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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

Absolutely ,,, all day long ,,, and then I’d wake up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be a scammer - there seems to be a few about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No not at all i just call them brave

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Yes

What's good for the gander is also good for the goose......

A

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Does the first message say fuck me big boy

Or

Hi, I like your profile and would love to chat more ?

I've never been messaged first but I bet it feels amazing to receive one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im genuinely shocked when a woman messages me first as its a very rare thing especially for someone like me , as im not the best looking or slimmest and is abit alternative but no i wouldnt think im guaranteed anything because of it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What woman’s messaging me first then?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan over a year ago

Northampton

I would not think this automatically, no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

Does the first message say fuck me big boy

Or

Hi, I like your profile and would love to chat more ?

I've never been messaged first but I bet it feels amazing to receive one"

It would say:

hi

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Could be a scammer - there seems to be a few about"

You'd assume it was a scam?

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By *lan157Man over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Fab would be a better experience if more women made first contact and this became the norm. Women choosing based on profiles and a couple of photos . Women not getting 200 messages a day. Let's hope it catches on .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On the rare occasion that this has happened I’ve taken a good look at the profile first - decided if they look like the type of person that would fuck anything, or whether I think I’m right up their street and then I’d take it from there. One of my favourite lyrics from a song is “I won’t roll my bones for every little girl who gets on down”...

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By *errysMan over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Send one to me and I'll tell you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"
Is the first paragraph about your secret self?

If so best not guarantee yourself to any man until you get an idea about him first!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or more likely...

“Hi, there has been a plague that has infected every other man on the planet. Looks like I’m stuck with you.”

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By *rsTrellisWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

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By *rsTrellisWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Im genuinely shocked when a woman messages me first as its a very rare thing especially for someone like me , as im not the best looking or slimmest and is abit alternative but no i wouldnt think im guaranteed anything because of it x"

You said it’s rare for a woman to message you first so I’m saying hi. You look lovely to me! X

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By *nSeeNMan over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

No, why would you think that would be the case?

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By *rsTrellisWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

"On the rare occasion that this has happened I’ve taken a good look at the profile first - decided if they look like the type of person that would fuck anything, or whether I think I’m right up their street and then I’d take it from there. One of my favourite lyrics from a song is “I won’t roll my bones for every little girl who gets on down”..."

I seem to recall I messaged you first! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No.

Most want to chat first find out a few things which I like to do.

Most women I'd hope are more careful these days.

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

No I haven't done, but when they have messaged me first it has led to sex if I've wanted it to so maybe I should think that.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

Does the first message say fuck me big boy

Or

Hi, I like your profile and would love to chat more ?

I've never been messaged first but I bet it feels amazing to receive one

It would say:

hi"

Just hi would leave me a bit disappointed that it doesn't say a little bit more than that but in no way is that a desperate message indicating that you're gagging for sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"
Women who send a first message to me are women of impeccable taste, and are more likely to agree with a no expectation coffee (meeting me out of curiosity more than carnal desire). Once they meet me, I win them over with my charm. I don't recall a first message ever turning into a guaranteed fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab would be a better experience if more women made first contact and this became the norm. Women choosing based on profiles and a couple of photos . Women not getting 200 messages a day. Let's hope it catches on . "

I wonder if men would make more of an effort with their profiles if they were being hunted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

Is the first paragraph about your secret self?

If so best not guarantee yourself to any man until you get an idea about him first!

"

Yes it is but it's a secret. shhhhh

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By *xhib12Man over a year ago

Blyth

Wouldnt assume anything, I'd be somewhat surprised as I gather from forum posts and chats that it's a little unusual. I'd probably return the "hi" message and have a look at her profile whilst waiting for her to respond.

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By *olexMan over a year ago

Hull

Never happened & i doubt it ever will but never assume that it's guaranteed. I've always thought that even when i've been chatting to women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or more likely...

“Hi, there has been a plague that has infected every other man on the planet. Looks like I’m stuck with you.”"

I'm going to copy this and mass mail every man in my local area.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or more likely...

“Hi, there has been a plague that has infected every other man on the planet. Looks like I’m stuck with you.”"

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By *orwegian BlueMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Nothing in life is guaranteed except death and hemorrhoids..(and fortunately neither has paid me a visit yet), so why would you expect a gregarious lady to be up first a shag on the first meet?

