FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Do you get put off by.......
Do you get put off by.......
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?
I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.
That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?
I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.
That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not."
What an honest post
I do too , and it’s not wrong. You have every right to be put off or encouraged to meet someone for sex depending on where they have been before
There’s no shame in that  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Everyone (that isn't a virgin) has a sexual history on and off Fab you shouldn't really dwell on it. You're not fucking the people your potential meet has fucked are you?
The only time you should be bothered if their profile says safe sex but they meet known barebackers. Even then you make sure you have yourself covered (pun intended). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Yeah, we get put off and not always because they’ve met less desirable people, sometimes it’s because they’re meeting really hot people and I worry I wouldn’t meet their expectations. Madness eh?! Sometimes I suppose ignorance is bliss.
Lou x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yeah, we get put off and not always because they’ve met less desirable people, sometimes it’s because they’re meeting really hot people and I worry I wouldn’t meet their expectations. Madness eh?! Sometimes I suppose ignorance is bliss.
Lou x "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"I did until I realised that we only see what people chose to show. What we see its normally only half a story so it's worthless really."
I wouldn't say worthless, over time you do get a fairly good idea. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I did until I realised that we only see what people chose to show. What we see its normally only half a story so it's worthless really."
Agreed although even worse when the half they show is a turn off - god only knows what they aren’t showing  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yeah they can put me off for a whole host of reasons. The kind of verifications they leave for other people makes a difference too.
I don't normally like graphic ones, but there was one guy I was so interested in meeting purely from a scenario a girl he'd met described in his veri so it works both ways. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I do. As a semi regular at clubs I see a lot of what happens when people are d*unk and/or horny and don’t care too much about their Fab persona anymore. If I see a veri from someone who shags 20 guys in one evening but couldn’t describe them - then I will back away from a meet. It’s sensible for sexual health reasons. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Everyone (that isn't a virgin) has a sexual history on and off Fab you shouldn't really dwell on it. You're not fucking the people your potential meet has fucked are you?
The only time you should be bothered if their profile says safe sex but they meet known barebackers. Even then you make sure you have yourself covered (pun intended)."
Agreed.
It amuses me and I think you'd have to be pretty naive enough to believe someone with no or few veries showing is somehow a "better bet "than someone with more displayed, because that's all it really comes down to really, how many are displayed , not how many meets good ,bad or otherwise (in your eyes) the person has had.
...but if that works for you then go for it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Most of mine are from socials anyway but I usually hide them, to preserve the privacy of the writer.
(Yes, I've seen you veri-stalkers... out there in the bushes) 
Veri = 'is my profile genuine?' - yup. 'nuff said |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yes. More so if the people they have met are known to play BB as that would instantly stop me meeting them, or if the type of people that they meet are nothing like me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yes if a guy contacts me but as his veris are from slim ladies I wonder why he wants to meet me.
Or when they are all from much younger gorgeous voluptuous ladies, I also wonder.."
In my case it would be because I have a wide taste in body types. I have my likes and dislikes but just because I'd been with a slim woman with no curves does not mean I have zero interest in somebody with curves.
I look at veris to see what the competition is, see how I match up and if I have a chance and then think fuck it, always worth a shot. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?
I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.
That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not."
No because I don't read them, half are fake and the rest mainly nonsense. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yup. I know it’s bad but I’ve turned down a lot of meets with those I find attractive, because i didn’t like the people in their verifications.
And I don’t mean I didn’t like the people physically - it’s usually because those in the veri’s practice bareback or seem to have low standards.
That being said - the same happens in reverse and people that I may not usually be interested in seem more open to when you see all the positive feedback they’re getting |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?
I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.
That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not."
Yes although not in the way you think.
If I see someone has a rake of veris from 30 year olds with bulging muscles, long hair and a huge cock I don't see the point in reaching out, they're obviously not looking for me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?
I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.
That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not."
Surprisingly I haven’t in the past. If I like someone, I like them. However some of the stuff I seen and heard in the last six months would make me a bit more wary in the future I think. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
