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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them? "
I’ve wondered this, Veris just mean they’ve met and not piss takers however genuine can only mean there profile is honest and true, if they say their married and playing away then. Probably more genuine than someone keeping secrets. Weirdly being honest on fab a find fits the description “genuine” |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them?
I’ve wondered this, Veris just mean they’ve met and not piss takers however genuine can only mean there profile is honest and true, if they say their married and playing away then. Probably more genuine than someone keeping secrets. Weirdly being honest on fab a find fits the description “genuine”"
Fair points.
I don't think veris prove that people aren't piss takers. They may have met that person on that day but there's no guarantee they would turn up for another meet.
If they are playing away that infers they are keeping secrets - from their partner. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Genuine to us is somebody actually looking to meet and they are who they say they are, anyone can say they are genuine but are they? verifications give you a good idea of this, that’s why we don’t meet people not verified or just one veri but that’s hidden, too many time wasters I’m afraid. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them? "
Saying what you mean and doing what you say. |
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"They're unnatractive.
Means that in a veri quite often - that or not good in bed!  "
Often means anything but genuine i found.
I suppose genuine is prety vague though, they could be a genuine married and lying about it, or genuinely after a fuck right now,or genuinely a sex offender.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them? "
I don’t think we’ve “genuine” in our profile but our profile is 100% accurate (location is not exact!) so to me our profile is genuine... genuine = accurate |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Genuine to me is someone who is not playing mind games, or any sort of game and will do what they say ie turn up when you've made arrangements.
Exactly this. "
I agree on that.
I do think people just put the word on their profiles because they've seen it on others, so it's become pretty meaningless on here. |
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"Genuine to me is someone who is not playing mind games, or any sort of game and will do what they say ie turn up when you've made arrangements.
Exactly this.
I agree on that.
I do think people just put the word on their profiles because they've seen it on others, so it's become pretty meaningless on here. "
If only I looked like Jeffrey Dean Morgan ...!!! |
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"They're unnatractive.
Means that in a veri quite often - that or not good in bed!
Often means anything but genuine i found.
I suppose genuine is prety vague though, they could be a genuine married and lying about it, or genuinely after a fuck right now,or genuinely a sex offender...."
Or genuinely dishonest!  |
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"I'd say it would generally mean honest. Then again, an ingenuine person might lie on their profile and say they are genuine, so it's not the most useful of things to put on your profile lol"
I have the rather more middle class 'authentic' on mine!  |
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"They're unnatractive.
Means that in a veri quite often - that or not good in bed!
Often means anything but genuine i found.
I suppose genuine is prety vague though, they could be a genuine married and lying about it, or genuinely after a fuck right now,or genuinely a sex offender....
Or genuinely dishonest! "
Lol, yes i think that's exactly what is means on here.
Well that's me gone for another week or two i think. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Genuine to me is someone who is not playing mind games, or any sort of game and will do what they say ie turn up when you've made arrangements.
Exactly this.
I agree on that.
I do think people just put the word on their profiles because they've seen it on others, so it's become pretty meaningless on here. "
Meaningless on a profile, its only with time you find out how genuine someone is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuine to us is somebody actually looking to meet and they are who they say they are, anyone can say they are genuine but are they? verifications give you a good idea of this, that’s why we don’t meet people not verified or just one veri but that’s hidden, too many time wasters I’m afraid. "
Sheeeit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to read it as the fact they have an intention to actually meet up for real, if arranged 
Of course it doesn't always mean that much, there are still the ultra discreet professional time wasters on the system too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I use the word genuine to describe someone I mean they match their profile, turned up to the social and didn’t mess me about "
Some might say that is the way forward... 
In other words:
#therealdeal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone who contacts you, informing you that you've inherited a million pounds from a long lost relative in Nigeria, and actually pays the money into the bank account, of which details you provided them? Genuine. |
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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago
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Someone who will generally honour what they say they will do or not do in their description. Being sincere, honest and truthful about what they will or not do. The genuine article, real, no fakes, not a time waster.
Pretty much you can spot the genuine ones a mile off, if they take the time to conduct themselves accordingly, with good manners, respect and discretion. All these things lead to the important point of trust, which to me is worth more than its weight in gold.
I have met a few very good friends from here and yes they are all genuine and were all as their profile described. They are genuinely very good people.
We are all individuals and I would imagine people have their own take on that to differing degrees. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best way to tell if someone is genuine is too check there profile and hopefully meet and then make up your own mind if they are as true to what they said they are in there profile , well that's my take on things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them? "
Genuine to me means what you see is what you get, the same persona wherever and with whomever, I’m genuine but I’m also what’s known as blunt and outspoken and cocky and full of shit
I’m not I just don’t feel the need to people please I generally like everyone and will do anything for anyone to a fault
I’m overly honest perhaps there’s an element of asd in there
I don’t dress to impress and don’t wear more than one face
I do know how to behave in public don’t get me wrong but I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Someone who contacts you, informing you that you've inherited a million pounds from a long lost relative in Nigeria, and actually pays the money into the bank account, of which details you provided them? Genuine."