I'd agree that as a guy, receiving the first message from a female is a rare thing but just because she actively looks for what she wants rather than trawling through a plethora of messages trying to sort the wheat and chaff, that doesn't make her any more predisposed to guaranteed sex than someone less pro active..

There is an old saying (why the fuck are all sayings old, are we not clever enough to think up new ones?) "Watch out for the quiet ones!"

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By *amelhunterMan over a year ago

newcastle

Id likely fall over, knock myself out. Then not reply to the message out of shock

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nope that thought has never occurred to me when it's happened...next!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing in life is guaranteed except death and hemorrhoids..(and fortunately neither has paid me a visit yet), so why would you expect a gregarious lady to be up first a shag on the first meet?

I'd agree that as a guy, receiving the first message from a female is a rare thing but just because she actively looks for what she wants rather than trawling through a plethora of messages trying to sort the wheat and chaff, that doesn't make her any more predisposed to guaranteed sex than someone less pro active..

There is an old saying (why the fuck are all sayings old, are we not clever enough to think up new ones?) "Watch out for the quiet ones!""

Ooh, I'm quiet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

As long as it's not 'Hey' from a silhouette.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So does the same rule apply in real life? If a woman smiles or starts a convo then automatically it's on like donkey Kong!! Sheeeeit think I've missed a few sitters...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

You're fishing hard today

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By *ettyboob72Woman over a year ago

Manningtree

we are in the 21st century are we not. one message, does not guarantee sex

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

I've been known to message first, it just means I think there could be a potential match, but convos and face pics are needed to see if anything progresses.

As I'm sure men who message first do the same, well apart from the "this is my hotel cum and sit on my face" types

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

If it's a faf message...

I never assume anything, just see where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha!

Imagine the poor lads who believe you, and then it dawns on them they have to repopulate the human race.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im genuinely shocked when a woman messages me first as its a very rare thing especially for someone like me , as im not the best looking or slimmest and is abit alternative but no i wouldnt think im guaranteed anything because of it x

You said it’s rare for a woman to message you first so I’m saying hi. You look lovely to me! X"

Awwwwww thank you very much ur more than welcome to inbox i would definetly be up for chatting with a lovely lady like u ! Plus ur fairly localish and u go jaydees aswell x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Going by the amount of men (practically all of them) who will meet me without seeing my pics or knowing anything about me, I'm going with yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been known to message first actually. Its usually because they have said something that's interested me or I like the cut of their jib. I message because I would like to learn more about them, I'm far from desperate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So does the same rule apply in real life? If a woman smiles or starts a convo then automatically it's on like donkey Kong!! Sheeeeit think I've missed a few sitters..."

Yes. Yes it is true. If a woman looks at you she's imagining riding your cock like a mad woman while screaming "yippy aye yay".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

I don't think this is true, it's certainly never been my assumption, and even if it is so what? We're all equal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

You're fishing hard today

"

What do you mean fishing?

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I have messaged men in the past, mostly because I wanted sex with them, I don’t see anything wrong with that, it’s quite liberating in fact

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's rare to receive a first message from a lady. Mine have usually been in response to a thread. I don't think anyone has contacted me purely from looking at my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On the rare occasion that this has happened I’ve taken a good look at the profile first - decided if they look like the type of person that would fuck anything, or whether I think I’m right up their street and then I’d take it from there. One of my favourite lyrics from a song is “I won’t roll my bones for every little girl who gets on down”...

I seem to recall I messaged you first! X"

Yes you did

x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d think she’s a 21st century woman and not much more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So does the same rule apply in real life? If a woman smiles or starts a convo then automatically it's on like donkey Kong!! Sheeeeit think I've missed a few sitters...

Yes. Yes it is true. If a woman looks at you she's imagining riding your cock like a mad woman while screaming "yippy aye yay"."

Is she working alphabetically?...just curious.

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By *errysMan over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

You havnt sent a message to me so far, so if you now did i would think that.

I have received a couple in the past (the first said we must be neighbours (we were)) i didnt think anything other than WOW who is it.

We met that night and just chatted (met a couple times since). Another i had already met in a club so no.

