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"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "
Once, at a party, I was walking along a crowded corridor with a queue going in the opposite direction and the lights went out. Someone grabbed me and gave me the most fabulous kiss, and instead of stopping I carried on without looking back when the lights came on, slightly embarrassed as to who it might be. 
I assumed they would come and find me but they never did, and I never found out who it was!  |
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Many times over the years, for example getting talking to an absolute stunner in the first bar on a night out and there being an obvious attraction, but walking away because friends wanted to move on to the next bar and I've thought to myself "it's fine, I'll see her later" and either never seeing her again or seeing she's with someone else by the end of the night  |
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"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "
Too often, I can be terrible at reading the signs... one meet I had years ago before joining here, met for coffee and I went tot he toilet. When I came back she slid a napkin across the table. I opened it and it said "I want to fuck you" - I got that one!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m useless at reading signs men are interested and I’m crap at flirting! Can make me come across as standoffish!
So yes I have lost out due to my utter inability to read signals
Miss "
lol glad I'm not the only one. |
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Prior to Fab no.
Since joining Fab there’s a part of me that doesn’t take flirting seriously. The little voice that spent too long in the forums says ‘ah. It’s cos you’re fat and he thinks you’re easy’.
However, that little voice can be shook into ‘it’s cos you’re fat, pretty and super sexy’. Sometimes just takes a few more shakes. |
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It’s happened to me but it has needed someone else to point it out. I’m not good at reading the signals lol. Many years ago a lady made a massive play for me at work. In the end I plucked up the courage to ask her outright. |
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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago
London |
"Unless a woman carries a huge billboard outside saying she likes me I normally have no idea.
I'm the same.... Apparently...
I need to have it spelt out to me. "
I was at a disco the other night and a bloke said to me this woman had been checking me out all evening but i hadn't noticed her! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Yes, famously so!
It requires a flashing neon sign stating it whilst simultaneously being beaten around the head with her underwear for me to catch on.
I sometimes wonder how I've ever managed to actually have sex |
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"Unless a woman carries a huge billboard outside saying she likes me I normally have no idea.
I'm the same.... Apparently...
I need to have it spelt out to me.
I was at a disco the other night and a bloke said to me this woman had been checking me out all evening but i hadn't noticed her!"
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"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "
Yes. How stupid could I be?  next time, less thinking and more action. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
Yes. I sometimes want to press reset on my life and start again I certainly would be more straight to the point with some of the ladies I have missed out on. Or I may have got slapped more lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One day before carnival this year near London eye there was DG on open floor, I was enjoying and dancing and met lovely lady gave hug. Once DG stop playing music I looked but she just vanished, cannot forget her sexy smile and curly hairs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, with a couple of people I now look back and am pretty sure I misread a situation and missed an opportunity, and maybe with more as I'm hopeless at reading the signs - if a woman wants to get close to me they pretty much have to grab hold of me and kiss my face off, and then I *might* notice  |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Unless a woman carries a huge billboard outside saying she likes me I normally have no idea.
I'm the same.... Apparently...
I need to have it spelt out to me.
I was at a disco the other night and a bloke said to me this woman had been checking me out all evening but i hadn't noticed her!"
It's normally my friends that point it out to me, so ladies please let me know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stupendously thick then. (Head in hands, shaking head incredulously)
Never under-estimate the stupidity of men "
Yes I am learning that here, and despairing! |
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