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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It might be a bit early but as we're heading into the last week or so of the year I'm starting to look back over 2018 and take stock.
I for one will be very glad to see the end of what has been a thoroughly crappy year, but there are always lessons to be learnt.
So dear fabbers, what have you learnt from your 2018? |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
This year I've had to walk away from my family as their attitudes and hypocrisy was just staggering, lost someone in my life that was very dear to me and struggled with a lot of things.
I do see all of these things as making me stronger in many ways and I've had some amazing positives too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It might be a bit early but as we're heading into the last week or so of the year I'm starting to look back over 2018 and take stock.
I for one will be very glad to see the end of what has been a thoroughly crappy year, but there are always lessons to be learnt.
So dear fabbers, what have you learnt from your 2018?"
Not to tell people to use full stop!...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That not reading the news for a while is simultaneously the best and worst thing you could do."
I stopped watching the news this year, quite nice being obvious to what’s going on. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.
In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.
2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learned a shitload about boats, through necessity rather than desire. Oh, yes, fab isn't swarming with hot women desperate to throw themselves at my feet.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This year has been the shittest of the shit for me and quite frankly I’ve been willing it to be over since January 8th! 
I’ve learnt that you can’t relly trust anyone even those that profess to have your best interests at heart.
But I am going into 2019 with a positive attitude as I need to make it a good year, for my sanity at least!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve learnt to love myself a lot more this year and to accept nice compliments.
I’ve also met a handful of genuinely nice people that have had an amazing impact on my life xx
On the Fab side, it’s confirmed my thoughts that there are a lot of bitter & twisted people in this lifestyle that hide behind their keyboards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This year I've had to walk away from my family as their attitudes and hypocrisy was just staggering, lost someone in my life that was very dear to me and struggled with a lot of things.
I do see all of these things as making me stronger in many ways and I've had some amazing positives too. "
Iv walked away from a close family member. She is partly to blame for my mental health issues. Im much better off without her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.
In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.
2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with "
I second that - Merry Christmas xx |
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By *abs..Woman
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"Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.
In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.
2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with
I second that - Merry Christmas xx"
Merry Christmas to you  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.
In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.
2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with
I second that - Merry Christmas xx
Merry Christmas to you "
I've also learnt that you can get away with semi pornographic clothing if everyone is looking at your boobs... |
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By *abs..Woman
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"Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.
In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.
2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with
I second that - Merry Christmas xx
Merry Christmas to you
I've also learnt that you can get away with semi pornographic clothing if everyone is looking at your boobs... "
I’ve learnt that as well  |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
I was having a ok 2018 my mum was 70 in mid November however on Halloween night some girl in a group trick or treating decided to punch my mum in the stomach for a bag of sweets then the week before her birthday she followed from Santander and was picked pocket.I will be glad to see the back of it. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It is a bit early! At least get Christmas out of the way.
I'll stick to fab stuff I've learned -
? That attractive person I think is ridiculously hot? Life's too short not to try so I'll keep trying in 2019.
? People aren't that cuntish but you have to be open to listening to them.
? People are hypocrites and sometimes that can hurt. But people are also marvellous things as well and friendship is wonderful.
? I'm quite cute really. I need to lose some of the chub but I also need to not listen to "mehs" about my looks.
? And I've learned that you're not that bad OP. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
This year I've learnt that I really enjoy wearing ladies cloths, having sex in them and that I feel confident.
Although I've done it previously very occasionally privately, this year Alex came out. I've been out dressed, visited some ace clubs and met some great people all for the first time in 2018.
Roll on 2019  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was a year of two halves - quiet as heaven during a meditation first half, busy as hell second half, punctuated by two fabulous holidays. Cracking year all round for me, but challenging for a couple of close friends and relatives that I wish a much better 2019. |
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Make sure it’s a lifelong policy & not a fixed amount!! I best read the small print thanks "
I’m about to claim back £1500 but only insured to £4K. Dog is allergic to fecking everything!! How can a dog be allergic to grass & meat????? |
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This year started out so well, plans made and holidays discussed then in March it all changed when my partner suddenly died, April I lost my dad, June I lost a nephew, then and aunt, this year has basically turned to shit and I will be very happy to see the last of it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have learnt that Fab does have happy endings. I marry TH777 on Friday. We met on here in August 2015 on the nocturnal thread. Poor man had to work so hard for it "
That’s lovely. Congratulations. Have a wonderful day xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This year started out so well, plans made and holidays discussed then in March it all changed when my partner suddenly died, April I lost my dad, June I lost a nephew, then and aunt, this year has basically turned to shit and I will be very happy to see the last of it
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It is a bit early! At least get Christmas out of the way.
I'll stick to fab stuff I've learned -
? That attractive person I think is ridiculously hot? Life's too short not to try so I'll keep trying in 2019.
? People aren't that cuntish but you have to be open to listening to them.
? People are hypocrites and sometimes that can hurt. But people are also marvellous things as well and friendship is wonderful.
? I'm quite cute really. I need to lose some of the chub but I also need to not listen to "mehs" about my looks.
? And I've learned that you're not that bad OP. "
Thanks. I'll pop the cheque in the post, I guess that's the nicest thing you're ever going to say about me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im more desirable that i believed
It is possible to laugh someone into bed
That all those years thrashing my fingers playing olympic gold on the mega drive building speed endurance have paid off
That i can cum from bjs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im more desirable that i believed
It is possible to laugh someone into bed
That all those years thrashing my fingers playing olympic gold on the mega drive building speed endurance have paid off
That i can cum from bjs
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oh and im not as cold hearted as i used to think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Politicians don’t represent our interests, only their own. sometimes what looks like an expensive garden chair is in fact a boob"
That many fabbers browse the forums on their phones without their glasses on! |
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That I actually like sex 
I've learnt that there are good people around, even in the world of FAB. Met some lovely people this year and hope to meet some more lovely people next year.
Still need to work on my self-confidence and self-esteem issues though. |
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! I've changed so much and grew in confidence, I'm looking forward to 2019!
STP & MLS! 