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By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago
East Mids |
I’m always keen to present myself in the light of sexy and alluring for a social, but it can be a difficult thing to achieve when it’s not always possible when leaving the house, kids, neighbours etc, so would be interested in your thoughts, ladies- what do you wear for a social meet and boys, what is it that you expect ?
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Columbo mac.
Sorted.
Seriously, if it's a social I really don't mind what she wears. There's already an attraction or we wouldn't be having a social.
She of course can wear whatever she likes, for her, not for me.
Just be comfortable.  |
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Would depend on where the social is. Coffee during the day would probably be skinny jeans, boots and a flattering top. Drinks in the evening would be more dress and heels. Hair and make up done to look/feel my best.
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"Would depend on where the social is. Coffee during the day would probably be skinny jeans, boots and a flattering top. Drinks in the evening would be more dress and heels. Hair and make up done to look/feel my best.
V x"
This for me too x |
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By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing 
Present yourself as a person, not a sex object."
Quite right I agree ..... I’m not an everyday dress or skirt girl, so leaving the house in anything other than jeans and heels (at a push) is out of the norm for me ..... small community, nosey neighbours and kids at home to get past  |
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"Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing
Present yourself as a person, not a sex object."
This exactly! I always arrive looking smart but tend to be casual for a first social ( despite most guys would quite happily sit and have coffee with you in a basque, heels and stockings!!! Or so it seems  ) in you dreams guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been a while since I had a social.
I wore jeans and a top with flip flops to my last one
I go as myself.
For people I've already met the outfits have been erm .. less  |
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"I’m always keen to present myself in the light of sexy and alluring for a social, but it can be a difficult thing to achieve when it’s not always possible when leaving the house, kids, neighbours etc, so would be interested in your thoughts, ladies- what do you wear for a social meet and boys, what is it that you expect ?
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Each social I treat as an interview, so always look smart but not over the top! I never play on first meet (never did as a single lady either) so I never ware anything that says ‘I’m up for it’ making sure I feel comfortable is paramount |
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Seriously though op, I wear whatever makes me feel good and in comfortable in.
I wear lots of dresses so it's usually one of those.
If you wear jeans then opt for those.
I've worn dungarees before.
It's social, it's to gauge your interest in someone before committing to sex
If they judge you by your clothing then they should fuck off x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever I feel comfortable in on the day, anyone requesting/demanding I turn up in stockings/suspenders/heels or any other specifics get their meet with me revoked immediately. I don't think I've ever disappointed anyone based on my clothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jeans & tshirt with Vans or DMs. It's what I'm comfortable & confident in. If someone is that concerned about what I'm wearing then I've seriously misjudged them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever I liked, I wouldn't go short skirt, low top for a social.
My first social with my fwb I wore leggins, jumper and ankle boots.
I wouldn't dress on demand either, I don't like being told what to wear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always in dresses or skirts with those really dark black tights and heels of some kind.
Daytime heels such as wedge heel ankle boots or heeled cow boy style boots.
I like skater style dresses which are fitted or low cut on top. Or I wear pencil skirts. Both above the knee but not mega bum skimming short lol. |
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By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago
East Mids |
I’m feeling mighty chilled about it now ... all of the replies are spot on and at the end of the day whatever I wear I’ll always make an effort, for me mostly, but yes there are few that expect, prompt, hint, that the whole lingerie package be present .... mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be cool if you just put a long coat over the clothes you are wearing on your pics...  "
I do that when I'm heading for my second meet with the guy I plan on sleeping with. Driving to his address in a outfit similar to my pics on here but with a long coat on.
I'm always paranoid a cop will pull me over. Nothing wrong with my driving. Just my nerves making me paranoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have to see at least one element of sexy- low cut top or short skirt or stocking, heels etc of course have to dress for weather but a little hint/flirt makes me smile "
What do you wear to make them smile? |
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