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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

can someone pls tell me how to spot a time waster and how can i tell from their profile if they are time wasters... i just had 3 today... and thats a record

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"can someone pls tell me how to spot a time waster and how can i tell from their profile if they are time wasters... i just had 3 today... and thats a record"

Three no shows in a day? That's a tragedy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 people all didn't turn up to meets today

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

depends on your definition of timewaster

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The genuine timewasters usually have it written in there profiles I think xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"depends on your definition of timewaster

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By *un_JuiceCouple over a year ago

Nr Chester

You can't even those verified by others can still have their reasons for no shows or letting members down. Move on. If they don't have the decency to explain (some rightly or wrongly choose not to) then they are not worth your time and energy.

Unless you have an incredible memory we recommend being a site supporter. One of the benefits is the option to have notes which is handy in this case eh

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By *ath-N-DelCouple over a year ago

Glasgow area

"depends on your definition of timewaster

More info required.....

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

re they verified

are they photo verified

what does their profile say and match that to length of time on site

do they have pics

do they ask what you are going to be wearing

do they ask what will we do sexually when we meet

do you know their number... or have you just given yours

and the list goes on... sorry you have been let down.

obviously the above is not a guarantee, but may help

good luck

sorry had a spelling mistake and didn't want the spelling police leaking pre cum...

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By *ath-N-DelCouple over a year ago

Glasgow area

do they ask what you are going to be wearing

do they ask what will we do sexually when we meet

Time wasters or not...

Ask these questions and you wont get a reply from me

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By *un_JuiceCouple over a year ago

Nr Chester

"re they verified

are they photo verified

what does their profile say and match that to length of time on site

do they have pics

do they ask what you are going to be wearing

do they ask what will we do sexually when we meet

do you know their number... or have you just given yours

and the list goes on... sorry you have been let down.

obviously the above is not a guarantee, but may help

good luck

sorry had a spelling mistake and didn't want the spelling police leaking pre cum..."

Haha they will !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"depends on your definition of timewaster

Everyone has their own definition. The real problems could be poor planning, lack of patience because one person is pressuring the other into meeting which makes the person less likely to want to meet.

Instead of labelling people as timewasters, people need to understand that we have lives outside of Fabs and learn to compromise on meeting halfway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

do they ask what you are going to be wearing

do they ask what will we do sexually when we meet

Time wasters or not...

Ask these questions and you wont get a reply from me

Same here. Any message like that & conversation is over & blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanks folks, i appreciate ur time. actually this woman or animal joined 50mins ago and wants to meet, she had no pic on her profile .. ask for my address and fone number and when i ask for hers she called me using and "unknown" number display, when i asked of her pix, she blocked me.... i believe its the same animal that did that twice

if only i wasnt that horny i wont have fallen for the trap, oh well, im human afterall

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

do they ask what you are going to be wearing

do they ask what will we do sexually when we meet

Time wasters or not...

Ask these questions and you wont get a reply

from me

Same here. Any message like that & conversation is over & blocked"

What ya wearin? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"thanks folks, i appreciate ur time. actually this woman or animal joined 50mins ago and wants to meet, she had no pic on her profile .. ask for my address and fone number and when i ask for hers she called me using and "unknown" number display, when i asked of her pix, she blocked me.... i believe its the same animal that did that twice

if only i wasnt that horny i wont have fallen for

the trap, oh well, im human afterall

You trusted a profile wi no pics and only fifty mins old wi ya number? Xx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

if only i wasnt that horny i wont have fallen for the trap, oh well, im human afterall

don't refer to her as an animal dude, you want to be better than that.... rise above it and never bring yourself down.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You live and hopefully learn.

If something falls into your lap it is usually wise to step back and check who's dropped it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

if only i wasnt that horny i wont have fallen for the trap, oh well, im human afterall

See, to me a timewaster is someone who arranges a meet and never turns up or 'forgets' to text to say they can't make it. Someone ringing you then blocking when things look bad is actually potentially saving your time, as you know now not to meet them.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

if only i wasnt that horny i wont have fallen for the trap, oh well, im human afterall

then the only person wasting your time is you...seriously do you need that much advice?

the only useful definition of a timewaster, in that it can be used to report people is someone who fails to turn up to to an arranged meet without explanation.

Anything else you are responsible for, and therefore you are only wasting your own time.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

if only i wasnt that horny i wont have fallen for the trap, oh well, im human afterall

given his reaction here, there may be reasons he was blocked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if only i wasnt that horny i wont have fallen for the trap, oh well, im human afterall

then the only person wasting your time is you...seriously do you need that much advice?

the only useful definition of a timewaster, in that it can be used to report people is someone who fails to turn up to to an arranged meet without explanation.

Anything else you are responsible for, and therefore you are only wasting your own time."

Well put. You had 3 things in your short message which would have screamed 'timewaster' to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if only i wasnt that horny i wont have fallen for the trap, oh well, im human afterall

Pretty much agree Wyrd, but even return of messages, where there was no real intention of meeting, is still wasting your time, albeit not on the level of a 'no-show.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

I think maybe the attitude of calling a woman an animal( and not in a good way ) might get you the block you didn't want.

As this is about another member, be it a new one without pics ( let's give people chances eh, we were all new once and it took us five days to put pics on) then I am going to shut it.

If you have a problem with anyones mails, REPORT them.

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