I hope so. It's been a while since I sent them my bank details but it was Christmas so I'll wait.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone who will generally honour what they say they will do or not do in their description. Being sincere, honest and truthful about what they will or not do. The genuine article, real, no fakes, not a time waster.
Pretty much you can spot the genuine ones a mile off, if they take the time to conduct themselves accordingly, with good manners, respect and discretion. All these things lead to the important point of trust, which to me is worth more than its weight in gold.
I have met a few very good friends from here and yes they are all genuine and were all as their profile described. They are genuinely very good people.
We are all individuals and I would imagine people have their own take on that to differing degrees. "
I like this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them?
Genuine to me means what you see is what you get, the same persona wherever and with whomever, I’m genuine but I’m also what’s known as blunt and outspoken and cocky and full of shit
I’m not I just don’t feel the need to people please I generally like everyone and will do anything for anyone to a fault
I’m overly honest perhaps there’s an element of asd in there
I don’t dress to impress and don’t wear more than one face
I do know how to behave in public don’t get me wrong but I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not "
They all sound like positive things. We can be one thing in certain situations and different when the situation is different.
I can be more feisty if I feel it's required and other times just say nothing with a sweet smile. I don't know if that makes me less genuine. But if it does then I'm ok with that. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them?
Genuine to me means what you see is what you get, the same persona wherever and with whomever, I’m genuine but I’m also what’s known as blunt and outspoken and cocky and full of shit
I’m not I just don’t feel the need to people please I generally like everyone and will do anything for anyone to a fault
I’m overly honest perhaps there’s an element of asd in there
I don’t dress to impress and don’t wear more than one face
I do know how to behave in public don’t get me wrong but I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not
They all sound like positive things. We can be one thing in certain situations and different when the situation is different.
I can be more feisty if I feel it's required and other times just say nothing with a sweet smile. I don't know if that makes me less genuine. But if it does then I'm ok with that. "
Being feisty on one occasion or smiling sweetly on another is not making you less genuine, surely that’s just your mood of the day, just be how you feel, that’s genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them?
Genuine to me means what you see is what you get, the same persona wherever and with whomever, I’m genuine but I’m also what’s known as blunt and outspoken and cocky and full of shit
I’m not I just don’t feel the need to people please I generally like everyone and will do anything for anyone to a fault
I’m overly honest perhaps there’s an element of asd in there
I don’t dress to impress and don’t wear more than one face
I do know how to behave in public don’t get me wrong but I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not
They all sound like positive things. We can be one thing in certain situations and different when the situation is different.
I can be more feisty if I feel it's required and other times just say nothing with a sweet smile. I don't know if that makes me less genuine. But if it does then I'm ok with that.
Being feisty on one occasion or smiling sweetly on another is not making you less genuine, surely that’s just your mood of the day, just be how you feel, that’s genuine. "
Well I thought so but people often say some people are different in 'real life' than on here. People I've met have said I'm more friendly but I think that's just my changes in mood or my sense of humour not coming across in text. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"People often say they are genuine. What does this mean to you? Are you looking for genuine people?
If a person has verifications saying they are genuine, would that entice you to meet them?
Genuine to me means what you see is what you get, the same persona wherever and with whomever, I’m genuine but I’m also what’s known as blunt and outspoken and cocky and full of shit
I’m not I just don’t feel the need to people please I generally like everyone and will do anything for anyone to a fault
I’m overly honest perhaps there’s an element of asd in there
I don’t dress to impress and don’t wear more than one face
I do know how to behave in public don’t get me wrong but I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not
They all sound like positive things. We can be one thing in certain situations and different when the situation is different.
I can be more feisty if I feel it's required and other times just say nothing with a sweet smile. I don't know if that makes me less genuine. But if it does then I'm ok with that.
Being feisty on one occasion or smiling sweetly on another is not making you less genuine, surely that’s just your mood of the day, just be how you feel, that’s genuine.
Well I thought so but people often say some people are different in 'real life' than on here. People I've met have said I'm more friendly but I think that's just my changes in mood or my sense of humour not coming across in text. "
Don’t worry I think my sense of humour gets lost on most people in text.
I suppose it can be down to the occasion how people behave sometimes, obviously you can’t go slapping someone’s ass in the supermarket isle and asking for a high 5 but that doesn’t mean you don’t want too lol and it doesn’t mean your not genuine because you didn’t do what you felt like doing (random example). Being how you feel is genuine, if that’s a happy day or a grumpy day, then that’s you just on a different day.
Also people probably don’t want to let their guard down on here, they don’t want to open up to people they have only chatted to, they will wait until they meet to show themselves fully. |
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