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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Feel free to add any below in the interests of helping out the often (wrongly) bemoaned single men in 2019.
I'll kick things off with a couple.
If messaging couples always bear in mind that it may be the male half online and that a "would you like to suck my huge cock" or "fancy a fuck' style message may result in an unwanted "yes" if he's bi. Or fabstraight.
If you accidentally say "fuck" on a kiss/fuck/pass thread and some other guy appears above your comment don't delete it in a panic that you've caught "the ghey". You haven't.
Cock pics aren't hated by everyone . If you have a nice wang then flaunt it. If it looks like a dead squirrel then focus on body shots.
Over to you, good people of Fab...
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"Feel free to add any below in the interests of helping out the often (wrongly) bemoaned single men in 2019.
I'll kick things off with a couple.
If messaging couples always bear in mind that it may be the male half online and that a "would you like to suck my huge cock" or "fancy a fuck' style message may result in an unwanted "yes" if he's bi. Or fabstraight.
If you accidentally say "fuck" on a kiss/fuck/pass thread and some other guy appears above your comment don't delete it in a panic that you've caught "the ghey". You haven't.
Cock pics aren't hated by everyone . If you have a nice wang then flaunt it. If it looks like a dead squirrel then focus on body shots.
Over to you, good people of Fab...
A"
good tips
Dont chase girls when superhorned guys you come of as desperate
Talk to people as you would face to face and try to have some humour about yourself it helps loads and most importantly if you say you will do something do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Read the profile and dont message if you don’t match their preferences.
Get verified even if its just from a club/social otherwise 99% of couples wont entertain you.
Dont be a white knight.
Remember its a couple you’re chatting to and you need a rapport with both of them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Please read profiles and the person's status just in case BEFORE messaging.
If you don't fit what they're looking, do NOT pester. Please just accept you aren't for them and move on. No need to get the hump and harass them thereafter. Everyone has a type, even you... so accept rejection gracefully.
Lastly, site rules state deleted messages means not interested. Accept that as your reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Read the profile and dont message if you don’t match their preferences.
Get verified even if its just from a club/social otherwise 99% of couples wont entertain you.
Dont be a white knight.
Remember its a couple you’re chatting to and you need a rapport with both of them.
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This ^^^^^^all day long |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please read profiles and the person's status just in case BEFORE messaging.
If you don't fit what they're looking, do NOT pester. Please just accept you aren't for them and move on. No need to get the hump and harass them thereafter. Everyone has a type, even you... so accept rejection gracefully.
Lastly, site rules state deleted messages means not interested. Accept that as your reply."
And this ^^^^^ |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Feel free to add any below in the interests of helping out the often (wrongly) bemoaned single men in 2019.
I'll kick things off with a couple.
If messaging couples always bear in mind that it may be the male half online and that a "would you like to suck my huge cock" or "fancy a fuck' style message may result in an unwanted "yes" if he's bi. Or fabstraight.
If you accidentally say "fuck" on a kiss/fuck/pass thread and some other guy appears above your comment don't delete it in a panic that you've caught "the ghey". You haven't.
Cock pics aren't hated by everyone . If you have a nice wang then flaunt it. If it looks like a dead squirrel then focus on body shots.
Over to you, good people of Fab...
A"
How successful were you as a single male? |
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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Feel free to add any below in the interests of helping out the often (wrongly) bemoaned single men in 2019.
I'll kick things off with a couple.
If messaging couples always bear in mind that it may be the male half online and that a "would you like to suck my huge cock" or "fancy a fuck' style message may result in an unwanted "yes" if he's bi. Or fabstraight.
If you accidentally say "fuck" on a kiss/fuck/pass thread and some other guy appears above your comment don't delete it in a panic that you've caught "the ghey". You haven't.
Cock pics aren't hated by everyone . If you have a nice wang then flaunt it. If it looks like a dead squirrel then focus on body shots.
Over to you, good people of Fab...
A How successful were you as a single male?"
I did ok.
Had a couple of meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Check someone's profile and what they're looking for.. and if you don't fit into that specification.
RESPECT IT.
Don't message me on kik saying you thought you'd message me anyway as you get told you "don't look older".
Don't call me fake/insult me just to try and get my attention- more likely to get yourself blocked and reported for threatening me.
Don't copy and paste your opening message, especially if you've messaged me the same thing previously.
And for the love of god- don't get arsey if I haven't read/replied. I have a life offline that does take priority.
Sorry for the rant xoxo |
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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
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If a woman turns you down for a meet then whining about it in a status or in a forum thread will have her changing her mind in minutes, wetter than an otters pocket, desperate to hook up in an hour and you're guaranteed a gobby wank in your Honda.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be yourself. Being what you think others want doesn't work."
This. Ignore the hints and tips. Even ignore the FAQs, (sorry mods). But what works for 1 might not work for all.
Being yourself will always attract those people you get on with.
*my opinion means nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Soon as you start doing what others tell you, you cease to be a human being.
Instead you become a human doing.
Sometimes advice can be seen as bullying because you are in truth trying to change people to be how you want them to be.
From day one to your last day as a human we never stop learning.
But when someone starts saying do this or do and they have no authority most people will close ears and ignore it.
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See that hoop old chap? Be a love and jump through it. There’s another 12.
It won’t get you anywhere mind, we just like to see you get more and more frustrated until you start a thread about how frustrating it is.
...and this is what puts off or alienates the good folk. You need a tough hide around here. So no advice from me jokingly or otherwise. Have a huge pinch of salt though. That’ll help. |
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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
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"shouldn't the words "don't be a tit/arse" justabout cover all advice give to all people.....
i don't see why any advice should be aimed at any group of people.....
