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Don't believe the hype. If you wake up alone most days and are happy with it, Christmas shouldn't be any different. There will be people surrounded by family dying inside - I speak from experience.
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't believe the hype. If you wake up alone most days and are happy with it, Christmas shouldn't be any different. There will be people surrounded by family dying inside - I speak from experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did this last year. It was great, no early wake up and a whole day to do what I wanted. Its not all doom and gloom. This year I have company but happy to do both.
As commented above lots of people will have company - it's not always a blessing xx
I hope you all have a great day - do what makes YOU happy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who is going to bed alone Christmas Eve and waking up alone on the big day? Post here if you need a little attention to make you feel better X"
I suppose it might be odd if you went to bed alone but found someone next to you the following morning when you woke. Although I guess it could be Father Christmas if he needed to crash out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me, but I don't care, I'm used to it and it's better than joining someone else's cosy family Christmas. No annoying noisy children, and I can eat, drink and do what I like |
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"Don't believe the hype. If you wake up alone most days and are happy with it, Christmas shouldn't be any different. There will be people surrounded by family dying inside - I speak from experience.
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"Don't believe the hype. If you wake up alone most days and are happy with it, Christmas shouldn't be any different. There will be people surrounded by family dying inside - I speak from experience.
Agreed
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Every year my uncle and aunt have a Christmas Eve party. This year I will be going home alone as kids with their dad.
I'm going to drive to my nan, who now lives in a nursing home, to spend Christmas day with her.
She doesn't know yet as it will be a surprise |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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This will be my first xmas eve/waking up xmas morning on my own in 15 years.
I am ok with it as its just another day to me, anyway by lunch time will have my son's with me for dinner and the rest of the day. I get to have a lay in bed xmas morning.  |
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I will be and looking forward to it. After the terrible Christmas I had last year with my soon to be ex wife (hopefully) her sister and kids it’s going to be great.
I will get up, breakfast, walk the dogs and have a nice lunch. Got some new dvds to watch later.
Hope you all have a great time whatever you choose.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't believe the hype. If you wake up alone most days and are happy with it, Christmas shouldn't be any different. There will be people surrounded by family dying inside - I speak from experience.
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I'm waking up alone but my ex will be sleeping in the closet caravan bedroom had to stick him between the luggage like . As his parents have passed away and his family are busy with other family members partners side |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i shall get up. Go to my mums for dinner. watch the queen and come hown back to peace. Love it
Me too. She will try to make me stay over but I will use my cats as an excuse to go home.  "
I've already called and told her I'll feed them |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"i shall get up. Go to my mums for dinner. watch the queen and come hown back to peace. Love it
Me too. She will try to make me stay over but I will use my cats as an excuse to go home.
I've already called and told her I'll feed them "
Nooooooo! My perfect excuse, ruined. Damn you Pat Mustard *shakes fist*
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wake up every morning in my own so it makes no difference to me.
I've got the morning to myself then work for 3 hours.
Then to my nieces house for a family Xmas dinner and lots of drinks and home to the peace and quiet
It's just another day I don't make it a big deal.
I am exited about eating ALL the yummy food though  |
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"I'm posting, but I'm fine with it. "
Same here, it's just another day to me. Sometimes I scoff at all the money that has been spent on such a meaningless festival. Does anyone that celebrates Christmas actually go to church? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its just another day like your birthday
Then tomorrow will come & the next day will follow
Its not about what day it is, there all the same, GO out & enjoy Life
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a problem at all ! Always get visited by Xmas ghosts to keep me company every Xmas eve on the stroke of midnight! but i never take there advice to change my tight arsed way's |
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"I'm posting, but I'm fine with it.
Same here, it's just another day to me. Sometimes I scoff at all the money that has been spent on such a meaningless festival. Does anyone that celebrates Christmas actually go to church? "
Church? Christmas isn't about church lol... it's about being a slave to the corporate system and wasting all your hard earned money on shit and food before living on credit until the end of February. Guess that magic man in the sky would be pissed at me if he was real |
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"Don't believe the hype. If you wake up alone most days and are happy with it, Christmas shouldn't be any different. There will be people surrounded by family dying inside - I speak from experience.
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Oh my god. So true. |
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My ex has the youngest 2, alternate Christmases.
First year without them, I cried my eyes out. Sat home alone all day.
I turned down invites to friends as really didn't want to play happy families with someone else's kids.
I've worked Christmas day the last 5yrs I've not had the kids at home. |
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I experienced this for the first time a number of years ago x
I found it so hard
I had walked away from my marriage x
I’d fallen out of love with my wife but not my son x
My parents couldn’t understand my behaviour x
I checked into a travel inn
It was horrendous
It took a few Christmas to get back on an even keel
Even now a decade later my ex punished me by not letting me see my son on Christmas Day x
I’m lucky tho x in the interim I’ve me a new crowd of friends and my family accept that I was unhappy x
Now my too best days of the year are the Christmas Day me and my lad have on Christmas Eve and our pre new year dad and lad event ( soon he will be old enough to buy me a pint)
So if you are alone on Xmas day x then please remember it’s just a day x
Circumstances change x
And at the very least there will be always someone on the end of a phone line or on the forums in Fab x
I wish all fabsters a peaceful festive period x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Waking up alone like usual but i have my daughter that i will more than likey have to wake up !!! What kind of kid sleeps in till 10/11 on christmas day?? Oh wait mine !!!! x |
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Deffo happier now than I was in my relationship tho so 
very much looking forward to waking up with him
All of the days not just on Jebus birthday 