A couple others profiles looked like working girls or bare backers so yes.....report block delete.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So does the same rule apply in real life? If a woman smiles or starts a convo then automatically it's on like donkey Kong!! Sheeeeit think I've missed a few sitters...

Yes. Yes it is true. If a woman looks at you she's imagining riding your cock like a mad woman while screaming "yippy aye yay".

Is she working alphabetically?...just curious.

"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd think she was a he posing as a woman

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

I hate it when you get a first message from woman that says ... Hi hun.. ...I'm in your area today or... how r u.. or wot yer wearin' ... and the such like ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So does the same rule apply in real life? If a woman smiles or starts a convo then automatically it's on like donkey Kong!! Sheeeeit think I've missed a few sitters...

Yes. Yes it is true. If a woman looks at you she's imagining riding your cock like a mad woman while screaming "yippy aye yay".

Is she working alphabetically?...just curious.

"

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

It's flattering to be messaged first by a woman.

You can only really talk yourself out of a meet then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still waiting! Lol. Surprise me!

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"No.

Most want to chat first find out a few things which I like to do.

Most women I'd hope are more careful these days."

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep, still waiting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope, I’m skeptical every time a woman messages me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

I’d assume it was probably a man, a scammer, or both.... in any case, the style/content would usually give them away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"
i do not believe it because it could be a trap for men as women here are very picky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

You're fishing hard today

"

It's called starting a debate.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

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This thread is an interesting read

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i talk to anyone.....

just because they say hi i don't assume they want to do anything, for once in my life i may have said something that sparked an interest...

i know... when this man fires up the half a brain cell i have left... its like...poof!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women... message first?

Wtf?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

That's exactly what it means- bitches be cray-cray, afterall!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often message men first, but it's often not welcomed.

I'm usually questioning something about them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve only ever messaged one person first and it

didn’t lead to anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women... message first?

Wtf?"

I was actually thinking about doing it this year, but it's hard work, and I'm lazy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve only ever messaged one person first and it

didn’t lead to anything. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women... message first?

Wtf?

I was actually thinking about doing it this year, but it's hard work, and I'm lazy. "

It is. You have to write hello and ask a question and everything!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A message off a woman first on FAB!! Are you crazy!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

i used to message first only had one guy get cocky and think he was guarantred a shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Is this like saying I’m a brazen hussy if I send the first message. Lol going on that I must be after half the forumites x

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By *r_BlueEyesMan over a year ago

Manchester

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

It's happened to me once and that was yesterday. So because it's rarely happened to me I wouldn't know what to think of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or more likely...

“Hi, there has been a plague that has infected every other man on the planet. Looks like I’m stuck with you.”"

Their loss is my gain hopefully

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've messaged first in the past - if another friend or couple have recommended someone. One of my favourite fwb's was recommended and we had great fun until he retired

sometimes I just want to get to know someone. It's not 'Shag U Like' here! People are real!

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By *ookwhoitishaMan over a year ago

outside Strabane

I thought women evening replying to messages was an urban myth never mind sending a first one ha

#SympathyVote hit me up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope op I don't but then it's rare a lady makes first contact

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Women... message first?

Wtf?

I was actually thinking about doing it this year, but it's hard work, and I'm lazy. "

you messaged me..... so naaaaah!!!!!!!!

i know i don't get back as often as i should, i've just sacked my admin monkey for dereliction of duty!!!!

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By *uvtogiveoralMan over a year ago

hyde

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"
id love a first message

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

" i used to message first only had one guy get cocky and think he was guarantred a shag"

........again.... how many times do i have to apologise for that!!!

i was young and nieve, now i am just old!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Not always, maybe she has a liking but possibly not sex mad.

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By *r_BlueEyesMan over a year ago

Manchester

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

It's happened to me once and that was yesterday. So because it's rarely happened to me I wouldn't know what to think of it "

Saying that I wish it happened more often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

You think too much

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" i used to message first only had one guy get cocky and think he was guarantred a shag

........again.... how many times do i have to apologise for that!!!

i was young and nieve, now i am just old!!!!

"

!

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

I think all women on this site are feisty and sex-mad.

So I don't make assumptions when they message.

But if ladies and couples used the filters, to stop the avalanche of chancers with one line copy-and-paste messages, and messaged the profiles of those who actually interested them, it might improve everybody's experience.

