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over a year ago
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Men have always liked curvier women. Although curvt has replaced overweight. Which is fine although there needs to be a new term for women are obviously a decent weight and fat percentage but have curves. Fit curvy maybe I dont know. |
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We generally do, but we don't generally rule out slimmer girls. There is something to be said for a girl you can pick up, turn upside down and drink from like a yard of ale |
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over a year ago
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I just like who I like
Some have been petite girls, some have been plus size, most are somewhere in between
I genuinely don't have a 'type'
My ex-Mrs was 10 years my senior, taller than me and, at her smallest, a size 16/18
The lass I was with before her was 5 years my junior, a size 6 and about 5ft at most
It's the face that draws me in first, then what the person is like behind the face
Women tend to initially attract me more with personality than they do with their sexual side
It's like I don't find 'sexy underwear' sexy in the slightest, or things like high heels or make up
Sexy to me is naked beauty and comfort with their body and their sexual self |
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"Men have always liked curvier women. Although curvt has replaced overweight. Which is fine although there needs to be a new term for women are obviously a decent weight and fat percentage but have curves. Fit curvy maybe I dont know. "
Doesn't fat and curvy cover it.
Btw i am fat so no need to look |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ? "
I like curvy/bbw/fat (call it what you will) as personally I prefer that body shape and it is more likely to turn me on than, say, a slim sylph-like figure.
It's a personal preference, much like some women prefer taller men, some don't like body hair, some like beards, etc.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers "
This  well said |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
I like curvy/bbw/fat (call it what you will) as personally I prefer that body shape and it is more likely to turn me on than, say, a slim sylph-like figure.
It's a personal preference, much like some women prefer taller men, some don't like body hair, some like beards, etc. "
Or baldies.
Don't forget the baldies.....
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers "
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case "
I'm sure there are some BBW's that are easy lays. Unfortunately for those that seek them, they aren't here in the numbers they'd expect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case
I'm sure there are some BBW's that are easy lays. Unfortunately for those that seek them, they aren't here in the numbers they'd expect."
For BBW's you could also read 'women' in general |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men have always liked curvier women. Although curvt has replaced overweight. Which is fine although there needs to be a new term for women are obviously a decent weight and fat percentage but have curves. Fit curvy maybe I dont know.
Doesn't fat and curvy cover it.
Btw i am fat so no need to look"
Every need to look at those fabulous curves gorgeous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a woman with curves just as much as an athletic toned female but there's something about more cushion for the pushing that can be fun.
I dislike the labels though...BBW etc
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case "
I completely agree here - I am on the “curvier” side but it amazes me the messages I get and the assumption I’ll be an easier target because of my size |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case
I completely agree here - I am on the “curvier” side but it amazes me the messages I get and the assumption I’ll be an easier target because of my size "
You genuinely have a nice arse by the way |
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There are men who really do prefer a larger lady, it is a shame when we feel like we have to question wether the guys want to meet us for who we are or because we are seen as an easy target, most of us I hope can see through the falseness of the guys who think the later 
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case "
They seem very shocked and often I think it dents there ego because even the women they consider desperate don't want them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying.. "
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case
They seem very shocked and often I think it dents there ego because even the women they consider desperate don't want them. "
God yeah. "I'm not desperate, I can have anyone I want." (list of demands)
"Oh, sorry, I'm not interested in doing those things. Glad you have so much choice. Good luck to you!"
They don't like that... |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us. "
You’d imagine so... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so... "
I know so.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did an experiment where I had the same profile pics and text but changed the body size from slim to large. The large profile got more mail.
It could just be coincidental/ down to timing when all the wives were down the shops though.  |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
It’s the woman that has the say  "
Yeah, any guy who wants me because I'm easy is going to discover that I'm not. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so. "
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones "
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case
I completely agree here - I am on the “curvier” side but it amazes me the messages I get and the assumption I’ll be an easier target because of my size
You genuinely have a nice arse by the way"
Thank you  again one bonus of being on the bigger side lol |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
I like curvy/bbw/fat (call it what you will) as personally I prefer that body shape and it is more likely to turn me on than, say, a slim sylph-like figure.
