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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Something I read reminded me of an indigent a few years ago.
I was working at the hospital for a couple of weeks and the ward I was situated on had this beautiful Asian lady (Chinese I believe) who always wore her stethoscope around her neck.
I used to make excuses to work near her, something about her really appealed to me.
A few days in I then realised she wasn't a doctor! She was still a very sexy lady but my attraction to her seemed to almost disappear.
I was shocked by my own reaction and I learned something about myself that day, although I haven't had a repeat of a similar situation.
Have you been through a similar situation where you have unexpectedly learnt something about yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hear what you’re saying, a lot of people are attracted to positions of power - or beauty AND brains.
But a sapiophile is attracted to intelligence - l are you implying that you assumed that she was less intelligent if she wasn’t a doctor? Or just struggling for the right word (I don’t know what the word is for someone attracted to someone a position of authority or power?) |
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"I hear what you’re saying, a lot of people are attracted to positions of power - or beauty AND brains.
But a sapiophile is attracted to intelligence - l are you implying that you assumed that she was less intelligent if she wasn’t a doctor? Or just struggling for the right word (I don’t know what the word is for someone attracted to someone a position of authority or power?) "
Beauty and brains. It's the only thing I could think of why I was attracted to her. I've never had any special/extra attraction towards women who are in a position of authority over me.
I know it's not necessarily true that she is less intelligent if she's not a doctor but it's just the way the mind thinks in those situations. |
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