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By *ineMan over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"So does the same rule apply in real life? If a woman smiles or starts a convo then automatically it's on like donkey Kong!! Sheeeeit think I've missed a few sitters...

Yes. Yes it is true. If a woman looks at you she's imagining riding your cock like a mad woman while screaming "yippy aye yay"."

Channelling Bruce Willis?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Nope...because a simple response assuming so would soon cut the convo short.

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By *rtraymondo76Man over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Fab would be a better experience if more women made first contact and this became the norm. Women choosing based on profiles and a couple of photos . Women not getting 200 messages a day. Let's hope it catches on .

I wonder if men would make more of an effort with their profiles if they were being hunted.

"

Have had a couple and they've led to better things, but it's no guarantee.

Think my profile is OK, but do try to ring the changes from time to time both with the profile and the photos. Otherwise it can all go a bit stale.

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By *ugga MannMan over a year ago

Heathrow

The thing I don’t like about this thread is it plays to the usual Fab stereotypes. OK so she’s a sexually confident woman but that doesn’t mean she’s indiscriminate and will shag anything. Through this place I’ve met quite a lot of sexually confident women and most of them have been fussy about who they get naked with.

So no. I never assume it’s a guaranteed shag. Rather it’s a sign that they are open to the possibility as long as the chemistry is right.

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By *he Vital SparkMan over a year ago

Preston

"I have been known to message first actually. Its usually because they have said something that's interested me or I like the cut of their jib. I message because I would like to learn more about them, I'm far from desperate "
This is more likely, how I get approached. Nothing is guaranteed, even in a club, if a female approaches me, I don't assume she is after sex. There has to be that attraction! Okay someone has to make the first move, yeah I'd love females to make the first move, but I won't hold my breath.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I would find it refreshingly courageous

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I never assume anything

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

Does the first message say fuck me big boy

Or

Hi, I like your profile and would love to chat more ?

I've never been messaged first but I bet it feels amazing to receive one

It would say:

hi"

If thats the case, yes shes borderline deviant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In a club I talk to everyone even if I am not attracted to them

Tend to play with people who approach us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The thing I don’t like about this thread is it plays to the usual Fab stereotypes. OK so she’s a sexually confident woman but that doesn’t mean she’s indiscriminate and will shag anything. Through this place I’ve met quite a lot of sexually confident women and most of them have been fussy about who they get naked with.

So no. I never assume it’s a guaranteed shag. Rather it’s a sign that they are open to the possibility as long as the chemistry is right."

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

100%. Got an unexpected message from the school a couple of weeks ago. Clearly the school receptionist was after my cock. Why else would she message me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last time I had a message and photo from a lady. Very pretty 30 yo lady. But unverifed. Thought it was a fake and ignored it. Few days later she was verified :-0

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women... message first?

Wtf?

I was actually thinking about doing it this year, but it's hard work, and I'm lazy.

It is. You have to write hello and ask a question and everything!"

That's the easy part. It's finding someone to message that's the hard part. Do you know there's millions of men on here??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Last time I had a message and photo from a lady. Very pretty 30 yo lady. But unverifed. Thought it was a fake and ignored it. Few days later she was verified :-0"

Some men will verify a woman who promises to meet them after, or send naughty pics. They are probably really men using stolen sexy pics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've messaged first quite a few times, if I like their photos, something on their profile or think we could be looking for the same thing.

Do get a few questioning replies about if I'm fake but mainly find they're kind enough to reply.

Have met twice through making the first move. I even still see the man I sent a 'faf' message too but that was a cheeky joke as I already knew him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

I am a very confident woman and happy to send the first message if I like what I see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually assume its from a fake account

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I think fab should have a couple of days where the ladys have to message first this would stop them getting loads of messages that they can't possibly read and make it easier for them to pick men that they actually would be interested in just a thought

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Absolutely not.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman over a year ago

Southampton

I have sent the first message a couple of times if I like the look of a guy.

I get a lot of messages from guys with no photos and no info about themselves other than "fill this in later" and the message usually says want to fuck which I will ignore

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

"I think fab should have a couple of days where the ladys have to message first this would stop them getting loads of messages that they can't possibly read and make it easier for them to pick men that they actually would be interested in just a thought

"

Filter February.

