deserves to be cheated on they only have themselves to blame.

Wow, you really do swallow it all hook line and sinker

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

Play nicely people?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agreed

It's supposed to be fun on here

No need for dramarama

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Agreed

It's supposed to be fun on here

No need for dramarama

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They were my fave band in the 80's tatted short one x

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on? "

I can’t give you specific figure but most wont and some will.

If it’s not already on your profile, add it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They were my fave band in the 80's tatted short one x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After recently being the recipient of messages from a heartbroken wife Iv decided to avoid married/attached men now where possible, as it happened id seen this guy many times and had absolutely no clue he was married...he had been asked and he bare faced lied...THATS what pissed me off...I don’t like being lied to...this has happened to me twice over the years...the first time I’d not even met the guy yet and I was getting very abusive phone calls in the middle of the night...until my hubby took over and ripped her a new arsehole....I don’t have any issue with guys being married I have an issue with the fall out when they get caught...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow golden what a rat

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"So let’s discuss clubs, I’m sure lots on the forums attend them.

For those who will not play with married people. How do you know a ‘single’ man or woman are single at a club before you play with them?

Just asking out of curiosity.

Love this question in these threads, always puts the cat amongst the pigeons and often/always gets overlooked. Would like to see this properly duscussed at length, but doubt that it will happen.

Maybe start a separate thread but I doubt people will respond because they could be playing with ‘cheaters’ at clubs even if it’s their rule not to.....

same can be said for playing with bi guys, how do you know the men you meet in a club have not played with other guys?"

Absolutely agree with you both, the question no one seems to want to address.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So let’s discuss clubs, I’m sure lots on the forums attend them.

For those who will not play with married people. How do you know a ‘single’ man or woman are single at a club before you play with them?

Just asking out of curiosity.

Love this question in these threads, always puts the cat amongst the pigeons and often/always gets overlooked. Would like to see this properly duscussed at length, but doubt that it will happen.

Maybe start a separate thread but I doubt people will respond because they could be playing with ‘cheaters’ at clubs even if it’s their rule not to.....

same can be said for playing with bi guys, how do you know the men you meet in a club have not played with other guys?

Absolutely agree with you both, the question no one seems to want to address. "

You can only go with the information you have at hand. Ask if it is important. If people lie at the club then at least you have done the best you can.

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By *hortarseWoman over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes I play with a married man. I am enjoying it. I was married once he cheated on me.

What happens when your not get sex from your partner then you find them on a swinger's site ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

I’ve no idea Dan. Once I know what he means I’ll let you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

I’ve no idea Dan. Once I know what he means I’ll let you know

"
maybe hes watched you take a shit and it was ostrich egg sized

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

I’ve no idea Dan. Once I know what he means I’ll let you know

maybe hes watched you take a shit and it was ostrich egg sized"

Or your head is buried in the sand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

I’ve no idea Dan. Once I know what he means I’ll let you know

The long legs maybe? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

I’ve no idea Dan. Once I know what he means I’ll let you know

maybe hes watched you take a shit and it was ostrich egg sized"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

I’ve no idea Dan. Once I know what he means I’ll let you know

maybe hes watched you take a shit and it was ostrich egg sized

Or your head is buried in the sand"

Definitely can’t be that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

I’ve no idea Dan. Once I know what he means I’ll let you know

maybe hes watched you take a shit and it was ostrich egg sized

Or your head is buried in the sand"
gob on her not likelly

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

‘To bury one’s head in the sand is to ignore or deny the existence of a problem in the hope it will eventually go away....but ostriches don’t bury their heads in sand.

Very confusing reason for relating it to this though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I play with a married man. I am enjoying it. I was married once he cheated on me.

What happens when your not get sex from your partner then you find them on a swinger's site ? "

No-one 'deserves' to be cheated on but if they choose to stop having sex with their partner, or more unfortunately can't for some reason, then they must realise it as a possible consequence.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple over a year ago

Leicester

"So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on? "

Isn't that called cheating not swinging??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

‘To bury one’s head in the sand is to ignore or deny the existence of a problem in the hope it will eventually go away....but ostriches don’t bury their heads in sand.

Very confusing reason for relating it to this though

The ostrich is has very long legs my dear

Are we there now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, I’m very attracted to married women

it’s a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

‘To bury one’s head in the sand is to ignore or deny the existence of a problem in the hope it will eventually go away....but ostriches don’t bury their heads in sand.

Very confusing reason for relating it to this though

The ostrich is has very long legs my dear

Are we there now

Ah ok. Very slim long legs though! Mine have never been called that! I like you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on?

Isn't that called cheating not swinging??"

Yes, what's that got to do with the question?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So how many women are ok to play with married men without there wife’s knowing what’s going on?

Isn't that called cheating not swinging??"

Yes. But the OP wasn’t asking for a definition, they asked how many women are ok to play with cheating men.

