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'I dont cum easy' ....curious to know if anyone else has this issue .
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For many years i have an issue of not cumming without hand assistance ! Only when i was in a long term relationship id cum inside her and only on a very few times have i cum inside playmates . Wonder why i have that prob . 9 times out of ten i will end with me being sucked off then i give a little helping hand so to speak then cum in her mouth .
I know women dont usually cum easily ....but browsing on fabs it seems majority of guys cum without even thinking about it
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An old fb of mine swore he couldn’t cum from a blowjob.... I tried and tried.... and tried!!!!! Nothing worked although he very much seemed to enjoy what I was doing. Ventured to clubs and again any oral never brought him close, glory holes he loves but never cums. Some guys just can’t let go for whatever reason. He used to find it frustrating |
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"An old fb of mine swore he couldn’t cum from a blowjob.... I tried and tried.... and tried!!!!! Nothing worked although he very much seemed to enjoy what I was doing. Ventured to clubs and again any oral never brought him close, glory holes he loves but never cums. Some guys just can’t let go for whatever reason. He used to find it frustrating "
Iv considered a glory hole meet recently ..was deffo a woman doing it !! I bottled it as knew she wanted my cum which just wasnt gona happen . Then you read veris when men explode within seconds of her sucking it . Just one of those unlucky ones i suppose lol |
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"An old fb of mine swore he couldn’t cum from a blowjob.... I tried and tried.... and tried!!!!! Nothing worked although he very much seemed to enjoy what I was doing. Ventured to clubs and again any oral never brought him close, glory holes he loves but never cums. Some guys just can’t let go for whatever reason. He used to find it frustrating
Iv considered a glory hole meet recently ..was deffo a woman doing it !! I bottled it as knew she wanted my cum which just wasnt gona happen . Then you read veris when men explode within seconds of her sucking it . Just one of those unlucky ones i suppose lol "
UNLUCKY. I’m just like you can last ages 3+ hours easily. I love it and I’m told so do others.  |
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My other half takes literally hours to cum. It's the same whether it's a HJ ,BJ or full sex.
It doesn't make a difference if he's cum hours ago or days ago, it still takes ages.
Luckily he has lots of stamina |
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"Could be an age thing.
I was 35 before this started happening to me. Before that I'd cum no problem. Now I can't cum without vigorous masturbation. Welcome to mid life. Lol. X"
Phew thought i was alone in this !!  |
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Prob is women take it personally ! ...they dont realise men love sex or bj just as much without ever cumming . To many women its a must to make us men cum or they feel there not doing it properly when really its nothing like that at all . Them feeling that then puts the stress factor on us guys aswel ....unlesss your a selfish fella and dont give a flying f..k |
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"Prob is women take it personally ! ...they dont realise men love sex or bj just as much without ever cumming . To many women its a must to make us men cum or they feel there not doing it properly when really its nothing like that at all . Them feeling that then puts the stress factor on us guys aswel ....unlesss your a selfish fella and dont give a flying f..k "
This is true of men too.
Massive amount of pressure on women to cum. That's why some end up faking it, so as not to hurt feelings. |
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I have had this issue too and I've faked it a few times also lol. Used to take at least 2 hours and was very frustrating! But it doesn't always happen anymore, I think I had became de sensitized or something as after a break from both sex and masturbation I can now pop in no time 1st time  and rounds 2, 3 and 4 don't take to long either anymore |
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"How does a man fake cumming ? "
Easiest way is at the same time she cums... keep going a bit then just a argh noise and stop, stay inside a bit and cuddle. It's worked many of times for me but it's easy when she's hitting multiples  |
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I can have the same prob somtimes banging away for upto 1hr before cuming but once i get to know somon i can relax and cum multipal times .its all about fealing relaxed so just try to relax more with a new partner |
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"Wow! And you wonder why a lot of white women go for black guys, guaranteed cumming all over the place. "
I can’t even believe I just read this, what utter twaddle 
Sorry to hear you’re feeling frustrated by this OP, I’m sure if you mentioned it to a partner beforehand and she was accepting of it, it might take the pressure off a bit and help you to feel less bothered by it
Mrs F x
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"Wow! And you wonder why a lot of white women go for black guys, guaranteed cumming all over the place.
I can’t even believe I just read this, what utter twaddle
Sorry to hear you’re feeling frustrated by this OP, I’m sure if you mentioned it to a partner beforehand and she was accepting of it, it might take the pressure off a bit and help you to feel less bothered by it
Mrs F x
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Not overly worried as meets i have never really bothered if honest . Just frustrating not cumming inside her rather than alternatives . Once in a blue moon it happens so il wait for that day again haha x |
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"How does a man fake cumming ?
Easiest way is at the same time she cums... keep going a bit then just a argh noise and stop, stay inside a bit and cuddle. It's worked many of times for me but it's easy when she's hitting multiples "
But isn't the lack of cum noticed ? |
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"Wow! And you wonder why a lot of white women go for black guys, guaranteed cumming all over the place.
I can’t even believe I just read this, what utter twaddle
Sorry to hear you’re feeling frustrated by this OP, I’m sure if you mentioned it to a partner beforehand and she was accepting of it, it might take the pressure off a bit and help you to feel less bothered by it
Mrs F x
Not overly worried as meets i have never really bothered if honest . Just frustrating not cumming inside her rather than alternatives . Once in a blue moon it happens so il wait for that day again haha x"
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Yep, mines because of medication.
Can be frustrating but I generally just enjoy things and not worry about it. If it happens it happens.
I do let ladies know though, that way they're not lying there thinking why the fuck won't he cum wondering if it's them. |
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One cause of this seems to be what Mrs K calls "death grip" - a tight grip when wanking, especially if you wank frequently. How can any orifice compete with that sort of friction?
We recently had a holiday where we were in close proximity to some vanilla friends all week, so no chance for even a fiddle. When we got home, I popped inside her the first couple of times we shagged. That probably made a week without wanking worthwhile!
Now we're back to the limitations of death grip - but it does mean I can guarantee to finish last. (What a gent!)
Moral of this story - if you want to cum inside her, give up wanking for a while - if you can! |
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"One cause of this seems to be what Mrs K calls "death grip" - a tight grip when wanking, especially if you wank frequently. How can any orifice compete with that sort of friction?
We recently had a holiday where we were in close proximity to some vanilla friends all week, so no chance for even a fiddle. When we got home, I popped inside her the first couple of times we shagged. That probably made a week without wanking worthwhile!
Now we're back to the limitations of death grip - but it does mean I can guarantee to finish last. (What a gent!)
Moral of this story - if you want to cum inside her, give up wanking for a while - if you can!"
Yes i have heard this m8ght be a reason . I wank regular lol |
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