Only messages from men on friends list or replies to messages sent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Last time I had a message and photo from a lady. Very pretty 30 yo lady. But unverifed. Thought it was a fake and ignored it. Few days later she was verified :-0

Some men will verify a woman who promises to meet them after, or send naughty pics. They are probably really men using stolen sexy pics. "

I get so many men offering to verify me!! If I then return the favour to boost their rep or whatever!! some people that are unverified are real!! The horror!!

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By *ovegames42Man over a year ago

london

Apologies for stating the obvious, but may be they just like the look of you and wish to strike up a conversation.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've received a few first messages but it's usually to ask about a post I've made or to comment on something.

I never assume anything past the topic or the question they've asked.

Generally though it's how I get all my correspondence these days, I think it's nice that people want to chat and I'm happy to do that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apologies for stating the obvious, but may be they just like the look of you and wish to strike up a conversation. "

Who needs a convo? Just some pics to like then meet, surely that's how it works...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apologies for stating the obvious, but may be they just like the look of you and wish to strike up a conversation. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think that women who messaged me first know that I'd fuck anyone anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women... message first?

Wtf?

I was actually thinking about doing it this year, but it's hard work, and I'm lazy.

It is. You have to write hello and ask a question and everything!

That's the easy part. It's finding someone to message that's the hard part. Do you know there's millions of men on here??

"

Be more open minded maybe?

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

No, I would think she was just being friendly and open to the opportunity of being friends and maybe taking it further later down the line.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I hardly ever send a first message. If I do it will most likely be a reaction to a forum post.

I did go crazy and send one just because and, although he did reply, I could tell he’d rather that I’d not bothered him

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I think that women who messaged me first know that I'd fuck anyone anyway "

Oh cool, check your inbox

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have fucked someone after an initial first few messages but this is rare

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think that women who messaged me first know that I'd fuck anyone anyway

Oh cool, check your inbox

"

I'll do you one day

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By *itzhallMan over a year ago

birchington

I'd be gobsmacked if I got a message at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

Is this like saying I’m a brazen hussy if I send the first message. Lol going on that I must be after half the forumites x

"

Yes of course.

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

You think too much

"

I think that too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think all women on this site are feisty and sex-mad.

So I don't make assumptions when they message.

But if ladies and couples used the filters, to stop the avalanche of chancers with one line copy-and-paste messages, and messaged the profiles of those who actually interested them, it might improve everybody's experience. "

If women and couples messaged everyone that interested them, a lot of men still wouldn't get any mail.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The thing I don’t like about this thread is it plays to the usual Fab stereotypes. OK so she’s a sexually confident woman but that doesn’t mean she’s indiscriminate and will shag anything. Through this place I’ve met quite a lot of sexually confident women and most of them have been fussy about who they get naked with.

So no. I never assume it’s a guaranteed shag. Rather it’s a sign that they are open to the possibility as long as the chemistry is right."

It was something someone said to me. I was a bit

It's not the first time I've come across the attitude stated in my OP, hence my question. It put me off mailing anyone first.

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By *xtrafun4youMan over a year ago

Dunstable

I wish lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it would actually indicate the opposite. If she'd shag anyone she'd just pick from the million messages every girl gets. If she's been pro-active and sought someone out she must be attracted to them specifically.

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I think it would actually indicate the opposite. If she'd shag anyone she'd just pick from the million messages every girl gets. If she's been pro-active and sought someone out she must be attracted to them specifically."

Exactly, like a headhunter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it would actually indicate the opposite. If she'd shag anyone she'd just pick from the million messages every girl gets. If she's been pro-active and sought someone out she must be attracted to them specifically."

I like this, a positive slant I hadn't considered. Thank you.

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I think all women on this site are feisty and sex-mad.

So I don't make assumptions when they message.

But if ladies and couples used the filters, to stop the avalanche of chancers with one line copy-and-paste messages, and messaged the profiles of those who actually interested them, it might improve everybody's experience.

If women and couples messaged everyone that interested them, a lot of men still wouldn't get any mail........."

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One woman messaged me for advice on laminate flooring, so in answer to the original question, no not all women are looking to fuck if they message first, some just want to know the pros and cons for beech or oak surfaces.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I think that women who messaged me first know that I'd fuck anyone anyway

Oh cool, check your inbox

I'll do you one day "

Not before I do you

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"One woman messaged me for advice on laminate flooring, so in answer to the original question, no not all women are looking to fuck if they message first, some just want to know the pros and cons for beech or oak surfaces. "

Morning darling

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

"I think all women on this site are feisty and sex-mad.