It's a personal preference, much like some women prefer taller men, some don't like body hair, some like beards, etc.
Or baldies.
Don't forget the baldies.....
A"
A, how could I forget....?!
And I prefer the term 'folically challenged'... |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset."
Lol sure.. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset.
Lol sure.. "
Bless you for lowering yourself but doesnt that make you more desperate for a fuck than the women you target? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Different strokes for different folks
I had a fb that would search the hub of porn for anorexic
Some have specific types
Some fuck tactically
Some don't care who they stick it in
Some care more about the person |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones "
Ha ha ha ...fell onto my big fat ass laughing at this one ...."target" ....
Such a delightful man ....ps I am well fat , not desperate and have turned down more than you have successfully targeted ....
Have turned down double figures in the last 3 minutes...so this fat BBW lard arse ain't easy ....
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset.
Lol sure..
Bless you for lowering yourself but doesnt that make you more desperate for a fuck than the women you target? "
Not in the slightest, I like some slimmer girls and I don’t like others, I like some larger girls and don’t like others.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset.
Lol sure..
Bless you for lowering yourself but doesnt that make you more desperate for a fuck than the women you target? "
if they only knew about the lovely times we had together sandy |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
Ha ha ha ...fell onto my big fat ass laughing at this one ...."target" ....
Such a delightful man ....ps I am well fat , not desperate and have turned down more than you have successfully targeted ....
Have turned down double figures in the last 3 minutes...so this fat BBW lard arse ain't easy ....
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Don’t blame me for enlightening you to the way men are, you should be thanking me haha |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset.
Lol sure..
Bless you for lowering yourself but doesnt that make you more desperate for a fuck than the women you target?
if they only knew about the lovely times we had together sandy"
I know Patrick, no size issues there |
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"I did an experiment where I had the same profile pics and text but changed the body size from slim to large. The large profile got more mail.
It could just be coincidental/ down to timing when all the wives were down the shops though. "
Nah. Only dogs love bones. I've seen forum men spouting that bollocks more times than I've seen the popcorn comments! |
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"I did an experiment where I had the same profile pics and text but changed the body size from slim to large. The large profile got more mail.
It could just be coincidental/ down to timing when all the wives were down the shops though.
Nah. Only dogs love bones. I've seen forum men spouting that bollocks more times than I've seen the popcorn comments!"
Strangely enough no knee has said that in this thread, it’s a Christmas miracle |
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"I did an experiment where I had the same profile pics and text but changed the body size from slim to large. The large profile got more mail.
It could just be coincidental/ down to timing when all the wives were down the shops though.
Nah. Only dogs love bones. I've seen forum men spouting that bollocks more times than I've seen the popcorn comments!
Strangely enough no knee has said that in this thread, it’s a Christmas miracle "
Knee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did an experiment where I had the same profile pics and text but changed the body size from slim to large. The large profile got more mail.
It could just be coincidental/ down to timing when all the wives were down the shops though.
Nah. Only dogs love bones. I've seen forum men spouting that bollocks more times than I've seen the popcorn comments!"
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"I did an experiment where I had the same profile pics and text but changed the body size from slim to large. The large profile got more mail.
It could just be coincidental/ down to timing when all the wives were down the shops though.
Nah. Only dogs love bones. I've seen forum men spouting that bollocks more times than I've seen the popcorn comments!
Strangely enough no knee has said that in this thread, it’s a Christmas miracle "
The bees knees? |
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"I did an experiment where I had the same profile pics and text but changed the body size from slim to large. The large profile got more mail.
It could just be coincidental/ down to timing when all the wives were down the shops though.
Nah. Only dogs love bones. I've seen forum men spouting that bollocks more times than I've seen the popcorn comments!
Strangely enough no knee has said that in this thread, it’s a Christmas miracle
The bees knees? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset.
