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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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Recently, when out for a meeting I asked myself of what would be a good and appropriate test for suitablity for playtimes.... eg one could ask the chap to do a quick digital or oral performance to check his ability to bring about pleasure  .... and vice versa there could be some quick test to get feedback on female's abilities....
Any suggestions.... to avoid later disappointment? |
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"Recently, when out for a meeting I asked myself of what would be a good and appropriate test for suitablity for playtimes.... eg one could ask the chap to do a quick digital or oral performance to check his ability to bring about pleasure .... and vice versa there could be some quick test to get feedback on female's abilities....
Any suggestions.... to avoid later disappointment? "
Can't think of anything - wish there was something though! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Recently, when out for a meeting I asked myself of what would be a good and appropriate test for suitablity for playtimes.... eg one could ask the chap to do a quick digital or oral performance to check his ability to bring about pleasure .... and vice versa there could be some quick test to get feedback on female's abilities....
Any suggestions.... to avoid later disappointment? "
OK so HOW do we decide to take the plunge... beside considering things like their looks, their ability to communicate etc,.. a simply IQ test ( or whatever performance we fancy..) would be soooo valuable dont you agree??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting technical now....
For us.. friends first, if we feel we can actually be friends then the rest tends to follow..
Maybe were just too fookin hardcore lol....  |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Getting technical now....
For us.. friends first, if we feel we can actually be friends then the rest tends to follow..
Maybe were just too fookin hardcore lol.... "
well helloooooooo but... excuse me... I am thinking here.. that even with my non judgmental attitude... what do I do when all things are great and they turn out to be ghastly in the play department (and I dont mean cock size)... BTW thread was not intended to be too serious but hey.. lets have a discussion lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what do I do when all things are great and they turn out to be ghastly in the play department (and I dont mean cock size)"
Do what I do hun . . .
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Bury the buggers under the garden shed 
Shona
x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find a tingle in the right place is a good indicater
I try not to listen to what other people say......prefer to make my own mind up about people myself |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I find a tingle in the right place is a good indicater
I try not to listen to what other people say......prefer to make my own mind up about people myself"
Me too, verifications can be a good indicator but they can be so wrong... (see mine lol) I like to find out myself... pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find a tingle in the right place is a good indicater
I try not to listen to what other people say......prefer to make my own mind up about people myself"
Totally agree, what floats one persons boat may not float yours and vice versa - I don't arrange a meet till I've chatted and have a good idea we will 'click' so its mainly been walk in the room/bar whatever and so long as that tingle happens away we go ............... x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just check out what others have said about them  "
You cant always do that tho hun.
We keep our verifications private cos its got nothing to do with anyone who we play with, quite simply.
Another reason is a year or so back we were contacted by a couple asking why we wouldnt meet them because we had met a couple they had met loads.
They got quite miffed whan I told them we dont all have to play together just cos you met couple 1 and so have we dont mean we all have to meet couple 2.
Have also heard people say they wont meet person 3 cos couple 2 have and they dont like couple 2.
So its just easier not to show any feedback from our point of view.
Shona
x x x |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Just check out what others have said about them
You cant always do that tho hun.
We keep our verifications private cos its got nothing to do with anyone who we play with, quite simply.
Another reason is a year or so back we were contacted by a couple asking why we wouldnt meet them because we had met a couple they had met loads.
They got quite miffed whan I told them we dont all have to play together just cos you met couple 1 and so have we dont mean we all have to meet couple 2.
Have also heard people say they wont meet person 3 cos couple 2 have and they dont like couple 2.
So its just easier not to show any feedback from our point of view.
Shona
x x x "
Actually that is a very valid point - thank you - that I had not even considered in my peace loving mentality... but yes, some poeple may not want to play for they dont like the poeple you played with... |
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Your first impression/gut feeling is always the best thing to go on.
Even behind words you can get to know someone, ie they take the trouble to string more than one sentence together, use english instead of text all the time.
Not having ago at text writers but personally its for the chat room when time is against you, not for mail to perspective friends/playmates.
A when against her first impression once and it ended being the worst experience she has had, so never again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bury the buggers under the garden shed
Shona
x x x
Ahhh they tend to notice stuff like that down here in Bonnie England lol... "
You lie . . . they dont you know!!
Remember the man buried under the patio for years??? Wasnt that England??? 
They wouldnt get buried under the patio here we dont got one, its a bloody shared garden so I can always blame the neighbours!!
Well their shed has cement under it ours dont lol
Shona
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"Just check out what others have said about them "
Verifications are a good starting point, but when have you ever seen a bad one??!!
And just because someone else got on with them and was compatible, it doesnt mean you will be too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just check out what others have said about them
Verifications are a good starting point, but when have you ever seen a bad one??!!
And just because someone else got on with them and was compatible, it doesnt mean you will be too..."
Obviously it would an amazingly honest person to put a bad one on their profile
But verifications do give an indication that at the very least they do turn up for meets, and the wording that people use does hint at their personality. |
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