The answer seems to be lots. But not all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I play with a married man. I am enjoying it. I was married once he cheated on me.

What happens when your not get sex from your partner then you find them on a swinger's site ?

No-one 'deserves' to be cheated on but if they choose to stop having sex with their partner, or more unfortunately can't for some reason, then they must realise it as a possible consequence."

I have to disagree with you there. Some people do 'deserve to be cheated on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

‘To bury one’s head in the sand is to ignore or deny the existence of a problem in the hope it will eventually go away....but ostriches don’t bury their heads in sand.

Very confusing reason for relating it to this though

The ostrich is has very long legs my dear

Are we there now

Ah ok. Very slim long legs though! Mine have never been called that! I like you

I’d say they were more flamingo-like!

(wuv you by the way x)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

‘To bury one’s head in the sand is to ignore or deny the existence of a problem in the hope it will eventually go away....but ostriches don’t bury their heads in sand.

Very confusing reason for relating it to this though

The ostrich is has very long legs my dear

Are we there now

Ah ok. Very slim long legs though! Mine have never been called that! I like you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

If the cheaters partner deserves to be cheated on they only have themselves to blame.

Wow, you really do swallow it all hook line and sinker

Swallow what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

18 replies on the woman cheating thread to nearly a full house here. Bias at its finest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow golden what a rat "

More of an ass....fancy forgetting to clear your messages !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nora are you really an ostrich in disguise darling

Well are you!?

I think should be told!

(I have no idea what they mean by the way, maybe they can elaborate!?

)

‘To bury one’s head in the sand is to ignore or deny the existence of a problem in the hope it will eventually go away....but ostriches don’t bury their heads in sand.

Very confusing reason for relating it to this though

The ostrich is has very long legs my dear

Are we there now

Ah ok. Very slim long legs though! Mine have never been called that! I like you

I’d say they were more flamingo-like!

(wuv you by the way x)"

I bloody knew you’d do that!!! You just had to didn’t you

. Hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

If the cheaters partner deserves to be cheated on they only have themselves to blame.

Wow, you really do swallow it all hook line and sinker

Swallow what? "

I'm speaking hypothetically. I assume everyone lies (including couples who say they get everything they want from their partners, and only swing because *add reason*.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"18 replies on the woman cheating thread to nearly a full house here. Bias at its finest.

Because it's obviously the husband/boyfriend's fault she cheated on him; it can't ever be the wife's fault a man cheats.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if the person is prepare to think with their genitals and lie to the person they profess to trust the most in life.... then why should i expect any trust from them!

Surely you are expecting a blow job not trust?"
He means if they come with baggage (a whole suitcase full) watch out it might

land on you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

If the cheaters partner deserves to be cheated on they only have themselves to blame.

Wow, you really do swallow it all hook line and sinker

Swallow what?

I'm speaking hypothetically. I assume everyone lies (including couples who say they get everything they want from their partners, and only swing because *add reason*."

That’s always the thing isn’t it? So called loved up couples love the excitement and lure of casual sex with strangers. The buzz. The thrill. The up-scaling of their sex lives.

Yet can’t understand why people who aren’t fortunate enough to have a likeminded understanding partner might also like the excitement, lure, buzz, thrill and upscaling of casual sex with strangers ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"18 replies on the woman cheating thread to nearly a full house here. Bias at its finest.

Women don't cheat. They share...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are we there yet?

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By *yesgreenMan over a year ago

north and south

"Dosent bother me ,everybody is on here for the Same reason and it's not to drink tea lol "
yes it's not a dates site it's about having sex not judging people and am sure married men getting it at home , would not be on here and vices versa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the wife a complete bitch and withholding sex?

Is he loaded and she's trying to get a good divorce settlement out of him?

Does he have kids who would be devastated if he left the nice home he's provided for them (the wife rarely leaves the home)?

Can I give him the affection and sex he's not getting from the bitch indoors?

So many things to consider.

Perish the thought that people here may judge hey?

And calling the (unaware and never encountered) wife a complete bitch isnt judging?

Only if she is one. I'm not judging her though, it's just making it easier for me to fuck her husband.

If the cheaters partner deserves to be cheated on they only have themselves to blame.

Wow, you really do swallow it all hook line and sinker

Swallow what?

I'm speaking hypothetically. I assume everyone lies (including couples who say they get everything they want from their partners, and only swing because *add reason*.

That’s always the thing isn’t it? So called loved up couples love the excitement and lure of casual sex with strangers. The buzz. The thrill. The up-scaling of their sex lives.

I’ve said this before and I was slated for it then but personally I still find it easier to understand why a married person would be on here without their partner knowing more than I will ever understand how married couples on here can watch the person they love with someone else. And this is probably why I’m not “ a swinger” and never could be and also why it’s each to their own and it’s best to just let people do what they do whilst you get on with what you do

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