Lol sure..
Bless you for lowering yourself but doesnt that make you more desperate for a fuck than the women you target?
if they only knew about the lovely times we had together sandy
I know Patrick, no size issues there "
you had me tied up and at your mercy.
great times x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
The not slim women sit on them.
Now that sounds like fun
It is. "
Especially with heels like that |
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"Some genuinely do, but that’s not the majority.
Top of the hot pics are usually slim/average build, so they are what most men find attractive. "
Indeed, on the whole and if given the choice, most men will choose the slimmer woman. That doesn't mean they don't find larger women attractive, just less so. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ? "
Beautiful is beautiful, chemistry is chemistry. In non-fab world I have dated slim, average and curvy women. It always been about the attraction.
On the flip side do women prefer muscles? If so why? |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread! "
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity. |
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"Some genuinely do, but that’s not the majority.
Top of the hot pics are usually slim/average build, so they are what most men find attractive.
Indeed, on the whole and if given the choice, most men will choose the slimmer woman. That doesn't mean they don't find larger women attractive, just less so. "
i dont care about things like size. if someone is getting along with me and its progressing nicely then you take it a step further.
my verifications are from women of different shape, age groups and sizes.
before i came here i met sandy on another site and we are incredibly good friends.
ok with some women ive needed a ladder to kiss them one women i met on another site was nearly 6 foot and her party piece was carrying me in the hotel to the bed room
she use to rest her elbow on my head at the bar but it was fun.
it doesnt matter. if your happy in each others company go for it.
labels belong in department stores
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity. "
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say. |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say. "
As with most things on these threads, it's not what you say it's the you say it. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
Beautiful is beautiful, chemistry is chemistry. In non-fab world I have dated slim, average and curvy women. It always been about the attraction.
On the flip side do women prefer muscles? If so why?"
I find six packs fascinating to look at but am not attracted to overtly overworked male bodies.
I agree with you, attraction can be instant and outside of your ‘usual’ type, and that’s why labels such as straight, bi etc irritate me. That said I do have a general type I go for
Lorri x |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say. "
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha "
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude. |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude. "
How is saying ‘I prefer slim women’ arrogant and rude, it’s a preference, you know like the ones women have. |
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over a year ago
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case
I completely agree here - I am on the “curvier” side but it amazes me the messages I get and the assumption I’ll be an easier target because of my size
You genuinely have a nice arse by the way"
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude.
How is saying ‘I prefer slim women’ arrogant and rude, it’s a preference, you know like the ones women have."
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude.
How is saying ‘I prefer slim women’ arrogant and rude, it’s a preference, you know like the ones women have."
As a larger lady I don't find your comment rude or arrogant.
It's your preference to what you find attractive. |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude. "
I apologise if you picked it up that way, it’s just not easy to dress up facts.. |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude.
How is saying ‘I prefer slim women’ arrogant and rude, it’s a preference, you know like the ones women have.
As a larger lady I don't find your comment rude or arrogant.
It's your preference to what you find attractive. "
It wasn't him I was referring to mainly the other guy. |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude.
I apologise if you picked it up that way, it’s just not easy to dress up facts.. "
Exactly what I mean you were trying to suggest that larger women easy Options because we're desperate and that really isn't the case. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
what do you mean easier??
Less work needed to nail "
you think.im rather selective |
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude.
How is saying ‘I prefer slim women’ arrogant and rude, it’s a preference, you know like the ones women have.
As a larger lady I don't find your comment rude or arrogant.
It's your preference to what you find attractive. "
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"Men are terrified of saying they prefer slim women on here.
No they aren’t, you say it all the time
I’m the only one in the thread!
Exactly because it's aimed at larger/ curvy women. So if you don't like them that's absolutely fine you just don't necessarily need to point out every given opportunity.
That’s exactly the reason why men don’t mention it. The Op asked if men prefer curvier women, I said I didn’t and I’m the only one who has said so, which either makes me unique or men are to scared to say.
