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Nearly end of the year say something positive about yourself this year thread
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.
Well pooch and I hope you have all had just a wonderful Christmas. A relaxing break , and indulged in jolly heaps of goodies .
It's getting near the end of the year , maybe a time to reflect on the past 12 months or look forward to the 12 ahead .
Just a quick Taff tip for those making resolutions
1 make them achievable
2 don't be harsh on yourself if you don't keep them.
3 just be compassionate with yourself as you are with others.
So back to the thread , as you know I do like a meander and to waffle .
So this positive thread , isn't about the poster above or even a popularity who would you like to do splendidly naughty things with .
It's
Name one positive thing you feel you have achieved this year .
For me it's taking back control of the woek life balance. I feel so much better for it and happy
Now yours please .
Taff and Pooch xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel like I'm "better" in 2018
I don't care what others think about me, I'm going to meet my goals and I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks if the way I'm going to do it..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well done to everyone so far.. too many to quote individually!
I’ve enrolled at college for the new year and started/lined up other ways of getting myself out of the house after acknowledging I wasn’t happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.
Well pooch and I hope you have all had just a wonderful Christmas. A relaxing break , and indulged in jolly heaps of goodies .
It's getting near the end of the year , maybe a time to reflect on the past 12 months or look forward to the 12 ahead .
Just a quick Taff tip for those making resolutions
1 make them achievable
2 don't be harsh on yourself if you don't keep them.
3 just be compassionate with yourself as you are with others.
So back to the thread , as you know I do like a meander and to waffle .
So this positive thread , isn't about the poster above or even a popularity who would you like to do splendidly naughty things with .
It's
Name one positive thing you feel you have achieved this year .
For me it's taking back control of the woek life balance. I feel so much better for it and happy
Now yours please .
Taff and Pooch xx "
Brilliant inspiring thread OP.
Great to read all the experiences. |
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This is my first year on Fab. It has been an eye opener in so many ways.
In good old Fab terms, I’ve discovered that I really enjoy seeing a woman cum through my oral ministrations AND that I’m actually really good at it. Also, that all women are different and each has something wonderful to contribute to any ‘union’ of the flesh. That the chemistry between us totally stems from that sparkle/twinkle in their eyes when they’re horny and sexually confident.
This coming year is going to be great and I am really looking forward to meeting more of you gorgeous solo ladies and exciting couples / groups.
Party on !!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sitting on a beach under a stary sky reading all your comments and the positive things that have happened in your lives this year .
You have all made me smile
Diolch , thank you |
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Since I've been on here I've realised that I need to get of my Ares and get out to some club meets as I've spent to much time at work. I've been stuck in a bit of a hole where I thought that if I got my head down at work I could just forget about problems I had been through at the start of the year. So a new year and a new outlook on life so look out for me around the club's in leeds.
All the best to everyone on here and hope to meet some of you soon xxx |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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Used the grief of my grandson dying in 2017 into fundraising for two charities that supported and cared for him, we raised £8000 in 8 months! It also made me reassess my whole outlook on life and focus on what was truly important xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Used the grief of my grandson dying in 2017 into fundraising for two charities that supported and cared for him, we raised £8000 in 8 months! It also made me reassess my whole outlook on life and focus on what was truly important xx"
well done you. outstanding |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"Used the grief of my grandson dying in 2017 into fundraising for two charities that supported and cared for him, we raised £8000 in 8 months! It also made me reassess my whole outlook on life and focus on what was truly important xx
well done you. outstanding "
Thanks did my first 10k run to raise money and just signed up for my next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I admitted I had an alcohol problem ...now three months clean. Hubby doesn’t have a problem but stopped in support of me ...we’ve both lost over a stone with no other changes ..new year we are going to expand on this with healthier eating and more exercise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I pretty much had a complete breakdown in the summer. Which doesn't sound positive but coming back from being suicidal means the only way is up. So I'm quite glad I'm still here, and that toxic influences outed themselves for what they are. And most of all I;m happy that I've accepted and started the process of getting the help that my somewhat broken brain needs |
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"A positive thing I have learnt this year was to stick up for myself at work against a back stabber I thought was a trusted colleague.
