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By *layfullsam OP Man over a year ago

Solihull

At what point during a social on fab or a date if off fab do you decide if you're going to sleep with the other person ?

Is it an instant thing or a gradual process

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mainly if I’ve agreed to a meet bar them being a complete idiot or not like their pics then I already know x

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By *layfullsam OP Man over a year ago

Solihull

"Mainly if I’ve agreed to a meet bar them being a complete idiot or not like their pics then I already know x "

Good answer

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unless they do something that rules them out, gradual. A social is a tentative yes as long as things go well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I always have a pretty good idea beforehand unless something isn't quite right when I meet the person.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Depends who it is .... and how good the connection is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

always go with you gut.

any doubts, leave

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

What's a social?! Let's just bang!

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"At what point during a social on fab or a date if off fab do you decide if you're going to sleep with the other person ?

Is it an instant thing or a gradual process

Is the correct answer when they flop their knob on the table?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've usually already decided before I meet them, they'd need to do something to put me off in person (or vice versa) for that not to happen.

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By *palWoman over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

First meeting is social only, depends on how long we have spent getting to know each other and the kiss test will be a decider too.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

If I’ve agreed to a meet then I’m usually pretty hopeful but chemistry is important to me. Also if they have bad breath or smell bad (even if it’s too much aftershave) then I can be put off. Always disappointing as I’m usually gagging for it after the ritual of preparing myself for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I've said yes to a social it's general the amber light before getting the green light once you've proved you're not a psycho or a catfish!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a gradual thing for me. So obviously how they look. Their mannerisms. Confidence. If they engage in conversation and finally if we kiss how good it is. No one will get in my pants and a followup meet if they can't kiss well.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm a 50% yes if I've agreed to meet for a social, I'll know very quickly if I want to sleep with them or not once were face to face. You're talking within a minute

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Ps that could change when we're chatting, if he comes across as a dick, slurps his drink, asks me what I'm into etc.

Tough crowd

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm never certain before I've met face to face. It can go either way in terms of attraction and it's in no way guaranteed it'll go any further. I usually know with a few minutes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Usually it depends if their husband is out or not

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

"First meeting is social only, depends on how long we have spent getting to know each other and the kiss test will be a decider too. "

Definitely this. Bad kissing is a deal breaker for me.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The social is my creep test, to be honest. The last check before I trust them in private.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can always tell by the look on their face when I turn up that it's not going to happen.

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

I can always guage it by how deep his cock is down my throat...

... is what I should write...

But it's (in reality) after two cappuccinos.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

How long is a piece of string....sometimes it's 'YES!' as soon as I clap eyes on them, once recently it has been 'NO!!' but only after a second social....

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