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By *ikeC81 OP   Man  over a year ago

harrow

Over the last couple of days I have judged a couple of people not intentionally but by my initial chats with them.

What I hadn’t realised that because I hadn’t been my chatty self, I had made some assumptions. I have since realised that people are different taht sometimes they first show; and that my assumptions were wrong

I was thinking that actually I am the same depending on what scenario you meet me. I was wondering how people have made assumptions about people on the scene, got to know them over time and realised they may have been wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I try to talk a while before forming opinions of people, but we can't help what first impressions we get.

It depends on how people behave initially and what they say. We have to remember that a snapshot of some one isn't all they are.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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If the initial chats don't go well we don't normally have the opportunity to get to know people better. Our experience is that if we aren't offering sexual contact of some kind in the second or third meeting people don't want to take things any further.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I buy books I always go for the ones with a striking cover.

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Everyone has conscious and unconscious bias when meeting people.

We all judge others on some level, whether we are aware of it or not.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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"When I buy books I always go for the ones with a striking cover. "

I do too. I actively avoid ones that show young women in heels with shopping bags and a small dog.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When I buy books I always go for the ones with a striking cover.

I do too. I actively avoid ones that show young women in heels with shopping bags and a small dog. "

Dam missed that one or I would have brought it.

Or one with a space marine cutting the heads off orcs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont like reading anymore

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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"When I buy books I always go for the ones with a striking cover.

I do too. I actively avoid ones that show young women in heels with shopping bags and a small dog.

Dam missed that one or I would have brought it.

Or one with a space marine cutting the heads off orcs "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When I buy books I always go for the ones with a striking cover.

I do too. I actively avoid ones that show young women in heels with shopping bags and a small dog.

Dam missed that one or I would have brought it.

Or one with a space marine cutting the heads off orcs

"

Or elves, if they have elves on I’m like gimme.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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"When I buy books I always go for the ones with a striking cover.

I do too. I actively avoid ones that show young women in heels with shopping bags and a small dog.

Dam missed that one or I would have brought it.

Or one with a space marine cutting the heads off orcs

Or elves, if they have elves on I’m like gimme. "

See I'm really boring, I'm usually skulking round the history section looking for books with Elizabeth the first on the cover

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