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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair."
Depth , meaning , love , companionship , trust , to mention a few , and chilling together watching crappy telly , spooning , cooking a meal and enjoying it together , date night , going to the cinema , having someone there that cares about you , someone’s to listen to you sound off about your day , someone to share the good times with , and someone to soften the blows of the bad times .
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over a year ago
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Depth , meaning , love , companionship , trust , to mention a few , and chilling together watching crappy telly , spooning , cooking a meal and enjoying it together , date night , going to the cinema , having someone there that cares about you , someone’s to listen to you sound off about your day , someone to share the good times with , and someone to soften the blows of the bad times .
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Depth , meaning , love , companionship , trust , to mention a few , and chilling together watching crappy telly , spooning , cooking a meal and enjoying it together , date night , going to the cinema , having someone there that cares about you , someone’s to listen to you sound off about your day , someone to share the good times with , and someone to soften the blows of the bad times .
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Definitely all of this!! |
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So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again "
very possible i agree
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again "
This
You can love someone without falling in love with them. Or what feels like love! |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again "
Me too!! It's hard to come by though and I fear that I won't find it again. |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again
Me too!! It's hard to come by though and I fear that I won't find it again. "
Same here. Although I don't want it all the time, just sometimes  |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again
This
You can love someone without falling in love with them. Or what feels like love! "
Yes, you can |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair."
Well you do if you're a couple. So we miss out on nothing. |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Well you do if you're a couple. So we miss out on nothing. "
Except jealousy of course. |
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over a year ago
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The only things I miss about a traditional vanilla relationship is having someone that cares and
to have someone to rely on.
I'm a little sick of having to cope financially on my own and having to bear all the responsibility.
It would be nice to come home after a shit day like today and have dinner made for me and to have someone to talk about my day.
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair."
If someone doesnt kiss and cuddle I wouldnt meet them.
Sex without a kiss and a cuddle is like having rhubarb without custard or fish without chips. Its just not the same. |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
If someone doesnt kiss and cuddle I wouldnt meet them.
Sex without a kiss and a cuddle is like having rhubarb without custard or fish without chips. Its just not the same."
I wouldn't meet if they didn't kiss either, it would feel wrong not to kiss someone you're having sex with.
But I've never stayed over at a meets house so the cuddling never happens. |
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Something being done for me without wanting something in return. A cuppa etc. Or just sitting watching tv, reading a book next to them in silence or doing the greatXmas puzzle together. The just hanging out but that has nothing to do with sex. That stuff is perfect. |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Depth , meaning , love , companionship , trust , to mention a few , and chilling together watching crappy telly , spooning , cooking a meal and enjoying it together , date night , going to the cinema , having someone there that cares about you , someone’s to listen to you sound off about your day , someone to share the good times with , and someone to soften the blows of the bad times .
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All this and more, that someone who’s seen you at your worst but is still there for you x |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
If someone doesnt kiss and cuddle I wouldnt meet them.
Sex without a kiss and a cuddle is like having rhubarb without custard or fish without chips. Its just not the same.
I wouldn't meet if they didn't kiss either, it would feel wrong not to kiss someone you're having sex with.
But I've never stayed over at a meets house so the cuddling never happens."
Awww...I'd give you a cuddle...even without anything else...we all need a cuddle now and then x |
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"cuddling with meaning.
talking in bed for hours.
holding hands when out together"
I had all that with my fwb. Not a conventional relationship which made it better some how.
The day he kissed me on the forehead told me it was real! |
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"cuddling with meaning.
talking in bed for hours.
holding hands when out together
I had all that with my fwb. Not a conventional relationship which made it better some how.
The day he kissed me on the forehead told me it was real! "
Aww that's sweet  |
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"cuddling with meaning.
talking in bed for hours.
holding hands when out together
I had all that with my fwb. Not a conventional relationship which made it better some how.
The day he kissed me on the forehead told me it was real!
Aww that's sweet "
Thanks. It lasted nearly three years |
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"cuddling with meaning.
talking in bed for hours.
holding hands when out together
I had all that with my fwb. Not a conventional relationship which made it better some how.
The day he kissed me on the forehead told me it was real!
Aww that's sweet
Thanks. It lasted nearly three years"
lovely. |
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Being part of a team, having each others backs, being yourself, her head on my chest in bed.
I actually love the after sex part (closeness, cuddles) as much as the sex itself. |
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"Being part of a team, having each others backs, being yourself, her head on my chest in bed.
I actually love the after sex part (closeness, cuddles) as much as the sex itself."
This. |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again "
Agree. I did too. |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Faithfulness and loyalty. 
Umm you can get that "
Very, very rarely and not sure I'd call it swinging (ie exclusivity). |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Faithfulness and loyalty.
Umm you can get that
Very, very rarely and not sure I'd call it swinging (ie exclusivity)."
Not everyone on here is a swinger though. |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again "
I was thinking the same! |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again
I was thinking the same!"
Seconded x |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again
I was thinking the same!"
You can. Not everyone’s looking for the same thing. Just may take longer to find |
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"So why can’t you have all the above with fwbs? I’ve had it all before with a previous fwb. We cuddled we cared for each other. We gave each other everything but commitment and are still really good friends now. Maybe I’m too ambitious but I want that from a fwb again
I was thinking the same!
You can. Not everyone’s looking for the same thing. Just may take longer to find "
I think I've had it with everyone I've met from here!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Depth , meaning , love , companionship , trust , to mention a few , and chilling together watching crappy telly , spooning , cooking a meal and enjoying it together , date night , going to the cinema , having someone there that cares about you , someone’s to listen to you sound off about your day , someone to share the good times with , and someone to soften the blows of the bad times .
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That sounds perfect .. |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Faithfulness and loyalty.
Umm you can get that
Very, very rarely and not sure I'd call it swinging (ie exclusivity).
Not everyone on here is a swinger though. "
True but the question was what do we get from a vanilla relationship that we don't we get from swinging. |
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Faithfulness and loyalty.
Umm you can get that
Very, very rarely and not sure I'd call it swinging (ie exclusivity).
Not everyone on here is a swinger though.
True but the question was what do we get from a vanilla relationship that we don't we get from swinging. "
relax. forget the world. enjoy it.
nothing else matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thing about vanilla relationships that you don't get from swinging?
Mine is cuddles and playing with my hair.
Faithfulness and loyalty.
Umm you can get that
Very, very rarely and not sure I'd call it swinging (ie exclusivity).
Not everyone on here is a swinger though.
True but the question was what do we get from a vanilla relationship that we don't we get from swinging. "
Ah ok. I always do that. I never read questions properly x |
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"Just relaxing together. Doing nothing in particular, but happy you are doing nothing together. I miss that... "
Me too, until they do my head in and I want my own space again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just relaxing together. Doing nothing in particular, but happy you are doing nothing together. I miss that...
Me too, until they do my head in and I want my own space again. "
Soon as you have space.
It can become a void |
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"Just relaxing together. Doing nothing in particular, but happy you are doing nothing together. I miss that...
Me too, until they do my head in and I want my own space again.
Soon as you have space.
It can become a void"
That is true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just relaxing together. Doing nothing in particular, but happy you are doing nothing together. I miss that...
Me too, until they do my head in and I want my own space again.
Soon as you have space.
It can become a void
That is true. "
Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just relaxing together. Doing nothing in particular, but happy you are doing nothing together. I miss that...
Me too, until they do my head in and I want my own space again.
Soon as you have space.
It can become a void
That is true.
Sorry "
Now isnt this depressing. |
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