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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Most women get enough messages that they don't have to message anyone first. If I like the look of someone I will though.
Is it rare that you do messege first "
Yes quite rare, I'll usually only message people who have been on my hotlist for ages. |
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"Most women get enough messages that they don't have to message anyone first. If I like the look of someone I will though.
Is it rare that you do messege first
Yes quite rare, I'll usually only message people who have been on my hotlist for ages. "
How come you haven’t messeged me then haha |
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"I must admit that I rarely message first unless it's forum related because they tend to get ignored or deleted, plus messaging cold is really not my thing"
How do you make contact with new people then ?? |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"I must admit that I rarely message first unless it's forum related because they tend to get ignored or deleted, plus messaging cold is really not my thing"
This is how I prefer to message men. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"I must admit that I rarely message first unless it's forum related because they tend to get ignored or deleted, plus messaging cold is really not my thing
How do you make contact with new people then ??"
That's what the forums are for. |
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"I must admit that I rarely message first unless it's forum related because they tend to get ignored or deleted, plus messaging cold is really not my thing
How do you make contact with new people then ??
That's what the forums are for."
Always seems to be the same people on forums very rare new people |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"I must admit that I rarely message first unless it's forum related because they tend to get ignored or deleted, plus messaging cold is really not my thing
How do you make contact with new people then ??
That's what the forums are for.
Always seems to be the same people on forums very rare new people "
The forums are here for everyone to use. Some people choose to stick to the same forum.
If people choose not to post, that is their choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must admit that I rarely message first unless it's forum related because they tend to get ignored or deleted, plus messaging cold is really not my thing
How do you make contact with new people then ??
That's what the forums are for.
Always seems to be the same people on forums very rare new people "
You will have a few lurkers who never post but use the forums as a filter 
Key to getring more 1st mails than you send is to send less  |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish) |
"it always seems to be me who sends the first messege, why very little women go first ??"
The laws of supply and demand I'm afraid. Most genuine women on here are snowed under with messages daily and they can pick and choose who they answer. It is just one of those things that will always be.
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I actually prefer to make first contact for private meets it’s often easier than trying to wade through the inbox for people that interest me
I rarely look at my messages beyond trying to find regular friends I chat to (that I also sometimes miss in the sea of messages) or for responses to the socials/swingers parties that I organise locally |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I must admit that I rarely message first unless it's forum related because they tend to get ignored or deleted, plus messaging cold is really not my thing
How do you make contact with new people then ??"
Like I said, forum related or they message me. |
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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I don’t get much chance because the inbox is always going insane, I’ve only browsed profiles a couple of times
Would that be the reason for a lot of women do you think ?"
dead right i wake to many messages every day .so can pick from them .i have never browsed any single man status.where would you start/there are so many |
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I think if you're going to message you need it to stand out amongst the rest.
Most women on here will get many messages all saying the same thing "Hi, how are you, like the pictures". It's just pot luck if you are the one in a hundred they reply to
So say something they don't expect and maybe, just maybe you'll get lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have all my message filters set to blocked. I'd rather find who I'm looking for myself than trawl though endless, 'wanna fuck' messages. They're a waste of my time. It works out better when I message first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You pics are shit to be honest
OP didn't ask for profile advice, and let's not make personal comments?"
How is that personal? He was wondering why he never gets a message... his pics don't help
People get offended about everything on here |
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