I also said in general that don’t and got told I was wrong hahaha
Neither of you were told you were wrong it was the way you said it comes across as arrogant and rude.
I apologise if you picked it up that way, it’s just not easy to dress up facts..
Exactly what I mean you were trying to suggest that larger women easy Options because we're desperate and that really isn't the case. "
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I prefer women I find attractive, can have a laugh with, who have a warmth, openness and likeability about them, who have a certain something or confidence in how they carry themselves, or have a certain sexual confidence about them.
These can often be things they might not see in themselves, even though they’re there more than they realise or can see themselves.
All of that kind of stuff comes way before someone’s size or shape, as that is one of the last things that define someone. |
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"I prefer women I find attractive, can have a laugh with, who have a warmth, openness and likeability about them, who have a certain something or confidence in how they carry themselves, or have a certain sexual confidence about them.
These can often be things they might not see in themselves, even though they’re there more than they realise or can see themselves.
All of that kind of stuff comes way before someone’s size or shape, as that is one of the last things that define someone."
Jaysus.. and Miss World actually wants world peace too lol..
Can I borrow that speech, it’s brilliant.. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case "
I agree!!!! I may be fat but im not desperate lol |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset.
Lol sure..
Bless you for lowering yourself but doesnt that make you more desperate for a fuck than the women you target? "
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case
I agree!!!! I may be fat but im not desperate lol "
I’m fat. Far from desperate. Definitely not easy. And will 100% avoid arseholes who think I would be punching by fucking them.
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I agree, they seem shocked when it’s not the case
I agree!!!! I may be fat but im not desperate lol
I’m fat. Far from desperate. Definitely not easy. And will 100% avoid arseholes who think I would be punching by fucking them.
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset."
I agree with you lornajo curvy women are no Easier than slim women anyone who thinks that realy has no idea |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
They are generally easier, if any man says different then he’s lying..
Thing is we get more choice because so many claim to like larger women. So it's actually harder to get us.
You’d imagine so...
I know so.
For men, chunkier birds are easier pulled than slimmer ones, maybe because slimmer ones are becoming more rare, I certainly have pulled way more than slimmer ones with prob equal effort to both and men here will generally be in the same boat, makes sense to target the easier ones
You just illustrated my earlier point perfectly.
That's what a lot of men think then they find out exceptionally quickly they are very wrong then they get upset.
I agree with you lornajo curvy women are no Easier than slim women anyone who thinks that realy has no idea"
Statistically incorrect for the very large majority of men here.. of course you’ll have the odd hero disagreeing looking for an angle.. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers "
I've had a few try this and you can see straight through them, and BOY do I have fun putting the fuckers straight |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I've had a few try this and you can see straight through them, and BOY do I have fun putting the fuckers straight "
Me too. Particularly when they think they're all that. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers "
this x |
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"They seem very shocked and often I think it dents there ego because even the women they consider desperate don't want them.
I'd not even thought of that "
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I probably AM easier than slim girls....because I enjoy sex and only just become accepting of my body and that fact men can still find me sexy. So I'm having my fun. I don't care if that makes me 'easier'....
I'm just sad we are using terms like that on a site such as this... |
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"I probably AM easier than slim girls....because I enjoy sex and only just become accepting of my body and that fact men can still find me sexy. So I'm having my fun. I don't care if that makes me 'easier'....
I'm just sad we are using terms like that on a site such as this..."
Considering you have an age limit i'd say you weren't "easy".
If you'd sleep with me, you're easy. That's how i'd measure it. |
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I preferred it when I didn’t have to wonder if it was because they fancied me or whether they thought I was easy. Why the fuck are we pitted against each other because we look differently?
Ladies, We all have our own merits. Don’t let anyone try to curry favour with you by shaming someone else. Chaps, Approach the women YOU like. Not the ones that you think might fuck you if you dropped your ‘standards’. There’s no winners there.