So I don't make assumptions when they message.

But if ladies and couples used the filters, to stop the avalanche of chancers with one line copy-and-paste messages, and messaged the profiles of those who actually interested them, it might improve everybody's experience.

If women and couples messaged everyone that interested them, a lot of men still wouldn't get any mail........."

Sucks to be those guys.

I'm not gym fit or blessed in the trouser department, but I have got messages and meets, after ladies and couples read my profile and messaged me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One woman messaged me for advice on laminate flooring, so in answer to the original question, no not all women are looking to fuck if they message first, some just want to know the pros and cons for beech or oak surfaces.

Morning darling

"

Good morning my love

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One woman messaged me for advice on laminate flooring, so in answer to the original question, no not all women are looking to fuck if they message first, some just want to know the pros and cons for beech or oak surfaces.

Morning darling

Good morning my love

"
and if they need a rug in case of splinters lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think all women on this site are feisty and sex-mad.

So I don't make assumptions when they message.

But if ladies and couples used the filters, to stop the avalanche of chancers with one line copy-and-paste messages, and messaged the profiles of those who actually interested them, it might improve everybody's experience.

If women and couples messaged everyone that interested them, a lot of men still wouldn't get any mail.........

Sucks to be those guys.

I'm not gym fit or blessed in the trouser department, but I have got messages and meets, after ladies and couples read my profile and messaged me.

"

I'm really sorry, I hope you didn't think my comment was aimed at you. It was a general comment. x

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

"I think all women on this site are feisty and sex-mad.

So I don't make assumptions when they message.

But if ladies and couples used the filters, to stop the avalanche of chancers with one line copy-and-paste messages, and messaged the profiles of those who actually interested them, it might improve everybody's experience.

If women and couples messaged everyone that interested them, a lot of men still wouldn't get any mail.........

Sucks to be those guys.

I'm not gym fit or blessed in the trouser department, but I have got messages and meets, after ladies and couples read my profile and messaged me.

I'm really sorry, I hope you didn't think my comment was aimed at you. It was a general comment. x"

I didn't take it personally, but I think raising the quality of single guys, their messages and profiles would be a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've messaged first quite a few times. I went looking on my nearby list. Thought this would save me time etc.

One guy replied demanding to know the size of my boobs so he knows what he'll be handling!

. Yeah instant delete for you matey!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think that women who messaged me first know that I'd fuck anyone anyway

Oh cool, check your inbox

I'll do you one day "

Dony hold your breath love; he told me that years ago

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

I can tell you that some men do think this, hence why I only occasionally message first

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By *eah BabyCouple over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We wouldn’t think it, somebody needs to make the first contact and if they like you on your profile then why not get in touch, doesn’t mean anything will come of it every time I’m sure.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

If only it were true

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By *ndyuk7Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

im lucky if anyone messages me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of women make the first move, I know I’ve often sent a message first because I’ve seen a profile that stood out to me and I’m like on paper he’s out my league but I like what I see and I want to know if his personality matches the face/body etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So does the same rule apply in real life? If a woman smiles or starts a convo then automatically it's on like donkey Kong!! Sheeeeit think I've missed a few sitters...

Yes. Yes it is true. If a woman looks at you she's imagining riding your cock like a mad woman while screaming "yippy aye yay"."

If she is screaming "Yippy Ki Yay" then I'm hers

#RememberNakatomiPlaza

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's never happened to me, and I doubt it ever will.

I would be very surprised, and would want to chat first before meeting somewhere public before anything more happened.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think all women on this site are feisty and sex-mad.

So I don't make assumptions when they message.

But if ladies and couples used the filters, to stop the avalanche of chancers with one line copy-and-paste messages, and messaged the profiles of those who actually interested them, it might improve everybody's experience.

If women and couples messaged everyone that interested them, a lot of men still wouldn't get any mail.........

Sucks to be those guys.

I'm not gym fit or blessed in the trouser department, but I have got messages and meets, after ladies and couples read my profile and messaged me.

