"its the anniversary today of my dad having his heartattack and going into a coma for 10 days until he died new years day. So i havecthosevthoughts going through my head every christmas now"
Why does it always seem to happen at this time of year?
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I cannot get in the mood for it, might be because I’ve just got back of holiday and so I’ve not been looking forward to Christmas most but just doesn’t feel right |
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Not a single card, should get a secret Santa gift unless there was an odd number at work and my name got left in the hat, which is probably my chuffing luck.
Got a text from my mum earlier so I guess I should be thankful for that, yet I'm not.
I'm working all through, and no, it really doesn't feel festive at all.
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Even some of the most 'Die Hard' Christmas fans I know are going low key this year
I am not a huge fan of Christmas, but this year does seem even more 'meh' than usual
I am working tomorrow and the 27th
I spend Christmas & Boxing Day pretty much away from my other half (family related)
I have two medical appointments on Friday
We can't go out NYE cos the dog is a nervous wreck with the fireworks, so if anything, Christmas and New Year is a bind
We had a Fab weekend in Dublin last week though - that was our 'Christmas'  |
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Thought it maybe it’s because I’ve been ill orvthe Brexit effect.
Glad we are escaping to the wilderness tomorrow to hide away from it all.
Will surface again for the Boxing Day sales at the Quays. |
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I'm still making the effort but it's three years since I spent my last Christmas with as a family with my dad there, he was ill then but I just thought the chemo was working and that he'd be alright or at least around a lot longer than he was. He died four months later and Christmas just hasn't been the same since. |
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It's not been a great one for me this year, but I have grandchildren I have to jolly myself up for.
The warmer weather makes it feel less Christmassy too. |
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"I think it's been to warm to even think it should be Christmas already, I think I've only seen two snow flakes,,
#BRING BACK SNOW AT CHRISTMAS "
I went walking in the New Forest today with just a t shirt and cardigan on. |
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"I'm still making the effort but it's three years since I spent my last Christmas with as a family with my dad there, he was ill then but I just thought the chemo was working and that he'd be alright or at least around a lot longer than he was. He died four months later and Christmas just hasn't been the same since. "
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Nope.this year is as bad as every other year since my best friend (grandad) passed away. Been to the pub for a festive drink with my mother and her partner and came home less festive than I went with |
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