To answer the OP. Lots of chaps like a fat bird. It’s just a case of sussing out the genuine ones from the ‘grafters’. |
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"I preferred it when I didn’t have to wonder if it was because they fancied me or whether they thought I was easy. Why the fuck are we pitted against each other because we look differently?
Ladies, We all have our own merits. Don’t let anyone try to curry favour with you by shaming someone else. Chaps, Approach the women YOU like. Not the ones that you think might fuck you if you dropped your ‘standards’. There’s no winners there.
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You both get sex. Win win really.
Not ideal but that's fab.
What if you have no "standards"? What do you do? |
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"I preferred it when I didn’t have to wonder if it was because they fancied me or whether they thought I was easy. Why the fuck are we pitted against each other because we look differently?
Ladies, We all have our own merits. Don’t let anyone try to curry favour with you by shaming someone else. Chaps, Approach the women YOU like. Not the ones that you think might fuck you if you dropped your ‘standards’. There’s no winners there.
You both get sex. Win win really.
Not ideal but that's fab.
What if you have no "standards"? What do you do?"
I’m afraid I’ve never had sex with someone just because. It isn’t fab. That’s the ‘grownupjob’ site you’re confused with. As for the last question... you’ll have to find an answer elsewhere. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have preferences or a base standard they work from. |
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"I preferred it when I didn’t have to wonder if it was because they fancied me or whether they thought I was easy. Why the fuck are we pitted against each other because we look differently?
Ladies, We all have our own merits. Don’t let anyone try to curry favour with you by shaming someone else. Chaps, Approach the women YOU like. Not the ones that you think might fuck you if you dropped your ‘standards’. There’s no winners there.
To answer the OP. Lots of chaps like a fat bird. It’s just a case of sussing out the genuine ones from the ‘grafters’. "
Sex is so much better when it's about respect and attraction rather than stupid manipulative games. |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ? "
On fab? I'd say yes after reading the answers in the forums to this question over the years. |
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It's a very contentious subject for sure as this thread has proven!
Personally I don't believe any gender as a whole would ever have such a specific preference of one size over another as there are so very many variations
I was slim when I met my partner then four kids later I was considerably larger he now claims to only like BBWs but then why did he like me originally?
Because he was attracted to me as a person and I'm still that person but he fears admitting still finding slim women attractive as he doesn't want to make me feel unattractive (all very honourable but I'm really not that fragile I'm a realist and know that attraction is more than just a body shape)
I find young tight bodied guys attractive and I find older softer bodied guys attractive but above all of that it's the person as a whole that grabs my attention, the conversation, the humour, the connection then the physical!
I can genuinely tell if a guy is into my body or if he is just into fucking and of its the former then omg it's gonna be a great night of its the latter then we aren't going to make it past the first snog cause even if they have drawn me in with false patter then really can't fake their attraction or lack of by the kissing stage!
As for the ladies I really really do like bodies like my own, I love the sensualness of a soft body, a squishy belly, full breasts, thick thighs and a very large butt are an incredibly huge turn on to me |
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Why do some guys stand up and claim to talk for all guys and call it a fact ! I like curvier women for me they are more attractive ! It maybe because im a big guy myself but i cant tell u why ! So dont say we all like curvier women or bbws what ever term u prefer because we think they are an easier target, i was doorman and had more skinny women throwing themselves at me than bigger women which was a bugger for me and i never once took any of the skinny women up on the offers because its not what i like ! |
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"Why do some guys stand up and claim to talk for all guys and call it a fact ! I like curvier women for me they are more attractive ! It maybe because im a big guy myself but i cant tell u why ! So dont say we all like curvier women or bbws what ever term u prefer because we think they are an easier target, i was doorman and had more skinny women throwing themselves at me than bigger women which was a bugger for me and i never once took any of the skinny women up on the offers because its not what i like ! "
Really can’t figure out how people can’t read comments properly.. |
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We all like sex and we all fancy different body shapes but it feels quite insulting to be thought of as a second class citizens because we are curvy/large call it whatever you want. When I first joined the swinging community we didn’t have all this “who is the best” shit, no one was pitted against anyone, people were friendly and accepting of us all, it’s very sad that women and some men are made to feel less than anyone else, very sad indeed, it really puts me off from ever meeting again. |
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"It's a very contentious subject for sure as this thread has proven!