I'm really sorry, I hope you didn't think my comment was aimed at you. It was a general comment. x

I didn't take it personally, but I think raising the quality of single guys, their messages and profiles would be a good thing. "

I always read profiles, message thoughtful or funny messages etc. I get nothing.

It's looks here. Primarily. If nobody is attracted to you, nobody's attracted to you. Simples!

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

"I think all women on this site are feisty and sex-mad.

So I don't make assumptions when they message.

But if ladies and couples used the filters, to stop the avalanche of chancers with one line copy-and-paste messages, and messaged the profiles of those who actually interested them, it might improve everybody's experience.

If women and couples messaged everyone that interested them, a lot of men still wouldn't get any mail.........

Sucks to be those guys.

I'm not gym fit or blessed in the trouser department, but I have got messages and meets, after ladies and couples read my profile and messaged me.

I'm really sorry, I hope you didn't think my comment was aimed at you. It was a general comment. x

I didn't take it personally, but I think raising the quality of single guys, their messages and profiles would be a good thing.

I always read profiles, message thoughtful or funny messages etc. I get nothing.

It's looks here. Primarily. If nobody is attracted to you, nobody's attracted to you. Simples!"

I liked your profile, and you had a good verification. Looks are important to gain attention, but personality, sense of humour and ability to hold a conversation are also helpful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never saw it like this before! I'm sure there are men that do think this. I'm not messaging first again!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I get a first message from a woman I assume there's at least a 50/50 chance it's a mistake.

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By *adtaffladMan over a year ago

Rhyl

No not at all I would need to see how we got on but a woman taking the lead is sexy though

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I think that women who messaged me first know that I'd fuck anyone anyway

Oh cool, check your inbox

I'll do you one day

Dony hold your breath love; he told me that years ago

"

Me too, I know he has a long to-do list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm suspicious straight away

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By *oul BrothaMan over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

If a woman messaged me first I'd think she's overdue a trip to Spec Savers.

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By *appysunflowerWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Lots of women make the first move, I know I’ve often sent a message first because I’ve seen a profile that stood out to me and I’m like on paper he’s out my league but I like what I see and I want to know if his personality matches the face/body etc "

Yeah just means we are confident

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By *nsatiablepartnerseekerMan over a year ago

nottingham

WELL to be honest ... I will let you know when I get one lol. Outside of scams unlikely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would actually make most guys day if you ladies actually did the initial first contact and told us what you were looking for ,when and how often but alas it won't happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Horse, because I’m a stallion

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Horse, because I’m a stallion "

Wrong thread?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Horse, because I’m a stallion

Wrong thread?

"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Never had one OP but it would make my day

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Horse, because I’m a stallion

Wrong thread?

"

Wonder what he posted on the animal thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Not at all. In fact she'd be more choosy and proactive rather than relying on and limiting herself to the pile of mail she gets, most of which will be complete shit.

As most men she'd prefer would probably be less likely on average to message.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

Yes. Yes I will fuck anyone and everyone I message first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I remember the excitement of being new on here and having so many people to message. If I messaged you I wanted to fuck yes. Took a bit to get past initial suspicions of being an actual woman but there's the fun. Halcyon Days. Now Im just a (mostly) non-meeting old boot and nothing matters

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By *rtraymondo76Man over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Apologies for stating the obvious, but may be they just like the look of you and wish to strike up a conversation.

This

"

Seems obvious to me. Someone has to begin any conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was winked at a few weeks ago, took a few moments to get over the shock, wandered if it was a mistake lol Checked her profile a few times but sent a message, been chatting ever since : )

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By *duk70Man over a year ago

langley

No but then I always send the first message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes i can confirm this is correct

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes. Yes I will fuck anyone and everyone I message first

"

I bloody knew it!

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By *ocks99Man over a year ago

Reading

"If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

Does the first message say fuck me big boy

Or

Hi, I like your profile and would love to chat more ?

I've never been messaged first but I bet it feels amazing to receive one"

Probably be too stunned to reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I often message men first, but it's often not welcomed.

I'm usually questioning something about them

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Well if your opening message is 'Why are you such a twat?', it's a bit of a non-starter, even if it's appropriate..

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By *aveSWMan over a year ago

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I'd like to think that if they've messaged me first then I've caught their eye..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doesnt really matter who sent a message first, not exactly a big deal is it

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