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Surely there's no point advising single women to ease up on the cock shots over the loo though? 
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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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How successful were you as a single male?
He was a huge, huge Forum Star in his day was our Obi
Nice to see him back "
I remember getting called a huge, huge something else frequently too......
But thanks Bussy! Nice to be back.
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By (user no longer on site)
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How successful were you as a single male?
He was a huge, huge Forum Star in his day was our Obi
Nice to see him back "
His mankini is still etched into my eyeballs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straightness should be directly linked to time on site versus success with the ladies  "
A man in a dress looks like a woman from behind.
So do I incidentally.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be yourself. Being what you think others want doesn't work.
This. Ignore the hints and tips. Even ignore the FAQs, (sorry mods). But what works for 1 might not work for all.
Being yourself will always attract those people you get on with.
*my opinion means nothing. "
To all this (apart from your opinion *does* mean something). My serious answer.
Always be yourself. Don't sell yourself out for a fuck. Like attracts like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When you start a thread asking for advice on your profile or club advice, then message any single female who has replied asking if she wants to help you out with that. Because obviously that works every time.  |
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Have a good cock pic, but not 12 of them. Don't be fat, don't have a small cock. Don't have a foreskin that looks sooo tight its going to cut your bellend off, and is guaranteed to have never been successfully cleaned, Don't have photos that make you look like a sex pest. Don't expect to get a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to organized socials and actually talk to people... works wonders "
See I want to go to one but nerves get the better of me. I'm fine going to pubs and meeting people. Don't know? I'm going to Bridgend social on 20th Jan. Going with someone so should be ok. |
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"Go to organized socials and actually talk to people... works wonders
See I want to go to one but nerves get the better of me. I'm fine going to pubs and meeting people. Don't know? I'm going to Bridgend social on 20th Jan. Going with someone so should be ok. "
What do you think happens at a fab social?  |
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"Socials can be good but mostly it cliques who won’t talk to single men or single men acting desperate "
They sound bad 
You might enjoy this thread 
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/835826 |
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"Go to organized socials and actually talk to people... works wonders
See I want to go to one but nerves get the better of me. I'm fine going to pubs and meeting people. Don't know? I'm going to Bridgend social on 20th Jan. Going with someone so should be ok. "
Wear waterproof trousers and a belt that's really difficult to undo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Couples when PMing us, tell us which one is messaging so we don’t have to give generic answers hedging our bets and covering all bases. Especially if you’re going to send a . I’m not sending one back to the husband! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think happens at a fab social?
Don’t tell him, he’ll be so disappointed "
No I know it's just a social and to meet people I ain't daft! Just it is different than just going out to a pub. |
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How successful were you as a single male?
He was a huge, huge Forum Star in his day was our Obi
Nice to see him back "
I can remember Lickety taking away his mancard; over a Bake Off incident if I recall......
I think Fabio lost his too.
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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Couples when PMing us, tell us which one is messaging so we don’t have to give generic answers hedging our bets and covering all bases. Especially if you’re going to send a . I’m not sending one back to the husband! "
Wrong thread. You need the other one giving tips to couples and single women.....
That's definitely a much needed tip!
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"Socials can be good but mostly it cliques who won’t talk to single men or single men acting desperate "
I hate to disagree.
But that's absolute bollocks in my experience.
I've always been made to feel really welcome at every group social I've been to.
Then again I do follow rule number 1. |
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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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How successful were you as a single male?
He was a huge, huge Forum Star in his day was our Obi
Nice to see him back
I can remember Lickety taking away his mancard; over a Bake Off incident if I recall......
I think Fabio lost his too.
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Shhhhhhhhh.
That never happened......... 
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How successful were you as a single male?
He was a huge, huge Forum Star in his day was our Obi
Nice to see him back
I can remember Lickety taking away his mancard; over a Bake Off incident if I recall......
I think Fabio lost his too.
Shhhhhhhhh.
That never happened.........
A"
Did you get it back? |
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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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How successful were you as a single male?
He was a huge, huge Forum Star in his day was our Obi
Nice to see him back
I can remember Lickety taking away his mancard; over a Bake Off incident if I recall......
I think Fabio lost his too.
Shhhhhhhhh.
That never happened.........
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Did you get it back? "
Yes. It was the only way I let her come to the wedding.
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"What do you think happens at a fab social?
Don’t tell him, he’ll be so disappointed
No I know it's just a social and to meet people I ain't daft! Just it is different than just going out to a pub. "
Well, consider this: if you’re confident enough to get your clothes off in front of a bloke and his wife who you’ve never met before and then fuck her, you’re confident enough to go to a social on your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I being a real din...? what’s a white knight? "
A white knight sticks by what women say and will defend then in nearly any given circumstance because they are byass towards women. They stay in their good books so they can get laid.
So basically a kissarse for women |
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How successful were you as a single male?
He was a huge, huge Forum Star in his day was our Obi
Nice to see him back
I can remember Lickety taking away his mancard; over a Bake Off incident if I recall......
I think Fabio lost his too.
Shhhhhhhhh.
That never happened.........
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Did you get it back?
Yes. It was the only way I let her come to the wedding.
A"
Bribery.
Works every time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think happens at a fab social?
Don’t tell him, he’ll be so disappointed "
Haha.... you have to buy everyone a drink ..starting Alphabeticaly....
From Mr Bee |
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My bits of advice (for what they're worth):
Treat everyone with respect. If you message someone, and they make the effort to come back to you to say no, either reply with a thanks/no problem, or don't reply at all. On no account do you reply with an abusive message. You're on an adult site, and therefore should learn to behave like one. |
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