Personally I don't believe any gender as a whole would ever have such a specific preference of one size over another as there are so very many variations
I was slim when I met my partner then four kids later I was considerably larger he now claims to only like BBWs but then why did he like me originally?
Because he was attracted to me as a person and I'm still that person but he fears admitting still finding slim women attractive as he doesn't want to make me feel unattractive (all very honourable but I'm really not that fragile I'm a realist and know that attraction is more than just a body shape)
I find young tight bodied guys attractive and I find older softer bodied guys attractive but above all of that it's the person as a whole that grabs my attention, the conversation, the humour, the connection then the physical!
I can genuinely tell if a guy is into my body or if he is just into fucking and of its the former then omg it's gonna be a great night of its the latter then we aren't going to make it past the first snog cause even if they have drawn me in with false patter then really can't fake their attraction or lack of by the kissing stage!
As for the ladies I really really do like bodies like my own, I love the sensualness of a soft body, a squishy belly, full breasts, thick thighs and a very large butt are an incredibly huge turn on to me "
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If people don’t like then don’t look simple as. some people think sex is only for “slim” people what you don’t find attractive someone else will and so on I just like cock and pussy without the surround sound bitching haha |
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I've been both large (18/20) and small (10/12) and everything in-between. In all my years and all my sizes I've always had standards and never been an easy target. If anything when I was larger I wanted less sex than when I was smaller, most likely as I wasn't hitting the gym at the time so would rather cosy on the sofa. I'm half way down to being back to my ideal size of 10/12 and I still have standards and I certainly won't jump on just anyone.
Chemistry, mutual attraction, mental connection and a decent human being will always be my base standard no matter how fat or slim I get or how old and wrinkling I'll become.
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"I've been both large (18/20) and small (10/12) and everything in-between. In all my years and all my sizes I've always had standards and never been an easy target. If anything when I was larger I wanted less sex than when I was smaller, most likely as I wasn't hitting the gym at the time so would rather cosy on the sofa. I'm half way down to being back to my ideal size of 10/12 and I still have standards and I certainly won't jump on just anyone.
Chemistry, mutual attraction, mental connection and a decent human being will always be my base standard no matter how fat or slim I get or how old and wrinkling I'll become.
Eski"
I btw prefer curvy women and so does trim, think he would get very annoyed if I was anything less than a size 10/12.
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ? "
It's just like asking women if they like bigger or thinner men, it's preference. We all like different things. What do you prefer op? |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
This well said"
Glad i am not alone x |
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"Real women are curvy..ie.. perfect
All women are real dear boy
Yes they are but curvy women are the best x
In your opinion. "
Of course it is his opinion, the OP is about why men like larger ladies not about why men don’t |
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"Real women are curvy..ie.. perfect
All women are real dear boy
Yes they are but curvy women are the best x
In your opinion.
Of course it is his opinion, the OP is about why men like larger ladies not about why men don’t "
It's not. Here's the op
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"I probably AM easier than slim girls....because I enjoy sex and only just become accepting of my body and that fact men can still find me sexy. So I'm having my fun. I don't care if that makes me 'easier'....
I'm just sad we are using terms like that on a site such as this..."
Glad you think that way, after all it’s about how you feel about yourself. If you are comfortable with yourself it shows an attractive confidence |
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"Is it really true that men prefer curvier women ? If so why ?
So they claim. I think there is a big slice of I'll tap that up coz she is easy or needs to say yes because of the lack of offers
I've had a few try this and you can see straight through them, and BOY do I have fun putting the fuckers straight
Me too. Particularly when they think they're all that. "
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