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By *riskygaz OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
had a great meet on Saturday, with a new women on the site, she has already deleted her account as she found some of the messages that she got, a bit shocking!
OK blowing my own trumpet moment, she said I was amazing in bed and she couldn't believe how good I made her feel that knight, she certainly took full advantage of me, in about 4 1/2 hours we must have went at it seven or eight times. she also said if women on the site new how good I was I would have a queue outside my door.
So the question is girls, when you look at an average looking guy like me and just pass me bye, Do you never stop and think you could be missing out on a really enjoyable shag because you have judged a book by it's cover ?? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
If I'm passing someone by it's because I'm not attracted to them. If I'm not attracted to them it doesn't matter how good in bed they think they are. So no, I don't give it a second thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope... If I don't fancy you then the sex will not be good regardless of how much someone else fancied you and loved fucking you. Being average looking has nothing to do with your attractiveness to others. I have seen some beautiful men on here and in RL that I didn't fancy at all  |
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It's nice to hear that you both had a great time and you got some positive reinforcement.
I'm well aware that having specific requirements might mean that we're missing out but I genuinely don't have time to find out.  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"had a great meet on Saturday, with a new women on the site, she has already deleted her account as she found some of the messages that she got, a bit shocking!
OK blowing my own trumpet moment, she said I was amazing in bed and she couldn't believe how good I made her feel that knight, she certainly took full advantage of me, in about 4 1/2 hours we must have went at it seven or eight times. she also said if women on the site new how good I was I would have a queue outside my door.
So the question is girls, when you look at an average looking guy like me and just pass me bye, Do you never stop and think you could be missing out on a really enjoyable shag because you have judged a book by it's cover ??"
I doubt she left because of the messages OP.
She just knew she'd never find a knee trembler with anyone else to rival the night of bliss she experienced with you,so there was no point sticking around.
I hope you videoed it to relive the memory?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never give a guy a second thought if I'm not attracted.
no attraction means no play for me, simply because I won't be in any way turned on.
and I think a lot of the women here would be the same.
fab is a very shallow place and it's allowed to be. |
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Some of us don’t judge by the cover we actually take time to read the book, my partner was 5’3”, bald and chunky but he was the most wonderful person I had ever met in my life and I miss him more than words can say  but for some it is just about looks and that’s fine, we all do this differently. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Gosh.
Are you still in touch since she left the site?
yes she hasn't stopped texting me since that knight, and is very eager to see me again
Result! "
And they say it's hard being a single guy on here....
Well done OP! Winner winner!! 
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By *riskygaz OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"What kind of messages did she get that were so shocking she left OP?"
Well this was her first time on a site like this, she overheard a couple of people at work talking about it, so as she is in a sexless marriage she thought she would take a look, But I think it was a bit of a shock, she didn't go into to much detail just that some of the messages and pictures were vile, and a few stroppy guys giving her a hard time because they could see she had read the message but had not replied, so got the usual WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE, crap, so she thought this is not for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gosh.
Are you still in touch since she left the site?
yes she hasn't stopped texting me since that knight, and is very eager to see me again "
You big ol' silver tongued devil you
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"had a great meet on Saturday, with a new women on the site, she has already deleted her account as she found some of the messages that she got, a bit shocking!
OK blowing my own trumpet moment, she said I was amazing in bed and she couldn't believe how good I made her feel that knight, she certainly took full advantage of me, in about 4 1/2 hours we must have went at it seven or eight times. she also said if women on the site new how good I was I would have a queue outside my door.
So the question is girls, when you look at an average looking guy like me and just pass me bye, Do you never stop and think you could be missing out on a really enjoyable shag because you have judged a book by it's cover ??"
Lmao this is priceless 
So good that she deleted her account after the experience rather than use filters to block messages
However if this brazen attempt to get laid works I'll post the story of the 42 seater coach full of fab hotty ladies I kept satisfied for three weeks before they all left fab and deleted their accounts so I couldnt get any verifications |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"What kind of messages did she get that were so shocking she left OP?Well this was her first time on a site like this, she overheard a couple of people at work talking about it, so as she is in a sexless marriage she thought she would take a look, But I think it was a bit of a shock, she didn't go into to much detail just that some of the messages and pictures were vile, and a few stroppy guys giving her a hard time because they could see she had read the message but had not replied, so got the usual WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE, crap, so she thought this is not for me. "
It would have been nice of you to let her know how the filters worked, then she could have blocked single men and stayed. But hey ho, maybe she'll try again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah I don’t think I’m missing out. I have to want something and not get it, to be missing out. If I don’t want it, how am I missing out?"
Yeah that’s perfectly explained. That’s how I feel too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"had a great meet on Saturday, with a new women on the site, she has already deleted her account as she found some of the messages that she got, a bit shocking!
OK blowing my own trumpet moment, she said I was amazing in bed and she couldn't believe how good I made her feel that knight, she certainly took full advantage of me, in about 4 1/2 hours we must have went at it seven or eight times. she also said if women on the site new how good I was I would have a queue outside my door.
So the question is girls, when you look at an average looking guy like me and just pass me bye, Do you never stop and think you could be missing out on a really enjoyable shag because you have judged a book by it's cover ??"
I do give people a chance. Book covers mean nothing to me. But I wouldn't meet someone just because someone else thought they were a great shag. If I'm not 'feeling it', it will be crap. Doesn't matter if they're some sexpert that's fucked 1,000 women. So no I'm not missing out. I'm saving them from a crap shag with me.
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By *riskygaz OP Man
over a year ago
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"had a great meet on Saturday, with a new women on the site, she has already deleted her account as she found some of the messages that she got, a bit shocking!
OK blowing my own trumpet moment, she said I was amazing in bed and she couldn't believe how good I made her feel that knight, she certainly took full advantage of me, in about 4 1/2 hours we must have went at it seven or eight times. she also said if women on the site new how good I was I would have a queue outside my door.
So the question is girls, when you look at an average looking guy like me and just pass me bye, Do you never stop and think you could be missing out on a really enjoyable shag because you have judged a book by it's cover ??
Lmao this is priceless
So good that she deleted her account after the experience rather than use filters to block messages
However if this brazen attempt to get laid works I'll post the story of the 42 seater coach full of fab hotty ladies I kept satisfied for three weeks before they all left fab and deleted their accounts so I couldnt get any verifications "
Lol I will have you know I have had a couple of very good verifications in the past, but as people who have been on here a long time will know, when someone delete's their account you loose all information on them, including verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had partners who others have said are amazing and I thought they were shit. So I'll continue to judge people on their merits, not just their looks but their personalities and if we have a connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just that sex is very personal and subjective, so one person's nectar is another person's poison, but personality is like that.
People may think I am average but I only need the person I am fucking to see something special and vice versa. |
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