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over a year ago
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1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.
2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.
3. Have at least a mfm 
4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.
5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy! |
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Quit smoking!
I quit for 12yrs, January 2yrs ago I stupidly started again while dealing with alot of family stress.
I know I need to quit, but just havn't had the willpower or incentive.
I have a couple of good reasons now.
Appointment booked with smoking nurse next week. |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.
2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.
3. Have at least a mfm
4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.
5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!"
How achievable do you think these are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.
2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.
3. Have at least a mfm
4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.
5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!
How achievable do you think these are "
1 - unsure. I’m really struggling. Managed to get pregnant three times with no effort in 2017. This year I have been actively trying and nothing. Doctors are monitoring (whole list of health issues too).
2. - unsure. They’re due a baby on my husbands birthday and I know I won’t be able to cope emotionally.
3 - very possible. I just need to stop being shy.
4 - I’m getting there, so again, very possible.
5 - I’m working on that one  |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.
2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.
3. Have at least a mfm
4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.
5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!
How achievable do you think these are
1 - unsure. I’m really struggling. Managed to get pregnant three times with no effort in 2017. This year I have been actively trying and nothing. Doctors are monitoring (whole list of health issues too).
2. - unsure. They’re due a baby on my husbands birthday and I know I won’t be able to cope emotionally.
3 - very possible. I just need to stop being shy.
4 - I’m getting there, so again, very possible.
5 - I’m working on that one "
My advice would be arrange them in to order of how achievable they are then start ticking them off the list.
Tackle each one at one step at a time and you can do it.
I am happy to help if you need any moral support x |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.
2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.
3. Have at least a mfm
4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.
5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!
How achievable do you think these are "
 good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Staying away from people issues even family when they have nowt to do with you until they only have you left... Walking away my heart on my sleeve is being selfish in 2019 "
Protect your bubble. Not selfish at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get my passport renewed, it's ten years out of date & in my maiden name (no longer married) & go on holiday for the first time in fifteen years.
Try to take a decent passport photo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I make one every year and so far have never broken it's so that I always feels empowered and amazingly strong
.... and it's to never make new year resolutions |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"Travel more, worry less 
Where would your next travel destination be?
I've got flights booked to Australia and NZ in a few weeks. Might carry on from there, but I've no definite plans as yet."
Are you going travelling or just a holiday. I wish i was going away. I'm trying to save for a house |
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1. To lose weight for our wedding in May. There's no way I can get to a 'normal' weight in 5 months(and I don't want to get too thin anyway to be honest) but a couple of stone would help me feel a lot more confident and not cringe when I see the photos.
2. To find a different job. Teaching sucks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.
2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.
3. Have at least a mfm
4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.
5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!
How achievable do you think these are
good luck"
What’s that face for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To have my tattoos removed.
Got appointment in new year to see how much it will cost then I'll decide what to do.
Why? They're great!"
People only see the body and tattoos.
Not who I really am |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
Let it go
Do a 100 mile cycling event in one day
Go to event socials get my face out there
Aim to be the fittest Ive ever been before its to late
Start swimming again
Learn to pole dance or a martial art(kick boxing)
Meet my man in crime and together make 2019 full of fun, laughter, sexy adventures, push boundaries be a we instead of I
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"Let it go
Do a 100 mile cycling event in one day
Go to event socials get my face out there
Aim to be the fittest Ive ever been before its to late
Start swimming again
Learn to pole dance or a martial art(kick boxing)
Meet my man in crime and together make 2019 full of fun, laughter, sexy adventures, push boundaries be a we instead of I
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Good luck with the 100 miler..I've done several this year and hope to do even more next year |
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"To have my tattoos removed.
Got appointment in new year to see how much it will cost then I'll decide what to do."
to be hounest your better off keeping them..from what ive seen of tattoo removal its a long process and it never looks good as you can still see a faint tattoo..unless its radically improved in the last ten years.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.
2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.
3. Have at least a mfm
4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.
5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!"
I think once you crack number 1 the rest will seem insignificant..Good luck xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.
2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.
3. Have at least a mfm
4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.
5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!"
would love to help with the mfm |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Let it go
Do a 100 mile cycling event in one day
Go to event socials get my face out there
Aim to be the fittest Ive ever been before its to late
Start swimming again
Learn to pole dance or a martial art(kick boxing)
Meet my man in crime and together make 2019 full of fun, laughter, sexy adventures, push boundaries be a we instead of I
Good luck with the 100 miler..I've done several this year and hope to do even more next year "
Thanks |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
My goals for 2019 are really about making time for and thinking about me.
1. Coast and castles, my favourite ride, even though they’re doing it arse about face this year
2. Ride to the sun. Dan does it every year and I’ve yet to join him on a night ride
3. Coast to Coast, because I haven’t for a few years
4. Go to Italy to climb a via ferrata in the Dolomites
5. Improve upper body strength, it’s my failing and I rely far too much on my core
Lex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arm wrestle 3 spiders
Not take things for granted as much
Be successful in my new job role
Dont be a sulk (that will be hard)
Be a little more selfish with what i want from time to time |
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"Travel more, worry less
Where would your next travel destination be?
I've got flights booked to Australia and NZ in a few weeks. Might carry on from there, but I've no definite plans as yet.
Are you going travelling or just a holiday. I wish i was going away. I'm trying to save for a house "
I'm (maybe crazily) going to meet up with a guy I spent two weeks with over summer. We're doing a big of a road trip along the south coast and flying across to NZ for a few weeks too.
I was trying to save to buy somewhere too... Then I realised that'll never happen while I'm single in London so there are better things to do with the money than let it sit in the bank! Life is too short not to live it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do have new years resolutions. Personal ones outside the lifestyle and Fab related... some may even overlap! Was going to share a few details, but for now:
"None apart from keep being jolly happy and see the positive in people and situations "
^ Loving that ^
That is what I always try to do and will continue to do. However seeing the positive in people can get tested... like really tested in certain situations. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
Carry on with my fab journey. It’s going in a slightly different direction to how it started but it’s an adventure and now there are more things I want to experience and I/we are planning lots and have already started ticking off things on the list. |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"Carry on with my fab journey. It’s going in a slightly different direction to how it started but it’s an adventure and now there are more things I want to experience and I/we are planning lots and have already started ticking off things on the list. "
Would you like any assistance x |
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