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People that can’t take no for an answer
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After initially doing the polite “thanks, but no thanks” thing to messages, we have decided to go for the no reply strategy. The reason is not volume, but because when we say no, we get “why not?” or “what’s wrong with us?” Why does it seem so hard to understand that nobody appeals to everyone? |
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"After initially doing the polite “thanks, but no thanks” thing to messages, we have decided to go for the no reply strategy. The reason is not volume, but because when we say no, we get “why not?” or “what’s wrong with us?” Why does it seem so hard to understand that nobody appeals to everyone?"
Delete and block, clearly too pushy, and not the type for you, imagine the disaster when you meet, that is if they would have the balls to meet. I say that because I doubt they’d every ask “why not” if you rejected them in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because fab is all about them.you are just another couple/female/male on a site for sexually liberated people.
Your thoughts and wishes are irrelevant.
That's my take anyway,and why I rarely reply to those that don't meet our profile wants. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"After initially doing the polite “thanks, but no thanks” thing to messages, we have decided to go for the no reply strategy. The reason is not volume, but because when we say no, we get “why not?” or “what’s wrong with us?” Why does it seem so hard to understand that nobody appeals to everyone?"
It's your loss   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easier to block them after saying no thanks.
No comebacks, no problem. "
Yep we do this too, its made this time round the merry go round that is fab a whole lot easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always reply to first messages. I give a polite reason.
If they reply again I usually ignore as I already said no so there's nothing else to say.
When I feel it's required, I reply to say I'd never meet anyone that can't take "no" for an answer. That usually gets a humble reply back apologising, so I wish them well. 
I like to think it will make them be more respectful to the next people they mail. Maybe... maybe not.... |
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