Trust no one guys "
Having being there with a neighbour, with you 100% Bhu
Mx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I pretty much had a complete breakdown in the summer. Which doesn't sound positive but coming back from being suicidal means the only way is up. So I'm quite glad I'm still here, and that toxic influences outed themselves for what they are. And most of all I;m happy that I've accepted and started the process of getting the help that my somewhat broken brain needs" well done it's so courageous to make that first step
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finally decided to live my dream life and be a bum! No, go backpacking with no time limits and no plan. Jump into the mouth of the unknown! Going be amazing, will have to do a travelling thread? |
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"I've lost weight and kept it off.
Oh and I'm told my Christmas cakes are jolly nice. "
I may have mentioned it a few times... A dozen that is!
One positive thing?
There's quite a few to choose from, but I the one that stands out the most for me.
My confidence.
It took me a long while to rebuild my life, and start living again.
The start of this year, I had somebody play on my insecurities, twist my vulnerabilities, it almost took me back to somewhere I didn't want to go.
I removed that person from my life, but it totaly shook my confidence for a while.
Luckily I have friends around me who picked me up & got me back on my feet.
I know now I'm stronger than ever before, and I will never go back down that black hole again.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I pretty much had a complete breakdown in the summer. Which doesn't sound positive but coming back from being suicidal means the only way is up. So I'm quite glad I'm still here, and that toxic influences outed themselves for what they are. And most of all I;m happy that I've accepted and started the process of getting the help that my somewhat broken brain needs"
Hope you're doing better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That I know what or who I want and why. That I can wait until the stars align, and if they do then it's better to wait, and accept that things will be, in their own time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I quit smoking roll ups and moved to the vape after 30 years.
I realised that for my age, I look ok. no wrinkles. a few grey hairs that aren't worthy of dying yet. and my wobbly bits are ok.
and that I my job is worthy. I make people happy
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I have tried to think of one good thing and the only one that comes to my mind is that I am still alive.
Happy to hear so many of you have achieved such great things. Let's hope for a better 2019 for all. |
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By *ky19Man
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"I lost 2 stone in weight "
Well done. I gained 2 much needed stones, but that's over 3 years (and probably only half of it is muscle... )
For 2018, I have made it through, despite too many times truly not knowing what I'm going to do, going under with interest on payday loans and not knowing how I'm going to get out.
Yet now it's reasonably under control, I'm able to eat pretty well and am just starting gently working out again, sorta have my abs coming back a bit after too many years without. I'll post a few pics when I can make a bit more progress
(tl;dr version - I'm still here!) |
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By *annieWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve had a shitter of a year but if it has taught me anything positive about myself it is that I am a lot stronger than I give myself credit
I have some great friends who have made me realise that I am a good person and that i have a life worth living. So here I am going kicking and screaming in to 2019 making the things I want happen and thinking about myself for a change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In an effort to change my life for the better, I moved from the south to Lincolnshire not knowing anybody. Since January, I have gotten involved in village life, joined various groups, made many friends and life is good. I really had to push myself but it's been so worth it. I'm quite proud of myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In an effort to change my life for the better, I moved from the south to Lincolnshire not knowing anybody. Since January, I have gotten involved in village life, joined various groups, made many friends and life is good. I really had to push myself but it's been so worth it. I'm quite proud of myself " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had my elbow replaced at the start of Dec and happy to say recovery going well. Looking forward to full movement range and to get back rock climbing as soon as possible |
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I decided last Jan in a new yrs resolution that id look for a new job. I handed my notice in for a job as spent 18 yrs doing. Started my new job then in the April. Im proud that I set myself a goal and did it. Mrs x |
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