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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone like the idea of having a long distance lover? Chatting and flirting and meeting every so often at a hotel for fun and then parting until next time? |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I have one. We sometimes meet up at hotels half way between us but I’m lucky enough that he can also travel all the way to see me for long weekends which he does quite often. We speak all the time on the phone and text and manage to see each other as much as possible. It can be frustrating but we make the absolute most of our time together. If it’s worth it you make it work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's OK, but you need someone more local too....  "
Not everyone does. I only ever met infrequently so it works perfectly for me. I couldn't cope with local and regular. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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"That's OK, but you need someone more local too....
Not everyone does. I only ever met infrequently so it works perfectly for me. I couldn't cope with local and regular. "
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"That's OK, but you need someone more local too....
Not everyone does. I only ever met infrequently so it works perfectly for me. I couldn't cope with local and regular. "
You're married - different kettle of fish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The idea is good.
The reality rarely works.
Would be an adventure finding out"
^ That right there ^
I had that years ago and experienced adventures with road trips! Loved them and  fab!
I am looking forward to see how things will go this time round. For those thinking long distance is not worth the hassle...
Please please please speak to the person you get on well with and see if you can work things out. Communication is key and just take the example of couples or people pairing up in forums.
You may be in for a surprise and really enjoy the adventure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to travel a couple of hours each way, a couple of times a month but would spend most of the day with a fwb. We stayed in regular contact in between, planning our next event, which was fun...It also worked with a fwb much more local. Not at the same time though... |
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I've taken it to the extreme, he's in Australia! We met and spent 2 weeks together on holiday 4 months ago. We've spoken every day since, and I'm going over there for a few months next week. Then we shall see what happens! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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Long distance can and does work, my ex and I lived 100 miles apart but we saw each other 2/3 nights a week at least and were together for 2 years.
If you're both in and want to make something happen then really distance is just part of the adventure in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few people who I see that are dotted around the country but we just chat and tease each other and if we are ever near to each other for business of holiday then we will meet up, it’s nice and it works but not great if you are horny or in need of a hug |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've taken it to the extreme, he's in Australia! We met and spent 2 weeks together on holiday 4 months ago. We've spoken every day since, and I'm going over there for a few months next week. Then we shall see what happens! "
Oh blimey! I was talking about within the UK, but that really is commitment. Wowzer!
It is nice to have a strong connection like that. Distance really is no issue when it feels right, it feels right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a few people who I see that are dotted around the country but we just chat and tease each other and if we are ever near to each other for business of holiday then we will meet up, it’s nice and it works but not great if you are horny or in need of a hug "
Exactly. I just found it too frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done it. I found it hard, the wait in between seeing him got too much. However had he had more availability so I could see him every couple of weeks that would have been fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone like the idea of having a long distance lover? Chatting and flirting and meeting every so often at a hotel for fun and then parting until next time?"
Didn't work out in the end unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the initial meeting that’s hard. You don’t want to feel obligated to do anything purely because they’ve travelled to you. I’ve done long distance before but it was exclusive and he actually referred to me as his girlfriend so was different to a long distance hook up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the initial meeting that’s hard. You don’t want to feel obligated to do anything purely because they’ve travelled to you. I’ve done long distance before but it was exclusive and he actually referred to me as his girlfriend so was different to a long distance hook up. "
Good to see you reinstated, girlfriend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a few people who I see that are dotted around the country but we just chat and tease each other and if we are ever near to each other for business of holiday then we will meet up, it’s nice and it works but not great if you are horny or in need of a hug
Exactly. I just found it too frustrating "
I’ve gotten used to it, I do enjoy having friends all over though it’s fun to run into them randomly on your travels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's the one where your meant to be distance doesn't matter.
What's important is finding the way that works no matter how many miles there may be...."
Agreed.
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"The idea is good.
The reality rarely works."
It worked short term for me, but after a year or so the distance (3hrs each way) got too much of a ball ache.
It's good if you like planning and anticipation, but not great for spontaneous or frequent meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the initial meeting that’s hard. You don’t want to feel obligated to do anything purely because they’ve travelled to you. I’ve done long distance before but it was exclusive and he actually referred to me as his girlfriend so was different to a long distance hook up.
Good to see you reinstated, girlfriend "
Many thanks. Was like the fucking free Deirdre Rasheed campaign all over again!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the initial meeting that’s hard. You don’t want to feel obligated to do anything purely because they’ve travelled to you. I’ve done long distance before but it was exclusive and he actually referred to me as his girlfriend so was different to a long distance hook up.
Good to see you reinstated, girlfriend
Many thanks. Was like the fucking free Deirdre Rasheed campaign all over again! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first lady I met on here and I still meet up every few months. She is in Cornwall and I'm in Norfolk but we enjoy each others company without getting serious. Which suits us both. Last time we met was in London but in Feb we are off to Miami to see Duran Duran. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone like the idea of having a long distance lover? Chatting and flirting and meeting every so often at a hotel for fun and then parting until next time?"
Definitely x |
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"Live the best life
One day we will all be stuck in an arm chair wrinkly and watching TV
Take every opportunity whilst your still sexy and horny  "
Hope you're not including me in that sweeping generalisation young man. |
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